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Observations From the Swamp Many folks think we live in the nether regions of the earth here in Toledo, Ohio. However, Toledo is the birthplace of jazz great, Art Tatum, not to mention many other distinguished and accomplished AfrAms (African-Americans) who often remain unheralded and unrecognized in their home town. This swamp is a petrie dish swarming with undiscovered talent that the world may never know because there are too many slimey creatures down here in the swamp pulling down anyone who tries to climb out and come out into the warmth of the sun. This diva climbed into the swamp with one purpose - to rid the world of slime!

MAY 17, 2010 2:33PM

Heaven, Hell: It's the Same Place, You Know

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Imagine an endless eternity filled with nothingness. I've seen this hell in the eyes of developmentally disabled people in a sheltered workshop when there's no work for weeks at a time. Some of the adults, who range in age from 22-over 50, color handouts or the pages of coloring books. Seeing this for the eight years I worked in this setting, I was inspired to write my first curriculum guide, MOVING FROM CRAYONS TO CRITICAL THINKING, my best-selling book.


Heaven and hell are all a matter of prefence. A true masochist would consider spending eternity with a pitchfork-wielding tormenter heaven, not hell. The utopian vision of heaven may not be a real paradise to most humans considering Iceland's disparaties. Some years ago there was a story on "60 Minutes" about the idyllic country that has almost no crime but the highest percentages of alcoholism in the world.

Humans seem to thrive on conflict at some level. The title of this post is from the play I just did. If it's true, there's probably one person at least in that sheltered workshop whose idea of heaven is coloring all day; and, apparently, many Icelanders' idea of hell is paradise.

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I don't know enough about Iceland to really get the reference, but I can understand what you are saying perfectly. Good piece. And right on. Heaven and Hell both are states of mind.
So how do we know paradise? I know that the constant harp playing would be a cardinal sign of a hell for me. Paradise is right here for me most days. I can't imagine anything better than being with those that I love and any place they weren't, would be hell for me.

P.S. Feel free to tell me I told you so if that whole heaven thing goes down too.
Hell is regret and silence. Heaven is meaning fufilled. Purgatory, however, is being subjected to shakespere as told by a duck.
You're right, HenryR! I think we experience both during our lives, just as Bobbot points out. After I left my high-pressured management job with all the back-stabbing among the managers and the Machiavellian tactics of our administration, I experienced complete nirvana for months. That was my heaven!

Doug, you are too funny!
Earthy Heaven and Hell are all in the mind. Icelanders are to drunk to rob each other, so if a NYer looked at just the crime stats he might think it would be awsome to live there.

Do humans thrive under conflict? You're damn right we do. How many wait until the last minute to get ready? Take on more of a load at work? Climb Everest?
Rockets and jets came from war. We might not have landed on the moon without WW2. Nuclear power came from atomic bombs. Wagons came from war chariots.
Man!! The list is endless!
For me, being in the same place for too long, no matter how wonderful and beautiful it is, might be hell and heaven would have to be an evolving reality or perception. Something interesting to think about. R.
Two Thumbs, you are so on point - so far everyone commenting on this post has nailed it! That line about Icelanders being too drunk to rob eac other had me FOTFLMAO and, believe me, I have a bug ass, so that's a lot of laughing. Not to mention the arthritis in my knees tha makes falling on the floor quite painful. Thanks for making me laugh out loud for the first time in two days - been home alone with my thoughts, my idea of paradise.
God, Terry, I want to spend eternity with you! You guys are awesome thinkers - where are the ladies, I wonder. I'm sure they've pondered this question, too.
Actually, it's because it's too freaking cold and dark to go out and rob people most of the time. :)
The alcoholism stats are off. It doesn't account for Cultural Differences. If you go by the US definition of alcoholic, ie Is there a pattern to your drinking? Then I would be an alcoholic because I have a drink on holidays and when I go on vacation.
Yes, there are true alcoholics who need and recieve treatment. But it's comparing apples and oranges. It would be like saying Italy or France is full of alcholics because of all the wine with dinner.

