Does Other People's Negativity Get To You?

When other people's negativity gets to you that means you are not okay with other people being the way they are. That means you are not accepting them unconditionally. That means you want them to be different than they are. That means you want to change them. That means you blame them for how you feel. That means you care more about their negativity than you care about feeling good yourself regardless of how other people act and feel..

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How Do I Stop People Making Me Feel Bad?

Question: I wonder if you could help me on this. I keep letting other people's actions and negativity get in my way of feeling good. I know that I shouldn't do this and this is their reality and not mine and it is their responsibility and that my thoughts and my reality are my only real responsibility - but these are people i love and care about. Any ideas about what I should do?

Answer: Maybe you are loving and caring about the wrong people. Loving and caring about people is a choice we make and I choose not to love or care about people who make me feel bad and that includes friends and family members. If the people in your life are making you feel bad that is sure-fire indication that they don't love and care about you.


The Truth Shall Set You Free But First It Will PISS you OFF

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Six (6) Ways To Eliminate The Negative

You eliminate the negative not by fighting it but by dismissing it....

You eliminate the negative not by feeling bad but by focusing on feeling good.

You eliminate the negative not by talking about it but by giving it no voice at all.

You eliminate the negative not by giving it your attention but by withdrawing your attention from it.

You eliminate the negative not by focusing on what you don't want but rather by focusing on what you do want.

You eliminate the negative not by resisting it but by allowing it to pass out of your body like a baby passes gas.

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How you UNDO your GOOD...

When you take an action and then doubt the action you took and try to undo it, you destroy a portion of the good you were in the process of creating. Trying to undo an action, that you thought was a good action in the first place, is a sign that you are coming from fear. And when you take actions coming from fear, you undo the good you created that would normally come back to you multiplied if you didn't undo it...