gailrae
- Location
- rural town, The Undiscovered
- Birthday
- October 31
- Title
- World Citizen
- Company
- Sure! Come on over!
- Bio
- One year, when my mother celebrated an eighty-something birthday, I looked at her reflection in the bathroom mirror and asked her how old she felt.
"Oh, nine, ten, somewhere in there," she responded.
"Mom," exclaimed my thirty-four-years-younger-than-my-mother-self, "that's how old I feel!"
"That's how old we all feel, if we think about it," she said [Roseanne's mother not withstanding, I silently edited], her mirror image glinting irony back at me.
As it happens, my favorite photo of myself, because it's the only photo that captures how I think my soul would look if a camera snapped it, was taken when I was 10. That's me. Up there. It's how I feel, it perfectly represents my soul, it's how I continue to imagine myself, it's how I will probably always imagine myself. It's how I look. It's who I am.
MY RECENT POSTS
- AmericansElect.org: Left,
Right or Center?
August 01, 2011 06:30PM - Smart Activism or Activism
that Just Smarts a Little?
July 27, 2011 03:07PM - The Rapture Occurred, Contrary
to Popular Perception
May 23, 2011 08:18AM - Please, Let the World End
Tomorrow!
May 20, 2011 10:49PM - Is Arizona a State or a Punch
Line?
April 01, 2011 09:48PM
MY RECENT COMMENTS
- “Tom,
Welcome! Thank
you for visiting my Open Salon
blog!
Well written essay,
inter…”
May 23, 2011 12:29PM - “And, yet, my dear, here
is where you are. I love you,
no
matter where you
are.”
May 20, 2011 10:58PM - “One of my top favorites,
too. I was living in Seattle
when it
ran. The city
was…”
March 30, 2011 01:58AM - “I never thought about
"playing dumb" this way but,
you're
right. It
is…”
December 04, 2010 10:07AM - “OMG, Antkona, you've
gotten your first comment, and
it isn't
me! So cool! You
k…”
November 19, 2010 09:45AM
Gailrae's Links
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AmericansElect.org: Left, Right or Center?
Chances are, within the last week or so, you’ve heard of Americans Elect (americanselect.org). Probably the most well-known promoter of this new political movement is Thomas Friedman in his column in the New York Times, entitled Make Way for the Radical Center, published/… Read full post »
Smart Activism or Activism that Just Smarts a Little?
I'm a right-handed Lefty. If that doesn't make sense, switch to the political side of your brain. You get it, now, right? I'm also a sometime activist, so I'm registered with a lot of progessive groups that favor action along with rhetoric. That means I get a lot of emails ask… Read full post »
The Rapture Occurred, Contrary to Popular Perception
Not being a Christian, noticing who was left is a curiously revelatory exercise for me.
The Pope remains, as does the entire hierarchy of the Catholic Church, including former priests and nuns. I don't suppose this surprises anyone, except, maybe, the Pope, himself.
Every politician and b… Read full post »
Please, Let the World End Tomorrow!
Think of what we'll miss, just those of us who live, tonight, in the U.S.A.:
- The Midwest will be stopped in its tracks from turning into a totalitarian-society-within-a-democratic-country.
- Come to think of it, we won't have to endure yet another phony presidential election. What a relief … Read full post »
Is Arizona a State or a Punch Line?
You have to live in Arizona to appreciate the Arizona mentality. Further, you have to develop a sense of humor, a huge one. I do. I do. And, I have. Forget about SB 1070, the immigration bill that garnered nationwide fame by legally codifying racial profiling and continu… Read full post »
Has Libya Helped Obama Find His Pow-wah?
My parents gave birth to four daughters and raised all of us to be distinctly ourselves, so there was never a lack of conflict. Personal, political, emotional, intellectual, physical, you name it, within any particular day at least a few spirited arguments would arise among two or more of us gi… Read full post »
Follow Up to "Chilean Miner Rescue: It's [Not] a Miracle"
This morning, as a result of my immediately previous post having been noticed by someone who works with BBC, I was contacted by BBC's program "World, Have Your Say", a daily global talk show, and asked to participate in today's discussion, "Has the Chile mine rescue been a wa… Read full post »
Catching up on the news on MSNBC
this morning, I heard Chris Jansing declare, while introducing
another segment in the continuing saga of the rescue of the Chilean
miners, "...some are calling it a miracle..."
Does the contraption above [image cou… Read full post »
Oops! Did I Say That?
