grif -
- Location
- Chapel Hill, North Carolina, USA
- Birthday
- September 17
- Bio
- One of my favorite places to go is about 12 miles out in the Atlantic Ocean...in my little 19 ft. skiff. The clear water is a deep emerald color and the sunlight bounces around and shimmers randomly. I meet survivor sea turtles, bow-riding dolphin, silent moving sharks, giant rays rocketing out of the sea and backflipping, schools of porgies, sea robins, slashing blues and mackeral, the occasional whale, stray birds...I am a way too veteran educator, a political junkie, a cowboy in a previous life, a lover of synchronicity in daily life...meditation and prayer, and a believer that the best days are still ahead.
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I love politics and current events. I'm an avid Rachel, Keith, and Chris watcher (although Chris chafes me a lot). I write periodic Op-Ed pieces - usually on educational issues.
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"Be gentle with this life,
and use the light of life
to live fully in your time."
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"Saint Benedict and Saint Scholastica,
you were people of peace,
you walked the paths of peace your whole life
and led all who came to you into the ways of peace.
Help us to seek peace and pursue it,
to be the first to hold out our hands
in friendship and forgiveness.
Help us to achieve peace in our hearts, in our homes,
in our neighborhoods, and in our troubled world.
Let peace fill our lives
so that we may live in God's grace and love. "
MY RECENT COMMENTS
- “"My heart is big and
tough and open. "
I
bet it is. I bet it is.
Welcome…”
12:11AM - “I love this. A big hug
for you.”
12:06AM - “Wow. Nice tribute. He
said all that?”
November 22, 2009 10:48PM - “A sad but true article.
I am a native Detroiter who
left at
the age of 17 in
196…”
November 22, 2009 10:39PM - “Pman - your not going to
like this. The key is to try
and
please only one god
at…”
November 22, 2009 10:31PM
Grif -'s Links
- Grif's Favorite Posts
- Nica trip pics: American aggression, poverty, hope, and survival
- Insurance? Need clean water and food! Nicaragua visit pics
- Is that all there is? You're kidding, right? Right?
- Afghan Policy Doomed: Korea, Cuba, Vietnam Lessons Lost
- "I am white guy": Sen. Jeff Sessions and white male privilege
- It's racism pure and simple Mr. Obama: Time for change is now
- A Blue Neon Cross in the Yukon Territory
- I Married My Mother
- Sadism & Masochism: Partners in Relationships
- Power Struggles: How to Stop the Arguing!
- The Snow Road From Anchorage: Returning Home in the 70's
- Grif's Alcoholism and Recovery Story
- Active Alcoholics and Addicts are All Liars: Believe It!
- My Alcoholism and the Movie "W"
- My Alcoholism Story - Lying No More
- Thanksgiving Day: An Alcoholic's Dream and Vodka Shrapnel
- A Drunk Driver Reacts To Lawyer Bob Keefer
- Another Relapse, Another DUI: Alcoholism is Killing Me
- First, Court for the DUI (Again): Then Rehab (Again)
- Moments of Clarity in an Alcohol Treatment Center: Rehab II
Bye Dad: A last salute and farewell to my best veteran
Remembering my favorite veteran
An armistice between the Allied nations and Germany went into effect on the eleventh hour of the eleventh day of the eleventh month. It was November 11, 1918, and it was the end of “the war to end all wars.”
Today Veterans Day honors Ame… Read full post »
House burglarized, father died, deer killed: Rough week
I haven’t been around OS much these days and am just checking in. My 86 year old father died on October 4 and I was fortunate to be holding his hand when he did. He lived alone and independently in Detroit and was active and vigorous until felled by a hemorrhagic/… Read full post »
Deleted by OS Editors: " I fought the Lexus and OS won"
“I fought Lexus and Lexus won”
I have been posting and playing on OS for almost a year. I’ve seen a lot of people come and go. I’ve laughed, gotten teary-eyed, gotten irritated, been impressed, touched, moved, and even prodded into considering new ideas because of/… Read full post »
You are officially validated! Response to Cap'n: "Arrrgh"
“I’m here to get validated.”
Our good pirate friend Cap’n Parrotdead put up a post today titled This Place Has Stopped Validating Me. It reminded me of a video that was posted awhile back here titled Validation. Watch it and I guarantee you’ll feel go… Read full post »
It's RACISM pure and simple Mr. Obama:Time for change is now
Primeval and Primordial
I was reading an OS (aka “Little Salon”) post the other night about how President Obama is trying to “indoctrinate” schoolchildren in the United States. It was from one of our regular far right wing... “Give us our country back”… Read full post »
Nica Trip Pics:American Aggression,Poverty,Hope,and Survival
My previous post on a recent trip to Nicaragua included the beginning of a walk around Matagalpa. If you didn’t see it and you’ve got a few minutes, I’d suggest clicking on it here first, and then rejoining me here. Or just come on along. The following/… Read full post »
Insurance? Need clean water and food! Nicaragua visit pics
Day 1 in Matagalpa: Beauty Amidst Poverty
I recently visited my 23 year old daughter (Emmy) who lives and works in Matagalpa, Nicaragua. She originally moved down there last year to work at Finca Esperanza Verde (FEV). This magical place is an eco-lodge in the coffee growing regio/… Read full post »
Life in Nicaragua: 2nd Poorest Country in Western Hemisphere
I am in Matagalpa, Nicaragua visiting my 23 year old daughter who lives and works here with an awesome program called Global Glimpse. They sponsor high school students to spend three weeks immersed in a foreign country. This is not your typical tour thing - rather the students participat… Read full post »
Psych Ward Stories (I): "I'll kill you, I'll kill you!!"