Iceland has some of the toughest drunk driving laws. Strong beer wasnt legal until the late 1980's. Sales of hard liquor and suicide rates dropped when the law passed.
The crime rate is low because laws are tough. Life can be tougher on the island in the middle of the sea. Earthquakes, volcanos, storms, long winters in darkness. It requires more cooperation than you may see in other areas.
It may seem like hell to some, for me it is heaven.
How do we now we are not in hell know?
That's what someone asked me.
BTW your mini tribute will be posted at 245 PST.
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Oops. I think I have hoof in mouth.
I poked fun at Icelanders and we have an Icelander on OS. I was attempting to work Diva's ass with a little humor, and in my defense I didn't know they had "internet" (did I type that slow enough) in Iceland:o

(my sarcasm is going to be the death of me one of these days)
Thanks gfor the insight, Poppi! The story on "60 Minutes" didn't report any of this. They actually said the weather in Iceland is great and that it's rarely cold there. So much for TV news. Now I feel bad for laughing about Two Thumbs joke. I was convinced that I was a wino in college because instead of going out with my friends who were sexually active, I got a bottle of Boonesfarm and got drunk every Saturday night. Now I have dozens if bottles of unopened wine in my house just to prove I'm NOT. You're about the definition of alcoholism being culture.

Thanks again for enlightening me!
I believe some of us are, Linda!

Mea culpa, too, Two Thumbs. I forgot and now I feel bad for laughing so hard. I know what it's like to have your wife of life and culture ridiculed and I like Poppi way too much to ever do thatvto her. Actually, I don't approve of putting other people's cultures down regardless of how I feel about them. Shame on me!
Of course we have internet, it was invented by the elves and it runs on geothermal power!
Geothermal AND elves? You're right! Iceland is heaven - hear that, God? I want to spend eternity with Poppi! Sorry, Terry.
the elves do not make cookies, you can't have it all. :)
What other posters said.. Heaven and hell are subjective. Coloring with crayons all day would be heaven for me.
We can buy them at the store when we go to buy wine. It'll be nice being able to leave doors unlocked like when I was a kid in our ranch in Texas. My brothers and I are thinking about getting geothermal energy there and windmills and solar panels. Umm. Can you spend eternity in more than one place? Winters in Texas and summers in Iceland does sound heavenly.
I've got just the place for you to spend eternity, greenheron. I'll make sure you get an endless supply of crayons and coloring pages. I have a feeling you won't be alone.
I agree entirely with Terry W. Too much of anything bores me to tears. I cannot even construct what my idea of a heaven would be like.
Lezlie
very true. i'm sure someone's idea of heaven would be my idea of hell. I'd give examples, but don't want to offend anyone:) maybe heaven, if it exists, will actually be tailored to the individual. now wouldn't that be perfect.
You're right, Diva -- it's all about perception!! (See how fast the idea of Iceland just turned in your mind??!!) So the question is, now what are we doing with our perception???
Wow! And I thought the guys were deep! Thanks for weighing in, ladies.

Julie, the perception is the key, and lemonpulp, based on our perception and personal preferences, I think each of has the perfect heaven (or hell) tailor-made for us just as you said. L, I think we spend our lives figuring out what we really want and sometimes dies before we do, hence we face hell - but as Julie can tell you, not for eternity because we continue to learn and evolve in the afterlife. If we figure out what gives us bliss before we die, we're already in heaven

Believe it or not, all if this was stated through dramatic dialog in the play I just did, which was written in 1923, the year my father was born. Yet, we are still discussing them 87 years later - the age my father would be if he were alive. I saw him in dreams after he died, three times. The first time he was in a room the color of twilight and showed it to me with pride. He was at peace. The third time he came to a bus or train station where I was awaiting departure to make sure I was all right. I don't remember the second dream and after the third one, I've never dreamed if him again. I also saw my best friend in a dream in a field of wildflowers with all the dogs she and I had owned over the years. That was one of the things we had in common, our love of dogs.

I'm not waiting until I die to find heaven. That's why I've cut people and things out of my life that make it hellish. I don't expect joy, peace, and love constantly. But I plan to get as much as I can of all three while I'm here and even more when I'm not.
Diva! You're just so awesome!! (My word of the moment, thanks to some memories!) Exactly so tuned in!

I'm sure your dad was off to do some other fabulous things, somewhere where he's not quite as in touch here -- but twilight is always such a Beautiful color of day -- for so long, my favorite, and it must have been nice to Know your dad was looking after you!

