From the Midwest

From The Midwest

From The Midwest
Location
North Carolina,
Birthday
September 29
Title
CEO
Company
Never Give Up! Never Doubt Goodness and that Includes YOU!
Bio
Former English teacher-artist from the Midwest and just another statistic of "The Great Recession." Life goes on . . .

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OCTOBER 26, 2009 10:59AM

An Update on Me

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 Since I left Michigan in April much has happened and I haven't really had time to post anything. And right now, I don't really have a computer or connections to do so.

 Suffice it to say . . . . since April I had been living with my sister and her family in North Carolina. Around July I finally received a phone call for a job--at a grocery store in the fresh food dept. I grabbed it. The pay sucks but it's basically mindless and kind of fun. I'm the person who prepares those rotisserie chickens you love. And I slice your cold cuts and prepare the wonderful little deli conncoctions like slaw and potato salad. I even make subs.

A wonderful neighbor gave me some money to use to find an apartment (yes, there really are kind people out there) and at the beginning of the month I found my own digs and moved out of mys sister's home. Two weeks ago we all returned to Indiana to retrieve my belongings from storage. My whole family helped with the process and my parents payed for the trailer. My mother was a saint.

On Wednesday, I begin the process of getting my "early retirement" benefits from being a teacher in Indiana. It will be a bit of a penalty but combined with my "salary," it will see me through so I can be on my own again.

For now, I'll stay put where I am at, but I really miss: a) big water and b) my art studio. Those two things will be my goal for the next year or two.

For now I don't have Internet connections, but I do have access via the apt. complex business center.

I'm not out of the woods, yet. But I can definitely see sunlight in the clearing. And I fully realize how very fortunate I've been compared to so many others.

 More later . . . .

 P.S. Chalk is doing GREAT. He now sleeps curled right next to me on the bed--opposite my face. We're an old married couple.

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Yipee!!!
Hi Gary!
I often wonder how you are doing. Glad to hear life is perking along.
BTW, I love my grocery store people and always appreciate the work they do.
Try and stay in touch. I am also happy to hear your mother was a saint-very cool!
Glad to hear the update. BTW, the apple crisp was a hit!
Love the good news. I grew up in Indiana, but my heart is in North Carolina. Keep us posted!
I was so happy to see this post today. I was honestly thinking about you just yesterday and was planning to email you and see how things were going. It sounds like you are back on track and taking things in stride. Even in this short post, I can hear the hope and optimism returning to your voice.
Glad to hear you landed somewhat on your feet. Wondered what had happened to you. Don't forget that coffee shops with free wifi access makes for a pleasant experience.

Here's to you getting your art studio back! Good luck!
Glad to hear that you are getting back on your feet and that Chalk and you have a happy, healthy marriage. xoxo
I admire you so much. Sounds like you are doing well, day by day.
Great to hear from you, and glad that you and Chalk seem to be weathering things well. There's nothing like the love of a good cat to help pull you through!
Glad to hear you are both doing well. I've had several of those mindless grocery store jobs and enjoyed them! Keep us posted!
I've been wondering how things are going for you. I'm so glad you can see the sunlight. Keep on going forward Gary, and if I'm in your neck of the woods, I know who to see for a sub!
Hi Gary good to hear from you and about you. Glad to hear Chalk is fine too.
Hey Gary, so very good to hear from you. We'll wait til you can be back regularly - internet access is expensive around here too. Are you still in the Mooresville area? Hope to catch up with you soon!
I'm glad to hear you and Chalk are doing okay. I had been wondering.
Terrific, Gary! I'm so glad to hear this! I've been wondering how you are doing!

I know you're so happy to have your own apartment and to be on your own. What a nice neighbor, lucky you! The part about your mother is especially nice also, glad it all worked out well for you! Congratulations on your new home and it's great that you and Chalk are doing well. Way to go, Gary!!!
Thanks for letting us know about you.
Good luck on your following steps towards your next goals.
I am so happy you are moving forward with your life. Your strength and optimisim are an inspiration. Please keep us posted - perhaps the public library has internet access?
Ooh, this is so much better than I feared! I'm particularly happy that Chalk is OK. And what a miracle that your mom behaved.

In reading about your job, I flashed on the movie "The Wrestler." That may sound funny but there's a hilarious sequence in the middle when he works the deli counter in a grocery store that you might relate to. warning: rest of movie is very good but parts are quite brutal!
Gary, this is very good news. It doesn't quite sound like heaven but you are making progress and on your own again and I know how important that is to anyone's psyche. Chalk is a good cat and I am so glad that he made the transition well. I guess he decided that "home" was where you are, which is a real commitment for a cat. Glad you have his company. I know I would feel very weird without my cats. They become rather quickly members of the family.

Blessings. & try to stay in touch with us when you can.

Monte
Glad to hear such great news that you are getting on your own and Chalk and you are happy. Great that things are getting better for you. Wishing the best of luck..
Congrats on enduring.
Thanks to everyone for your responses. I'm in the midst of filling out forms for early retirement. Our store is switcing from Dietz and Watson deli meats to Boar's Head. We're actually having meetings and workshops--for cold cuts. So funny.

Can't wait to get my own computer and connection so I can begin to write regularly once again on OS. I miss all of you. Chalk says HI.
I am glad to hear you are on your feet again. Stay in touch!
Gary, I haven't been frequenting Open Salon...my classes are too intense, but I am glad I did today...I'm happy you are on your own. It's got to be hard to live with anyone even wonderful family. May God bless your future endeavors.
Sage
At least there's a light at the end of the tunnel and here's hoping it's not the East bound train!! :)

Congrats!!!!
I am glad to hear you are doing well. I think a lot of people could learn from you. Keep on posting....