A strong woman
femme forte aka candace
- Location
- The Southwest
- Birthday
- April 04
- Bio
- Some believe in destiny and some believe in fate
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I believe that happiness is something we create
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And you'd best believe that I'm not gonna wait
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There's gotta be more than this
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I need a little less hard time
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I need a little more bliss
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I'm gonna take my chances
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Taking the chance I might
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Find what I'm looking fo-oo-oo-oo-or
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There's gotta be something more
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MY RECENT POSTS
- brown bedspread fort
May 25, 2012 08:24PM - general femme a la crayon -
heron's drawing call
May 24, 2012 08:41PM - living (and dying) gracefully
April 27, 2012 08:27PM - the road to the rock
April 03, 2012 01:09AM - leaving santa barbara
April 01, 2012 11:51PM
MY RECENT COMMENTS
- “i felt like i was
walking into a very exclusive
club when i
nervously posted
my f…”
11:07AM - “one of my very favorite
photos posts by anyone on this
site.
perfect mem day
blog…”
10:54AM - “we fed gin to a poodle
my mom had when we were kids.
dopey
dog lapped it right
up…”
May 26, 2012 10:17PM - “As it says in the text
above, Craig will be gone
soon. We
have moved from
countin…”
May 26, 2012 11:17AM - “nice list, RP. thanks to
all of you volunteering on
the
committee and to amy
(and…”
May 26, 2012 10:54AM
Femme forte aka candace's Links
- New list
- John Fowles, author
- Karla Kuskin, poet
Pilgrim's MEME 10 Q's Femme'd
1. What is your favorite word?
Bliss
2. What is your least favorite word?
Comical
3. What turns you on?
Hot music (see below)
4. What turns you off?
Phonies
5. What sound or noise do you love?
The (Shoe) Story of My Life - and it's Ann Nichols's fault
My name is Candace and I love clothes. If there were Clothesaholics Anonymous meetings, I’d be a regular. I'd be handing out cups of coffee and talking people down when they call from Nordstrom's, about to fall off the wagon.
Is this obsession with what I’m wearing a… Read full post »
For the Women, Mothers or Not
The night before my daughter's last birthday, she sent this email to me and her closest women friends:
I recently read the book, The Middle Place, by Kelly Corrigan. /… Read full post »
An Extraordinary Act of Love
He refused medical treatment, knowing that the cancer growing at the back of his tongue, in his throat, would kill him.
pssssst! save my seat, 'k?

I lick my lips, taste salt
My left foot strikes the firm, wet sand, leaves a lighter print for half a second, almost white, the opposite of a bruise, lifts, then the right; a rhythm is established.
The san/… Read full post »
A Poem For My Valentine: Love In Letters
You’re the anchor on my Zodiac
The granite beneath my sand
I'm the tip of your tongue
You're the warmth of my/… Read full post »
FICTION FRIDAY 2.5.10 EDITION - UPDATED 6 -- NO --7 times!
FICTION FRIDAY FINDS
The prolific Ronnie Ray Jenkins posted three (not counting non-fiction) pieces this week: The Porch Swing, Soup Kitchen Baby, and Dog Killing Made Easy (Death on the Ice).
Scarlett Sumac's excellent piece/… Read full post »
Walk With Me Through My Winter Garden
Who You Callin' Fat, Buddy?

The woman in the photo is Michelle Renn, a model. She’s a size 12. I look like her.
&nbs… Read full post »
Best Sugar Cookies on the Planet: Iamsurly's Open Call
Lookit that face. Lookit those wrinkles. No work done there. Fist clenched in the air for Martha, even if she is wearing a nonPC fur. I bet her neck is warmer than mine.
After totally gratuitous opening, here's the meat of this post.
I'm su… Read full post »
The Giant Christmas Tree Story
My little brother thinks I’m crazy. He swears that no one on earth has ever done or will ever do some of the things that I’ve pulled off, things that have had him rolling on the floor laughing or staring at me in amazement, mouth wide open,… Read full post »
What My Grandmother Loved
I drove to
Kansas after Grandma’s funeral to get them
No one wanted those fancy
glass dishes but me; must be
They hadn’t seen them on the table, winking like diamonds
At every place, plates and glasses and bowls, and platters
You could/… Read full post »
Sweet Potatoes Don't Have To Be Sweet(ened) - (updated)
I'm not a huge fan of sweet potatoes. I like them but don't love them. White (or yellow) potatoes, on the other hand -- well, my thighs don't like them, but my mouth sure does. I do, however, like the color of sweet potatoes, especially when all that brown… Read full post »
A little fun for you on this ho-hum Thursday morning. Bear with me through the setup.
I was in LA yesterday. My friend has recently moved to a loft downtown. On the way to dinner, she wanted me to see The Standard, a tres chic hotel nearby, so we… Read full post »
Au Revoir!

The Women We Women Rely On
I recently read the book, The Middle Place, by Kelly Corrigan. It's a memoir, and it's roughly about the time in your life when you are both somebody's… Read full post »
I can SING like Jennifer Nettles!!!

a FIRST time for everything...
1. Who was your FIRST prom date?
Ken, HS star baseball player, senior. I was a sophomore. He was really cute but had the IQ of an Irish setter.
2. Who was your FIRST love and do you still talk to him/her?
Mark of the red couch makeout sessions. Off/on,… Read full post »
First things first; a kissing primer
My first post. Could I have spent ANY more time deciding on the topic??
I hated those teachers who assigned papers to be written without naming the subject. No, no -- please -- just tell me what to write it on. Emerald mines in Colombia, the Spanish Inquisition, my favorite pet?… Read full post »
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