The Next Time & Energy Wasting Controversy
Take a listen to some what Colin Powell, after describing himself as a "moderate Republican", said on "Meet the Press" this Sunday morning regarding U.S. immigration policy. Did you hear what I heard? "...we have m
…
Real and Really Real Graduation Speeches
The first graduation
speech, below, I wrote for and delivered at a friend's graduation
at a different school than the one at which I was supposed to be
graduating. Don't ask how we managed it. It was
1969. It was Guam. It was possible. I
d… Read full post »
Meatiating the Controversy
Meat, the media and me. Not a pretty picture. Sometimes I
think I'd be better off if I walked away from civilization and was
forced to live off the land. Meat, I console myself, would be
harder to come by, thus, I'd probably eat less of it… Are They Really Like That?
LifeinTexas, This One's For You (and, It
Seems, Me)
I like contrarians. Whether they're reasoned or rasty, somewhere in their reaction I can always find something I missed, something that piques my curiosity and starts me off on another, usually fruitful, search.
LifeinTexas performed that fun… Read full post »
I was raised on Guam (recently renamed Guahan, which I will
use from this point on to refer to the island, except to be true to
citings) during the 1960’s through the early
1970’s. The man who drove the bus on which I rode to
school in the early 1960’s was… Confession of a Toxic Friend
Tuesday of this week I received a
blanket email from a very long time friend:
My New Year's Resolution for 2010 is to divest myself of all my toxic friends. I consider you a toxic friend. I will no longer be contacting you. Please make no further attempts… Read full post »
This Is a Test
To President Obama and the 220 Congress People who voted to pass H.R. 3962:
If H.R. 3962 or any similar legislation is signed into law instead of universal single payer health care, may you and all members of your families, immediate and extended, be obligated to recei… Read full post »My Personal Chainsaw Massacre
"I've fallen in love with
chainsaws!"
Those were the words I used to describe to a friend the exhilarating day I spent yesterday, courtesy of my nephew, using a chainsaw to size a couple of dead down trees on my property into firewood.
Yesterday wasn't my first chainsaw… Read full post »
Long Time Coming
It's been awhile. I can't excuse my absence, but I can explain. Recovering from my mother's death has been a harder, more circuitous road than I expected. I seemed to have imagined that when she died I'd pick up where I left off but, as many of us know, life… Read full post »
I'm Not Really an Asshole, I Just Look Like One
Fatal Bravery Remembered, Considered & Honored
Some years ago, when upset with city, state or federal government and feeling powerless to do anything, I'd entertain a meticulous fantasy in which, prior to a scheduled, all-inclusive government event, I'd infiltrate the building used for council or legislative meetings, pla… Read full post »
Foodie (Mistakes) Tuesday: Iguana Salad and Me
My mother hated to cook, so my sisters and I became accomplished
cooks. One Sunday my sister Robin decided to include in her menu
homemade Thousand Island dressing.
It looked delicious. We dressed our salads eagerly.
&nbs… Read full post »
Disorder Dramarama
Today I met and spoke with the author of the longest selling (12 years), most popular how-to book on life organization. The book covers all types of organization from outer space to inner space. She, a few others and I were discussing her book from a writer's pers… Read full post »
"Hello, we're sorry we missed you."
Just a few minutes ago I answered my phone. The number on my caller ID indicated that the call was coming from my state capital's newspaper. I recently cancelled my subscription in favor of the local paper. I figured they were calling to settle my account.… Read full post »
That's right,
"Yikes!" It's what the "Host" in the Caregivers
segment of HBOs The
Alzheimer's Project said when Chuck, a care recipient with
Early Onset Alzheimer's, reported that 12 out of 14 of his maternal
grandparents' children died of Alzheimer's, including… Read full post »
Riposte: Do I HAVE to write about "Oprah twitter"-ing?
Forgive this shameless riposte/repost, but on May 7, 2009, I wrote a post that is a great fit for the Open Call subject "How you can build your blogging audience" and I couldn't pass up the opportunity to respond with it. Unfortunately, since I'd already published it, this is… Read full post »
The Alzheimer's Project: Alzheimer's 101a, b & c
When I first heard about
The Alzheimer's
Project through the preliminary ads hawking it on HBO, I was so
alarmed I immediately contacted a friend who is responsible for the
website The Tangled
Neuron, which has been the source of and guide for almost all
my dementia i… Read full post »
Updates
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Nazi Muff-Diving: It Could've Happened Here
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You Can Not Hide Those Lion Eyes
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"I don't feel like a hero."
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Accelerated Memorials
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What I'd Like To Know
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NY Times Reviews My Student's Film Abt His Mental Illness
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My Book Plus More Writing Exercises...
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Quebec Student Protests: What the Red Square Means

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