Back during the days when there were local undertakers, multitudes of coffins were made at home. I wanted to build my Mother's a homemade coffin when I knew Mom was about to depart the terrestrial realm of this Earth.
The coffin was wild cherry, lined with soft cotton, lace, and the local funeral parlor let me have a small satin baby pillow. The beautiful wood coffin was constructed from the same-same cheery tree that I built the computer table with.
The elegant coffin was a very simple design. The side boards were the white wood from the tulip poplar tree. The cheery top coffin boards were glued in my woodshop. The lid had a white 5- star symbol on it. The sideboards of the burial box that contained my deceased Mother's corpse was the era's Civil War shape.
The bent-kerf sideboards had four brass handles. The corpse of my Mother fit perfectly. I would have weeped like a baby if I measured Mom incorrectly.
I'm glad Mom's petite feet didn't hang out of the little coffin. Mom was weighing-in somewhere under ninety pounds when she sighed her last sweet breath.
My jolly hearted Dad knew enormous pain. His West point brother was killed at Andrews Field Air Force Base on Thanksgiving Day (1948). I was one month years old. I was there to greet Uncle Bernard with the rest of the James Family. I can't recall the memory. I was one month old. My Father embraced me.
Two weeks later Dad Mother died on a snow slick road. The car that was transporting my Grandmother and Grandpa (Bebop was a nickname) to West Point to gather-up belongings hit a tree. My Dad's Mom bled from an arterial blood flow.
Grandma died in Grandpa's arms.
My Mother, Frances, died in 2002.
I used interior lace and cotton fabric.
I have photos of the coffin, not shown.
Mother's frail hands were folded gently.
Mother loved violets, rosebuds, and beauty.
Mother spoke of beauty has if to Bless a Earth.
Mother thanked and blessed Nature from a heart.
Mother realized Nature is the source of Everything.
Nature is the source from where all Life keeps flowing.
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I gently nailed nailed the top, the beautiful wild cherry wood, with delicate cheery molding trim. Also, on the lid that displayed the white pointed poplar wood star, I sighed.
The star symbolizes an ancient belief. When sad loss and loneliness was very painful, the spectator of nature would gaze into the heavenliness of realms looking outward yearning to experience special and wonderful, the precious sense of:`
The great kindredness
Thee external symbols
The eternal symbolism
This is Love Memories
There is a mysterious force that is invisible in form and can comfort, transform, and 'touch'
It touches at sad times
This force is everywhere
Mother was so very petite
Nature. Nothing that happens according to beautiful nature is small when contributing back to heath.
Wholeness. Health. Heart.
Everything integrates back.
Mother transcends smallness.
Mother participated in this Life.
Humans can integrate and contribute back into the greater whole wide world. People can affirm Life and know who and why/what they are about. People can participate now, gracefully. Folks can die very peacefully, and eloquently, and display beautiful smiles.
Mother and Father passed from this world of space and time as flowers that appeared briefly. I see other people who touch me/you and exemplify with gracious knowing how we ought to Live.
Supreme good. That is the aim. 'Hamartia' is an old word that simply means:`
It means to aim.
People can 'pass away' with a inner glow that is manifest as a beautiful, and brilliant facial radiance.
Mom said many things.
Word. I'll remain quiet.
Just before She died Mom smiled and said to me these simple words. "I have given my last speech. I know you have loved your mother and your father. Please forgive yourself for wandering off for many years after that damn war. War hurt us all."
I imagined that the angelic world opened to Mother and She, in gracious Spirit, was carried away without words. We can Live and be alive within. People can be certain with private realizations, and complete this grand Earth adventure without fear.
The fact is, one man will bury his mother and someone will bury that man/woman in a sort amount of time. The earth is a sacred burial place and we should/can all care and love for we are here a very brief moment in precious time.
I miss people who have become apart of me. People assimilate and exchange their virtues. Virtues are the inner rich talent and treasures. A writer here reminded me:`
Life pervades everything.
Maybe poetically speaking:`
We all have private sadness
Moments of emotions enrich
Mother loved autumn seasons
at the moment the leaf say bye
see Ya wild cherry tree in Spring!
Nature and Love pervade all Life!
Small acts of Love. A cherry coffin.
A quiet eulogy. Whispering a word.
I gently placed my parents in the grave.
Today. I may just walk to watch leaves.
Rest in Peace. Thanks for inspirations.


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This is beautiful. It is deeply moving. It is a glowing tribute to the love of a mother and of her son.
Often words pale in comparison to feelings. Every author knows this frustration. But here, in this piece, you have given us a glimpse of how feelings and respect and love and nature can be shared and leave the reader grateful for the experience you have so lovingly offered.
Your mother was blessed to have you, as you were her.
Rated and very much appreciated.
but this made me feel something.
Beautiful.
always abide by our human side. They are faithful:`Paraclete:`
from ('kalein'), and simply means to call someone 'out from':`
delusions.
'parakletos' means called to aid us frail and imperfect 'critters' who create our:`
LIFE.
No delusion!
I don't understand!
Who can comprehend?
The amazing discovery?
In my opine:` Open Up!
I say:`See the splendor!
Awaken wonder senses!
Why pursue false Life's?
O? I realize to soar? nod!
snore. bore. but `Que' ah!
what? what permeates, ya?
In King Lear:` or oh, again?
