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Deborah Méndez Wilson

Deborah Méndez Wilson
Location
Denver Metro Area, Colorado, USA
Birthday
August 24
Title
Journalist/Periodista
Company
Colorín Colorado Communications
Bio
I'm a fifth-generation Coloradan whose Spanish/Pueblo Indian family roots run hundreds of years deep in the U.S. Southwest. I am a Westerner, through and through, and can't imagine living anywhere else in the United States. The Colorado/New Mexico territory is my ancestral homeland. _______________________________ I am a mother of two and grandmother of one, but don't expect me to conform to anachronistic, enshrined stereotypes of what a woman is supposed to be or do in the autumn of her life. _______________________________ I am a professionally trained journalist who loves to blog, too. I earned my 10,000 hours while working as a daily journalist, and unabashedly worship at the altar of English. _______________________________ Though English is my native language and I adore it, I am fluent in Spanish because I lived in South America for a decade, and revel in the vibrant, haunting beauty of Castilian and Latin American cultures, histories and dialects. ¡Que viva el Español! _______________________________ Follow me on Twitter: @DebMendezWilson

MY RECENT POSTS

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AUGUST 31, 2012 5:07PM

No Fear: My Night in the Pit

My son and I wait for the concert to start.

She said she was celebrating her quarter-century birthday.

Petite and determined, she had pushed her way from the back of the large sweaty crowd to the front of the pit, and I could tell she was high on something. She… Read full post »

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AUGUST 24, 2012 4:39AM

Say it Ain't So, Lance. Say it Ain't So.

Lance Armstrong, Sports Illustrated cover, 2001 (Google Images). 

I learned to ride when I was six, and haven't stopped pedaling since.

My father pushed my bike down our street, and let me go. In one momentous instant I felt betrayed, terrified, proud, and grateful. I flew as my… Read full post »

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JULY 26, 2012 5:12AM

Mind Your Head

Photo courtesy of the Fundación Carpe Diem

I can’t help it.

 

I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately.

 

There are Spanish expressions that sometimes fit the bill better than anything in English.

 

That’s just how it is when you speak two langRead full post »

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JULY 23, 2012 7:53AM

Colorado Rises

Kronda Seibert, left, and Jamie McCurdy participated in "Colorado Rises," a human chain demonstration, on Sunday, July 22, 2012.

 

 

AURORA, Colo. – Linking arms in a human chain encircling a large swath of green grass in front of the Aurora Municipal Building, a young marriedRead full post »

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JULY 20, 2012 10:29AM

Not My Colorado

My grandson, a seventh-generation Coloradan, in his Batman T-shirt. He loves the masked hero, and wore his caped shirt to the Denver Zoo.

Here we go again.

Colorado, my home state, is on the world stage again because of a mass shooting that has left a dozen people dead.

I'm sureRead full post »

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JULY 10, 2012 2:51PM

My Big, Fat Interracial Marriage

 

As my husband and I prepare to celebrate 15 years of marriage this year, we wonder what all the fuss is about .

My husband and I met the usual way—in a dive bar. Over the years I’ve spun the story to make it sound less like a… Read full post »
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JUNE 15, 2012 1:01AM

My Little Peasant Feet


 
"Flamenco" (1995) by Spanish film director and photographer Carlos Saura.
 

Editor’s note: This is an old post. I deleted it a few months ago, but I’m reposting it today in honor of Sally Swift’s birthday ... and in praise of her pretty feet ... even ifRead full post »

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MAY 16, 2012 2:43AM

Adiós, Carlos

Mexican novelist, essayist, diplomat and social commentator, the formidable Carlos Fuentes (Wikepedia Photo).

He said he wrote to keep from dying, but in the end he couldn’t strike death from his opus on life.

 

Carlos Fuentes, the inimitable Mexican novelist, essayist, diplomat a/Read full post »

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MAY 7, 2012 2:13PM

Post-Boy Feminism

 

My son, Daniel, playing his beloved electric guitar two years ago at age 12.

