A strong woman

...can still be...

femme forte aka candace

femme forte aka candace
Location
The Southwest
Birthday
April 04
Bio
Some believe in destiny and some believe in fate ---------------------------------------------------- I believe that happiness is something we create --------------------------------------------------- And you'd best believe that I'm not gonna wait ----------------------------------------------------------'Cuz there's gotta be something more ------------------------------------------------ There's gotta be more than this ---------------------------------------------------------- I need a little less hard time ------------------------------------------ I need a little more bliss ----------------------------------------------- I'm gonna take my chances ------------------------------------------- Taking the chance I might --------------------------------------------- Find what I'm looking fo-oo-oo-oo-or ------------------------------- There's gotta be something more -------------------------------------- ♪♫♪♫♪♫♪♫♪♫♪♫♪♫♪♫♪♫♪♫ ♪♫•**•.¸♥¸.•*¨*•♪♪♫•**•.¸¸♥

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MAY 16, 2010 1:00PM

Pilgrim's MEME 10 Q's Femme'd

 

 

1.   What is your favorite word?

Bliss

2.   What is your least favorite word?

Comical

3.   What turns you on?

Hot music (see below)

4.   What turns you off?

Phonies

5.   What sound or noise do you love?

ARead full post »

 

My name is Candace and I love clothes.  If there were Clothesaholics Anonymous meetings, I’d be a regular.  I'd be handing out cups of coffee and talking people down when they call from Nordstrom's, about to fall off the wagon.

Is this obsession with what I’m wearing a… Read full post »

MAY 8, 2010 12:19PM

For the Women, Mothers or Not

 

            The night before my daughter's last birthday, she sent this email to me and her closest women friends:

 

            I recently read the book, The Middle Place, by Kelly Corrigan. /Read full post »

APRIL 25, 2010 3:10PM

An Extraordinary Act of Love

 

 

                  He refused medical treatment, knowing that the cancer growing at the back of his tongue, in his throat, would kill him. 

         &Read full post »

APRIL 15, 2010 1:35AM

pssssst! save my seat, 'k?

 
 
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Around 1 o'clock tomorrow afternoon, my little car will be tooling west on the Bay Bridge above from Oakland to San Francisco, almost to my daughter's and son-in-law's place where my granddaughter will be waiting for her Nana to take her to ballet/… Read full post »
MARCH 5, 2010 2:54PM

I lick my lips, taste salt

 

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           My left foot strikes the firm, wet sand, leaves a lighter print for half a second, almost white, the opposite of a bruise, lifts, then the right; a rhythm is established. 

 

   The san/Read full post »

FEBRUARY 10, 2010 11:00AM

A Poem For My Valentine: Love In Letters

    

 

                 love letters red 

 

 

You’re the anchor on my Zodiac

The granite beneath my sand

 

I'm the tip of your tongue

 You're the warmth of my/Read full post »

 

 

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 FICTION FRIDAY FINDS

 

The prolific Ronnie Ray Jenkins posted three (not counting non-fiction) pieces this week: The Porch SwingSoup Kitchen Baby, and Dog Killing Made Easy (Death on the Ice).

 

Scarlett Sumac's excellent piece/… Read full post »

JANUARY 24, 2010 7:44PM

Walk With Me Through My Winter Garden

 
         Femme and Mr. Forte’s house is out in the country, such as can still be found in Southern California.  He (not a Spanish speaker) calls it Casa de Swell or Hacienda Cool.  If it had a name, it would probably be La Casa de las Brisas Suspir/Read full post »
JANUARY 14, 2010 1:09PM

Who You Callin' Fat, Buddy?

 
 
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                  The woman in the photo is Michelle Renn, a model.  She’s a size 12.  I look like her.

                &nbsRead full post »

 

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Lookit that face.  Lookit those wrinkles.  No work done there.  Fist clenched in the air for Martha, even if she is wearing a nonPC fur.  I bet her neck is warmer than mine. 

After totally gratuitous opening, here's the meat of this post. 

I'm su… Read full post »

DECEMBER 16, 2009 11:46AM

The Giant Christmas Tree Story

  

     My little brother thinks I’m crazy.  He swears that no one on earth has ever done or will ever do some of the things that I’ve pulled off, things that have had him rolling on the floor laughing or staring at me in amazement, mouth wide open,Read full post »

DECEMBER 8, 2009 9:10PM

What My Grandmother Loved

 

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I drove to Kansas after Grandma’s funeral to get them
No one wanted those fancy glass dishes but me; must be
They hadn’t seen them on the table, winking like diamonds
At every place, plates and glasses and bowls, and platters
You could/
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I'm not a huge fan of sweet potatoes.  I like them but don't love them.  White (or yellow) potatoes, on the other hand -- well, my thighs don't like them, but my mouth sure does.  I do, however, like the color of sweet potatoes, especially when all that brown… Read full post »

Editor’s Pick
OCTOBER 22, 2009 12:05PM

What is that Woman DOING in the Bathroom??

  A little fun for you on this ho-hum Thursday morning.  Bear with me through the setup.

I was in LA yesterday.  My friend has recently moved to a loft downtown.  On the way to dinner, she wanted me to see The Standard, a tres chic hotel nearby, so we… Read full post »

SEPTEMBER 23, 2009 2:46PM

Au Revoir!

 
 
 
Have you ever, ever seen cuter red boots?  ooooooh, I loooooove these shoes.  But then I love many -- some would add "too" -- many shoes.  And I just bought these red boots, so they're officially my new favorite shoes. 
 
 
 
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AUGUST 14, 2009 10:09AM

The Women We Women Rely On

 
 
The night before my daughter's last birthday, she sent this email to me and her closest women friends:
 

I recently read the book, The Middle Place, by Kelly Corrigan.  It's a memoir, and it's roughly about the time in your life when you are both somebody'sRead full post »

AUGUST 6, 2009 3:31PM

I can SING like Jennifer Nettles!!!

 

 

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You don't have to like country music -- but I feel pretty freaking sorry for you if you don't -- to stand in total awe of a voice like Jennifer Nettles'. It is beautiful and clear and dead-on and STRONG.… Read full post »
AUGUST 1, 2009 10:37PM

a FIRST time for everything...

1. Who was your FIRST prom date?

Ken, HS star baseball player, senior.  I was a sophomore.  He was really cute but had the IQ of an Irish setter.  

2.  Who was your FIRST love and do you still talk to him/her?

Mark of the red couch makeout sessions.  Off/on,… Read full post »

AUGUST 1, 2009 12:45AM

First things first; a kissing primer

My first post.  Could I have spent ANY more time deciding on the topic??

I hated those teachers who assigned papers to be written without naming the subject.  No, no -- please -- just tell me what to write it on.  Emerald mines in Colombia, the Spanish Inquisition, my favorite pet?… Read full post »