Linda Seccaspina

Linda Seccaspina
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July 24
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The Maiden of Death
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When you wish upon a star
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Book is now available : http://www.amazon.com/Menopausal-Woman-From-Linda-Seccaspina/dp/1475181302 >>>>>>Profile Photo by Diana Ani Stokely GRAFIX to go>>>>>>>> Cover also done by Diana Ani Stokely GRAFIX to go.>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> _______________________________________***Linda now blogs Monday to Friday in Zoomers Canada, where links to her stories have been picked up by Time Online, USA Today and Huffington Post from other sites she has blogged on......>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> ______________________________________ Follow her on Twitter @@Mcpheeeeee. Linda Seccaspina was born in Cowansville Quebec about the same time the wheel was invented. _____________________________________ She used to own clothing stores in Ottawa and Toronto Ontario Canada from 1974-1996 called Flash Cadilac, Savannah Devilles, Nightmares and Flaming Groovies. _____________________________________ Her brain tries to writes stories about her menopausal life and a host of other things she gets annoyed at. _____________________________________ She has two sons, Schuyleur and one that does not want his name mentioned. She has a grandson called Romeo who is a Boston Terrier and a grandaughter Bella who is a french bulldog. _____________________________________ Linda loves people quite plain and simple and loves to hug.. Yes, she is one of "those".

OCTOBER 25, 2011 9:48AM

Freakonomics? How About the Words of Bobby Nomicks?

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“What Freakonomics is about is stripping a layer or two from the surface of modern life and seeing what is happening underneath.”

 

Bobby Nomicks sits in the Clarion Alley that is always empty, save for the artists that frequent it and the fans that admire them. He is 51 and left his hometown of Dallas Texas when he was 18. After having a promising career in sports he was injured and became so disillusioned he decided to venture out west. He seems confused at first that I have taken the time to talk to him and tells me maybe a phone call would be better so he could get his thoughts in order. He looks at me straight in the eyes, takes a couple of deep breaths and says he is ready to speak for himself and the people who live on the street.

 

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“Information is the currency of the internet - or is it?”

 

Bobby begins by telling me that the worst thing you can ever do is to fall asleep on a freight train and end up in Kansas City.

“It’s dead,  and nothing is going on in that place,” he said so he stayed there for a couple of weeks until boredom moved him on. He is mesmerized about Canada and the closest he has come to the international lines is Oregon. He is drawn by kind people and the possibility of eventual free health care but love has kept him south of the border. It’s always about puppy love he mutters under his breath and then tells me that he has had one too many a broken heart, so now he occupies himself with watching the people who go by and wondering what they are all about. He asks me a few questions about myself and then asks me if I am married.

 

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“Here are three basic flavors of  incentive: economic, social, and moral.”

 

We start discussing politics and he has some unkind words for the kids that are participating in the Occupy movement down the street. He tells me that most of these kids have never had responsibility in their lives. Bobby insists they are not using their brains like the hippies did in their anti-war protests. He raises his voice and says they should enlist a few to help as the protestors brains are not really ‘occupied’ right now.

A  lot of the youth he has seen 'occupying' the street are homeless and should go back to their parents as he has not seen his parents in decades and has regrets. Bobby has no idea if they are dead or alive and does not have the money to find them. He then worries about the possibilities that if he did actually find them would they want to see him?

That’s the problem in this country," he says. "Everything, no matter what it is costs too damn much!”

Bobby says that President Obama needs to slow down and take things day by day.  Obama is hiding enormous stress Bobby says quietly and should take notes from his political idol Abraham Lincoln. “Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak out and remove all doubt.”  quotes Bobby. He admires Lincoln because he was self-taught. Every day he has faith that this country can pull itself out of the ‘shit pile’ it’s in now.

“After all, he says, we’ve pulled ourselves out of a quagmire before so why not now?”

“It all comes down to greed and the more people want the less there is for someone else. The government spends too damn much on stupid things and the poor and the seniors end up suffering. Take away those big salaries and spread that money among those who need it.”

 

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Bobby says most politicians are good actors but he can act too as he took lessons as a teen. He laughs and says that he will give them his best John Wayne or Clint Eastwood impression and make them tow the line.

“They will have to make my day or else!”  laughed Bobby.

 

"So it’s the imminent possibility of death that drives the fear – which means that the most sensible way to calculate fear of death would be to think about it on a per-hour basis."

 

He believes in God though he does not take kindly to the Christian radicals that are around these days trying to bring him into their fold.

“I believe there is a God but whatever you believe in is a good thing too!”

He cannot understand people who walk by and look at you like you just don’t exist. Life is rough on the streets and they have no idea what it is like to have the pavement as your best friend day after day. His number one motto is “Let Bygones be Bygones” and we all need to start learning to get along with each other.