My son’s little pink hand rose from the other side of the green surgical sheet that separated us, looking like a dahlia sprouting from my body that Monday after Mother’s Day in 1998.Read full post »

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APRIL 30, 2012 1:22PM

American Me

 New Spain in 1819 (Google Images).

Cinco de Mayo rolls around every year, and a bizarre claim crops up in news stories, political speeches, and in schools: Hispanics are “the newest immigrants” to  arrive in the United States of America. ... Really?

Journalists,Read full post »

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APRIL 13, 2012 12:41PM

The Thousand-Layer Cake of Motherhood

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(Photo courtesy of CocinaGratis.net) 

Several years ago I was getting ready for work when my then-7-year-old son began a conversation with me I will never forget.

"Mom?"

"Aha," I responded as I glopped thick velvet-black mascara on my lashes—my war paint—with my mouth wide opRead full post »

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APRIL 4, 2012 8:24PM

My Petty Crime: Riding With Bad Girls

 

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Penélope Cruz in espadrilles, carrying a red tote, and wearing hoops in the 1992 Spanish film "Jamón, Jamón."  

   When I was detained for my "petty crime," I was sitting on a packed bus, heading south from Caracas to Ciudad Guayana, which is some niRead full post »

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FEBRUARY 6, 2012 4:54AM

Living in the In-Between

 

 

I don’t know how to make chilaquiles, but I do know how to make a mean Southwestern green chile. I might seem like a tragic, little pocha to some, but I know who I am.

My Grandparents, Circa 1920s, Trinidad, Colo. 

HIGHLANDS RANCH, Colo. - “You don’tRead full post »

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DECEMBER 13, 2011 3:43PM

Monsters and Roly Polies


Roly poly or "pillbug." (Google Images)

 

 The recent, tragic murder of a 7-year-old Georgia girl has me remembering another case from the 1960s that has haunted me for decades, and the day I trusted a stranger.

 

We called it a raspberry tree, but I still don’t know its boRead full post »

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DECEMBER 7, 2011 3:56PM

The Tram Lady and the 9/11 Panhandler

 

Brother, can you spare a dime? (Wikepedia image) 

 
As I crossed the street, I heard the panhandler say in a voice as clear as a bell, “Fucking spic. Go back to Mexico.”
 
It happened in that eerie, dreamlike space after the Twin Towers collapsed inRead full post »
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NOVEMBER 28, 2011 11:13AM

The Tattered Cover

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It’s a must-see stop for presidents, celebrities, writers and book lovers of every stripe. The Tattered Cover, founded by a fierce defender of free expression, literacy, and readers' rights, is one of the nation's most renowned bookstores, and a beloved Colorado tradition.

HIGHLANDS RAN… Read full post »

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NOVEMBER 22, 2011 2:03PM

Please Come Home for Christmas


 

My daughter and me, c. 1983, visiting my mother in Colorado.

 

Please Come Home for Christmas. The Eagles song reminded Mom of me, her long-lost first born, her prodigal daughter. It took a Colorado Christmas to show me how the mother-daughter bond canRead full post »

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NOVEMBER 17, 2011 1:34PM

To My Brother, Who Jumped Feet First Into Life

 
 
He sprang forth feet first, a breech baby running toward life in 1959, but his journey would end only 33 years later in a New York hospital. As another World AIDS Day approaches, I can't stop remembering my brother's brief, but vibrant life.
 
 
 Jay Quintana
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NOVEMBER 14, 2011 7:39PM

The Return of the Gringa Reencauchada

Playa Arapito, Edo. Sucre, Venezuela, c. 1979
 
I am not an émigré, but I’ve lived the immigrant experience, and see shades of the exile’s double world, where nostalgia and yearning survive untouched by time.
 

HIGHLANDS RANCH, Colo. – It’s theRead full post »

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