Hells Bells

Hells Bells
Location
Heart of the Heart of the Country
Birthday
February 01
Bio
Book editor, parent, MFA in poetry from a land far, far, away--and a long, long time ago . . . I'm not a psychologist, but I play one on TV.

MY RECENT POSTS

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SEPTEMBER 20, 2011 11:53AM

Mom Always Liked You Best

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 MY BROTHER AND I, ages 8 and 11, were shocked when our parents sat us down in the living room to let us know we had an older half-sister. And what's more, that she would be coming to visit us in our suburban tri-level home, smack dab in the middle… Read full post »

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OCTOBER 11, 2010 2:03PM

About My Bipolar Daughter (Part 2)

 

Read Part 1 of this post.  

Jane's expenses are next to nothing--she lives in a one-room apartment on the college campus--but even so, I know she’ll run out of money by the middle of next month, and I wonder what will happen then.  Her father and I divorced many years/… Read full post »

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OCTOBER 11, 2010 2:02PM

About My Bipolar Daughter (Part 1)

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"crow," by my daughter 

I feel I should apologize to the receptionist, get up from my chair in the waiting room and say, “I’m sorry for the way she spoke to you.  She’s bipolar. " Unmedicated bipolar, I think to myself.

She’s gone off on the receptionist… Read full post »

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AUGUST 5, 2010 10:09AM

I Made . . . the Amazing Plaid Bomber Jacket

 

I sew. Or rather, I sewed. It's past tense these days because it's been taking all my energy to get my pants on the right way around in the morning and arrive at work on time.

 

When I was a teenager, all the girls sewed . . . it's… Read full post »

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AUGUST 18, 2009 10:27PM

The Accidental Poetry of Alzheimer's

While going through old papers, I found these words, and it seemed to me I had found real poetry. I broke the lines for sense and breath, created the stanzas, and added titles that seemed to capture the train of thought, however broken. The words are exactly as my father wrote them--includi… Read full post »

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AUGUST 6, 2009 5:14PM

Teen Dyed His Hair Pink

Deborah Young blogged Study in 21st Century Teenager and, having one of those myself, I could not resist . . .

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Teen dyed hair pink.

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Teen displays flags of Kenya and Germany (runs cross country, studies German)

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Teen leaves cross country clothes on floor. ActRead full post »

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JULY 27, 2009 8:56PM

Funny, They Don't LOOK Disabled: Invisible Disabilities

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My friend Beth went blind as a young adult, the result of complications of Type 1 diabetes. Her son, Gus, was born with a profound cognitive impairment and uses a wheelchair.  So it’s pretty clear when you see them

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JUNE 1, 2009 2:11PM

Murder for Hire: Working for the "Hit Man" Publisher

Working for the Man

In March of 1993, James Perry murdered Mildred Horn, her eight-year-old quadriplegic son, and the son’s nurse. With a $2 million settlement his son had received for his injuries at stake, Horn’s ex-husband hired Perry to do the hit. Among Perry’s possessions was… Read full post »

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APRIL 27, 2009 9:31AM

ADHD Study: Meds Stunt Growth, Ineffective Long-Term?

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My two teenage children have ADHD, and both have been on stimulant medication from a very young age--first grade and kindergarten, respectively. So it got my attention when I saw headlines suggesting that long-term medication doesn't work and in fact stunts children's growth.

The origin of… Read full post »

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APRIL 24, 2009 3:04PM

OMG! Absurd Drug Education Filmstrip of the 70s

Tom Pantera mentioned the lame drug education efforts of the 70s in his very worthwhile and serious post Drug Testing Less Vital Than Drug Talking.

I couldn't resist posting this absurd drug education filmstrip, enhanced with comic voice-over.

I actually remember sitting through stuff just… Read full post »

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APRIL 7, 2009 10:33PM

Why I Wrote the Bipolar Child Story

 

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 "disloyal," by my daughter

LAST MONTH, I posted a story about what it’s like living with my bipolar child. I’m mostly a poet, and I tend to think in images and metaphors—so it was an extended metaphor about a puppy:

It's like having this beautiful puppy. AndRead full post »

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MARCH 26, 2009 3:58PM

Harry Harlow's Monkey Studies and Me

 In 1964, my my father took his sabbatical at the University of Wisconsin at Madison. I was in the sixth grade; my brother, the ninth.  

Harry Harlow ran the primate lab in the psychology department at that time, as he had since 1956. Harlow is perhaps best known for a seriesRead full post »

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MARCH 14, 2009 11:18AM

Why I Hate My Bipolar Child

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Photocollage by my talented bipolar child.

It's like having this beautiful puppy. And sometimes it's great being with the puppy. It climbs up  into your lap, and you stroke its soft fur. It looks at you, and you can see it loves you. It even says, "I love you." And… Read full post »