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FEBRUARY 9, 2009 1:15PM

The Real Food Stamp Challenge: Compassion

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CNN has become the latest organization to jump on the "Food Stamp Challenge" bandwagon, with New Orleans-based correspondent Sean Callebs reporting on his experiences living on $176 -- the maximum amounts of benefits he could get under the Louisiana food stamp program -- for the month of February.

Nine days in, he has $100 left.

Reading though comments on his blog (or any number of message boards on the Internet) is instructive. For instance, we learn, over and over, that:

1) Food stamps were never meant to pay for ALL a person/family's food, and anyone who is using it that way is a fat, lazy bastard.

2) Food stamp recipients are all fat, lazy bastards who fill their carts with nothing but chips, soda pop, brand-name items and candy.

3) Food stamp recipients are all fat, lazy bastards who fill their carts with steak and shrimp -- sometimes steak and lobster -- before buying a carton of smokes with their cash and jumping in their shiny new SUV and driving off into the sunset.

Yup. The leeching poor and Cadillac-driving welfare queens are alive and well and probably shopping in your local Kroger right this very minute. Apparently, alongside a bunch of busy-bodies who have nothing better to do than monitor other people's food choices and pass judgment.

These stories always have a ring of authenticity. They invariably start out "I was at the store the other day...." and end with "my family and I live on x dollars a months, and we never buy...." thus contrasting the virtuous narrator with the venal welfare slob. (Guess who wins that match-up?)

Of course, there is some truth to the tales they tell. Food stamps were not designed to be a person's whole food allotment. But as wages have stagnated and the cost of living has climbed ever-upward, more and more people have been forced to use it as such.

And there are some food stamp recipients who game the system -- buying food with stamps and reselling for cash, trading cards for cash at half the face value, trading cards for services or drugs or what have you.

Underground economies flourish in any cash-poor environment. That was the case well before the establishment of the modern welfare system. It's a simple fact of survival for the poor and working class.

But people don't make "good" food choices! the moralizers cry.

The food stamp program is a creature of the Department of Agriculture, not Health and Human Services. From the government's standpoint, a potato chip is as good as a potato. The difference between buying fatty ground chuck and a nice filet mignon is negligible.  Anything that keeps industrial food production humming is fine. Concerns about the pressure a generation of bad eating is putting on the health care system is secondary, at best.  

But these are our tax dollars!

Sure. Our tax dollars also fund wars. We have the right to protest wars. But would you ever go up to a individual soldier and say: "The Kevlar helmet is fine, but do you really need that bulletproof vest? I mean, couldn't you just duck?"

Over 30 million Americans are currently enrolled for food assistance, and uncounted others are relying on increasingly strained food banks and charity programs. That number is surely going to climb as our economy continues to falter.

When we see someone using food stamps or debit cards and feel the urge to make that easy moral judgment, keep in mind that they didn't necessarily get there through a lack of personal ambition.

They are fellow citizens, bearing the brunt of almost half a century of wage suppression and loss of industry, the massive subsidies of corn, soybeans and beef, the ubiquitous advertising of cheap food, the flight of grocery stores from the inner cities and the rural exurbs, and a host of other bad choices and failed policies.

Let them eat their shrimp cocktail in peace.      

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Last week: I asked if it was time to ground Air Force One, talked about the wrongheaded economic ideologies of both the Republicans AND the Democrats, and shared my slightly dim view of Nadya Suleman's decision to bear octuplets.  

 



 

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To paraphrase George Orwell's response to critics of English welfare recipients who bought tea and cigarettes: "What kind of life would it be eating only carrots and potatoes?"
This really touched a nerve with me. There were times in my childhood where I'm pretty sure now that we were on food stamps, many others where I know for sure we weren't but that we should have been (my dad refused to apply), and once in my adult life where I got as far as the final interview before being awarded benefits, then finally found a job that would pay enough for me to eat.

