gail williams

gail williams
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January 01
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Director of Communities
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Salon
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Gail works at Salon. She's a full-time online community junky with a strong affection for Salon's gathering places, Open Salon, the main Salon article Comments, and her first love, The WELL. So mostly her attention goes to conversation. Gail also plays with photography, video, craft brewing, satire, politics and hiking.

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JULY 14, 2009 12:35PM

Appreciating people who reach out: influencers revisited

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3 five year olds, originally posted to my Flickr photostream.

 

About a year and a half ago, “The Tipping Point” got toppled (or at least wobbled) when Duncan Watts challenged the popular concept of powerful Influencers who determine the adoption of trends.

The commentary in response to this heresy was great — one of my favorite exchanges was where a member of a well-known formal influencer program — a Microsoft MVP — replies to Sean O’Driscol, long time leader of that program at Microsoft. I loved this comment in the replies to Sean’s post: “Maybe it’s down to being British but I don’t like being labelled as an influentials/mavens/advocates. Expert isn’t so bad … and Enthusiast is pretty much how I feel about myself… As soon as the 10% is highlighted in some way you have two dangers; 1) their standing as independent in the community is affected … and 2) the way they are treated by the “products” they are enthusiastic about changes.”

I’ve seen this before, in years past at The WELL: “I’m doing this here for free because I want to participate – don’t patronize me.”

Yet anybody who works in online community knows some people do add tremendous value. We know it intuitively, and we have seen it mapped statistically. (Check out slide number 13 in this sequence for an example where Marc Smith’s math identifies desired behavior by individuals in a peer technical help group.)

Now that we are in the year that everybody knows about Twitter, one of the simplest tools mass numbers of people have been able to play with, we seem to be back to a world where we want to count our importance by tallying up a group who are artfully labeled “followers.”

People are putting a good deal of effort into deciding how to count … for example, carefully comparing influential science-content twitter feeds … and into deciding how to display the counts and secondary calculations as a business venture… here’s another one, called “Twinfluence”.

Most of these counts seem to still be thinking in broadcast mode. From years in an online community where actual human influence is much more complex and much less linear, this looks simultaneously like going backwards and like picking up the thread of wanting to see how continuity, attention, context and meaning are developed in a group. One thing that I wonder about in the attempts to quantify Twitter impact is the dilution created by a follower who has your twitter feed mixed into a mighty stream of hundreds followed, versus one who follows a dozen carefully chosen twitter feeds.  I guess I always come back to familiarity and context.

What can we give to those who are providing community connective tissue? I wish we could give ever-improving tools, though in my work we can’t move as swiftly as we’d like to. I wish we could pay a living wage for being part of a community and being fabulous, but that has to be its own reward. It’s neither appropriate or desirable to give money or significant barter items because of tax and labor laws, as AOL learned back in the last century, and as gift economy research has shown. Realistically, in my world, working at Salon.com and specifically with Table Talk and The WELL, the one gift I can give is the genuinely valuable gift of human attention, and of being present. It doesn’t scale very well, though. There’s no simple solution for giving people the attention they deserve. There are times when a nice form thank you letter is appropriate, so long as the mass communication doesn’t have any whiff of spam or propaganda about it. (After all, moden citizens understand that a press conference is all one can realistically expect from a busy government official, for example.) As a rule of thumb the attention has to be unplanned, human and authentic, within the community or privately one to one. But in these online social contexts, at least some of the time, the information we get back when giving that respectful attention has a more profound value than in any other environment.

After all, we do say it’s conversation.

 (A response to the Online Community Tribe call for articles on Influencers in communities... post to the round-up page to participate)

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I suspected early on Open Salon's cover and EPs are not about genius (which is not to say I have it, but I can recognize it occasionally), but the genius is precisely in the connective tissue--the expert one finds in a snippet of a comment or the solace of a word, ripe and perfectly chosen--that indeed remains a challenge to quantify, much less find in the silt of my '49ers commemorative golddiggers pan, but which I would argue is precisely the fresh air new ideas need with which to breathe and exchange bodily fluids.

