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Reciprocal Benefits of Writing Poetry and Practicing Therapy - by Robert H. Deluty.
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I'll embarrass the fine gentleman. aniko eva inspired thoughts. . . . thanks
I began to comment @ aniko eva's blog - I recall `Observed and Imagined
a book by, R.H. Deluty
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Put simply, creating poetry has made me a better therapist, and practicing psychotherapy has made me a better poet. The process of composing poems and providing therapy 'both' require that I become more aware of the nature of my past and present experience; that I be more genuine with myself and in my interactions with others; that I experience life more deeply in the "here-and-now," and I appreciate the complex interrelations of events, the greater value of humor and non-expression, and the importance and
elegance of parsimony.
The greater majority of my (Robert H. Deluty's poems) three line poems are
senryu.
As a long-time clinical psychologist and teacher who has lived most of my life in large cities, I feel much more comfortable (RHD) writing poems with intrapersonal and interpersonal themes than I do writing haiku about flora, fauna, or the seasons. In addition, my clients often provide the "material"
for my poetry,
and senryu
allows me countless opportunities to address the comic, tragic, and more ironic aspects
of daily life.
The discipline inherent in writing senyru has resulted in my being more observant
of what goes on around me, and in my sharing these observation as clearly as possible with my clients. The haiku editor's admonish about
"suggesting"
rather than
"narrating"
has carried over to my clinical work; I find that I am now doing less lecturing to my clients (my undergraduate and graduate students, however,
are not so
fortunate).
Having, particular clients read and then discuss selected poems has resulted in
shared smiles,
tears, laughter,
remembrances,
insights, [I agree]
understanding,
and [my] healing.
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no pen at hand . . .
her exquisite senryu
evaporating
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Day of Atonement -
shofar blast muffle
his hunger pangs
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condemned buildings . . .
candidates' campaign stickers
on boarded windows
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comment seems stuck . . .
tyr `gin . . . okay, ah!


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Eat potato soup in bed today.
I swear? I got 3- new post up.
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@ 7AM, 7:01AM, and `8:05AM.
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To you etc., who share `insights
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master clinician
lauded by strangers world-wide,
feeling lost at home
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okay
pretend
we eat
soup
in bed
with
otters
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Narration tells me what the author saw. I like that.
They are two distinct styles of sending a message.
Cabbage soup tonight Art at this house. Must be well.
Tomorrow night we see Hal Holbrook as Mark Twain.
3rd time in 20+ years. He is 87. Twain made it to 75 before he took off with Halley's Coment on an April evening in 1910.
Twain squashed politicos and rubbed their elbows.
They aren't so bright. Easy to fool.
We can't afford to go.
We can't afford not to go.
My cat's name is Halle.
& elegance of parsnip
not to be outdone by parsley, Art.
for quite a spell now, art. Good stuff. i did some
surrealistic surreptitious examination of him.
elegance of parsimony. great frugality or unwillingness to spend money?
economy in the use of means to achieve something, parsimony,
especially the principle of endorsing the simplest explanation that covers a case…
simple things, these:
“shared smiles,
tears, laughter,
remembrances,
insights, [I agree]
understanding,
and [my] healing”
poems about Nature’s green and lush terror/beauty, I feel,
are but presaging human reactions.
We reflect nature.or it reflects us, I think maybe both…
He says his poetry (but maybe also his healing work?)
allows me countless opportunities to address the comic, tragic, and more ironic aspects
of daily life.
Irony abounds everywhere. I wish mr Obama had mentioned it his state of the union.
An event is a thing a guy or gal undergoes that can be seen
1.comically
Or
2.tragically.
Gotta admit, I like number one better. I know tragedy stalks the land. It is a redeeming , humiliating force that must have SOME purpose. I think it is to render us disassociative , in pieces, ready for reassembling. With a laugh.
What damn absurdity it all is.
let us read poems together to heal.
James M. Emmerling is on steroids?
True
False
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Ask blogger who incited nice riots?
I was respecting blogger`aniko eva.
aniko eva was inspiration`a helper.
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Commenter are drug free @ O.S.
There's no True False corrections.
Commenters get sent to jail house.
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Later
I vowed to stay away from Open Salon
Driving in my P.U. a cope stopped me
I was driving too slow on the highway
Cop ask me where was I going? Fire?
I said:
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"I am on my way to coo coo loon farm.
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P.S. This would Not go. Square was there.
Trough
Pig mess
Who smell
You know
Thanks
Hope this
do go too
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therapist (Baudelaire)
in an intimate
café on Boul' Mich and while I
blather about my silly problems
he stares moodily at the passers-by
or writes pitiful letters to his mother...
sometimes six in one day!