I think this could be expanded a bit: I think middle-class Americans especially seem to like picking on those who are less fortunate for not knowing the sorts of things it generally takes a middle-class upbringing to know. I was extraordinarily fortunate in all circumstances because my parents didn't grow up poor. I can't believe now how many people don't realize that at some point, they *learned* how to shop for groceries, how to budget, how to prepare healthy meals, that these are not just magical things that everybody is born knowing. They also often aren't things the public schools teach.

I know I can live on $175/month for just me because I've done it. I know I've made better food choices than a lot of people on food stamps. It's because I was raised in a household where frugality could have been considered a competitive sport. Not everybody has that privilege.
$175? Hell, I betchoo they spend a lot more'nat on likker and smokes!

[/know-nothing asshole with an Opinion]

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I do deplore the attitudes of the haves towards the have-nots.
When I was a kid, my parents divorced and my mother went off to Medical School. Since she was in school full time, working part time, and trying to raise five kids, she qualified for food stamps. She used the stamps wisely, finding good prices for the food she needed.

Later, after she got her M.D., we lived fairly well. We moved to a posh suburb and I was struck by the superior attitudes that the wealthy have towards the rest of society. Mocking the poor really is a sport in the upper levels of society. Seeing as half of these people have done little to earn their status, it's rather off-putting. Too many people view every privilege that they have as a function of their own wonderful character, and neglect the fact that they live in an interdependent society where everybody relies on everybody else for the system to work.
I had been staunchly middle to upper middle class most of my life. Then I got sick and lost my job. Food stamps were a last resort. I had to go to the bathroom and cry at DHS when my card was handed to me. Nobody wants to be poor.

Furthermore, how would Callebs know who was using food stamps and who wasn't? First of all, food benefits come on a debit-like card. Speaking from personal experience, and from conversations that I've had with other residents of a homeless shelter that I lived in (not as a fun social experiment, but because the cost of medical care had overwhelmed me), people receiving food benefits tend to be very furtive about how we're paying at time of checkout. Those of us on government assistance tend not to be terribly proud of it.

Did he simply decide, in a racist and classist way, that everyone that didn't look like him (white, middle class), or wasn't making the same food choices as him, was on food stamps?

Rated.
Hooray for well-reasoned well-written responses to message board idiocy. This stuff bothers me more than I should let it. But your post is a wonderful rebuttal to the ignorance out there.

Lipshitz- thank you for your first-hand experience- I don't think Callebs was passing judgement- I think it was the commenters on the message boards.
Last week Rachel Maddow pointed out that Food Stamps are the BEST form of economic stimulus since they tend to be used and used immediately as well as providing $1.73 return on every $1 spent.
The people posting comments critical of the poor are whistling past their own graveyard. Remember the "jobless recovery"? Welcome to the jobless economy.
Thanks for this story. I'm surprised that you didn't talk about the fact that unhealthy processed foods actually tend to be cheaper than healthy foods. Food consumption is very much about class of course - it is easy to feel like a more virtuous person when buying the more expensive organic produce. Part of the "virtuous" feeling that comes from buying "organic" foods, for example, is a delight in being able to afford to buy things that others can't.
I spent some time in the poorer regions of the country, and I have never seen any food stamp recipients having lobster. I did see a lot of beans, pork, butt steak, chicken, hambone, Chef Boyardee family size ravioli, generic cereals, greens, fruit and kool aid.

I did see someone have steak once, but it was on sale.

Middle class people shouldn't judge the poor. They're a paycheck away from food stamps and HUD homes themselves. Some are already there.
I was poor once-- after an illness that almost killed me and kept me out of work for 15 months. I was one of the lucky few whose family could help me. Even though I knew I wouldn't have to live under a bridge or eat out of dumpsters thanks to my GOOD LUCK, having more bills than money was terrifying and humiliating. I think those of us who must endure poverty deserve a hand up, a hand out, and a lot more compassion from those who do not. Nobody aspires to be poor, and in a country as wealthy as ours, $176 per month to feed someone is the least we can do.
Is CNN going for ratings with this feel good story (vs the "harmless" TASER demonstration), or are they turning over a new leaf in support of [url=http://airamerica.com/node/96921#comment-520742]poverty activists[/url] since Kerry's $400 haircut VP got nailed for adultery?
And these are the people who are so morally superior, the ones that would withhold food, healthcare, and education from poor families. They are superior because they (1) aren't gay, but we know they are; (2) because they don't have abortions, we know they do; (3) because they don't get pregnant out of wedlock, but of course they do; (4) because they go to church, who cares; (5) they have no vices, bullshit; (6) because they make a lot of money. I've really had it with these people.