Wildflowers are always a dream-place for me, and I'm betting you'll be seeing your friend and the dogs there again! (Such Lovely visions to send you, from both of them!)

Love, Julie
You're exactly right, Julie. I love twilight and I'm always wary when I travel. So it was reassuring to see my father in that setting. Wildflowers are my favorite, so I know my bff sent me that vision. I was told once while visiting a local spiritualist church that grandmother is always with me, too. I feel her presence and ask all three of my deceased loved ones to intercede for me when I'm
depressed or struggling on this plane.

Thanks for affirming what I feel spiritually.
My grandmother, the woman - a Pentecostal
minister - who brought me back to the Christ
spirit, and my bff were all shamans like you.
I've missed having one in my life since they all departed from this plane. Thanks.
Such a Lovely conversation here with you, Diva!! Ah, the pleasure... And you're so wise to already be Living this, as I would wish for anyone to know about. (It's a total game-changer, from being without it, dontcha think?! For me, anyway...)

May you feel your Loved ones' presence, especially in the joyful moments!! (They'll just take you, us, all higher and higher!)

Nice to learn about your grandmother, too! My latest post is on Poppi's open call, and I didn't mention that before my friend, John, appeared, as I was reading Sylvia's book on the other side a little earlier that night, that I had a vision of Jesus appear -- warm, smiling, in the brightest golden Light... It surprised me, and I remember telling a friend of mine who's very Catholic (Boston is steeped in Catholicism, with Old World flavor) that I was a little taken aback at how -- sexy, say, he appeared. As in, that pure, magnetic energy flowing through... My friend said, "Oh no. When you hear of the visions of the Virgin Mary, they say the same thing."

When I first went to see Amma of India for her blessing, too, she asked Jesus to clear my burdens. (Oh -- and he did, noticeably, Beautifully.) She was speaking in Malayalam, which it took me a week or so to find the translation for. She knew I had been visualizing Him in the ceremony, since I didn't know at the time who Devi was... (And there were a lot of New England, WASP-y-appearing people like me there who were Hindu, possibly due to Knowing her, so it wasn't a given...)

So I've always had Jesus right there, guiding me to specific areas of more and more Spirit across the spectrum, which is my natural inclination...

Thanks so much for this here! And so much more is coming to you, Diva!! Ask, and it is given!!
And thank you, Julie, for sharing your light. Namaste.
Heaven would be hell, if all you did was sit around and play harps! I have to agree with Poppi. From everything I have ever read about Iceland, they have much stricter liquor laws than we do. But if they are happy, then what does it matter? Heaven to me would be being able to see every inch of this earth we now live on. It could take many lifetimes just to do that. Hell would be spending eternity here in Florida!
I don't think I could deal with harps and clouds for eternity, I would get bored. I think we all would be bored and runaway!
I don't know who created the story about angels playing harps and humans turning into angels in heaven. I suspect heaven expanded on some of the misconceptions and popularized them. I'm no theologian, but my understanding of the biblical heaven is that it is devoid of musical instruments because they were all given to Lucifer when God created him and when he left heaven, he took them with him. However, there is music there, but it is made by angels' voices. Speaking of angels, they are a different species from humans and do not have the cache we have. According to the bible, humans are made a little lower than angels spiritually, which just means we're earthbound and aren't in touch with our spiritual powers in the way that spiritual beings like angels. But we have powers no angel could ever have. We love, feel, have senses, and are capable of both great good and great evil. Biblical descriptions of angels aren't the cute little cherubs we see on greeting cards or beautiful winged creatures. They are fearsome looking creatures in their natural state and appear as
human when bringing messages.

There are books about people's encounters with angels or messengers who appear and disappear at will. I think my next post will about my encounter with an angel and one I had with a demon.
Btw, Poppi, if all they did was sit around playing harps, I'd run away, too. And, Henry, I agree about Florida. Too humid!
That was Kenny, not Henry, Diva. And I gotta agree with him on Florida, having made a few trips there. Especially during love bug season! Copulating love bugs pay no attention to traffic. (Of course, I've been told that neither do we, but we usually get out of traffic first.) The front of your vehicle will look like a carpet before you get to your destination.
Sorry, guys! Henry, I've heard about those bugs AND the alligators. I'd rather avoid both!