Now he's threatening to beat up some geezer...
his best friend!... and the geezer's
wife and children and burn down his house!
At four o'clock exactly!
I look at my watch and explain
that he's booked for another session
and another and another and another
all afternoon and yet another
busload of
British psycho-
tourists is already en route!
Baudelaire is infused with relief and self-abnegation.
Would I beat an old man?
He's my only friend!
I'm in love with his wife!
His brats call me Uncle Charlie!
My mother made me do it!
So he writes her a pitiful letter and I
blather about my silly problems while the
golden
evening
decends
from the Place de la Concorde to the Luxembourg Gardens.
Rita shibr no shivers tho.
She pull off the cover too.
Otters bum on OSer feed.
I was gonna follow @ Stop!
Kim's Loco Truck Stop Grub!
The download is very Porky!
On 42 Street ...
a panhandler requesting
$1.85
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I bumming for change
yearning for a cold one
and a bowl of hot kale
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Ear More Kale.com
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learning
the owner of 'Sal's Pizza'
is Shin Dong Hwi
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I dream I meet rita shibr
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tlling it quits
after his blind date orders
extra kale
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Ho Rita S.
We bump
Bump`gin
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“James M. Emmerling is on steroids?”
(haw. Tease. All is non steroidal here . steroids!
They say: “
“any of a large group of natural or synthetic fatty substances
containing four carbon rings, including the sex hormones…”
no I lean & mean. Just intellectual. A brain raw to the universe.
Sinking fast, ha! Like a sun…………….
Sundown for brain soon?
Oh, aha:
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“Commenter are drug free @ O.S.
There's no True False corrections.
Commenters get sent to jail house.”
This is where we get into trouble, art james: our raw internal universal Experience tells us one thing, then our brainsacks jump in with ‘good’ & “bad”….
True and false?
A false dichotomy, goshddammit!
Cop always askin where ya going..he got nowhere good to go..
He simply asking friendly advice, art.
He wanna join fun but cannot
Cuz he a cop.
Rigidity.
All is well & all manner of things are well, said a mystical chick once.
I cannot remember her name. she a saint? Perhaps.
Saintly wimmin a lot of fun to strip of their
Platitudes.
Con Chapman is busy getting a `You Tube vasectomy.
Other lawyers are having a ball making obscene art.
They get a bit of snow and make butt-buck women.
Sip goat milk, 'Ovaltine' and tea with Coffee-Mate.
You know I'd never wish to make you sore anymore.
If You not behave? You can see a car and dog vet.
Veterinarians fix-neuter for free if You ` bi-polar.
say u?
(yeah..only once..the gal who got me my disability…she was a fierce woman.
A helluva lot more sober than the Judge.)
veterinarians are a source of great comfort to a Steppenwolf.
The magic theater drains a boy.
Still, I am thankful and grateful for any succor.
Even if the vets got cold stethoscopes to
Try to discern my vital bodily doings.
I hate the cold. Don’t u?
My daughter bought me a winter coat.
I looked at the TAGS. Made in Vietnam.
I need a pair of $200.00 Nike sneakers.
'Snickers' are made in Ho Chi Minh City.
You want a new winter coat from `Nam?
It don't have any bullet holes and `Blood.
I walked outdoors and watched the clouds.
This long-shadow time of day is my favorite.
Then - The morn's sunrise makes me go ah!
James M. E. You may hurt Deluty's heart?
You call him a "pimp" and Grandpa's weep.
His Granddaughter is a new babe in a crib.
She has a Korean Mom. Dad is a nice hick.
He's a Southern cotton-picker with tattoos.
If the new baby (Ava) speaks Korean, oops.
I bet Robert H. Deluty studies Korean lingo.
If Ava speaks Korean later in life he'll speak.
Ava's first words may be in Korean`Behave!
Yes. I like warmth.
(aha mystery solved…??!!!...as all mysteries, aint mucha a mystery)
My daughter bought me a winter coat.
(how ya look in it? debonair or just clunky? All my coats, I am clunky)
I looked at the TAGS. Made in Vietnam.
I need a pair of $200.00 Nike sneakers.
(that might help but I kinda sense=you setting me up!!)
'Snickers' are made in Ho Chi Minh City.
You want a new winter coat from `Nam?
It don't have any bullet holes and `Blood.
(aha, knew it!!!!!)
James M. E. You may hurt Deluty's heart?
You call him a "pimp" and Grandpa's weep.
(Deluty enough of an ego to withstand my silly assault, ay)
His Granddaughter is a new babe in a crib.