These morally superior people are the same ones that would send young people to war again and again without being able to name a reasonable objective for that war. These morally superior republican politicians are not even attending the funerals of our fallen soldiers. These people who complain about money for the poor are the same who okayed billions for the war in Iraq and most if went to their contract buddies, not to the health care of our returning soldiers. I may not be saying this as articulately as I should but how the hell can these people judge and claim the moral high ground? I'm just disgusted beyond belief. Money for education, health care, infrastructure is all wasteful. How can they possibly think anyone takes them seriously. This was a great post and a good companion piece would be economist Ann Pettifor's Blaming the Victims over at Huffpo. Grrrr.
When I said money for healthcare was wasteful, I meant in the GOP's opinion, not mine.
Speaking of shrimp cocktail, for the price of STOP LOSS 8+ year enlistment in the DoD you can have 3 squares a day including lobster tail served by KBR's East Timorese subcontractors.

It's just that you will have to get accustomed to extra ultrafine sand in your diet and snap-to whenever Gen Odierno says jump.

http://airamerica.com/node/96921#comment-520742
Thank-you for this wonderful post. Let's substitute "food stamps" with "bail out." That certainly changes the picture, doesn't it?

Rated out of love and experience.
Thank you so much for posting this. I am also someone who briefly had to use foodstamps when my own health condition failed and I remember not only the humiliation but the condescending way a cashier treated me.

What never ceases to amaze me is that the same ones who scream "welfare queen" anytime someone else uses foodstamps are the first ones to apply when they hit on hard times. Of course, they're never a lazy bum like the rest of us. They know they're the exception and not the rule.
good post. It's real easy to moralize what you don't live. We should all just be thankful and leave it at that. You got enough- well then you are lucky- end of story.
With the current rising unemployment rate and the downward spiraling economy many Americans may find themselves joining the ranks of the so called fat and lazy. Even worse we may become a country with a significant population that has nothing to lose. Scary.
My boyfriend and I were on food stampts for a couple of months, pre-debit card days, and it was humiliating. Even though it was very common in the neighborhood we lived in.

But I did read a terrific article, years later, about part of the problem being lack of nutrition and cooking education. That a local cooking school started teaching free evening classes to welfare moms, to show that making your own spaghetti sauce (for example) was a lot cheaper and healthier than buying prepackaged.

Just as there are situations where people are playing the system, I'm sure there are people out there who are buying crap because they don't know any better.

I also have to agree with Henry Cow's Orwell quote (1st comment).
thanks for this.

i'm amazed at the number of people who will invent scenarios and attitudes toward people like food-stampers with almost no info and very little reasoning.
Great post.

I'm lucky to have gone through the foodstamp shuffle early in life (during the recession of the mid 70's) when I found out I couldn't win no matter what type of food I bought. Back then, food stamps came in paper books and you HAD to count them out to the cashier because they would snip at you if you didn't. Then, people in line who had been perfectly friendly before , would start start sighing loudly as soon as the stamp booklet appeared because you were "holding them up" (the line).

I say I was "lucky" in an ironic sense since I didn't like having the experience of the blatent hypocrisy and fear of people who had once been my peers dumped on my head. ("Wouldn't your time be better spent looking for a job, than sitting in a welfare office?")

I also remember the slash and burn that happened to the urban gardens that many neighborhoods tried to grow so the could have cheaper and more variety of produce. Land that had been unused for years was suddenly lucrative and essential once the poors tried to use a small patch for gardens.

