grif -
- Location
- Chapel Hill, North Carolina, USA
- Birthday
- September 17
- Bio
- One of my favorite places to go is about 12 miles out in the Atlantic Ocean...in my little 20 ft. skiff. The clear water is a deep emerald color and the sunlight bounces around and shimmers randomly. I meet survivor sea turtles, bow-riding dolphin, silent sharks, giant rays rocketing out of the sea and backflipping, schools of porgies, sea robins, slashing blues and Spanish mackerel, the occasional whale, and stray birds. I love the quiet and solitude and vastness.
I am a way too veteran educator - special education teacher, high school principal, college professor and some other fun waystops. A political junkie, a cowboy in a previous life, a lover of synchronicity in daily life...meditation and prayer, and a believer that the best days are still ahead.
My plan is to finish strong. ************************************
I love following politics and current events, but they all take second place to watching a hockey game. I write occasional Op-Ed pieces - usually on educational issues.
My two kids are the true loves of my life.
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MY RECENT POSTS
- A job, a place to live, and
hope: Alaska 1971
January 25, 2012 11:23PM - Breaking News: GOP announces
new presidential race entrant
January 19, 2012 01:47PM - Empowering women in
Nicaragua: A real difference
January 06, 2012 12:50PM - Friend's freshman love dying,
football game, and the beach
November 19, 2011 11:12PM - Meaning of Life Explained:
"Spot it, got it!"
October 14, 2011 05:55PM
MY RECENT COMMENTS
- “Great story on a gray
day here in NC. Her subtle
yet
pronounced delusional
paran…”
February 10, 2012 05:28PM - “Still laughing. My
family was so effin nuts that
every time I
hear someone say
&…”
February 04, 2012 04:12PM - “What an incredible saga.
Your story would be laughable
if it
wasn't true.”
January 30, 2012 04:55PM - “Sleazebags
indeed.”
January 28, 2012 11:51PM - “Muse – thanks for
coming by and sharing the
old
times.”
January 28, 2012 11:42PM
Grif -'s Links
- Grif's Favorite Posts
- One day it hit me that perhaps I was just another...
- Israel-Gaza relief boat conflict is 3,000 years old
- Being straight isn't easy: Prejudices wear me out!
- A black angel and a little girl help Dad confront his racism
- "That's it. I can feel life leaving. He's cooler already."
- Nica trip pics: American aggression, poverty, hope, and survival
- Insurance? Need clean water and food! Nicaragua visit pics
- Is that all there is? You're kidding, right? Right?
- Afghan Policy Doomed: Korea, Cuba, Vietnam Lessons Lost
- "I am white guy": Sen. Jeff Sessions and white male privilege
- It's racism pure and simple Mr. Obama: Time for change is now
- A Blue Neon Cross in the Yukon Territory
- I Married My Mother
- Sadism & Masochism: Partners in Relationships
- Power Struggles: How to Stop the Arguing!
- The Snow Road From Anchorage: Returning Home in the 70's
- Grif's Alcoholism and Recovery Story
- How a nine year-old saved an alcoholic from getting drunk
- Sober? BFD! Now move out of the house
- Early sobriety and these feelings are going to kill me
- 50 years old, lonely, sober, and Christmas in a group home
- Discharged from rehab to ER, Demerol, and recovery angels
- Alcoholism rehab pt IV:Long train ride home
- Moments of Clarity in an Alcohol Treatment Center: Rehab II
- Active Alcoholics and Addicts are All Liars: Believe It!
- My Alcoholism and the Movie "W"
- My Alcoholism Story - Lying No More
- Thanksgiving Day: An Alcoholic's Dream and Vodka Shrapnel
- A Drunk Driver Reacts To Lawyer Bob Keefer
- Another Relapse, Another DUI: Alcoholism is Killing Me
- First, Court for the DUI (Again): Then Rehab (Again)
We arrived in Anchorage, Alaska after a two-week trek from Detroit. It was September, 1971. I had finished college that June with a B.A. in Sociology and returned home to Detroit to find a “real job.” The first thing I did was get my old summer job back as an outdoor… Read full post »
Breaking News: GOP announces new presidential race entrant
Reince Priebus , Chairman of the Republican National Committee, announced today in Venice, South Carolina that Francesco Schettino is entering the race for the GOP nomination for the White House. Schettino was previously a sailor with the Italian Merchant marine. It turns out that the for… Read full post »
Empowering women in Nicaragua: A real difference
My 25 year old daughter is the Executive Director of the Sister Communities of San Ramon, Nicaragua. This organization got involved in Nicaragua over 20 years ago just after the Sandinistas prevailed in the Contra War. They developed and support an eco-tourism lodge and coffee farm called/… Read full post »
Friend's freshman love dying, football game, and the beach
We met in our freshman year in college some 44 years ago. He from Miami and me from Detroit. We weren’t fast friends then or anything but our paths kept crossing. During his senior year he fell in love with a freshman girl from Aiken, SC. After graduation they spli… Read full post »
Meaning of Life Explained: "Spot it, got it!"
