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Heather Ryan

Heather Ryan
Location
Eugene, Oregon, US
Birthday
December 20
Bio
"Imagine," says writer TK Dalton, "a knocked up Bookslut, Salam Pax with a dead beat ex instead of Raed. That's Terrible Mother." She's also a quick-thinking, smart-mouthed single mother to three kids. By day, she teaches writing to college freshmen and sophomores. By night, she cooks, cleans, parents and writes. She is, despite vehemently claiming to be one, not a hipster, but does have an MFA in Fiction from the University of Oregon, which she earned by duct-taping her children to chairs and feeding them bottles of Benadryl (not necessarily in that order). Terrible Mother still lives in Oregon, where she deals her snarky brand of parenting humor to her friends. "Another single mother blog?" says novelist Roby Connor. "Someone get this lady some Jesus."

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AUGUST 1, 2008 9:08PM

Poem of the Week

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So, a million years ago, when I started Terrible Mother, I included as part of the shenanigans a poem of the week. This poem was something I’d find and post for readers to enjoy. Part of this is because I love poetry and I abhor the way people think poetry is just too esoteric and ineffable to be of use to them. Christian Wiman, the editor of Poetry magazine, said “Let us remember…that in the end we go to poetry for one reason, so that we might more fully inhabit our lives and the world in which we live them, and that if we more fully inhabit these things, we will be less apt to destroy both.”

I love that quote. I love it partially because Christian gives me an ulcer and he’s pretentious and egotistical. Friend One and I once snuck into a very exclusive party at the top of the Hilton in Atlanta one year by getting by Christian. He’s wrong a lot of times, and he’s kinda a jerk. But he’s smart and a really talented poet. And he’s right about this. I also love publishing a Poem of the Week because I’d like to think my poet friends will someday make some money*, even a smallish amount. Poetry is too important to lose.

And this poem is perhaps one of my favorites, something that is not only accessible, but timely, and is written by a good friend, Dorriane Laux. 

Dead End 

Pentagon Orders Dead Officers To Report For Duty

The U.S. army said Friday it would apologize to the families of about 75 officers killed in action who were mistakenly sent letters urging them to return to active duty.

--January 5, 2007 WASHINGTON (AP)

Will The Dead Please Rise

Will the dead please rise and raise
your right hands. Will the dead please
swear to uphold that hand for as long
as it takes. Will the dead please
reassemble your bones, replace
your heads, return your hearts, recant
your screams. Will the dead please
salute the flag ripped from the body
politic. Will the dead please step
onto the helicopters and into the bodies
of soldiers about to become you. Give
the living your history, your wisdom,
your sleepless eternities, your missteps
only they can make right, remind them
nightly to go on living. Will the dead
please buckle up and bring them home.

-Dorianne Laux

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I'm glad you're doing Poem of the Week, and I loved that one.
I am one of those often too lazy to do the work required to fully inhabit my life and tend to shy away from poetry for its tendency to remind me of that failing.

This, however, is great and perhaps if you will continue to post a Poem of the Week, tm, I will get better at embracing both poetry and my life.

Thanks.
thanks for bringing it here.