Gwendolyn Glover

Gwendolyn Glover
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“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.” ~ Mark Twain * * * * * * * * * * * * * * * "Remember, remember, this is now, and now, and now. Live it, feel it, cling to it. I want to become acutely aware of all I’ve taken for granted." ~Sylvia Plath

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JANUARY 19, 2010 10:55AM

Dear Body, A Love Letter (Robin's Open Call)

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Dear Body,

 

I’ve known you for almost thirty years, but it seems like there’s so much about you that I don’t know. Each day brings new experiences with you. I learn so much when I actually pay attention to you. You have so much to teach me.

 

I want to apologize for all the mean things I’ve said about you. I spent quite a few years as an adolescent and young adult, staring at you in the mirror and spouting hateful words at you. I’m sorry. You didn’t deserve all of that anger and disappointment.

 

You’ve taken me to places that I didn’t know existed. You’ve shown me things that I hadn’t seen before. Each year is another step in this journey of hope, forgiveness, and accountability. When we trust each other, there is really nothing that we can’t handle.

 

I’m trying to do better by you. I know I’ll have my slip-ups. I’ll make mistakes. But I want you to know how much I appreciate you. You mean so much to me.

 

You and me, Body, we’re a team.

 

Love,

Gwen

  

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The following e.e.cummings’ poem is dedicated as a love letter to the love of my life:

 

i like my body when it is with your
body. It is so quite new a thing.
Muscles better and nerves more.
i like your body. i like what it does,
i like its hows. i like to feel the spine
of your body and its bones, and the trembling
-firm-smooth ness and which i will
again and again and again
kiss, i like kissing this and that of you,
i like, slowly stroking the, shocking fuzz
of your electric fur, and what-is-it comes
over parting flesh ... And eyes big love-crumbs, 

and possibly i like the thrill 

of under me you so quite new
 

~ee cummings

 

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Awwwwwwww, that's lovely.

I think we all need to write love letters to our bodies at some point in our lives: accentuate the positive.

Lovely letter, and lovely poem.
I love that letter, Gwen. And ee cummings' poem is, as always, exquisite.
This is a beautiful letter ... and love the poem!
Great letter to yourself, and that poem, I love it. R
"Getting to know you, getting to know all about you. Getting to like you, hoping that you'll like me. Isn't it funny, suddenly I'm free and easy because of all the wonderful and new things I'm learning about you, day by day."
R
I got chills reading this... it's exciting and inspiring reading about your journey of reclaiming your body, reclaiming your right to be in it and love it. Thanks for sharing :-)
What a wonderful thought . . . beautiful, Gwen . . .
We should all write letters to our bodies like this. And the poem was a very lovely touch.
My body is loved so much that it swells with pride. The permanent swelling certainly couldn't be all that excess chocolate I eat.
I think it's nice that you are beginning to become one with your body. People who experimented early missed a lot I think. You and Star have a lifetime to explore and get to know each others bodies and brains!
Ah yes to honour our temples, it's as simple as that. Where would we be without them? Thanks and for e.e. cummings too.
My body will never receive such praise... but I'm glad that you can find that in yours.
Much better, you (and every woman) should love and appreciate your body and give it a break once in a while; let it flourish. A happy body; that is, one that is permitted to indulge, is an attractive and sexy body. Trust me on this one. Oh, and cummings is right.

Beautiful post, rated.
Such a love!!! Rated!
Beautifully said. And the ee cummings poem has been one of my favorites for many years.
That's a letter a lot of people need to write themselves, much more difficult than your standard love letter!
Gwendolyn,
This fit beautifully in your ongoing series. Lovely. Thank you for posting it.
Rated and appreciated
Oh! You didn't tell me! Wonderful...and that poem of ee's is one of my favorites...adding to Love Letter Project...xox
Gwen, that was beautiful and honest.
Love your letter and the Cummings poem. rrrated.
Dear Me, I really love you. You remind me of Me.
Nice appreciation. But if you really want to be good to your body, treat it to some chocolate!
Yeah, chocolate.
I like that there is a love letter to your body. We only have one body in life be is short or tall, brown or peach, thin or fat, it's all we got. I relate to the body hate. I still fall prey at times and then snap out of it. In middle age, I realize it is all I experience life with. That e e cummings poem is one of my favorites. I love love crumbs. Thanks for sharing this.

Lucy
Sweet letter to your best bud.

And I liked reading your life trajectory so far. You took your best bud to San Francisco...now that's treating her right :-)
The body absorbs every single memory of our lives. Our hearts and minds are where we process them. Maybe that's how the saying "wearing your heart on your sleeve" originated. Well done, Gwendolyn.
Thank you! Thank you, everyone!
Gwendolyn, what a wonderful letter. xoxo
I think you would like Tim Minchin's video "not perfect".
Beautiful post from a beautiful girl.
Hey you. I love all of the reflections and space you have given to the body. I just began reading an amazing book you might like. It is Lyndal Roper's Oedipus & the Devil: Witchcraft, sexuality and religion in early modern Europe. In the book jacket description: "Marking a shift away from the view that gender is a product of cultural and linguistic practice, Oedipus and the Devil argues that the body has been oddly absent from these debates, that sexual difference has its own psychological and physiological reality which is part of the very stuff of culture and must affect the way we write history."