fingerlakeswanderer
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- Lorraine Berry lives in the Fingerlakes region of New York, although it's her transplanted home. On weekends, she can be heard throughout the area, cheering on her beloved Manchester City F.C. When not writing at Does This Make Sense? or Talking Writing, she can be found hiking with her two dogs, hanging out with her two daughters, eating what her beloved Rob has cooked for her, or teaching creative writing at a small college in the area.
MY RECENT POSTS
- We Told You So, Democrats
March 06, 2012 09:53AM - The Natural Year--Photos
December 21, 2011 05:29PM - Dundee Cake, or How I Learned
to Love (a) Fruitcake
December 19, 2011 07:37PM - Peter Balakian on the Armenian
Genocide
December 20, 2011 09:53AM - The Word Turkey Denies:
Genocide
December 19, 2011 07:14AM
MY RECENT COMMENTS
- “Matt and John,
I
understand your need to defend
the Democrats. But, I'm
sorry,
my…”
March 06, 2012 03:03PM - “Baltimore Auerole. Given
the anti-choice laws in many
states,
including the law
t…”
March 06, 2012 11:29AM - “Crying.”
January 25, 2012 04:39PM - “Hey. I'm
listening.”
January 19, 2012 10:15AM - “Right on, Beth.”
January 13, 2012 09:10AM
Fingerlakeswanderer's Links
The Iraq Museum/American Soldiers Are Still Dying
This weekend, I'm leaving for a writers' conference. It was at this conference that I heard the story that inspired an earlier post. I have re-posted some of what was written before, but I've added to it based on people I've met since then.
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You can tell it's summer. Magazines are running their usual stories, the ones that have been sitting in drawers all year, waiting for the slow news season.
You can also tell it's summer because once again, women have been proclaimed to be the superior sex, and headlines flacidly procla… Read full post »
First Lady Obama: Can You Hear Us?
Dear First Lady Obama,
It's one of those post rainy-day nights: I've got my windows open, trying to lure in some of the cool air, and I'm listening to the water tearing through the gorge at breakneck speed. It's deceptive, that water. You can see the bottom--most of the time, it's… Read full post »
Open Call: Who Deserves More Attention Here at OS?
I feel awful. One of my favorite writers, Hell, several of my favorite writers, frequently toil away here in relative obscurity. They might get two or three comments.
I have nothing to complain about. I get plenty of attention. Deserved or undeserved, I seem to have some sort of following… Read full post »
GNS: Quotations, week 20
Increasingly, I'm trying to rely less on "quotation collections" and more on things I find on my own--sentences from articles I've read, etc. Today's first quotation comes from Frank Rich's column in today's NYT.
Anyway, please keep sending me your favorites.
Thanks!
Lorraine
Women's History: Saturday Re-post
On June 7, 1996, I suffered a miscarriage. Years later, I still think about it during the week of its occurrence. Given that this is "repost Saturday," this seemed appropriate. I hope it helps those who have been through it, and helps those who
… Read full post »Thoughts Week One's Reading of THE PASSAGE
Before she became the Girl From Nowhere--the One Who Walked In, the First and Last and Only, who lived a thousand years--she was just a little girl in Iowa, named Amy. Amy Harper Bellafonte.
And thus begins Justin Cronin's THE PASSAGE, which, unless you've been sleep-blogging, you know is the i… Read full post »
Elisabeth, my closest friend, told me the other day that she had something to show me. Her face was bursting with the secret, whatever she was about to show me was seeping out the sides of her smile, the glow in her eyes. We grabbed her two dogs, put them up… Read full post »
As many of you know, I teach creative writing at a small college. Many of my students asked me for a list of books that I would recommend as "summer reading." Here is what I put together.
I know that college is stretching the boundary for "kids," but many of… Read full post »
A Template for Taming Trolls
Inspired by a rash of rude responses to recent posts, my partner Rob has offered this handy template to copy and paste as you wish.
Dear ____________:
Thanks so much for commenting on my post. I so enjoy yet another
opportunity to respond to an OS contributor… Read full post »
GNS: Quotations, week 19
I'm sorry I missed posting quotations last Sunday. I was in DC, on vacation with my youngest daughter and my lover, and I was staying away from the computer. But, I did get to meet Joan H--which was fantastic.
