Sometimes, I just want to tell the press to grow the fuck up.
Thank goddess for Judith Warner, who shows more empathy, common sense, and intellectual acumen than her more famous New York Times feminist sister, Maureen Dowd, who seems more concerned about making fun of the Secretary of State than actually paying attention to the hell that is being done to the people of the Democratic Republic of the Congo.
I mean, we know that Maureen knows about the Congo; after all, note the oh-so-twee-clever allusion to the famous Ali-Foreman fight in the former Zaire. Hillary’s KO in the Congo on Monday made the covers of both New York tabloids.
Using tough hand gestures not seen since “The Sopranos” went off HBO, Hillary snapped back at an African college student who asked about the growing influence of China on Africa and then, according to the translator, wanted to know: “What does Mr. Clinton think?”
It turned out that the student was trying to ask how President Obama felt about it. But before he was able to clarify, the secretary of state flared: “Wait, you want me to tell you what my husband thinks? My husband is not the secretary of state. I am.”
Dowd's immediate take on Clinton's annoyance is some "hyper-competitiveness with the fomer President." Um. Maureen? Have you ever been to the DRC? Do you have a fucking clue what's going on there? Did it occur to anyone that Secretary Clinton was so enraged by what she had seen in the Congo that perhaps, some silly question about what her husband thinks might have struck her as ridiculous when what she wanted to talk about was how the US was going to work with the DRC to limit the flow of conflict-minerals, had committed money to training doctors to deal with the hundreds of thousands of women who've been raped?
Perhaps Secretary Clinton had just heard this story, as recounted by Eve Ensler:
When we begin talking, Nadine seems utterly disassociated from her surroundings—far away. “I’m 29,” she begins. “I am from the village of Nindja. Normally there was insecurity in our area. We would hide many nights in the bush. The soldiers found us there. They killed our village chief and his children. We were 50 women. I was with my three children and my older brother; they told him to have sex with me. He refused, so they cut his head and he died.”
Nadine’s body is trembling. It is hard to believe these words are coming out of a woman who is still alive and breathing. She tells me how one of the soldiers forced her to drink his urine and eat his feces, how the soldiers killed 10 of her friends and then murdered her children: her four-year-old and two-year-old boys and her one-year-old girl. “They flung my baby’s body on the ground like she was garbage,” Nadine says. “One after another they raped me. From that my vagina and anus were ripped apart.”
Or perhaps, she had spoken to Dr. Denis Mukwege, founder of Panzi Hospital, who has been working with the victims of rape for years:
“I saw women who had been raped in an extremely barbaric way,” he recalls. “First, the women were raped in front of their children, their husbands and neighbors. Second, the rapes were done by many men at the same time. Third, not only were the women raped, but their vaginas were mutilated with guns and sticks. These situations show that sex was being used as a weapon that is cheap.
“When rape is done in front of your family,” he continues, “it destroys everyone. I have seen men suffer who watched their wives raped; they are not mentally stable anymore. The children are in even worse condition. Most of the time, when a woman suffers this much violence, she is not able to bear children afterward. Clearly these rapes are not done to satisfy any sexual desire but to destroy the soul. The whole family and community are broken.”
So, Judith Warner gets it right when she wonders why we have suddenly trivialized the horror that is the Congo in order to make fun of "journalists'" favorite whipping girl: Clinton.
As she circles the globe in coming years, making the case for women’s empowerment, starting with their basic right to be taken seriously, Clinton really has her work cut out for her. And it isn’t just because the situation of women around the world is so dire, and the ocean of problems confronting them — maternal mortality, sex trafficking, domestic abuse, malnourishment, lack of education, lack of adequate medical care, just for starters — is so wide and so deep. And it isn’t just that her historic mandate — to equally empower the other half of the world’s population, to chip away at the forces “devaluing women,” in the words of Melanne Verveer, the State Department’s new ambassador at large for global women’s issues — is so huge and vague and seemingly overwhelming. It’s also because the tide of trivialization that washes over all things “Hillary” is just so powerful. That tide threatens to drown out anything of substance Clinton might attempt for a population whose problems have long been obscured in the androcentric world of diplomacy. And that’s a huge pity.
Apparently, journalists are only capable of going after low-hanging fruit. Never mind the types of hard-hitting journalism, done by others, that have shown that the history of the violence in the Congo is a complicated disaster of smuggled minerals to make cell-phones, which help to finance the war; the continued fighting of the Rwandan civil war; the vacuum of power at the top in the Congo, which makes it a dysfunctional state; and the sheer barbarism of what is happening in central Africa: the rapes, the murders, the torture, the wholescale destruction of a culture.
No. It's so much more amusing to make fun of Hillary.
Great. The press corps covering Clinton are a bunch of 13-year olds.
Warner is angry, and I'm right there with her.
This could be a moment for America to redeem itself as far as the world’s women are concerned. Our recent track record, after all, is pretty dim. The Bush administration sent anti-feminists to Iraq to train that country’s women in participatory democracy. We pulled our financing from the United Nations Population Fund and imposed a global gag rule barring women’s health organizations that merely talked about abortion from receiving U.S. funds. We never ratified the Convention on the Elimination of All Forms of Discrimination Against Women, a pretty base-level human rights treaty, because of worries by black helicopter types that American sovereignty would be compromised. Our lack of paid maternity leave made us something of a world joke.
We are a world joke when it comes to the way we lecture the rest of the world about the way it treats women, and then we deny aid funds to anyone who mentions abortion as a possible solution to a problem pregnancy. Because, you know, women just don't know what's good for them.
