NOW and THEN

A BICOASTAL PERSPECTIVE

Hawley Roddick

Hawley Roddick
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Monterey, California, USA
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February 13
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Hawley Roddick is a transplanted New Yorker who has set down roots in California where she writes promiscuously (books, blogs, Facebook, Twitter). She also co-authors memoirs for private clients who recognize family history as a treasure. The insatiably curious can learn more at http://www.hawleyroddick.com

APRIL 7, 2009 12:47PM

In the Grip of That Spooky Sixth Sense: A Familiar Feeling?

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How did I get into this position and why was I imagining my son's car enveloped in white light?

The last thing I remembered was writing at my computer. Then suddenly I was at the desk next to the computer. My head was on my crossed arms. My eyes were closed. I was visual­izing (with intense concen­tration) my son's Volvo surrounded by protective white light. I don’t remember moving from the com­puter to the desk. But a friend had once told me that when a plane she was in took off, she always shut her eyes and visualized it surrounded by protective white light. I had adopted the habit.

On this particular day, my son was home from college for the summer and had stopped by my study to say he was driving into Santa Rosa from Bodega Bay, California, where we lived. I said fine and con­tinued to work at my com­puter. Then my head was on my arms on my desk. I have no memory of moving from the computer to the desk. I simply came to in the unfamiliar position.

About ten minutes later, my son ap­peared in the study door. I said I thought he was driving to Santa Rosa.

He said, “I was, but I’m too shaken up. I was going through the pass where the road is only two lanes, with rocks rising up on the left and a drop-off on the right. No soft shoul­der. Approaching a blind curve, the idiot driv­ing behind me started to pass. When I could see around the curve, I found the same thing happening: two cars were ap­proaching, and one was passing. Four cars, two lanes. I slowed down and pulled as far to the right as I could without going into the ravine. Some­how we managed not to hit.”

“How long ago was that?”

“About ten minutes.”

The same time that I had had that mys­te­rious and intense experience. I said, “I sur­rounded your car in white light.”

He simply said, “Thanks, Mom.” He was on summer vacation from UC Santa Cruz, which is not a college that attracts students who expect life to conform to the most staid versions of reality.

I can't explain the synchronicity I experienced that day. But I know I'm not alone in having a sixth sense. Zillions of people have had ex­peri­ences they can’t explain and don’t necessarily talk about for fear of being disbelieved and maybe laughed at. Although such experiences are often referred to as para­normal, enough of us admit to having them to sug­gest they're actually fairly normal – whether we like it or not. And we don't. We prefer explanations to mysteries. That's why we invented science.

One of the most common uses of our sixth sense is to call in a parking space when none is in view. For instance, once when my son was driving and we were searching unsuccessfully for a parking space in a mall, I finally said, "If you'll turn off the radio and not talk, so I can concentrate, I'll call in an empty space."

He humored me. With intense energy, I visualized the red lights of a car backing out of a parking space. In about thirty seconds, we spotted the red lights of a car backing out, and we pulled into the empty space. This wasn't a one-shot coincidence. I often do it. I even taught a skeptical friend to do it, and she reports it works for her, too.

In another mysterious experience, I was simply a witness. My mother telephoned and, in near hysteria, told me her engagement-ring diamond was lost. She had driven to a friend's house for lunch and as she parked, she glanced at her hands on the steering wheel and discovered that her platinum ring no longer held her emerald-cut diamond.

My husband heard me trying to comfort her and asked what had happened. I hold him. After a moment, he said, "Tell her it's in a gray metal track under the driver's seat."

To humor us, both my parents looked in the car but did not find the diamond. Later my brother-in-law looked and found nothing. Then I visited my parents, who lived on the West Coast while I lived on the East Coast, and I looked in the car for the diamond but didn't find it. Finally my husband visited my parents with me. One evening after dinner, he said to my father, "May I have a flashlight? I want to look for Betty's diamond."