I even had a landlord who wouldn't let me start a garden in the tiny backyard in back of my apartment. I guess he liked the cast off beer bottles and litter from the nearby carryout better.
You make an extraordinarily strong case for the Food Stamp Program. The Food Stamp Program, for all its weaknesses, is one of the better government programs, inasmuch as it is an extremely efficient mechanism matching consumers with producers and benefiting both. Likewise, cheating. Although recipients selling their benefits does occur, it is also true that there can be no cheating without the collusion of merchants. And fraud units can easily oversee this, because fraudulent transactions, serially committed, leave a footprint in data. So, Food Stamp crime is less of a problem than the critics would have it.

I think you are onto something about self-interested moralizing. All too often people of means forget what charity they themselves have received in life and grudge the government largesse that feel they are paying. I'm with you, I think, that I'd rather they spend my tax dollars on butter (or margarine) and not guns (or cluster bombs).

It is a fact that most people who receive Food Stamp Benefits need those benefits. And whether some mother spends her Food Stamp benefits on potatoes or potato chips, the kids are going to eat most of it and not go to bed hungry.
Thanks for an excellent post. I enjoy chatting with people on the checkout line, without analyzing and critiquing their shopping cart. I am upset how many people only seem happy when they can despise someone else.
Well done, Heather. Minorities have traditionally been linked to the welfare system though disproportionately so. Now that more families, regardless of color, are adversely impacted by economic collapse, perhaps the social stigma will diminish. After all, many of us are probably only 2 0r 3 paychecks away, if that, from leaning on Uncle Sam to supply our basic needs.
There are quite a few issues I have with the food stamp program and some of the beneficiaries. First, when I was in school trying to better myself, I was denied food stamps on a number of occassions. It was because I was in school. (So what my child had to eat, I shouldn't be in school.)

The next issue I have is how many of the workers act like they are writing you a check or giving you money out of their pockets. I noticed how the workers wouod talk to the people in the office, especially the ones who lacked education. It was/is horrible.

My last issue is with the people who sell their food stamps. In Illinois, the stamps are issued on a debit like card and if the money is on the card on the 1st, by the 5th someone is in the store trying to sell their stamps. They will shop at a discount store such as Aldi or Sav-a Lot and go to one of the bigger stores (where most people pay cash) to sell their stamps. If you are selling your stamps, you dont need them. You are also violating the stipulations of the program. I've also seen people in the candy wholesale house buying candy and other snacks to sell in the summer time (which is also a violation).
Yeah, they buy junk food sometimes, because it's cheap! It is much cheaper to eat junk food than healthy food, unless you have time to cook everything from scratch.

Some people are just SO paranoid about the poor. It goes beyond food stamps. I know some people who actually think that no one goes hungry in America, and if they do it's only because they are too crazy or drugged out to provide for themselves. I have a big issue with those people...
I think these jackasses who think they know everything about what everyone should do should just give volunteering a whirl. Try out a food bank, a soup kitchen, a homeless shelter. For a start. What they find will knock their farging socks off.

I worked the kitchen on Saturday. Now, normally, people come and go who are obviously not there to eat. They are dropping off donations or enquiring about volunteering or even visiting volunteers from their church. This Saturday, no less than 5 times, someone came in who looked like one of those people and not a person in need and then ended up sitting down to eat. The poverty line is catching people--lots of elderly and sick. People with lots of kids in precarious job markets. Conservatives tend to see poverty and need as a product of character flaws, and liberals tend to see them as symptoms of something systemic.

I can't help but think that we're smarter.
Jesus tried thousands of years ago to get people to stop hating the poor. It is disappointing how this lesson never seems to take. It is also admirable that you are giving this lesson.
wonderful post. thank you. rated
When I was a kid we got food stamps. Once when we were not qualified to receive them we had nothing to eat but corn meal mush with cheap margarine on it.

So I want those selfish, opinionated asses to go and tell the children of such unfortunate parents how they should suffer for the alleged shortcomings of their parents.