Besides God and love of his fellow man his next favourite thing is eating prawns on Fisherman’s Wharf. He does not worry about dying and calls life  without  possessions “almost paradise".  With that we both agree that rich or poor,  economics, politics, and personalities are often inseparable, and break out into song. There in the vacant alley stood two strangers pretending to be Mike Reno and Anne Wilson from Heart. Some days it  just does not get  better than this and you grasp every minute and run with it.

 

 

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"Ah, to think how thin the veil that lies between the pain of hell and Paradise. " - George William Russell 

 

Images and text by Linda Seccaspina 2011

Quotes from Freakonomics

 


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Some of the best people I've every met have been homeless. Many I pick up hitchhiking. I love to hear their stories. People who think the homeless are mental and stupid are wrong. Some just can't stand the boundaries that a society puts on people, who have no say so about it. While the rest of the world is worried about the mortgage and stock market, etc., they sit back and watch the world get ulcers. Great Post!
Great story about a person who seems to have made a real choice on how to live his life.
Linda, interesting interview with Bobby and what he says is a combination on some things I would agree with him on and others that I would not.

"Bobby begins by telling me that the worst thing you can ever do is to fall asleep on a freight train and end up in Kansas City."--now I don't think that's going to play too well with the folks in that wonderful mid-western city!
You meet the darndest people, Linda. Interesting people, and you give them some time in the sun. Bless you!
What an interesting person and I loved the quote, "Ah, to think how thin the veil that lies between the pain of hell and Paradise. " - George William Russell
He uses some pretty strong words. I am always turned off by generalizations. He is a character that is for sure!
Scanner: these people have the best stories
Rugrat: they make choices we never would

Designanator: I write their stories and am not going to censor anything. I go through Kansas City every year.. I have no qualms with it hhaahha he does..

Chickenmaan.. and they deserve to have their stories told

Sheila: That quote says it all..
Susie: I wrote how he felt and I accept everyones opinions.. whether I follow them or not is my choice..:)
Another just amazing look at one of the incredible people you meet on your walk of life. Your photography has become so artistic and especially well-composed with a little Linda zaniness.
I was always amazed at the resilience some of these homeless men and women disclosed when listening to their stories of hardships which most of us would never begin to understand.
Wonderful post! I liked the last visual...."There in the vacant alley stood two strangers pretending to be Mike Reno and Anne Wilson from Heart. Some days it just does not get better than this and you grasp every minute and run with it." You are a great interviewer.
well done, Linda. You and Jeanne Moos can find interesting stories anywhere.
Miguela: My photos are up on Viewshound every day and I do have a website with them all. Not your average photos hahah.

I have gotten a few emails of people not happy with my story and some of his words... I write it how it is. I do not sugar coat reality.. If you live with a roof over your head and have a regular meal I am thrilled. Bobby does not and I am not going to change his words.. Thats how he feels.. Thats how I see it and write it.

HUGGGGGGG
Thanks Catherine.. I love talking to people
Linda, You are an amazing person with a huge heart. Wonderful post!
Linda, Being present. That makes your life, brings amazing people into your sphere. You discover stories like my friend Judie taught us to when traveling in Guatemala. She led a tour of writers and showed us that connection on a heart to heart basis, discovering the stories of the kids that are selling trinkets, the beggers, and trying to make a difference in their lives even by just recognizing their humanity, is what really living is about. I salute you.
Sounds like an intelligent man. I hope he finds happiness.
Linda, I think you have some amazing guides around you pointing you in the right direction. For a few brief moments you give these people a purpose, and make them know that they are worthwhile. A rare trait to possess...but you are a rare gem. -R-
Zanelle: I love people thats why.. its no facade

Belinda: Thats why some people have a hard time understanding this post and dont like some of the words. Its reality and some people look at it through rose coloured glasses.
Great post, Linda. What an interesting guy, a free spirit and thinker who doesn't care if what he says isn't PC. I love the final mural and how the great colors in his work. R.
Thanks cathy.. sending hugs
C Berg: Thank you so much.. I really appreciate it

