Gordon Osmond

Gordon Osmond
Location
Sao Paulo, Brasil
Birthday
November 09
Company
those with whom I choose to keep
Bio
Retired lawyer, playwright, English teacher, tennis umpire. Author of So You Think You Know English: A Guide to English for Those Who Think They Don't Need One. ISBN: 978-1-61546-414-2

OCTOBER 6, 2009 3:46PM

"I Detest Cheap Sentiment."

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On a lonely country road, Karen Richards (Celeste Holm) asks Margo Channing (Bette Davis) if she, Margo, wants to continue to listen to Liszt’s, Liebestraum, on the car radio.  Margo assents to silence with the line, "I detest cheap sentiment."   I don't think that's being fair to Liszt as to this particular composition, which I find celestial, but I agree with Margo in principle.To me, there's something vaguely grotesque about parading on a public chat forum one's most intimate feelings about sickly loved ones,  especially when the source is a poster who, instants before, was throwing out bile by the bucketful.

 It would be easy enough to comment that bipolar could in some cases be another word for moody and that depression could in some cases be another word for frustration.  But such comments would probably be considered cruel or at least insensitive because of the protective bubble the poster erects around the sickened subject. So, I'll state my thoughts separately.

Of course, tales of others' travails are always instructive, sometimes even inspirational.  But the switch to the third person would deprive the teller of the sympathy they so desperately, and, in my view, neurotically seek.

I can throw bile with the best of them, but I consider the price for doing so an obligation to keep my family troubles--amazingly few I'm happy to say--to myself. 

 

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we do spill our guts too easily, and label character flaws or actually helpful eccentricities mental illness way too much.
It is interesting I think that the first comment you have which appears after a reading or two to be in some sort of agreement with you, is done by someone who cannot type in coherent and complete sentences with anything resembling proper punctuation. Sorry to steal your thunder this time on that aspect.
I can't afford the expensive kind...
"To me, there's something vaguely grotesque about parading on a public chat forum one's most intimate feelings about sickly loved ones, especially when the source is a poster who, instants before, was throwing out bile by the bucketful."

I don't see how the two are connected. To go from one series of thoughts to another set of completely different thoughts doesn't seem odd to me... but then again, maybe I'm nuts.
ps
Which movie are you talking about in the beginning?
Maybe people should ask your permission to have feelings. Your therapist must be a rich man.
Any idiot could tell that I was not commenting upon having feelings but rather the chosen manner and venue for expressing them.
Right, I could tell.