Selfishness is the equal of stupidity, and these oafs show both.
I forgot to mention, it was TWO WHOLE DAMNED MONTHS of cornmeal mush.
Thanks for a wonderful read. Whenever I hear people saying how they could do better than people with less in whatever situation, I always think, "I would hope so." Of course people with a lifetime of privilege can do better when something tough happens. It's when you have to deal with though stuff as the rule, not the exception, that you can start getting bogged down by the challenge.
So the other day at the grocery store...

Kidding, kidding.

I could manage on $176 a person, but it wouldn't be much fun! That's what, about six bucks a day? Lotta ramen noodles and dried beans and peanut butter.

I've been noticing recently that a lot of people on OS are either out of work or underemployed, plus a lot of people seem to be trying to lose weight, so I put out an Open Call for healthy recipes that don't cost much. Hope you don't mind my mentioning it here!
before food stamps, government surplus food was distributed in every town to low-income people. At the same time as my father was railing against poor people driving Cadillacs etc., his trucking business was staying afloat because of these government contracts to deliver food. He only stopped applying for the contracts when they required refrigerated trucks for the frozen products. He saw the requirement as unnecessary government intrusion.

Today, through circumstances too depressing to recount, my partner and I are taking assistance from food pantries. I cannot tell you the shame, embarrassment, and fear of being discovered I experience every time I go. My accountant has tried to help me become more comfortable with taking help. He pointed out that we have donated a relatively large amount of money when we were doing well ( >10k in 7 yrs) and when my business gets going again, he knows we will donate again. Therefore, lighten up, take the help you need, and commit to helping others after you've taken care of yourself.

you know, he is right. I just launched a new product and instead of trying to do it all myself, I brought in a friend who needed work and could help. here's hoping two boats float a little higher. If we all try to help each other's boats float, then we will survive this economic downturn.
Hot dogs, along with many similar foods are cheap meat but expensive protein because of the fat and other fillers.

In a strong economy, the people who have trouble getting or keeping jobs are those with poor life skills. They didn't figure out how to get or keep a job, how to acquire the skills that make them a desirable employee. Is it any wonder that they are not making great nutrition and budget decisions?
Ah those 'latte conservatives'...

From the mind of Roger Waters:

"Money, get away.
Get a good job with good pay and youre okay.
Money, its a gas.
Grab that cash with both hands and make a stash.
New car, caviar, four star daydream,
Think Ill buy me a football team.

Money, get back.
I'm all right jack keep your hands off of my (tax cuts).
Money, its a hit.
Don't give me that do goody good bullshit.
I'm in the high-fidelity first class traveling set
And I think I need a Lear jet.

Money, its a crime.
Share it fairly but don't take a slice of my (tax cuts).
Money, so they say
Is the root of all evil today.
But if you ask for a raise its no surprise that they're
Giving none away."

And oddly the biggest welfare queens are those that bitch the most about 'teh poor'.

Give them their corporate bailouts and 'Arnold Bucks' because the only form of government that works to them is the one that puts the most money in their pockets...

"And after a while, you can work on points for style
Like the club tie, and the firm handshake
A certain look in the eye, and an easy smile
You have to be trusted by the people that you lie to
So that when they turn their backs on you
You'll get the chance to put the knife in."

And George Walker Bush's future?

"And in the end you'll pack, fly down south
Hide your head in the sand
Just another sad old man
All alone and dying of cancer."

To those that think Grover Norquist and Rush Limbaugh are heroes I say that this country would be better off without you... We can't afford you anymore...
Malusinka,

I think you are flat wrong. Not all people who don't have a job lack skills nor do they lack the intelligence to figure out good choices. Sometimes they are just so busy with the business of surviving that they don't have the wherewithal to learn some of the things that the privileged have time to be taught before they risk trouble. It's smug to think you know. People who find themselves between a rock and a hard place come from all parts of our culture. Poor nutritional choices are often driven by budget alone.
Eat the rich...

