fingerlakeswanderer

fingerlakeswanderer
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Lorraine Berry lives in the Fingerlakes region of New York, although it's her transplanted home. On weekends, she can be heard throughout the area, cheering on her beloved Manchester City F.C. When not writing at Does This Make Sense? or Talking Writing, she can be found hiking with her two dogs, hanging out with her two daughters, eating what her beloved Rob has cooked for her, or teaching creative writing at a small college in the area.

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NOVEMBER 3, 2008 8:53AM

The Sexual State

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This is my body .

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How can I feel a sovereign being if I cannot claim my own body?

This body is mine. Not yours. Not the government's. Not the property of rightwing nut jobs who hate their bodies, and want to control mine, too.
I must be able to claim what enters me, consent to what I participate in, consent to what I choose to do with the human body that I will occupy for four score and some odd years (if I'm lucky enough to live that long.)


Did you know that three years ago,  the
Kansas Attorney General wanted records of women who've had late-term abortions?

In certain states, it's illegal for me to pleasure myself with a sex toy. Can you imagine? Guns are legal but vibrators are not?

It's now okay for pharmacists to refuse to dispense birth control they object to, and , Plan B contraception, which is a virtual no-brainer, has become yet another bullet in the magazine of those who would rather our teenagers suffered and died rather than took responsibility for a moment of passion.


We are among those who believe that the coming together of sperm and egg is sacred, and therefore, a zygote floating in Fallopian Tube is entitled to full protection of the law. But what of the women, 500,000 last year, who have no access to safe abortion, prenatal care, or delivery? They died just last year. Half a million women giving birth died. What do you think is going to happen in this country if we illegalize abortion. Do you remember the days of this?



santoro_2We teach children that their bodies are disgusting, and we call it abstinence education. We deny them knowledge of contraception, and on average, they delay sex by 12 months, and when they do engage in it, they do it unprotected from disease or pregnancy.


America is turning into a kakistocracy, run by people who hate and so distrust their bodies that they seek to control ours.


Sex is unruly. Love is anarchic. Personal connections among us will keep us tied to personal loyalties, and we will be less prone to blind adherence to faceless, abstract concepts like patriotism.


We fight organizations that do not see it as a hate crime when a gay man is beaten to death simply for being gay. Those same organizations now want to make it illegal for couples who love one another—consenting, adult couples—because they present a threat to the "sanctity of marriage." .

Are they not aware that their actions lead to the crimes they claim are not reflective of hate? And they teach this bullshit to children while they deny them the right to read freely.  


They propagate lies. Lies that kill. To tell teenagers that condoms do not prevent HIV, that sex equals death, means that when that teenager does decide to be sexually active, s/he has had one method for preventing AIDS taken right out of their hands. Would they rather their children be dead than sexually active?


Bodies are not negotiable. Bodies matter. They matter when they're being restricted, and they matter when they're being exterminated. And you know what? History shows us, time and time again, that those who seek to control bodies eventually want to destroy them. .

 

This is my body. And it is.

Part iii to follow

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Part iii will look at the Constitutional and philosophical underpinnings of the right to privacy. I'll publish that later this week.
I love this post and your assertion of body sovereignty. You have said it best, lake wanderer.

Thank you. rated.
This is excellent and the photos are provocative.
I am awed by this. I can't wait for the next part. I am out of words.
Thanks for usuing your own body as a site of meditation and, implicitly, a stand-in for the suffering of others. The more you out the contradictions of the most puritanical and violent country, the more we'll come to understand the surrepitious moves it makes against our liberty and freedom
Thank you all. I've been thinking about this a lot.
Like all social problems, this is more complex than you make it seem.

You say "This body is mine... Not the government's."

Generally true, but not exclusively so. Does the government (please to remember, that's us) have the right to quarantine people with communicable diseases? Should Typhoid Annie have been left free to pursue her career as a children's nanny? Should those with HIV/AIDS be required to inform their partners?

Criminals are usually jailed, at least the more virulent ones. That is the complete subjugation of their bodies to government. You against that?

Not trying to be a contrarian, just saying that the right to your own body is not absolute.
Her claim can be read as a normative claim. She has the right to ownership of her body, and where she does not-she ought to.