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Lorraine Berry lives in the Fingerlakes region of New York, although it's her transplanted home. On weekends, she can be heard throughout the area, cheering on her beloved Manchester City F.C. When not writing at Does This Make Sense? or Talking Writing, she can be found hiking with her two dogs, hanging out with her two daughters, eating what her beloved Rob has cooked for her, or teaching creative writing at a small college in the area.

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FEBRUARY 26, 2009 10:13AM

An Open Letter to Michelle Obama

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Dear First Lady Obama,
First, let me congratulate you on your hard work that resulted in electing President Obama to the White House. I feel as if the heavy heart that has throbbed inside my chest for the past eight years is easing up, and I now carry a smidgen of hope in my pocket that I pull out and look at on a regular basis.

I am writing to you today about an issue that is of the utmost importance to me.

Women are being raped, mutilated, and killed in the Democratic Republic of the Congo every day. Many of them are so horrifically injured that their reproductive and excretory organs will never return to normal function. In addition, they carry the shame of rape that Congolese society brands them with: they wear a scarlet letter. Their husbands shun them, and many retreat to the woods to live out their lives as hermits.

All is not hopeless, however. Women are forming support groups where they may come together and share their stories, and in sharing, feel that they are not alone. The women of the DRC are formidable, and I have faith that, as their sisters in Rwanda have done, they will organize themselves politically. Rwanda's parliament is now 46 percent women, and women are making the difference

It was Marx that said that the "hand that rocks the cradle rules the world," and this is my hope for Congolese women. That they will take back their country and make it a place where women are safe and oh-so-powerful.

The women need help, however. President Kabila needs to be nudged to prosecute this war crime of mass rape. Hospitals to repair the women's torn bodies need to be built so that more women can be stitched back together. Dr. Mukwege, of the Panzi hospital has devoted his life to repairing the physical damage. And in his words, "C'est un catastrophe."

Ms. Obama, more needs to be done. We need to send people who can offer assistance to this women: psychological care, pressure on President Kabila to prosecute the men who rape; safe zones where women and children are free from the daily terror of roving bands of paramilitaries and armies who are using rape as a weapon of terror, of attempting to destroy the social fabric of the DRC.

I know that we are facing many issues of import right now. But I can't sleep at night. I have two daughters, and I tremble when I think of how my daughters could be in a different time and place where their lives are worth less simply because they are women.

Today, I'm teaching a teach-in at my college, bringing this issue to the attention of my campus. My great hope is that we, as a community, will discover ways that we can help.

I am asking you to join us. I am asking you to make sexual violence against women a platform issue that you are willing to take on and bring America's attention to. I believe that Americans care about these issues, and that they would open their hearts to these women if they could see their suffering.

I do not know if you would consider a trip to the Congo to witness yourself the power of these women. I hope that you will take it under advisement.

I thank you for presenting to my daughters a role model. I thank you for making it possible to write this letter.

Thank you.
With all best wishes,
Lorraine  Berry

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Excellent letter. I hope Michelle will read your letter. She could really spotlight this problem.
Great letter. I wonder what the political issues are for the US vis-a-vis the DRC. Do you know?
flw,
You've written an outstanding letter to our gracious First lady. Huge props for your heart and determination to spotlight this nightmare.

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what little I know about Michelle's interests or the path she wants to walk as first lady, I think this could be vitally important in any number of ways for her to take as a personal crusade. The world wide PR, while not the reason for such a personal investment would reap terrific rewards. The real reason of course would be to mitigate or end the terrible crimes.

Terrific letter Lorraine, I hope she reacts to this, and takes it on as part of what she wants to do.

Thanks for this.
Thanks bbd and Dennis. I'm honored by your kind words. Thanks, too, to you Joan.
Silkstone, the issues are complicated. (Whenever are they not?) The war in the Congo is raging in two fronts: a spillover from Rwanda where Hutus and Tutsis are still killing one another, only now doing it in the Congo. And the Lendu and the Hema are fighting one another. Their fights are even more ugly than those of the Hutu/Tutsi in that one of the ways that the L&H humiliate one another is to cannibalize those they have killed.
There was supposed to have been a ceasefire declared in 2006. It's not working.
President Kabila (whom I referenced in a post called "got five minutes") needs to be pressured to prosecute rape as a war crime.
Finally, the Congo has 80 percent of a mineral called coltan. We need it to make cell phones and lap top computers. I want to do some investigating to find out which companies are buying this on the black market, as the $1 million a day of coltan that is smuggled out is paying for the weapons.
I would hate to think that my lap top and my cell phone are just another version of "blood diamonds," but I fear that they may be. And that makes me feel complicit in what's going on.
I feel as if I've only begun to scrape the surface of this issue.
Good for you for reaching out on this important issue. Let's hope it helps.
If you decide to mail it, too, FLW, you might want to CC: Secretary Clinton.

I read another story somewhere else today-- not quite as grim-- about Iranian women pushing back against the mullahs.
Thank you. Thank you for writing this, and sending this. I hope that she will read (and feel) your words and take some sort of action.

I read an article written by Eve Ensler, where she discusses rape in the Congo and the work of Dr. Mukwege. (I never read those “women” magazines, but my news feed brought it up. I’m sure you’ve read this already, but for others who haven’t, I think that the article will bring some of this reality to them. http://www.glamour.com/magazine/2007/08/rape-in-the-congo)
This is powerful and heartbreaking. My goddaughter still has family living in The Congo....Thank you for this powerful post. I will make sure I add to Facebook, rate and digg.
Awesome letter and I know you will a positive response from Mrs. Obama. I saw that George Clooney was meeting at the White House the other day about Darfur about selecting an Special Envoy for Africa and all it's much needed troubles.

Thanks for bringing this important issue to our attention here at OS.
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Thank you for highlighting this terrifying situation. I have two daughters also and am grateful everyday for their relative safety. Please keep us up to date about this mineral used in laptops and cell phones. Something of this sort of leverage could really turn the spotlight on this.
I am absolutely exhausted, but want to report that the teach-in was SRO. We had so many people there, we didn't know where to put them all. A lot of them sat on the floor. And many, many of the students have been moved to action.
By the way, I did mail this letter to First Lady Obama. More letters are going out later this week to Clinton, Susan Rice, and others in the administration who can make a difference.
Thank you for sharing this poignant letter. And for bringing awareness for eastern Congo. International Women's Day is March 8th. Together we can bring change through love and service.

www.TheCongoCause.org
(Founded by Graduate Students
Univ. of Michigan, Global Program--Technology in Education)
Hope you sent it L - I did.