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OCTOBER 26, 2011 6:51PM

Survival of the Flippist

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I am new here and it is probably too soon to be writing this, but I want to say thanks. I wouldn’t say the Open Salon crowd saved my sanity. My sanity is long past it’s consume by date. But this crew has made my days a lot less desperate. The world I’m living in is mostly inarticulate and nearly illiterate, sort of the opposite of this group. I am in awe of some of the writing I see hear. My heart is touched by many of the stories told here.

Occasionally I read posts that refer to a Golden Age of Open Salon. I’m sympathetic. The world is always changing and falling in love with it doesn’t slow it down. There are mean people everywhere, even in our sanctuaries. The truth is that mean people seek sanctuary too. But if this is the brass age, I’ll take it. I will get my ass kicked from time to time. I always do and sometimes I deserve it. I will make mistakes. Some people will forgive me and some will not. But this is an intoxicating sea to swim in.

There is wit and heartbreak, sincerity, vulnerability and first rate bullshit in this little world. I know I wear my heart on my sleeve, but I don’t usually fall in love with entire communities. Be my valentine or kick my ass. Either way you make me happy.

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Hang in there Fish, it took me six months for anyone to even know I was here, and I did some crazy shit to get attention. Keep writing my friend and do not take "NO" for an answer. Talent wills out ever time. Of course, in my case, I just worried the hell out of everyone, hah~~
I know you're here and I actually read the "In Case You Want to Know What We Really Think" but just before finishing I got a work call, then spaced out. You've got a lovely ode up there and I'm glad the two of us bumped into each other. I've also read quite a few posts about "Golden Age of Open Salon" -wish I had been there then. You're right, everything changes for better or worse. I'm glad you enjoy it here and it lifts your spirits. You have good posts and you leave good comments (way better than most!) - I hope more people find you soon.
Welcome, Fish. I was scared shit-less when I started blogging here in January, afraid of being exposed or criticized too harshly, etc., etc., but you will find your bearings and you shall prevail. Keep writing. -Erica
Scanner and Charlie,

You know, this is a bit like dancing with a really good partner. I always feel like I got the better deal. I get to watch her, she has to look at me.The first thing I do when I get home is look to see if you two have posted something.

Erica,

Thanks for the encouragement. But honestly, I have days on Open Salon when more people read my writing than in all my life up to now combined, (not including course work). This would be sufficient. Dayenu as some people say.
eh, i was there for the golden age and it looked pretty much like this. i love what you wrote...you put it perfectly
Rated. I'm sort of new here, too. These are really great people.
Hmmm. I guess I missed the Golden Age. Have no idea what that would look like. But maybe I don't want to know, since it seems to be gone, gone, gone.
Julie, Phyllis and Barbara,

Thank you for your posts. There is often a Golden Age. I find that fascinating. Along with the Golden Age comes a select group of witnesses, a mourning for the passing of the Golden Age, there is an etiological story that tells us about what the Golden Age was like and when and how it declined. And there are often culprits who precipitated the decline. I wish I had a way to dig into that and understand what it is about. The mourning for the passing of the Golden Age is very painful for some people.
Do you ever get the feeling that the declaration of anthropological discovery of "The Missing Link" was a little premature? More than likely WE'RE it. Let's hope so, 'cause if WE are as good as it gets, the planet is screwed. Thanks for your comment, btw, the appreciation is mutual.
Mariann,

I love the way you talk.