Have you and your partner noticed that your sex life has lost the initial zing, that exciting zest- the romance and passion is gone? Naturally as the years go by most couples, the passion that was abundant in the beginning and the desire that was prevalent back then begins to fade noticeably. What happened? The answer is simple it is the lack of foreplay, which can spice up your sex life.
We all look for ways to make sex more adventurous and more exciting then just the normal routine. Here is a few lists of somethings to make your sex life more extremely exciting, bringing out the creative side of sexual foreplay.
Foreplay is an extremely important in the lovemaking act. It is foreplay that gets us stimulated and aroused to the point of ecstasy. Many of the lucky ones who do reach orgasms will tell us that the most of their time spent in bed was spent in foreplay.
It is important to be aroused before the actual act of intercourse begins. Foreplay leaves us willing, ready, and excited.
First off the sex doesn’t have to be in the bedroom. There are so many places in your house or other places that you can use and make for more fun. So I have come up with some suggestions to spice up you sex life. Feel free to add your own suggestions in your comments, the more ideas the more fun.
Living room- floor or couch
Kitchen-counters or table
Bathroom-shower or counter and even the stool
Laundry room- dirty sex is more fun and not just for dirty clothes.
Car or truck- go parking and act like teenager again there is so many places you can park and not get caught. I can name a lot of places out in the country.
Out in nature- find a perfectly good tree or skinny dip in the river and have heated sex on the riverbank
Elevators- push the emergency stop button and have fun.
Take the stair well to a busy building-you have all the time in the world because no one uses the stair well anymore.
On a boat- let him take you literally on the boat and then go fishing.
Dark hall of a busy pub or bar that on one goes into.
Bathroom stall in any restaurant, bar
Dressing rooms- at a clothing store.
Garage in the car when it is park in there or on a workbench
In an office- on the desk doing it on faxes it sometimes so exciting.
Dark alley way- this is better when it is rainy
On your front porch
On your back deck or front deck
In your back yard after dark around midnight is the best time.
In a chair with you straddle over him
In a barn nothing like doing it in the hay
On the dock of a lake after dark- now this is really exciting.
Back of a pick up truck under the stars.
In the car or truck going down the highway-road head is very exciting and adventurous
Doing it in the rain during a thunder storms outside
Go to a park or rest area along the highway and do it on the pinic table.
Fun things to use and do:
Experimenting with different things and food can make your sex life so heated with passion you will not ever forget it.
Creamy peanut butter (make sure it isn’t chunky your man will be too sore)
Saran wrap and baby oil
Butter Scotch Schnapps
Hot Damn Schnapps even adds more heat
Hum the "Star Spangle Banner"- he will shoot off like rockets. It also works for her too.
Ribbons to tie each other up
Enticing the skin with the gentle touches of your fingertips
Go down the back slowly barely touching the skin with your lips so only your breath in felt
Paint – painting each other bodies
Lobster dinner with the garlic butter (at home is the best)- is a sensual pleasure you will never forget
Erogenous zones: (There are so many hot buttons on the body that can get a person very aroused.)
If your lover touches you with their hands, or their tongue, you automatically feel your heart beating faster and pleasure shooting through your body. Men and Women have many erogenous zones and some are the same.
Wrist- The inner part of the wrist is very sensitive to touch. If you barely graze this area with your fingertips or your lips, you’ll have your partner melt.
Neck- The lower part of the neck is also a sweet spot that can be stimulated erogenous zone. Let your lips do the touching of the neck starting from behind the ear. Keep kissing gentle and light between your lips and your partners neck.
Ears- You may be surprised that the ear could be a significant erogenous zone. Run your fingers over the edge of the ear, lightly blowing or whispering in the ear while you’re making out could make you partner extremely hot. Avoid using the tongue too much though it can be a real turn off to have a wet ear.
Lips- Kissing isn’t just important is establishing an intimate connection before hitting the sheets; it’s also a way to turn up the heat. Both men and women have loads of nerves in ending in their lips, so they are highly sensitive. When kissing always start off gently so your lips barely touch, then gradually move up to more intense kissing.
Feet- Not everyone feels comfortable with their feet, But the feet is full of receptors that will send pleasure coursing through their bodies if you touch them just right. A gentle massage works well, or, if you don’t mind, you could work your mouth in the game to really make things hot.
Back- The back is covered in erogenous zones. Some parts are going to be generating a stronger reaction then others. When you are just starting to learn these hot buttons, take a feather and the very fingertips. Use the feather or very tips of your figure tips to move slowly and softly across, and up and down, your partners back. When your partner reacts, then you’ve just hit an erogenous hot spot. Take note of those hot spots and give them lots of attention.
You should focus on these erogenous hot spots. As things progress- and you’ll know when they do- you can begin paying attention to more intimate erogenous zones, such as the inner thighs, the butt, the chest, the penis or the clitoris. The main point is to enjoy each other through intimate touching to get you both aroused.
Making physical contact through touch, signals increased intimacy between lovers. Anytime you get a chance to make physical contact you are extending foreplay between you and your partner. By keeping the sexual touching light and gentle enough to sends goose bumps up and down your partner’s spins, you’ll be one step closer to making your partner excited and HOT!!
Sharing sexual fantasies and erotic dreams with each other can only lead to a more satisfying and steamy sex life. Experimenting with your creativity and imagination is the only way to find absolute and constant sexual bliss. So whether you’re posing as a dominatrix or your rubbing ice up and down each other’s body, experimenting and exploring with fetishes can be absolutely fulfilling and orgasmic. Adequate and loving physical contact, sexual or non-sexual, is a prerequisite for a healthy, fulfilling, and mature relationship. Human bodies require touch for various reasons. Touching is a natural therapy. It relieves stress, making us happier.