“It’s a show. It’s not the end of Western Civilization. It’s chewing gum.”
Jerry Springer

Frieze of gladiator battling lion
My husband has the best turns of phrase, including “Jerry Springer Nation.” That’s what he calls today’s society, and I concur. We are the land of “I can do what I want,” where many have no regard as to how their attitudes and behavior may and does harm others. Why are there so many reality TV shows where stupid, disgusting and unethical people are rewarded financially and otherwise (Jersey Shore, Keeping Up With the Kardashisans). Hell, if someone named Snooki can pen A Shore Thing, have her own line of clothing and perfume, and travel to Italy promoting her show, why can’t we all be famous? Is this the End of an Empire?
I am not immune to the lure of reality TV. I was perversely addicted to Hoarders and still catch a re-run from time to time. I have also found myself immersed in Intervention, Confessions: Animal Hoarding, and Bridezillas (a few months prior to my wedding). So I have sunk into that abyss too. Schadenfreude. Shame on me.
With the horrendous state of the economy and ever-increasing homelessness, joblessness and utter despair, with American citizens committing suicide and killing their children (Rachelle Grimmer in Laredo, Texas), something has got to give. Perhaps revolution is the solution, or riots and pitchforks in the street. For years I have wondered when the riots would begin.
Then came the Occupy movement, people from all walks of life banding together for a common cause, with good intentions, fighting for the least of their brothers and sisters, not the wealthiest and slimiest. It filled me and many with hope, and others with disdain, but it was something. A something that spread from Wall Street across the nation and into other parts of the world. Something is better than nothing.
I suppose my hope for 2012, as outrageous and pipe dreamish as it may sound, is to bring an end to the Jerry Springer mentality.
2011 was a rotten year for me, personally, but my suffering pales in comparison to that of so many others. To name a few:
· Americans who have lost their homes and jobs
· Those who have lost loved ones in Iraq and Afghanistan
· Those whose family members have died timely or untimely deaths
· Young girls who have been disfigured in Afghanistan on their way to school by acid-throwing men and boys who promulgate the belief that women are less than equal, less than human, in fact
· Children forced into sexual slavery
· Boys raped by a well-respected, trusted coach Jerry Sandusky.
I can go on and on. The point is, misery is rampant, evil prevails.
The next step is live executions. At the end of the Roman Empire, theatre degenerated into its own kind of reality TV with live torture, murder and sex acts.
I hope we haven’t sunk that low. I hope we can recover before it’s too late.


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Nice hopeful rant there, Erika. From your blog to god's ears.
Sarah, thanks. I've had enough of the horror disguised as entertainment on TV.
fernsy, Yes, I heard about that. "Purveyors of sewage to innocent souls," well said.
http://www.viewshound.com/politics-usa/2011/9/19/living-in-a-jerry-springer-world
Pauline, yes, the shows can really suck you in sometimes. I admit being a sucker for Hoarders and Animal Hoarders, I find it fascinating.
On the other hand, every now and then we get shows like "The Tudors" or "Deadwood" that help save face. This is a brilliant post, Erica, thank you. R
Deadwood, ah yes, no better writing on TV, brilliant. Breaking Bad and Homeland are incredible too. Thanks for reading.
I stay away from reality shows, but I have my own theory for their wide appeal: They feed the masses' insatiable hunger for voyeurism or wishful thinking.
R♥
Of course, not everyone is the relative hermit that I am, and when I have to interact with people, I am dealing with people who are in general highly influenced by the media. I'm not terribly old, but I am old enough to note a decline in civility and a rise in tendencies that indicate that people's attention has been fragmented into thousands of little pieces. Sidestepping the ignorance, thoughtlessness, and malice requires a great deal of thought and attention on my part, and in the days of texting and driving, our lives literally depend on being alert to others' inattention.
The end of your post is so appropriate, as we are a great empire whose material influences may have surpassed the critical mass beyond which we can sustain a society of reasonably balanced ethics and virtues. If historical patterns through the millennia hold, those public executions (or barbaric public spectacle yet to be imagined) may be on their way. With videos available online of beheadings and of the deaths of demonstrators, perhaps we are farther along in our decline than we can suspect.
A truly thoughtful post.
Thank you, Hayley. Merry Christmas!
~R~ and congrats on the well-deserved EP
Ralph, yes, we have sunk very low. Only way to travel now is up! Thanks for stopping by.
No, 2012 is the end of the world.
The end of suffering.
Odd events of the weather in 2011 presage Something Coming.
It will be way cool.
They used to refer to the usa as “The Union”.
Lincoln preserved it, and got a bullet in his brain for his work.
MLK, JFK, bobby K, they all got bullets.
But ya cannot murder a Movement.
They are trying, but Middle Classers aint buying the bullshit they
Say about OWS.
They love their 1960’s.
Gosh, that was like 40 yrs ago.
We are going to win.
r.
