MAY 8, 2009 7:43PM

Two Poems for My Mother

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Lambie

 

Sitting by your side at the piano while you played and sang show tunes

 

Clinging to you as we swam 

 

I once brought you a bouquet of flowers, one from each of the bushes in the yard that I could reach

 

You could embarrass me like no other and ignore any crisis that was too inconvenient to deal with

 

Your nickname, Lambie

 

Only your side of the family could use that name

 

Lambie, I loved that

 

That, and all that can be read between the lines of hand written recipes

 

You held me, then tolerated me, then let me go

 

When I’m really laughing hard I wish you were here

 

then realize that you are

 

 

 

This one was posted earlier but belongs here now...

 

 

 

We All Knew

 

My sister, my mother, my future ex wife, me

in the hospital room where my mother was dying

 

We were all in a pretty good mood, considering

 

I showed my mom pictures

 

My house, the river, the forrest, then one of me standing by a cliff, looking over my shoulder at the camera

 

I had a cold that day

 

My eyes were puffy

 

I didn’t want my picture taken

 

My sister and mother gasped

 

They saw my father

 

I think it was the eyes

 

My sister said it was the attitude

 

My mom burst into tears

 

“Do you know how much I loved him?”

 

Just then, maybe for the first time, we all knew

 

 

 

 

Please be sure to read   Dogwoman's  remarkable series of posts memorializing her mother

 

 

 

 

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So much love comes through these. Well done.
"You held me, then tolerated me, then let me go

When I’m really laughing hard I wish you were here"

I was impatient with my mom today. She's in her 80's and can be as demanding as a child. It's hard to be patient sometimes. You've reminded me of how often she must have felt that way; how incessant the demands of her children; and how, when she's gone, I'll want her back just as she is now: fragile envelope of love.
Heartwarming and heartbreaking.

My mom died in March. So much of your work reminds me of my mom. She also played piano, mostly Irish and Scottish favorites; we made her May Baskets from our own flowers; I have a stuffed animal named Lambie, as did my brother; hand-written recipes; "you held me, then tolerated me, then let me go" (perhaps the most concise description of what a great mother should be I've ever read); knowing that she's still here with you.

Thanks for bringing tears that have been delayed for almost two months. A beautiful tribute.

Paws up.
My mother was both wonderful and difficult to be around. I think she would like knowing that that combination inspired poetry. To think that this work could touch people in some way is remarkable. I'm not very connected to other people so small connections like this are amazing to me

Coyote, Love , yes but some pain too

"Hello", The idea of impatience with a child sheds a new light on that for me. I was thinking of growing up and being released.

FLW, Anytime you like what I write I am honored

Dog Woman, That's the highest compliment I've ever received. That these words came to you at the right time is extraordinary. That they were my words is humbling.
These are really nice. I'm glad that you have such loving memories, even though they are mixed with some pain. A nice tribute to someone who must have meant a lot to you.
She was always Lambie to me......for that I feel special....

I will cherish her as my Sunday School Teacher.......and later as my friend......

It was so obvious that he broke her heart.......so unfair.....so 1970's.......so selfish......

Thank you for sharing a beautiful piece......