Peggy: he was and still is each day
Christine: I gave him money for prawns and he said it was one of the best days of his life. That made me smile.
Erica : I know.. not everyone is PC hahaha
Thanks, bc til now I didn't really understand this. r.
Kind of reminds me of Peter Sellers in the 1979 movie "Being There" when he played Chance the Gardener.
This is another of the fascinating characters you discover, Linda. Thanks.
Jon: You did not understand this?
Walter: These people are more real than some of the people I know.
I think you found your calling, Linda. You do this sort of thing so well and always seem to know when you've found a diamond in the rough.
Have you read the books Freakonomics? Its a good book. Interesting.
These people are fortunate to have such an empathetic storyteller on their sides, Linda. You've made their voices palpable. Others simply look at them like they're deserving of nothing more than disgust.
In Boston there have been a number of conflicts between the street people and the OWSers, who complain that the homeless are stealing the blankets and coats that are being donated to them. Imagine--full-time poor people horning in on a demonstration!
Bobby's comments about politics and inequality and greed sound just like the OWTers. And he's right. I so enjoy the stories from the people you meet along the way...the ones we all too often walk right on by. You are their story teller. Maybe there's a book here about all those you've met to whom you've given a voice.
I would agree with Sarah C... you have found your calling and your truest voice. You mentioned publishing your work -- are you writing a collection of your essays?
this was an inspiring piece, linda--thank you...r
I hope it's a mild winter for Bobby this year, that he finds a warm and dry spot...
I hate to think how many street people there will be to chat with as we go forward.
Nicely done, Linda, I'd have loved to see and hear you two singing!!
Shakespeare did a pretty good job of pointing out the wisdom of fools. So does Bobby.
Sarah: As soon as I meet them I know
RW: I have read it and have passed it on to my son

Belinda: It is shocking to know how many people are uncomfortable hearing about poverty and those who experience it. I was shocked this morning. Maybe they should experience it

Con: LOL some things just dont make sense.

Marsha: Its funny how the first word out of everyone's mouth is greed.

Vivian: Yup in a few months about life and menopause

Mister Comedy: Thank you so much and welcome.

Tom Cordle. Thank you for visiting my blog.. it is so appreciated.
Just thinking.. you dont want to hear me sing..:)
Linda- This is such a beautiful post. You show us Bobby without any judgement, you just let him be who he is. Great piece!
oh well to say Bobby Nomicks is not the sharpest tool in the shed would probably be being charitable.
I've had my own encounter with a homeless man recently, (I've described it in my post on Occupy Intercourse and Occupy Intercourse II). The thing about Rick is that he can be sitting with you talking about books as intelligently as any of your effete intellectual friends, and then break off and pedal his bike off to wherever he's staying, without a word of what his hardships are. He has hinted that he stays a condemned building that he won't even locate for people who are trying to help him. He above all wants to maintain his sense of freedom, and in dependence. I admire his sense of what is right for him at the same time that I wonder if he chooses his life as he lives it, or feels driven with no alternatives. Every time I see him, I wonder if I'll ever see him again.
I love your conversations with interesting people. I think you ask better questions than any of the interviewers we see on TV.
Another masterpiece.
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Kevin : I have noting to hide and neither do the people I speak too. No airs here hahaha. Congrats on your EP..

Jack.. no he may not be,, but he is honest and I appreciate that.

Token : I believe in the end its all about freedom

Romantic.. I never write down questions.. we just talk.
I love how you ended up singing together - beautiful in a way. I also always love and admire how you take the time to talk to people many of us would just pass by. Thank you for this.
Not having a home doesn't mean you don't have brains or character. Bobby sounds like an interesting guy. That anyone should have to live on the streets is a crime.
These protests are really bringing out a lot of folks you don't usually hear from. Good on you Linda for airing them.
Another great installment in your person-on-the-street series. Well done as always, Linda.
What a wonderful intelligent sensitive human being. Thank you for bringing this man to our attention.
Well done.
R
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Alysa honey.. you never want to hear me sing hahaha
Cranky there is a lot of crime going on here and it makes me sad
Merci ma cher Abrawang
Thanks Various.. good blog today!!
Huggg Steve
sigh Ume I wish it would.
Well done, thought provoking and shows an attitude that I saw in the youth around me when I was in college as a "non traditional" student. Most don't realize most of us are only a nickle's worth of bad luck away from homelessness.
Contrary to popular opinion, as you have found out, street dwellers are very intelligent people. A few years ago Queen Elizabeth II was scheduled to visit Trinidad. To avoid embarrassment the government of the day announced plans to round up street dwellers and house them temporarily until the Queen departed. Somehow they got wind of it and the day following the announcemant not a vagrant could be seen, they disappeared as if by magic. Who told them to hide themselves away?
Linda, I really appreciate your willingness to talk to anyone and embrace the idea that wisdom can come from anywhere.
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Your latest find may have the best take on living today, Linda.
In the primal world, we are all born homeless and without possessions, and that is how we go out as well. The eldest has decided to move out and couch surf, because living at home or with us means having to work or volunteer a minimum of 12 hours a week. Apparently, we don't understand. Hahahah. She doesn't know homeless. But, she isn't out protesting either, just smoking and texting and video gaming her life away.