I'd Rather Be Red

the subversive optimist

Dayna Vance

Dayna Vance
Location
Southaven, Mississippi, USA
Birthday
June 19
Bio
It's hard to keep a positive outlook in a negatively charged environment. That's because opposites attract, so I keep getting stuck to pessimists.

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AUGUST 24, 2011 9:16AM

Do you see what I see?

I noticed a trend with you, Art.

I'm often entertained by your comments.  In a strictly visual way, many of your most recent ones look familiar...you be the judge.  

 AJ1

and others...sure look a lot like:

AJ3

 

Is it just me?

All in fun, Art.  Keep up the good… Read full post »

MAY 9, 2011 7:50AM

No gay kids in Pleasantville

Up until now everything around here has been, well, pleasant. Recently certain things have become unpleasant. Now, it seems to me that the first thing we have to do is to separate out the things that are pleasant from the things that are unpleasant.--Big Bob 

Here’s to Hollywood, the induRead full post »

MAY 7, 2011 8:55AM

My Battered Mississippi Home

Mississippi is being pounded pretty hard by Mother Nature lately.

One morning I wake to see on Google News a video of a tornado very near where my oldest daughter lives.

A couple of days later, Smithville, the home of a good friend from high school, was practically wiped… Read full post »

MAY 5, 2011 7:01PM

I Just Don't Trust You People

 

“How can you have morals if you don’t have anything to base them on?”

If a stranger had asked me this question, it wouldn’t have surprised me so, and I doubt I would have given it much thought later.  But it was my own sister asking me this question. Read full post »

"I've been wrong, but I've been changing...I've been wondering what to do..."

Whenever I listen too closely to the words of a song, I find my mind running away from me.  This morning's musings were complicated.  Only if it wouldn't result in me not having my kids...what would I tell the… Read full post »

 

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Be a dear and don't flog me for making you cry, nor for what I'm about to say.   I do commend her bravery, really.   But for goodness sake, if you live in a trailer and… Read full post »

MAY 1, 2010 5:34PM

My god is better than your god.

The problem with you is that a person can not disagree with you without seeing you going into automatic shutdown mode.  When it happens between us, I can see a veil of fog falling over your face, and nothing I say from that moment matters.  At the risk of sounding like… Read full post »

White3 

 I took a moment today to look more closely at the "weeds" in my yard.  They are really lovely.  I know what a few of them are, but if there are any botany buffs out there who can tell me for sure, I'd appreciate it.

Pink2 

 

Blue1

 

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In Florida, children tend to be handled as a major nuisance.  The legislature has so many important things to do, yet they still find time to splash a little more acid into the faces of Florida kids:

Take the following as examples:

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Film in Florida,Read full post »
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Only the heartless could deny she is unworthy.    She doesn’t care that her mother is single and unemployed, and she doesn’t see any difference between an Eskimo and an Arab.  No amount of money spent killing terrorists could improve the world as much as/… Read full post »

There are not so many fond memories from my childhood, nor are there from my early adulthood.  I was not a pretty child, not blessed with a lovely voice or lucky enough to have the popular fashions, and I did not grow into beauty, so many of my remembrances are moreRead full post »

DECEMBER 2, 2009 6:38AM

I give up on tolerance

 

 

There are a million reasons I am not a “believer.”  I remain open to the possibility that there is some sort of god, if not the big-G variety, and I also think it would be awfully arrogant of me to think that a human being is the tippy-top of… Read full post »

NOVEMBER 8, 2009 5:03AM

Sometimes I Miss Spam...

No, really, I was reading one of Tinkertink's latest blogs, which refers to and responds to a lovely piece of spam he received, and it occurred to me that sometimes that stuff could be really entertaining.  Would you like to enlarge your penis?  Why, sure, because right now it's s… Read full post »

NOVEMBER 5, 2009 8:20PM

Grow up, and grow a pair (of breasts)

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I just love it when someone says that it is just the "well-to-do,white, stay-at-home mothers" who are now "going natural" and doing such crazy things as breastfeeding, cloth diapering, and such.  I'm guessing that they are the most vocal about it; they do, after all, have more at-… Read full post »

OCTOBER 9, 2009 10:49PM

Not a Cartoon. Still Beautiful and Fun.

Emma 

Isn't she cute?  Emma Kathleen is 12 days old and belches like a man.

 And the real miracle is that she shares at least some of her genes with me!  Read full post »

Some time ago, another blogger on Open Salon posted a piece detailing her rape. Elena had only recently received gender reassignment surgery, and it seemed that some monster took advantage of her while she was unconscious, during one of her latest procedures. I read that piece. I always marvel at her… Read full post »

Two years ago people from numerous organizations tried to visit Congressman Vern Buchanan's Sarasota office to express to him why many Americans wanted us out of Iraq.  Only one office staffer would listen.  I can't post the video due to format, but it's worth checking out:

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SEPTEMBER 29, 2009 11:46AM

She's Just Beautiful.

Emma

 

She has arrived.  My world has been plopped on its head.  I'm a grandma!  Read full post »

My daughter Holly is 40 weeks+ pregnant.  That's a whole lot of baby in a tiny little space.  She has had a remarkably smooth pregnancy so far; one of her biggest complaints is that after making it through her teenage years with no more than 5 pimples, she now has someRead full post »

I do love Florida wildlife.  I moved here and immediately felt wonder at the variety of plants, birds, and of course sea life.  We combed the beaches for seashells and shark’s teeth, we nervously observe the alligators, and we eagerly watch the ibis and the egrets shuffling through ou… Read full post »

SEPTEMBER 11, 2009 8:48PM

Dueling Americans

Friday afternoon musings, to the tune of Lee Greenwood’s “Proud to Be an American”…

 

(1st verse, from a diabetic)

Looks like all the precious things are gone,

That I’ve worked for all my life,

And I wish that I could start again,

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 You cannot help the poor by helping the rich.  (And they really don't need the help.)

You cannot weaken the truly strong by strengthening the weak.

You cannot "thrift" your way out of destitution.

You cannot lift the wage earner up by giving his boss less… Read full post »

 I just love it when someone exposes how much money CEO's are raking in while they deny raises and refuse to hire.  Funny how that works.  For them.
 
From my friend Leigh Bailey: " No one should die because they cannot afford health care, and no one should go broke because they get sick. If you agree, please post this as your status for the rest of the day." Any questions?
AUGUST 31, 2009 11:59PM

I dreamed I met my granddaughter.

She's due to arrive in 2 weeks.  I know they rarely arrive on time, but even if she's a week or two late, it seems like too soon.  Too soon for her mom to be a mom...19 is still such a babe.  Too soon for me to be a gramma...41 is… Read full post »