I understand how you feel. I find myself slipping into that way of thinking at times and it's a difficult spiral to stop. But I don't think it's true that evil prevails. For every bad thing that you read about there are also good things happening, there are good people doing good work, and it goes unnoticed because it's not newsworthy. I've known this all along but it was really driven home to me during a course I recently took. I won't bore you with the details but it renewed my faith in the belief that good prevails. And you've got to admit, life in general is better for more people than at any other time in the history of mankind. One of the reasons for this is the explosion of the internet & social media. Never before has it been so easy to find out about the awful things that go on all around us, not just in our little corners of the world but all around the world. And that can result in positive change. It's always been "the best of times, the worst of times." I'm sorry you've had a bad year; I have too. But as the saying goes, it's always darkest before the dawn. Goodness always prevails. It may not be a law of physics but I believe it to be true as sure as I believe in gravity. Just had to weigh in on the flip side; great post Erica, and Merry Christmas. Congrats on the EP.
This is written with the right kind of heart.
Thanks for stopping by, Jon.
Margaret, I hear where you are coming from. I try to always look on the bright side of life (quoting The Meaning of Life, Monty Python song), but sometimes the horrors seem to outweigh the good. Thank you for putting things in that perspective. It is the best of times and worst of times.
Brass, will do.
Zanelle, thank you. Balance, that's it! That's the key! xo
The falcon cannot hear the falconer;
Things fall apart; the centre cannot hold;
Mere anarchy is loosed upon the world,
The blood-dimmed tide is loosed, and everywhere
The ceremony of innocence is drowned;
The best lack all conviction, while the worst
Are full of passionate intensity."
Paul, Thank you for the Yeats!
Matt, yes, I couldn't agree more. I heard about a game (not sure if it ever came out) where the JFK assassination can be re-enacted. As you said, it desensitizes us to the suffering of others, and turns murder into a game. Thanks for reading.
And yes, we can't forget those less fortunate than ourselves, I couldn't agree more. Whenever I'm ready to have my own personal pity party, I reflect on my own list of those less fortunate than myself and remember how good I've got it.
Thanks for a very thoughtful post.
Springer is a complete cynic. When he joined a Chicago station, briefly, as a commentator, the news anchors quit in disgust. Reportedly, he went around the newsroom and said, "Don't you know what TV news is? Weather, sports, and who got shot last night." And the awful part is, he's right, and no one wants anything different.
For that to change would require more than sunny liberal philosophy or a few protesters with signs, no matter how properly spelled they are as opposed to the Teabagger signs. It would require a paradigm shift in human nature. People would have to not want to watch freaks any more, and that ain't gonna happen in this universe.
People living vicariously through those who are so self-absorbed and unaware of the world around them is the great allure of reality TV, which BTW, has no resemblance to an reality I'm aware of. Reality goes out the window when the red light on the camera goes on. Why we glorify ignorance and bad manners is beyond me. Honor and integrity seem to get you nowhere these days.
Springer is an ex high ranking politician. Is it any wonder he can promote and benefit from such poor behavior?
Interesting point to ponder in light of the fact that, "The Human Centipede 2", recently came out on video.
Jennifer, yes, I've been wondering when they would start televising executions. Bottom ain't too far away. Thanks for reading!
vzn, you are right, I'm not saying all narcissists are violent, though.
Neutron, Yes, I know what TV is, unfortunately. I have an immediate family member in the biz and know all about ratings and so on. You may call me a dreamer, I'm only hoping for a brighter tomorrow.
Michael, So true. I forgot that Springer used to be a politician, no wonder he's so good at what he does. Thanks for reading and commenting!
Bob, Thank you, sir.
Anton, I have not heard of "The Human Centipede 2", will have to check it out.
Huh...
But did you see the one with the midget who wrastled meat? Now THAT was funny.
May we begin a process in 2012 to improve and learn. Thanks again.
I agree. Turn off our TV sets. One of the best movies ever made that about the TV business and ratings is "Network" with William Holden, Faye Dunaway and Peter Finch. Finch becomes a TV "messiah" and tells people to turn off their televisions, go to their windows and shout, "I'm as mad as hell, and I'm not going to take it anymore."
Commentary #9, They're all evil bastards.
Dr. Piggly,
No, I didn't see the midget wrestling meat. One of my favorite gross outs, was the guy who had a sex/food fetish and ate giant hero sandwiches while having sex. Ugh!
SmartintheSouth, I hear you on that. I used to teach English, but it's been 20 years since. I have a close friend who is a part-time college professor and is quitting because her students don't care and don't read. I wish you the best in 2012.
Dr. Piggly,
I don't think evil prevails. Gosh no. I think selfishness is the hallmark of our world. For me evil will always be some vamp Buffy onelined and took out with a stake. My 17 year old believes in evil. I used to, but now I just think i-generation just went spammy. I just think most people are trying their best to survive and that the political and economical hardships leave most winded.
I'm with you on recovering, but how and to what extent? Me. I want ALL kids to be in preschool. I want ALL people with disease to afford their healthcare and axillary costs. Those are my bottom lines and from there I can list more demands. But, how to ensure even those two basic rights?
I think. Honestly, I think in the next 20 years selfishness or evil will run riot. But, then I read posts like yours and I know the world is full of bright people who are living hard and fast and working to make "it" better.
Happy New Year! Congrats on the marriage. That sounds knew!
Let's fight the decline of our civilization by being kind, polite, humble, and well-behaved. Is it really that difficult?
Thanks for writing this post.
Bikerchick94
Biker Chick, Amen to fighting the decline of civilization! Thanks for stopping by.
hugs for 2012