My father thought this was ridiculous but got a flashlight. My husband looked around the car and found nothing. Finally, in the back seat, he said, "Damn it, diamond, where are you?!" In frustration, he struck the back of the driver's seat with his fist with such force that the seat rose. And there in the gray metal track on which the seat had rested was my mother's diamond.

When my husband went to her in the kitchen and silently opened his hand, she glanced at his palm and said, "I knew you wouldn't find it."

She was so sure her diamond was gone that she couldn't see it. He just stood there with his hand out, palm up, until she looked again. Then she came as close to shrieking as a lady may: "You found my diamond!"

She had the diamond returned to its setting, and my niece in Tel Aviv now has the ring (that's another story).

Congress has known for decades that something mysterious is going on. In fact, they've paid for research. Here is part of a report from a Congressional investigation (Survey of Science and Technology Issues Present and Future. Committee on Science and Technology. U.S. House of Representatives. Ninety-seventh Congress. June, 1981).

"Recent experiments in remote viewing and other studies in parapsychology suggest there is an ‘interconnectedness’ of human mind and other minds with matter…. Experiments on mind-to-mind interconnectedness have yielded some encouraging results…. The implications of these results is that the human mind may be able to obtain information independent of geography and time….”

Hmmmm   Any of this ring a bell with you? Have you ever had an experience you can't explain?

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Two good books on mysterious experiences:

MIRACLES OF MIND: EXPLORING NONLOCAL CONSCIOUSNESS AND SPRITUAL HEALING by Russell Targ, Ph.D., and Jane Katra.

THE MEDIUM, THE MYSTIC, AND THE PHYSICIST: TOWARD A GENERAL THEORY OF THE PARANORMAl by Lawrence LeShan, Ph.D.
Too many to mention. This is good though.
Once when I was in my early 20s, I was sitting on a beach in the Bahamas a very long way from a phone. (this was before cells etc.) I sat bolt upright and announced that I had to call home. I walked across a mile or so of beach to a hotel and called collect from a pay phone. When I asked what was wrong, Mom said, 'nothing, I was just thinking about you.' I told her to cut it out because the signals get crossed over long distances. (Come to think about it, it was a topless beach...hmmm, maybe she was just trying to get me to cover up. That would be so like her.)

She always knows how to reach her kids. She's very spooky. Thankfully, I've acquired the same gift. I completely believe in this connection.

Thanks for sharing your story. I knew you were going to do a story like this today. ;)
Everytime I buy a lottery ticket, but then the karma crashes and burns.
Read Jung's book on syncronicity--he's the seminal source. Once you believe, and are looking, "reality" changes definition.
I remember hearing about visualizing white light in the mid 80s, back when Shirley MacLaine got really big press for her reincarnation stories. (Quick aside - if you haven't seen the Albert Brooks movie Defending Your Life, it's worth it for her cameo.)

Anyway, I remember being encouraged to both visualize white light and visualize a golden pyramid around whatever was worrying me. Also got my aura read and apparently, I am predominantly a "soft light red, with generous streaks of blue and yellow." Kind of like an Easter egg!

I'm touched by this synchronicity with your son's close call, and also by his blase response to your story. Neat post and topic - a blast from my new age past!
I love these kinds of stories, Hawley. I have had a number of "paranormal" experiences, but since I am a little bit drunk and sad today, I'll pose a question instead: How was it when I was younger that my mother would always phone me at the penultimate moments when I was a) having sex, or b) peaking on whatever drug I'd ingested. :)
I expressed some skepticism about the kind of thing I think you're describing, Hawley, in post last year. Briefly, I think there are simpler and better explanations for what you've experienced, and they all boil down to coincidence and our human propensity to find patterns in randomness.
Ah, Emma. I suspect the answer is: Because she's your mom - and evidently a bit of a but-in-ski?

Annette, thanks for the golden pyramid tip. Can't hurt to try it.