Anyway, here you go:
Times are tough, and some sympathy… Read full post »
Breasts, South Africa, and Football: Offensive, much?
I found the ad at The Atlantic.
Being one of those humorless feminists, I was, at first, speechless. Now, I'm choleric.
Where does one start? With women's naked breasts used to sell what? Chicken? the World Cup? South African culture?
And then the assumption… Read full post »
12 people were shot dead in England yesterday by a taxi driver, who drove from town to town in the [county] of Cumbria, picking off those he saw as they went about their day-to-day lives.
In their white starched dresses
In their pitiful white dresses
On their foreheads and breasts… Read full post »
Writing and Silence
Where have my words gone?
I miss them.
I miss the way they tasted, the way they swilled around inside my mouth, crunched between my teeth.
Of late, the words have scattered like mice under the shadow of the red-tailed hawk. They are in the tall grass,… Read full post »
GNS: Quotations, week 18
I cannot smell mothballs because it's so difficult to get their little legs apart.
Steve Martin
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The idea of intellectual fitness is not one that sits well with most Americans. For one thing, the word intellectual gets a bad rap. Many people see it as some sort… Read full post »
What It Feels Like When You Know You Mean Nothing
I heard this yesterday on the radio. As soon as I heard the story, I knew that I should blog about it. But the second thought that came into my head was, "and say what, exactly?" The same things I've said many, many times before?
The story is this:… Read full post »
GNS: Quotations, week 17
I have been reading student papers all week. Most of them have been remarkably good, and I have to say, by giving them the opportunity to turn in rough drafts ahead of time, what I've received as final papers are the best set of essays I've ever graded. It's making the… Read full post »
Why Can't Teenage Girls Enjoy Sex?
This month's Atlantic brings us another piece of intellectual sophistry by the feminist contrarian Caitlin Flanagan. Ms. Flanagan considers herself a feminist, and while there is virtually nothing she and I agree upon, I have long argued that feminism is a multi-faceted set of beliefs, not some singl… Read full post »
Dear Governor Paterson and NY Legislature
So, through a series of bad decisions, including investing a lot of the state's money in Wall Street, you've managed to run the ship of state straight onto the shoals of bankruptcy.
You were supposed to have a new budget ready by April 1, but because you've never gotten a… Read full post »
GNS: Quotations, week 16--Kerry's birthday
My daughter, Saoirse, returned from India on Wednesday, and since then it feels as if nothing's wrong in my world. I'm so happy to have my world traveler back, and the lessons she's already started to teach me have been astounding. I have become her pupil, and I am humbled.… Read full post »
Comment Spam
This is more of a query than a post.
Increasingly, the comments section of my posts are being taken over by spam. I have been diligent about deleting it, but in the past 24 hours, each time I have deleted a batch of comment spam, a new batch has replaced… Read full post »
My father has been a royal pain in the ass for the past several
years. It has (mostly) not been his fault. He has been without
medical insurance (he is self-employed) and both he and my mum have
struggled to only go to the doctor when it's absolutely
necessary.
Dad's 68,… Read full post »
GNS: Quotations, week 16
I have come to enjoy going through my various quotation collections and picking some out for each Sunday. I wish I could say that they have a theme, or something that ties them together. Instead, I'll just say that each one strikes me as containing some nugget of wisdom and/or humor,… Read full post »
Because I Say So: The Dangerous Appeal of Moral Authority by Nikki Stern. (Bascom Hill Books: 2010)

On September 12, 2001, Nikki Stern woke up to find that she was both a widow, and, by virtue of the fact that her husband, Jim Potorti, had died in the… Read full post »
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Memorial Day Song
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Reading About the History of the Yankees
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Making peace with the Point
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Oso Remote Gallery - 5th Level - Puget Soundings
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Nazi Muff-Diving: It Could've Happened Here
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In defense of "nappy" hair
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For Memorial Day: "Let There Be Light"
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What Memorial Day Reminds Us Of: Most Important Citizens

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