"The Meaning of Life Explained"
All my life I have been fascinated by people with rigid and somewhat doctrinaire beliefs. These folks espouse strong opinions about other’s behavior and beliefs and often act as if they are “right.” It’s almost as if they have secret info… Read full post »
Obama carries NC in 2012:Voters repudiate Tea Party
I have this recurring thought that Barack Obama will be re-elected in 2012 and will carry North Carolina (maybe by one vote; but, a win is a win). I think that the Tea Party and Republican right wing has behaved so badly this past year and have so angered the mainstream… Read full post »
A felon, a farmer, friends and sweet potatoes in prison
Three of us went to visit a mutual friend in prison today. It was about a two-hour drive and the last ten miles straight through mostly picked cotton fields in eastern North Carolina. Lots of huge downed trees everywhere courtesy of Irene’s recent visit. Have you ever seen a l… Read full post »
FDR,JFK,BHO-"...govt frozen in ice of own indifference..."
On September 5, 1960 Senator John F. Kennedy (D-MA) gave a presidential campaign speech in Cadillac Square in Detroit, Michigan. It was a brief speech delivered before 100,000 people. I was there. That's me about mid-way back in the middle with the curly blond hair. I was 1/… Read full post »
Rejection, sober sex, mistakes and memories
January 2, 2002 – I’ve been sober for 16 months now and that’s a long time for a guy who drank steadily for 30 years. Sober in this case means no alcohol; however, my life pretty much continued to be a social disaster as I repeated one life mistake after another./… Read full post »
Recovery is so slow and the cold rain feels so good
This post is another in a series of occasional installments describing my early recovery and treatment for alcoholism. Others may be found in the “My Links” section on the left side of my blog. Every time I post one of these stories I hear from a number of people struggling wi… Read full post »
11 years ago today I woke up in jail…
…and this is no April Fool’s story…only an alcoholic fool’s story. I had been arrested the night before driving backwards at 5mph in a small southern town I’d never been in before. The arresting officer later told me he had been responding to a barking dog complaint in… Read full post »
Breaking News: AARP Buys OS in secret deal
St. Petersburg, FL – (AP)
The AARP announced this afternoon that it is buying Open Salon from the Salon Media Group, Inc. An email blast to media outlets worldwide provided insight into this explosive deal. “It’s a perfect fit for our organizational focus. Our 90-day dat… Read full post »
This post is another in a series of occasional installments describing my early recovery and treatment for alcoholism. The most recent prior post is How a nine-year old saved an alcoholic from getting drunk. Others may be found in the “My Links” section on the left side… Read full post »
Lovers love, liars lie, whiners whine and stuff like that
It sure does get depressing around this joint at times. Two posts in particular – one by koshersalami and one by Cranky Cuss – just make me want to eat worms. Not really. The worms deserve better. Sorry you guys are feeling so despondent.
Where’s the love fellas?&… Read full post »
We would let death come on its own
My father died at 6:25 am on October 4, 2009. He was 86 years old. It has been one year. I put up a post last November titled "That's it. I can feel life leaving. He's cooler already." I felt agitated this morning when I woke up and at first/… Read full post »
This post is another in a series of occasional installments describing my early recovery and treatment for alcoholism. The most recent prior post is Sober? BFD!...Now move out of the house . Others may be found in the “My Links” section on the left side of my blog.&nbs… Read full post »
The ex, the girlfriend, the mistress and the eulogy
It‘s a mid- November Saturday in Detroit. Sunny, cold and blustery. I am standing at a podium in a Unitarian church delivering the eulogy at my father’s memorial service. It is the expected duty of the oldest surviving child and one I gladly accepted – in a sad sort of w/… Read full post »
RIP Lisa-Everybody knew you and nobody knew you.
Just got back from an AA meeting. I was asked there for the third week in a row if I’d “heard about Lisa.” I had. I’d known her most of ten years.
She was about 50 years old. Lived much of her life in the street. Her mental illness/… Read full post »
Understanding Beck: Filling the hole within
This Glenn Beck fellow has certainly managed to hog the front pages lately. It seems that he is everywhere I turn – well on television at least. The blog world is full of entries. All over Facebook and he has severa/… Read full post »
Mr. Prez:"You fired the wrong guy. Let's bomb Nicaragua"

Dear Mr. President:
You have all of us hopelessly mired in Afghanistan. I hate to say it but a lot of us told you so. No real pleasure in saying that. In a previous post I wrote:
“You have just stated… Read full post »
Sal with Autism:"Never underestimate the power of a smile."
Autism is a language/communication disorder with many variations, degrees of expression, and outcomes. There are frequent excellent posts on OS regarding autism. Keying in the word "autism" in the Search function above yielded 925 results.
This is one young man's high scho… Read full post »
Imperfect fathers:"...we were embarassed to have him around"
I was curious about the origin of Father's Day so I checked around. It appears to have been inaugurated in 1910 through the efforts of one Sonora Smart Dodd in Spokane, Washington in 1910. She’d heard a sermon the previous year regarding Mother’s Day and wanted to do something to re/… Read full post »
Sober? BFD!...now move out of the house
This post is another in a series of occasional installments describing my early recovery and treatment for alcoholism. The most recent prior post is Early sobriety and these feelings are going to kill me. Others may be found in the “My Links” section on the left side o/… Read full post »
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