Psych Ward Stories: The Quiet Room and the Porcelain Plate
It was a locked psychiatric ward on the third floor in the oldest part of the medical center hospital. I was the head psychiatric attendant and all of 23 years old. There were fifteen patient rooms of varying size,/… Read full post »
"Absinthe Makes the Hard Grow Fonder":Improving Your Writing
I love to play with Open Salon advertisers.
It’s that “little man” in me I guess. I had fun
with
Shelloil and
Lexus. Now along comes Le
Tourment Vert. I felt a strike through strike
through post/… Read full post »
"I Am White Guy":Sen. Jeff Sessions and White Male Privilege
"I AM WHITE GUY"
Syndicated columnist Rick Horowitz has written a great satirical piece on Senator Jeff Sessions (R-AL) titled How it looks to Jefferson Beauregard Sessions III . It is a “must read” regarding white male privilege. I strongly urge you to click on/… Read full post »
Good News! I Am Staying and Don't Try to Talk Me Out Of It
I am staying on OS. Please do not try and talk me out of it. I have given this matter serious consideration and I have decided clearly that I have little to say, so why would I go anywhere else? I buy my gas at Shell, and someday/… Read full post »
Afghan Policy Doomed: Korea, Cuba, Vietnam Lessons Lost
Procopius wrote a great post yesterday titled 50 Years Ago On the Other Side of the Globe (And Today, Too) recalling the first American casualty engraved in the Vietnam memorial in Washington, D.C. He also reflected on our engagement in Afghanistan and its apparent futility and said… Read full post »
Let Us Never Forget Those Who Went Before
So many have given so much so that we may be free. Let us never forget.
(Suggestion: Go to 2:45 of the Taps video and play it from there as you scroll down.)
Revolutionary War Graves

Best Damn Health Care Reform Article Ever
wakingupslowly posted a great article titled YOU Can Make an Impact on the Health Reform Debate THIS Week . This post is full of information on health care reform issues, the legislation being discussed in Washington, and how to contact various legislators if you’re so inclined. It/… Read full post »
Active Alcoholics and Addicts Are All Liars: Believe It!!
Older Addicts/Alcoholics Are the Best Liars!!
(Note: I have been thinking for awhile now about how lying and addiction are intertwined. The credible stories about MJ’s drug addiction this past week were the catalyst for writing this post. It’s not about MJ/… Read full post »
Deepak Chopra:"Michael was addicted to drugs." Video
LEGAL NOTICE TO ALL OS BLOGPIMPS AND BLOGWHORES
NOTICE TO ALL BLOGWHORES AND BLOGPIMPS!!

YOU WILL NO LONGER BE ABLE TO SEND ME FREE PRIVATE MESSAGES (PM’S). PLEASE DEPOSIT $1.00 (U.S. – NO FUNNY MONEY - aka CANADIAN) IN MY ADSENSE ACCOUNT EACH TIME YOU PIMP YOURSELF TO ME.
I REALIZE THIS… Read full post »
Is That All There Is? You're Kidding, Right? Right?
(Note: I haven't written much on OS these past months. I have occasionally stopped in to read and comment; however, I just have not had the time to spend here that I typically enjoy. This little piece on the meaning of life has been brewing around some, and today just seemed lik… Read full post »
OS Editor Apologizes to All: Activity Feed Fixed
MEMORANDUM
TO: Joan Walsh, Editor-in-Chief, Salon
FROM: Kerry Lauerman, Open Salon
Director
RE: OS Rig/… Read full post »
Cigarette Smoking is Good for You: Chinese Are Right!
Stellaa recently wrote a post titled When Public Policy Goes Kafka . It was all about a Chinese county that taxed cigarettes and encouraged its citizens to smoke more. Apparently they were willing to sacrifice health (and life) in order to raise revenue. In/… Read full post »
Two Truths and a Lie: GRIF REVEALS ALL (most?)
THE TRUTH (HONEST!!!!)
OK. I’m pretty insulted by how many people have said that they totally think I have been arrested AT LEAST THREE EFFIN’ TIMES OR MORE, and once for indecent exposure for God’s sake.
Well, #1 is TRUE.
In the spring… Read full post »
Swine Flu Media Hype: "Get a grip people!"
Ok. I am not an MD. I do not, nor have I ever played one on TV. My father is an MD; however, I did not consult him on this post. I did not consult Dr. Amy either (Dear God, can you believe I mentioned her in a/… Read full post »
Grateful To Be Alive, Awake, and Aware: Pictures
I was sitting on the truck tailgate while grilling some chicken. It was late afternoon and the sunlight was doing its selective highlighting . I had a good day at work and was now in my jeans (it really doesn't get any better than the jeans after a day of work attire),… Read full post »
Grif -'s Favorites
Updates
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Newspaper screwups - a vanishing species
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Remembering JFK: It Only Takes One: Inviting Violence
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Twenty Million Thank You's
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After Forty-Four Years, Chrissie Lamar Is Finally My Friend.
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How I met the love of my life --- A TRUE LOVE STORY
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My contribution to Oversharing Weekend UPDATE
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Anyway
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Dallas and the Dead President's X
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