Ben, I did read Jung's book and also one by his student Ira Progoff. Both fascinating.

JK, and I knew you'd post a comment. ;~)

Rob, you are not alone in your skepticism. I think of you guys as Flat Worlders. You know, like all the people who, when first told the earth is round, must have said, "Nonsense! Anyone can see that it is flat." ;~)
In our defense, we Flat Worlders have the advantage of actually understanding math and science and such... :-)
Rob, I can discuss this subject pretty much ad infinitum and perhaps ad nauseum. If you'd read the LeShan book, I'll be more than happy to discuss his take on the physicist's view with you. While I don't understand math, I have rather a lot of books on synchronicity and physics. Have your read the late David Bohm's works on the holographic universe???
Hawley, I have had plenty of everyday synchronicities, but the sixth sense experience I had was pretty spooky.

I was teaching graphic design and had a student who had one of the debilitating diseases (MD? CP? don't remember) but she was an amazing illustrator. She came to the school insisting on being treated exactly the same as everyone else, and the curriculum was intense. She and I were also good friends and shared a love of cats, and she had given me an illustration of my cat that Christmas.

One night I had a dream, which I can still remember in detail. I had my cat on an operating table and cut him down his belly, saying all the while that he would be fine, that this had to be done. He backed away from me, looking with his big eyes at me, not with accusation, but with love and forgiveness. I even heard the words, "Don't feel badly, it's all right. All is forgiven." in my head. The next morning I found out at school that she had died just about the time I was having the dream, around 4 in the morning. I have no doubt whatsoever that she wanted me to know that I wasn't responsible for her death and took that moment of passing to say goodbye.
Thanks for the offer, Hawley, but I think we'd be just too far apart for a meeting of the minds, given what I've read and keeping in mind my experience discussing this topic with others on OS.
Great post. I have lots and plan to have a lot more synchronicities! Thanks for blogging on this. [I went to UCSC and I have parking karma as well] Rated.
hawley, thank god for your light. i do have experiences that i cant explain. i apparently have "the power of the curse," but it is too long to explain right now. long story short - i have to be VERY careful when thinking normal pissed off thoughts, because you never know how the results will manifest. i manage always to keep my mind divided when super angry, because when i was younger, i threw some curses like a seasoned witch.
I've stopped being surprised by them and have come to embrace them as part of what I refer to as the "magic" of my life.
Jane, although I haven't read it, I heard the author Larry Dossey, M.D., interviewed about his book "Be Careful What You Pray For, You Might Just Get It: What We Can Do about the Unintentional Effects of Our Thoughts, Prayers and Wishes". I believe it's about the negative interconnection you refer to.
I actually enjoy when these experiences all come together positively and I sensed the happenings beforehand...I just do not like some of the feelings, premonitions and dreams I have had that were foreboding ...good storytelling of the psychic kind.
Oh I simply love this subject matter. So true. We all have these powers we just don't believe them, so they get all fat and flabby. But it doesn't take much to tune back in - that's the good part.

Bodega Bay, huh? I'm a big Point Arena girl. Well, I've moved obviously but spent much of my Cali time in Mendocino County. Drove through your area puhlenty! Scary roads up north. Winding, redwoods, no guard rails, white knuckles - ah, but beautiful. Nothing like it. One of my favorite places on earth.
(I'm catching up after being away from OS)

My favorite line: "He was on summer vacation from UC Santa Cruz, which is not a college that attracts students who expect life to conform to the most staid versions of reality."

ha!
Like Cartouche, this happens to me so often that I don't even question it. When I travel, strangers (often homeless people), without knowing where I'm going, walk up to me and give me directions and I always do what they say, because they are always right. (I even have a friend who was a witness to this phenominon in the Boston Metro.)

Often I lose things and I have a "sense" that they will come back to me somehow. I believe and wait, and they appear out of nowhere. Sometimes explainable, but sometimes quite fantasical.