FROGTOWN DIVA

Divas Don't Hop, But We're Hip!

FrogTown Diva

FrogTown Diva
Location
Toledo, Ohio, USA
Birthday
September 23
Bio
Observations From the Swamp Many folks think we live in the nether regions of the earth here in Toledo, Ohio. However, Toledo is the birthplace of jazz great, Art Tatum, not to mention many other distinguished and accomplished AfrAms (African-Americans) who often remain unheralded and unrecognized in their home town. This swamp is a petrie dish swarming with undiscovered talent that the world may never know because there are too many slimey creatures down here in the swamp pulling down anyone who tries to climb out and come out into the warmth of the sun. This diva climbed into the swamp with one purpose - to rid the world of slime!

SEPTEMBER 30, 2010 1:42PM

Who Needs eHarmony? My Compatibility Tags for Tagged.com

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TAG #1: Life Goals And Objectives What do you most want out of life? ___A Successful Career ___A Happy Relationship You Would Rather __Have a Great Job __ A Great Relationship ___Both, You’re Greedy You’re Willing to ___Re-Locate for a Relationship __To Give it up if it Means Moving Your Job/Career Means More to You Than ___Anything ___Everything but Your Partner A Good Relationship Means More to You Than ___Your Job___Your Family___Nothing TAG #2: Most Attracted To Are you more likely to date ____A Fashion Model/Athlete ____The “Before” in A Diet Ad Your Favorite Body Type is ___Thin ___Muscular___ Average ___Curvy __Very Large Your Idea of Beauty is Based On ___Celebrity Heart Throbs ___What Turns You On You Are Attracted to a Particular Body Type ___Just for Sexual Pleasure ___In All Ways You Pursue Your Favorite Body Type ___Secretly ___Openly ___For Sex ___For Love TAG #3: Personality/Style How would you define your personality? __Outgoing __Friendly __ Shy__ Withdrawn To Connect with Someone You ___Hope He/She’ll Notice___Flirt___Ask Him/Her Out You Have a Style That Is ___ Subdued ___Conservative ___Trendy ___Flamboyant/Wild You’d Never ____Give a Stranger Your Phone #/YM ___ Have Sex On the First Date Or You Would ____ Chat on a Web Cam With a Stranger ___Have a One-Night Stand TAG #4: Romantic/Sexual Needs What’s most important? ____ Feeling Loved and Giving Love ____Sexual Satisfaction Romance is ___Not Important ___ Foreplay for Sex ___Very Important ___ All There Is Sexual Needs are ____ Most Important ___ More Important Than Romance ___ Equally Important with Romance ____ A Necessary Part of Any Relationship ___ Don’t Matter To be Satisfying Sex Must Be ___ Frequent ___Adventurous ___ With Different People TAG #5: Communication How do you express yourself?___Talk about things___Write About Things___ Neither Tell Someone How You Feel About Him/Her With __Music__Cards__Poems__”I Love Yous” If Angry You___ Talk About it___Go Somewhere & Calm Down___Keep it Bottled Up Rather ___Chat online___Web Cam ___Send Texts__Talk on Phone__Talk Face-to Face Send Tags/Comments to __Express True Feelings__To Get Attention__Because It’s Fun TAGE #6: Home/Family Life What do you prefer? ___Apartment Living___Single -Family Dwelling with Yard___ Home is for ___Family Activities ___Meals & Sleeping ___ Social Activities ___Work Enjoy Living ___ Alone ___ With…Friend or Relative ___ Romantic Partner___ Family Domestic Chores you do ___ Cooking, ___Laundry ___Floors ___Wash Dishes ___Dust Domestic Chores won’t do ___Cooking ___ Laundry ___Floors ___Wash Dishes __Dust TAG #7: Entertainment/Fun What do you like? ___Staying home and watching TV/DVDs ___ Going Out for Fun Favorite Food/Place to Eat ___ Homecooked meal at home ___ Cuisine at Popular Eatery Favorite Home Games ___Playing Cards, Drinking Beer ___ Board Games/Video Games Favorite Family/Couple Activities ___Watching a Movie at Home ___Going to a Movie __Listening to CD ___Going to a Concert___Cuddling on the couch___Going for a Walk TAG # 8: Spirituality/Beliefs Do you define yourself as ___Deeply Spiritual___Somewhat Spiritual___Not Spiritual? Your Beliefs are Based on Your ___Religion ___ Patriotism ___ Personal Moral Code If Choosing a Mate Spirituality/Religious Beliefs Would be ___ a Priority ___No Problem Religious Beliefs Other Than Yours are ___Not Acceptable to You ___Accepted by You To Express Your Beliefs You ___Attend Religious Services___ Pray___ Meditate__ Give TAG #9: Sports/Recreation Which are you? ___Spectator ___Player Favorite Games ___Football___Basketball___Baseball___Golf___Boxing___Soccer Favorite Activities___Bowling__Fishing__Boating__Hiking__Swimming__Skiing Favorite Sports Channels __ESPN__ABC__NBC__CBS__FOX Favorite College Team________________Favorite Pro Team_________________ I sent CompatibilityTag#1 to all of my male friends on Tagged after getting a great response to a poll question. I could only send one at a time, so I posted all nine on my profile page and on the group page for Urban Campers on Tagged. One of my friends, an eager young GI stationed in Germany completed all nine CT's and it seems we are 95% compatible - his favorite sports activities and mine were not compatible and neither was his favorite college team. I had fun creating the Tags and hope they'll be used on Tagged. I think I'll put them in a book along with my "Relationship Resume," complete with a guide to analyzing each. Might as well make the most of my single life!

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This is clever...I would hope it would be the beginnings of a dialogue and not the whole thing...knowing you it would.
Thanks, David and Buffy. You're exactly right about this opening dialog! Had a one-hour conversation this morning with one of my male friends and text/email conversations with others all day! This isn't the first time I've dialogues with guys on Tagged but the tone of the conversation seems to be changing and efforts are definitely being made to impress that these guys have more on their minds than sex. I'd hope for more dialog between the men and their other women friends as well as me. There's so much disrespect toward women. I don't tolerate it, but many women do. Some 300 lb+ woman's spreadeagled naked body is being sent all over the Internet as a joke. I'm sure this woman was asked by whoever took the pose for it and thought that person wanted a photo of her in that position because he thinks she's desirable and sexy. I asked the guys on my list what they are looking for when they friend someone they consider sexy what do they expect to happen. One said he hoped for compatibility. That was the impetus for the creation of the compatibility tags, not a desire to compete with eHarmony. I hope if men on dating sites primarily looking for sex (at least 75% of them from my brief experience on Tagged) will start thinking of the women on those sites as people they might like to get to know as human beings. At least 25% of the men I've met on Tagged are already there and I'm doing my best to get the rest of my little group of male friends to that place, not just for my sake, but for the sake of all the women they approach.
You are exemplifying what the roots of real discourse leading to any possible sex are.
Men everywhere should pay attention and then follow through.
Hollow hearts lead more often than not to useless, hollow sex deeds.
Thanks for pointing that out online.
You go girl!
R for that, btw
Thanks, PW! I thought about writing a guide for men on how to give women what we want in order to get what they want!;). One of my male friends could be the prototype. He's doing everything right so and may turn me into a cougar. Grrrrrrrr!