I've yet to explore the WELL or even Salon much, but I was a huge "Whole Earth" fan. I doubt I'll get to Twittering anytime soon since FB is already mind numbing, but I never say never. For now it's all I can do to keep up with twits who can zing a one-liner as well as update the conversation in paragraphs.
Open Salon does have a lot of social spirit, doesn't it? I posted this lnog old post off-site for another group, but I figured it might relate here at OS, too.

Don't worry much about "keeping up with twits." For me, anyway, admitting I simply can't keep up with a growing crowd of smart energetic and mouthy people was a very important step. It seems like checking in works much better than keeping up.
thanks for this post. I realize I have grown old: could not fathom half the things here, the register is way too unfamiliar ,but got the part abt Well and where you mention gift and connective tissue :)
wonder if anybody from the Well ever come here?
Open Salon is a community in every sense of the word. People touch other people with their words, their word gestures every day. I truly believe most people here want to feel a part of of a larger community, and this site provides a nurturing yet realistic place to say your peace.

There are profound chances to enrich and enjoy your life offered. One must see them and recognize them for the community they bring.

It helps keep me young. That can't be bad.
elegant writing, fine points about the human levels of Big Meme Ideas
Gail, so true. Especially your comment re: "checking in" being easier than "keeping up."

OS is like a commune where everyone needs to pitch in so we can eat our beans and rice at the ends of the day. Too much inauthenticity of lack of reciprocity is tough here. It just doesn't fly. Sometimes its a big obligation - but the payoffs are so worth it.

Human influence IS felt here. Its mandatory, on some levels.
I've always found the feedback I've had here enormously helpful - sometimes it's been to say something I wrote rang true for another person, sometimes people have offered me advice on writing, life, even my health. I live on the other side of the world so I also treasure being able to have a conversation with someone in another country, who might have a totally different set of experiences to call on. And being able to drop in out with thoughts you want to share is wonderful - you never know when something is going to happen that you want to talk about.
We're all experimenting as we remake the concept of community from a tribe of similar people into a a world of people we may never meet, but who we "know" intimately through conversation and business/personal support. As you say so well, "..the one gift I can give is the genuinely valuable gift of human attention, and of being present. " That's all we can ask of any friend, whether present in flesh or online. Thanks for this post.
Thank you. Your post and the comments it has generated are very comforting to me in that I wanted to stop being a wallflower but found that joining this dance can be daunting. I've witnessed a fair amount of "I'm hipper than thou" behavior on many sites. OS does seem to be a warmer community and I'm glad I chose it as a starting point.
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I really love to see people that help each other. This world can be a miserable place and its nice to see people who really care. This post was inspirational and fun to read.

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Community for sure! There's no arguing that. Whether that was the original plan is questionable. I signed on here with no expectation of friendships, but what a pleasant surprise!
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There is nothing better than a person that really reaches out to help someone else. I run a Miami real estate company and many of our employees really try to reach out and help each other. This is really great
I really do respect people who go out of their way to help others. Its a real gift and I am so thankful.

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I loved The Tipping Point as writing -- his anecdotes are so entertaining -- but looked askance at the science of his conclusions. You give wonderful depth to the debate here.
It's bittersweet, living through the glorious birth of the Age of a Billion Good-Enough Writers. Influence or no, since it's so dilute, I love the riches.
This is great article, I just wish there was an effective way to get more people involved in positive influence especially in our youth.
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What the f*** happened with your comments thread? I haven't seen spambot garbage like that. Did you attract them with the subject? Sorry it happened to you. This was a a worthwhile post.
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i'm starting to feel more and more like i am part of one of those idealistic experiments that will soon come to an end as the forces of commerce move in on it--as is apparently now happening. it endears me to the other pioneers but makes me skeptical about the future. meanwhile, i keep hard copies of all my posts and judge work based on the talent shown rather than the number of clicks.
We're all experimenting as we remake the concept of community from a tribe of similar people into a a world of people we may never meet, but who we "know" intimately through conversation and business/personal support. As you say so well, "..the one gift I can give is the genuinely valuable gift of human attention, and of being present. " That's all we can ask of any friend, whether present in flesh or online. Thanks for this post.
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