"Well I woke up this morning
On the wrong side of the bed
And how I got to thinking
About all those things you said
About ordinary people
And how they make you sick
And if calling names kicks back on you
Then I hope this does the trick

Cause I'm a sick of your complaining
About how many bills
And Im sick of all your bitching
Bout your poodles and your pills
And I just cant see no humour
About your way of life
And I think I can do more for you
With this here fork and knife

Chorus:
Eat the rich: there's only one thing they're good for
Eat the rich: take one bite now - come back for more
Eat the rich: I gotta get this off my chest
Eat the rich: take one bite now, spit out the rest

So I called up my head shrinker
And I told him what Id done
Said you'd best go on a diet
Yeah I hope you have some fun
And a don't go burst a bubble
On the rich folks who get rude
Because you wont get in no trouble
When you eats that kinda food
Now their smoking up the junk bonds
And then they go get stiff
And they're dancing in the yacht club
With muff and uncle biff
But there's one good thing that happens
When you toss your pearls to swine
Their attitudes may taste like shit
But go real good with wine
Chorus

Wake up kid, its half past your youth
Ain't nothing really changes but the date
You a grand slammer, but you no babe ruth
You gotta learn how to relate
Or you'll be swinging from the pearly gate
Now you got all the answers, low and behold
You got the right key baby but the wrong key ho, yo

Believe in all the good things
That money just cant buy
Then you wont get no belly ache
From eating humble pie
I believe in rags to riches
Your inheritance wont last
So take your Grey Poupon my friend
And shove it up your ass!
Chorus

Eat the rich: there's only one thing they're good for
Eat the rich: take one bite now - come back for more
Eat the rich: don't stop me now I'm going crazy
Eat the rich: that's my idea of a good time baby"

Are we that far from 'Soylent Green'? And they (republicans) are the 'party of life', pro-life...
To begrudge the poor food is to wish them dead. This attitude can be traced to the repugnican reagan pushing the message of envy and hatred of our own people done because they did not want us looking behind the curtain to see how the government hated its own people. These attitudes will persist because they are not based on thought but propaganda until these haters land on government assistance themselves. Empathy, as well as jobs and food, is in short supply.
First off.. I am on food stamps. I am not proud of it, I dont like it, but if I have to choose between my kids eating and my pride my kids are gonna eat.
Second, Ive worked in a grocery store, hell on of the most snotty, upity expensive grocery stores in the great St Louis area, and Ive seen the people on Link come thru and by the most rediculous things. Its not usually shrimp and porter house steak, its 10 for 10 frozen pizzas, 10 for 10 big bottles of soda, and pringles. If they can get it for a dollar they buy it by the pallette.
Third, my girls know we dont shop like that. We buy the basic things we need for food, the meat, vegitables, milk, break. the staples. Then when thats out of the way they can splurge a little. Ice cream, kool aid, nothing over the top.
Fourth, just because someone is on food stamp doesnt make them a fat lazy bastard! I am only fat bc Ive always been fat so there! I am not lazy, no one is hiring and Im pretty sure my last boss is black listing me, and damn it I know who my father is.
Lastly, those people who trade/sell their stamps need to be locked up. I sat next to a man on day we were watching the Link training tape (they actually train you how to shop/pay for things with your card) and he sat there telling me how he doesnt us it for him, he uses it for a friend who cant get on the program. whatever, you use it for drugs. Those moms that just keep getting pregnant to stay on the program, the government instead of talking up the pros and cons of the program should be funding to get those whores tubes tied!

now that im in a bad mood.. have a nice morning..
Susanne comment + Dave comment=comment I wish I'd written. Great post.
Oh, and let's not forget all those brown skinned foreigners who set up shop in poor neighborhoods, pay cash for the food stamps at about 40 cents on the dollar, then collect the face value from the guv'mint!

I like that several people here explained how close the complainers are to being food stamp recipients, themselves.

