fingerlakeswanderer

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Lorraine Berry lives in the Fingerlakes region of New York, although it's her transplanted home. On weekends, she can be heard throughout the area, cheering on her beloved Manchester City F.C. When not writing at Does This Make Sense? or Talking Writing, she can be found hiking with her two dogs, hanging out with her two daughters, eating what her beloved Rob has cooked for her, or teaching creative writing at a small college in the area.

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MARCH 21, 2009 5:28PM

Not-So-Mean Mr. Mustard Interview

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I'm not sure what made me click on "Snow Storms and Monsters" that particular night. All I know is that once I began to read, I dare not stop, and by the time the Monster had appeared, I ceased breathing until I had finished.

Oh shit, I thought, this guy can write

I've been a fan ever since. 

Mean Mr. Mustard agreed to the interview; the questions are cribbed from the oustanding series of interviews that precede this one.

Without much further ado...

Which post on your own blog is your favorite? Why did you write it? Did you learn from the comments others posted on it?

My favorite post is Snow Storms and Monsters. I wrote it because I felt it was time to quell the Monster’s grip on my psyche. The comments I got surprised me. I learned that a caring community of bloggers exists here in OS. There are so many cool people here!

What do you enjoy about the writing of others on OS? Whose particular blog would you recommend that others read? Why?
I enjoy the diversity of thought on OS. I read many OS blogs. Thank God, I’m retired because I’d end up getting fired for doing so. Recommending other blogs is hard to do. Those bloggers I frequently read know that I do so. But I encourage everyone to seek out the new bloggers, read their posts and comment on them—especially the younger writers. Everyone likes to be heard.

If you could have a dinner with five other OS members, who would you invite and why? What would you serve? If it was potluck, what would you ask others to bring? What do you expect to talk about? What music would you play?
Five OS bloggers… h’mm… well, I’d start with you because I’d like to know more about your teaching and the hiking trails around the lakes. Then I’d invite CoyoteOldStyle, because she’s the first person who befriended me here at OS, she’s from Boston, a fantastic artist, and have you seen the recipes she posts here? I’d beg her to prepare the meal—whatever suits her fancy. Of course, I’d invite KindOfBlue, because I get most of my news from his postings, and after the meal, I’d ask him to play some jazz trumpet—something from mellow from Miles.  Professor Emeritus would be invited. His thoughts on everything from politics to angels intrigues me, plus I could tell him about my friendship with Carl Yazstremski, and he could tell me more about Roger’s Hornsby. Last, I’d ask lostcauser to come up from Memphis to join us. She’s a kindred spirit. And I just have to know if she has that Memphis “sound” in her voice.

What famous non-OS writers influence your writing? Who do you read and what do you like about their writing?
The works of Anton Chekhov, Raymond Carver, John Steinbeck, Ernest Hemingway, Alice Munroe, and Wally Lamb, have influenced the way I think about writing. I’m currently reading collections of short stories; there are so many eclectic writers in these collections. I love the variety and reading their personal comments on how they brought their stories to fruition.

When did you start hiking and where are the trails that you love the most?
My love affair with hiking started when my son attended the New England Conservatory of Music in Boston. Hunnington Ave., Massachusetts Ave., Boylston St., Columbus Ave., Tremont St., became my favorite trails.

What would you like others to know about you as a writer or person that you feel has not been adequately presented through your previous blogs?
I write to silence the voices in my head. When I ignore those voices, I get in trouble. As for what’s not been adequately presented in my blogs, when I was born I was given my father’s name—Harry. A day later, my mother decided to name me Chuck. I grew up very confused…maybe that confusion is evident.

When you are writing about the Monster, how do you keep the feelings provoked by that time at bay?
By saying to the Monster’s ghost, “Fuck you…look at what I’m doing…read the words I’m writing!

Can you provide a photo of the space in your house where you do your writing or of areas around your home that inspire your writing?
At the moment, the only camera I have is the one in my MacBook. I’ll try to give a visual representation of my workspace, but I refuse to neaten up the clutter.



Mr

What one thing causes you hesitation in writing on OS?
My writings will hurt my family and children.

What one piece of advice would you give to a new writer on OS?
Do your thing and post your thoughts with disregard of what others may think. H’mm that kind of contradicts my last answer. See…I told you I’m confused.

How do you choose what to write about?
I conference with the voices in my head, then come to a decision that might hold relevance to some one who reads my work.

Is there a famous piece of writing (a poem, a short story, a novel, an essay) that you wish you'd written, no matter how fantastic that possibility is?
Wally Lamb’s novel, I Know This Much Is True.

What are your goals as a writer?


To leave a legacy for my children to read to their children.

 

 

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He's not mean at all. And I adore mustard on just about everything. Including a blog. Great stuff. Your children will be proud MMM.
, and ketchup, mayo, and hot horseradish.
I don't even know what to say about that Monster, except let me at him. MMM is such a kind guy for having that sort of history. I'll bet he's a great daddy.
I am thankful you did this interview. I recently ," found," one of Mr. Mustard's posts and knew that I had found a new writer to enjoy and relate to. Like him I write to silence to monsters. There is so much diversity here on open salon but we are all so simolar whenyou get to our core. Thanks to you and not so mean Mr. M for this interview. grace and peace, capo
Mr. Mustard is one of new favorite writers on OS. The fact that he endured such abuse as a child and yet grew up to become such a compassionate human being is miraculous. Through his words, he is slowly but surely unraveling the monster's damage. Thank you, flw, for spotlighting this very talented writer and anything-but-mean man.
Great interview! I adore Mr. Mustard too! And I agree, just do your thing....
FLW, thank you for introducing me to a writer who is new to me. Very interesting comments....looking forward to reading more from him.
nice interview! I like Mr. Mustard - did you interview him in the kitchen with the candlestick, or in the parlor with the knife?
I am very new to OS and am really enjoying reading all of the posts and comments to the point of making it my next new addiction. I was very impressed with Mean Mr. Mustard because he seems very open-minded and non-judgemental to me and those are very impressive qualities in my opinion. I added him as a friend, one of my first and he was kind enough to add me, despite the fact that I am such a" newby". (That's playground talk for new kid on the block.)
Will have to read Snow Storms and Monsters. Reading this interview, I like this guy! I also really like these interviews. I'm always a sucker for those books where they gather up interviews with writers and we get to hear about how they create and their workspaces and families and all the stuff that makes them writers. Excellent idea and interview!
Great interview, FLW. And may I say to Mr. Mustard that I'll gladly cater this party. It would be an honor.
I do like Mr Mustard. He is a great writer and so well spoken.
Now I know more about him from reading this post.
Thanks for this Lorraine.
well written and highly rated by me
I'm also a big fan of the MM. Super interview and yay for the photo!
just wanted MM to know he has already made a difference by sharing his thoughts and experiences...and I have yet to find anything mean about him.
sorry i haven't responded. I'm in the midst of another migraine attack and i feel like shit.
but it was an honor to interview mean mr. mustard. He's a great guy, and i look forward to whatever he chooses to write.
my brain hurts. my eyes hurt. this sucks. whiiiiiiiiiine.
I'm kind of late to this, Lorraine, but really liked the interview and the replies. Trying hard to catch up, but ..................

Monte
So glad you wrote this one. Yes, MM can write. Agree w/ him totally on Wally Lamb and more. (i will not put two more periods, i will not put two more periods)