And yet, even to talk about these things in this country gets them labeled as "women's issues." We are told to shut up about the small things. President Obama's got bigger things to worry about. Yes, the economy affects men and women; yes, health care affects men and women (and especially women, since as far as I know, we aren't trying to outlaw any medical procedures performed upon men.)
“We have our own work to do at home,” Verveer told me. “We trivialize the importance too often of these issues: the ‘women’s issue’ — you put it in quotes, that little category over there, the box you check. What we have to do is realize these are the issues; if we want societies to prosper and if we want our own security, we have to raise the status of women.”
Women’s issues are being framed by this administration in terms of realpolitik: U.S. security depends on women’s empowerment. Global economic growth depends on women’s participation.
Just so there is no misunderstanding about my motives here, I have been writing about the women of the DRC for a while now, and I do not have any intention of stopping soon.


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Please do keep writing about the ongoing and desperate situat;ion in the DRC! And kudos for this piece which shows quite clearly how heinous acts committed against individuals ripple out into and destroy communities.
Also permit me to recommend Suruba Wechsler's amazing book, By the Grace of G-d. You can read a chat log on the URL posted below.
Rated!
http://edition.cnn.com/COMMUNITY/transcripts/suruba.html
Anytime I feel like stopping writing about the DRC, I remember the stories. And then I know that I must continue to write.
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Thanks!
denese
As for Hillary Clinton, the woman is clearly both exhausted and has been emotionally drained; high ranking officials in the United States are focused more on the Middle East than on Africa and its women. Dowd, who is fearful of losing her job, has become unbearably snarky and in this instance, while it may be "expected" it is remarkably unhelpful.
Thank you one and all for your words of encouragement and fear for the future.
Right now, I'm struggling to find a world view that isn't colored by the pain I'm in, and I'm actually getting to the point where I'm close to stopping blogging and reading the news because a)it aggravates my migraines, but b) I'm so discouraged by the mob. I'm still trying to figure out how people are being manipulated by insurance companies to support the very insurance companies that screw them over (and I know we've all got stories). I just want some peace and quiet for a while, in hopes that my head will stop hurting all the time.
If I disappear for a while, please don't be worried. I'm just trying to take some time out to heal my head, but I'll be doing things that I hope are making a difference in other ways.
I was watching the Today show yesterday morning, and they had Andrea Mitchell, who travels with Clinton, talking about Clinton's "blow-up" and nothing else. After the segment ended, Meredith Viera and Ann Curry then started talking about how it was such a shame that "the media" was covering that story and not what was actually happening in the DRC. Well, of course, I just about screamed at the television, "Well, why the hell don't you cover it? You are the fucking media!"
It further confirmed the obvious, that "journalists" for corporate-owned media are kept in a short leash, and they are told what to cover and what not to cover.
Maureen Dowd is a gnat. A distraction like the granny death squads.
What you are writing about is what matters.
When in office, I seem to recall the Clintons using words to the effect that "We have no interests in Africa." And they showed that attitude. I hate to say it, but Bush got more done over there than the Clintons did.
I wish that someone else, who had a track record of getting things done, had gotten more attention. I just see Hillary as trying to boost her profile, and her snarky comment indicates where her true interests lie.
Dowd is not just a member of the Modern Absurdity that is American journalism, she is a star of its most vile subset: those who Know the difference, who get why the Congo is uniquely tragic, but are so addicted to their own bedstink of smarmsmirksnark they actually get a rush for "daring" to be meanspirited at the expense of rape.
The NYTimes is ultimately to blame. This is the column that should make them re-think. They can and should send her to the Congo, to these hospitals and have her do a story about these women (and now men, I recently heard).
Sure, allow her to write what she pleases, always, but AFTER she completes her assignment in Africa. However, if she continues in the same way, unaffected, let's hope they decide that soulless modernista vanity cases are not to be given a forum, and then fire her evil ^%$@#.
Thank you wanderer for all you do.
now for the blogwhoring:
I just posted at lenght as to how Americans are pitifully childish in their thinking and their discourse. Read it if you feel like it.
My first inclination was to scream "NOOOOOO!", but that wouldn't be very fair.
I know it's shallow of me, but your posts help me take my mind off my own perceived problems and give me something to focus on and take action. I've written more none gay rights related letters, since I started reading your posts, than I had in the preceding year. So if nothing else, you are making an impact on me.
That said, you NEED to find balance between giant, humongous issues (which seem unmovable) and being an advocate of NIMY-SIDGAS. If you don’t your head will explode. I don’t think MOST of us want to see that happen… well, it WOULD be kind of cool to actually WATCH it happen… kinda like that old movie “Scanners”. Not that I’m advocating that or anything… But, if you feel it coming on, do you think you could video tape it for me? ;)
On a personal note, I shall miss your posts terribly but if you do take a break from here then I wish you much peace and healing and relief from pain!
I, like you, respect Judith Warner, yet, I really doubt that Dowd does not know the real issue. I would like to blame Dowd's apparent silliness on her readers. The sunshine-vomiting crowd cannot handle or even understand what Warner is saying. Moreover, attacking Hilary, whom I respect, wins you points with feminists.
You are right on another issue. We are the joke of the civilized world and we have been especially since Reagan for many reasons.
Thanks again for great report and the links.
First, come the showers and the melting snows, a small trickle running downhill. The trickle becomes a creek, the creek becomes a brook, the brook becomes a stream, the stream becomes a river, the river becomes a torrent.
Keep flowing, Lorraine. The Grand Canyon took an amazingly long time to become five miles deep.