"The Winter's Tale," a great:`
a great creating Nature" and:`
a poet fails to describe it awe`
a honest eye sees bad rascals,
deceits, tricks, thefts, O creep!
a dog looses speech and wags!
a dog is a faithful Friend, ruff!
a day of spacious meads, leaf,
a forrest trek and sacred idea,
a beauteous garden, squash,
a loaf of the bartered bread,
or
hunk of butter cheese wedge,
bits of my own guilty idleness,
huh?
harpie?
and etc.,?
Lead me?
I do swear.
I do declare.
If Ya shake the Treasury Secretary's Tim Geitner's hand, Ya feel Ya shook a fish?
A hand can be limp as a guppy fish? And, a sense Ya shook the lazy bones of a fish?
A human's flesh?
O skin hand scale?
No shake and break?
I no understand this:`
Why not study Small?
Economist Schumacher?
E.F. S. wrote of:`People.
'As If People Mattered.'
'Small is Beautiful' ay yes!
Mass production is ill ruin!
Replace the common sense!
Small is Beautiful is theory:`
E. F. Schumacher (1911-77),
E.F. S. was a good economist,
P.S.
I did shake the treasury/sec's
hand.
Geitner?
I declare?
I understand?
No! paw bone!
limp fish bone!
no muscle skin!
skull bone dead!
Wall Street dead!
O mannequin duh!
Economics confuse!
GMC are car crooks!
CEOs, jihad, capitals!
a ding/dong, the fool!
a monstrous O jingles!
a O, okay, wear hoodies!
trample wheat, invades!
stomp backs and garden!
trample taliban huh? Oy!
a 90% - resent invasions!
send troops home today!
`
Fort Hood was sad news.
In the 1800's young men:`
before cars replaced ox,
mules, donkey, a horse:`
youth would go-off into the 'wild nature' to catch fish, tell the handed-down oral histories,
and get bitten by mosquitos,
and the bloodsucking bugs:`
could transmit encephalitis!
But,
and they caught 173 trout fish!
Trees were cut and silt kills fish!
Today we eat trolled tuna fishes!
Fisherman sweep the ocean floor!
Holy macaroni! When will we wake?
Heed!
Conservationist. Environmentalist.
Holy mackerel? Net drag . kill . coo.
Is his the topic? Please help harpie.
etc.,
coleslaw, tuna with celery, herbs,
brussel sprouts, cauliflower, bread:`
pumpernickel, mayonnaise, dijon,
creole, arugula, sweet onion, basil,
sweet potato home fries and pickle,
olives oil, carrots, colored peppers,
sour dough bread, bartered greens,
and I done forgot? what was a topic?
conk.
hit me?
knock?
roller?
a pie?
pan?
PAN!
Nature was Pan in the old days when Nature was properly revered and respected.
Why ruin awe?
Pumpernickel!
O! Neapolitan?
O! a Napoleon?
Emperor's Fall!
I best go snore.
Ay, harpie etc.,
what a moon.
Thanks, O my,
stop anytime.
sincerely. pax.
I can't explain this with words. I was told:`
There is a woodworker who I met.He was given an assignment to reconstructed the 'casket' of George Washington in silver, brass, and wood mahogany. Some say coffin. Some say casket. I was told by the perfectionist/purist woodworker that the proper word to use is:`
coffin.
I don't care if tho.
You say nice stuff.
Steep in coffee pot.
cough in a coffee pot.
We all groan and conk.
I'll be happy in a bucket.
We all kicks the bucket.
A y! Ah! Welcome back.
My Mom would enjoy:` coffee with you scramin mama. Honest. She'd read all the time.
Mom would bring a dozen library books from and read while Dad snored in bed all alone.
She teased that if She went to bed while he was still awake Dad mat smother her with slobber.
My Father literally:`adored.
Now, I get this big mess tear.
Life is mystery. Ay, two tears.
R~
This reminds me of when my ol' pop left this earth. We had a brass plaque made and took his cremains up a hill he used to hike. There in the rock was the perfect, natural hole made in the rock that we place the cremains in and sealed with the plaque. After saying our peace to each other, my brothers and I turned and began our walk down the hill. Up came the scent of wild honeysuckle, so startling and fresh, it made a lasting memory. That was over 12 years ago. I miss my Dad.
Gads.
O Who?
A Owl?
Meow?
Ah! A show! O! Happy circus performance.
I Hope and wish my yard grow plum and fig.
Maybe a head of cabbage, beans, goat milk?
Hospitality!
So much is happening. I can't keep up tho.
My temptation is to remain quiet as mice.
There is a mouse who visits my bedroom.
Who's alone? I have a quiet fuzzy friend.
A world's in a frenzy with no imagination.
Frenzy can be gentle good or craze-loony.
The walking dead shake in fancy shrouds.
Let the fools rage. No rant the nonsense?
The arrogant fool bastardize good words.
Mischievous creeps - whatever - the label?
(I don't enjoy pigeon hole tags) We human!
Even all haughty critters surely decompose!
I wake up to rant a bit again. I hear a warbler.
That bird singsongs, but not with a animosity!
Hope. Happy. O wake up to practice kindness!
Do not talk with exclamation! Ya appear loony!
Thanks for kind thoughts. Wiggle Ya butts too!
I mean:`Put Ya toe in a hot tub and play whoop!
huh?
gads.
stupid!
I stupid!
too goofy!