Lambie
Sitting by your side at the piano while you played and sang show tunes
Clinging to you as we swam
I once brought you a bouquet of flowers, one from each of the bushes in the yard that I could reach
You could embarrass me like no other and ignore any crisis that was too inconvenient to deal with
Your nickname, Lambie
Only your side of the family could use that name
Lambie, I loved that
That, and all that can be read between the lines of hand written recipes
You held me, then tolerated me, then let me go
When I’m really laughing hard I wish you were here
then realize that you are
This one was posted earlier but belongs here now...
We All Knew
My sister, my mother, my future ex wife, me
in the hospital room where my mother was dying
We were all in a pretty good mood, considering
I showed my mom pictures
My house, the river, the forrest, then one of me standing by a cliff, looking over my shoulder at the camera
I had a cold that day
My eyes were puffy
I didn’t want my picture taken
My sister and mother gasped
They saw my father
I think it was the eyes
My sister said it was the attitude
My mom burst into tears
“Do you know how much I loved him?”
Just then, maybe for the first time, we all knew
Please be sure to read Dogwoman's remarkable series of posts memorializing her mother


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Comments
When I’m really laughing hard I wish you were here"
I was impatient with my mom today. She's in her 80's and can be as demanding as a child. It's hard to be patient sometimes. You've reminded me of how often she must have felt that way; how incessant the demands of her children; and how, when she's gone, I'll want her back just as she is now: fragile envelope of love.
My mom died in March. So much of your work reminds me of my mom. She also played piano, mostly Irish and Scottish favorites; we made her May Baskets from our own flowers; I have a stuffed animal named Lambie, as did my brother; hand-written recipes; "you held me, then tolerated me, then let me go" (perhaps the most concise description of what a great mother should be I've ever read); knowing that she's still here with you.
Thanks for bringing tears that have been delayed for almost two months. A beautiful tribute.
Paws up.
Coyote, Love , yes but some pain too
"Hello", The idea of impatience with a child sheds a new light on that for me. I was thinking of growing up and being released.
FLW, Anytime you like what I write I am honored
Dog Woman, That's the highest compliment I've ever received. That these words came to you at the right time is extraordinary. That they were my words is humbling.
I will cherish her as my Sunday School Teacher.......and later as my friend......
It was so obvious that he broke her heart.......so unfair.....so 1970's.......so selfish......
Thank you for sharing a beautiful piece......