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JULY 23, 2009 3:31PM

what price honour?

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A few weeks ago, there was a bizarre news item telling of the drowning deaths of 4 women, three sisters and their aunt, who were found in their car at the bottom of the Rideau Canal, near Kingston Ontario. It seemed especially odd since there were no signs of how they could have gotten there, past various barriers, without leaving so much as a skid mark.

Today, the papers are full of the arrest of the girls' parents & brother, supposedly while attempting to leave the country:

http://www.theglobeandmail.com/news/national/family-members-charged-with-murder-in-submerged-car-case/article1228868/

http://www.ottawacitizen.com/Family+members+charged+with+first+degree+murder+Kingston+canal+deaths/1820277/story.html

http://www.cbc.ca/canada/story/2009/07/23/canal-arrests023.html

While the reports vary a little, it appears that the "aunt" was in fact the father's first wife, unable to have children & so supplanted by the second wife.

This is the kind of incident that makes many average Canadian citizens scratch their heads over immigration policies that foster a very broad interpretation of multiculturalism, in that this enables extremist views that would have been well left in the country of origin when emigrating to a country with clearly different mores & standards. Some of our own more extreme elements would have immigrants attest that they will abide by Canadian laws & social customs when living here, & given the above I'm sure there will be more calls for such. Tolerance can, after all, only go so far.

We don't tolerate polygamy, purdah, so-called honour killing or suttee. What makes some people think that they can bring such traditions here, or worse yet, start cults that do such things? This is not exclusive to Islamic extremists, although this particular case is illustrative of the reasons why sharia law will never be adopted here and there is so much resentment about the attempts to do so.

Canadians would, on the whole, are pleased to embrace most multicultural novelties. Food, literature, art, music, philosophy, & certain aspects of dress come to mind as crossing cultural borders. However, when it comes to systematic marginalization of women by extremist groups, whatever their origin, we draw the line. We tolerate headscarves, but not burqas. One may be a fashion statement, the other is clearly not. Adult women have a right to self-determination & independence. Children have a right not to be molested or otherwise abused by their families or others in the community. These are the compromises that OUR culture demands of immigrants. These are the things that should be left at the border of the country of origin.

Sadly, these 3 girls and their aunt/step-mother will never have the opportunity to benefit from Canadian culture, because the culture of their parents' homeland was applied to abrogate their rights.

As for the supposed honour, does the classification of one of the girls as "willful & rebellious" in any way justify her death? Not here. We have no room for such distorted conceptions of honour.

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I've been following this story, and was suspicious from the start. Not to be Muslim-phobic, but when I heard the Muslim-type names and four women and the very odd circumstances of the 'accident'.

What a twisted notion of 'honor' (whatever the 'reason).

(But we do tolerate burqas - at least, I've seen a few in Ottawa.)
I've never seen a full-face burqa here in Ottawa, Myriad. The abaya style, yes, & I'm not fussy about them either, but at least they display the woman's face. Can't recall whether I've seen the full body bag in Toronto or elsewhere, but I don't think so.

I note in the latest reports that the car may have been backed in or somehow lowered in, since it was facing upwards. Clearly not a "normal" driving entry (if you could ever call driving your car into a canal lock normal).

It did sound suspicious right from the beginning. Very very sad, & so unnecessary.
look on the bright side: if this happened in the old country, he would have got away with it. either way, the women are dead, but canada's immigration policy has maybe discouraged a few sociopaths with continuing with their national culture in the new country.

well done, canada.
and well done, SAILBOATS!
al loomis, I'm sorry to say that our immigration screening still doesn't have a good enough filter to prevent all of these dire occurrences, so your compliments may be premature. However, I'm happy to know that our laws don't tolerate them, and that our law enforcement agencies are vigilant enough to follow up on suspicious circumstances like these. In the words of the Kingston police chief, the girls were living as "Canadian teenagers who have all the freedom and rights of expression of all Canadians."

Events like this do nothing to lessen my contempt for organized religion (=brainwashing) of any ilk. Whether or not the accused parties are ultimately found guilty of first degree murder & conspiracy to murder as charged, it seems pretty clear that faith-based cultural practises were linked to these deaths.

Sailor Boy, sails are good! If slightly irrelevant to the topic...