She has a Korean Mom. Dad is a nice hick.
(hicks are to be baptized! In niceness???)
He's a Southern cotton-picker with tattoos.
If the new baby (Ava) speaks Korean, oops.
(yeah. Oopsy woopsy)
Often hicks who haven heavenly wisdom come upon us like a
Thunderstorm.
I hope for this, and watch those lil gal s w/short skirts on weather channel,
Some of em bosomy, some not, whaaaat I care?
Tell me a thunder boomer comin my way.
Finally?
If someone calls me:`
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kooky, bi-polar, different,
schizophrenic, dismayed,
grouchy, tender, gentler,
pinhead, goofball, stinky,
demented, lovable, horny,
worried, married?, loony,
huh . . .
I shake my noggin, heehaw,
and read Billy (Goat) Wilder.
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Don't be too clever for a audience.
Make it obvious. Make the subtleties
obvious also - James M. E. You do that.
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Winston Churchill - He wrote `Broadly
speaking,
the short
words are
the best -
and also -
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The old
Words
Are the
Best . . .
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You
Evoke
Behave
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The duelling loonies
of poetryland
or os poets of loonyland
2 strings short of a banjo
& a New Form altogether
not senryu haiku
villanelle quatrain even
ginsberg, this looks like a
Shin Dong Hwi
psilocybin get-down
Open Call or
Season - quail in cammo
'geese in boxer briefs' penicans in helmets ...
Incoming Duck !!
It's peaceful here
arugula kale peaceful. Bliss.
then write to you etc., as a`bassoonist.
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You Australian jest speak so funny tho.
That's not to be nasty. I no talk normal.
I've been with folk who no speak ingles.
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You 'minister' to children. Ya benevolent.
Benevolent humans share. Ya share beer.
Ya have No Pockets in coat. Ya good hick.
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You have an Australian belly. Ya 1`hole.
It loks like I have 2- belly button holes.
Giggle . . .
I so shy.
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One is real.
1- is a scar.
Dang war!
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I have an American belly butt. I got 2- ah!
My original belly button is a hole. Oh, me!
If Ya see my belly button hole? Ya see 2.!
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No poke rita's or Mary's belly. They shy.
Play a flute, oboe, cello, banjo, ay, sooth.
Music flows via a true-in-hearts humans.
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We read and experience an amalgam of fun.
You comment like a nice musical bassoonist.
We be calm. Be perplexed. Be dead raccoon?
No!
No ride a porcupine to DC. Ride a elephant.
Hop on a DC donkey beast. Ride a kangaroo.
Music is universal healing. Ride a Sidney gal.
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Huh?
Tease?
Platonic.
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I go sit in my Ford Ranger P.U..
It's a great night to go star gaze.
Kim G. You type like a 'Ragtime.
Ragtime lyrics respect all tribes.
Ya etc., never caste dispersions.
Ya & everybody is my Teacher.
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I'm sleepy at the farm Home.
My grandchildren tease folks.
Kim G.
If Ya grow a beard they'll braid.
While Ya snore they will braid.
Late January - I saw blossoms.
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I took some photos of potatoes.
I did photograph some blooms.
My 'Snow Bells' bloomed today.
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In 1978 - I dug 'Snow Bells' up.
Blooms are very early blooms.
I forgot my digit camera today.
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Maybe tomorrow I'll share a bit.
Tomorrow will be a busy day`gin.
I'm scheduled (say as Australians)-
to be somewhere else much all day.
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never poke a stranger woman's belly
no you pat a pregnant woman's belly
Woman do love Ya if Ya poke belly?
Behave . . .
It's so wild.
I'm weary.
Bless you.
They tend to be the same… promising mighty storms and hurricanes
and lots of thunder and rain…some tiny drizzle is my reward for
my allegiance to these women….
I am officially sending apologies to Deluty.
Perfectionist, my dad said of me dismissively but …hopefully?...
“Perfectionist “ by Deluty
Anxious when working,
Guilty if shirking.
Fearing heightened expectations
When work is commendable,
Dreading disapproving gazes
For efforts lamentable.
And should perfection be achieved,
Comfort is painfully brief,
For a fall from grace is awaited,
Stifling hope of lasting relief.
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Don't be too clever for a audience.
Make it obvious. Make the subtleties
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Yeah, that is the crazy path. I wish often to stray off to madness.
I then know the hard core of the old truth:
The only truth:
“A man must make sense . To his peers…..’”
Deluty is a wonder for us to behold . yet another only .0006 percent will hear, ay.
Art, thanks..
to fall
it
plunk, ach.
"a fall from grace is awaited,
Stifling hope of lasting relief."