My biggest heartbreak is the young military folks who qualify for aid.
I've never used food stamps and haven't run across food stamp issues in my practice. From what I've read, however, it used to be the case that they could be horribly abused, but now the system is set up to prevent a lot of those abuses. In particular, the swipe card system makes it impossible to either sell your benefit or use it to buy alcohol or junk food.
thank god for food stamps. i remember the days when they did not have the card system. i felt so bad for the folks in front of me in the line. you could sense their shame when they pulled out their stamp booklets.

as dostevsky said, "compassion is the chief law of human existence."
As self appointed resident voice of the poor I must therow my two cents in(cash). Having used the program and having ben friends of many who are using the program I don't recall seeing anyone of them doing anymore than trying to make the budget stretch out far enough taht they could make it until the next month. Many of them are parents of small kids and they even have a service job, you know the ones that are left here since we let our industries move to offshore labor. They are indeed to a person ashamed of the fact that they are in the position of having to rely on assistance.
See, I don't have to try and make the thing something, I've been down and what the majority of those who aren't and have never been in a place that left no choice but to seek aid from the government is the shame. Even the people who are bold and loud feel shame when they have to use them. The old fod coupons were more of a factor than the debit type of card. Too bad the issuers were so asdamant about making sure that if you pulled out the card in public that everyone would be able to see that you were using a benefit card. Kept the shame factor in there.
I truly wish that we could find a little compassion for the poor. Stop using help as an excuse to belittle a person who is in a bad place. You folks may not know it but many of them die a little each time they have to pay with that little card. Every time someone looks at them with that look of disgust. When the kids ask them why they are eating the cheap bags of cereal instead of the pretty boxed ones that they are hammered with on childrens T.V. Things are tough, for us all, and we don't even realize that we do it.
I'd like to thank all of you for all these wonderful comments. It lifts my spirits to know that, despite all the nasty comments I read as I prepared to write this entry, that there are an overwhelming number of good and kind people in the world!

Here's a quote from the CNN blog that I wanted to pass on:

"Meanwhile, Jack in Tennessee says he has just given up trying to eat healthy. He gets $139 a month in food stamps, buys 20 frozen food meals for a buck each, then stocks up on canned spaghetti. Jack writes he spends about $100 on soda, candy, popcorn, chips, and cookies. He says, "it burns people up to see me buying this stuff with my card, but I don't care. Eating is the only fun I can afford.""
If you buy junk food with food stamps, you're vilified, if you buy steak you're vilified. It becomes very difficult to do "the right thing" in that moment, or for the scores of different people who weigh in on your personal food consumption.

As someone who has spent time on food stamps, I'd say that it's hard to buy healthy food cheaply. You can, but it often (not always, but often) takes more time and energy to cook. We ate a lot of rice and beans, a lot of tortillas, a lot of pasta and red sauce.

We also in Oregon have great farmers markets that very often take food stamps. I used to go to the bigone in Eugene, which was amazing for its selection. Sadly, about 1/3 of the sellers were openly rude to me because I was choosing organic field greens, or something they considered "too expensive," though for the weight and cost, they were very nutritious. The other 2/3 of the sellers were exactly the opposite: wonderful, thoughtful, gave me tips on buying cheap veggies they had and what to do with them. But yeah, I often felt like I couldn't win.
I should also add that I came to really hate wealthy people because of the farmers markets, where they would also openly be rude to me if I were buying anything there--the assumption being, I guess, that it was too expensive (though many things were cheaper or were just such higher quality/healthier). There was also an underlying reaction of "this is our place," a kind of place where you can buy fresh cut flowers and farm raised lamb (which I never bought) was a place they felt they should be insulated from the working class, I guess.

I've tried to stop feeling that way, but man, it has lasted a long, long time.
Why don't we talked about hedgefunders instead?
It just came out that OctoMom is already receiving $490 a month in food stamps -- even before the latest litter. This bitch -- sorry, but the word fits in her case -- and her ilk are what gives welfare a bad name. And the fertility doctor who plugged her should be made to pay for all eight children until such times as they are gainfully employed and self-supporting. Think he'd pull that stupid stunt again?

Having been the beneficiary of welfare at times when I was growing up, I wish to hell we'd return to the old days when you got USDA plain-brown-wrapper yellow corn meal, cheese, powdered milk and spam. But that won't happen, and you know why? Because corporate food conglomerates and middle-men super-market chains make out real well with the food-stamp program.
Just gorgeous! Really- as someone who has been on both sides of the Social Services desk, you hit it! Thanks for your thoughtfulness.
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