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My Marine and I have been married sixteen years and counting. We love each other a great deal, even if our day to day existence can get quite testy. We say we are each other's last spouse. CC was hit by recoilless rifle round in Vietnam in 1969 and was retired from the Marines with over 100% in disabilities. He has led a colorful life and now struggles as his mobility deteriorates and the amount of pain he is in accelerates. I am the Aaron to his Moses because I am his story teller, the chronicler of his escapades. This blog is mostly about our current VA experiences and what is like to live with a war veteran 40 years after the fact of war. PS, I am friending all who are veterans, or families of veterans (whether I agree with their posts or not) This is to make this a site where you can see the full diversity of those who pay for our wars. So if you "come out" as a veteran, family member or someone devoted to their issues, I will friend you.

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Salon.com
OCTOBER 4, 2009 9:52AM

My Life Is Not Normal

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  canyon

Boy, do I have something to tell the psychiatrist when CC goes on Wednesday to be judged whether he should be compensated for having PTSD.

You see, CC is now on a mission to visit all the state parks in Georgia. This obsession began this summer shortly after he began traveling through life in a wheelchair.  He bought a Forester to carry the chair around and became adamant that we were going each state park in Georgia. It took us three state park visits to finally find one manned so that he could buy a disabled veteran pass for one half of what a normal citizen would have to pay for it.

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Saturday about 10:30am, CC decides it is time to use our pass and find another state park to visit. He got on the internet and found Providence Canyon in Southwest Georgia near the Georgia Alabama line.  It took us two hours from that time to fix a smoothie, pack a lunch and get the car packed.  And then we were off.

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The car's navigational device was dead set on us going to downtown Charleston South Carolina on the way from central Georgia to southwest Georgia.  I spent an hour listening to it tell me to make a U Turn right away before I found a way to silence it. The navigational system in this car is for the left of brain, the hearty PC user, not a right brained, intuitive Apple user.


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We made the trip in close to three hours. We were on our way to a glorified gully, an ecological disaster caused by poor farming techniques. It advertises itself as not having been there 150 years ago.  So I am kind of mad on the way because I don't like looking at big ecological screw ups. They upset me.  On the good side, I realized I am in Native American territory where the creeks still have Indian sounding names and even some of the towns do.  
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Southwest Georgia is lush right now and there are some beautiful wildflowers blooming. 

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The Providence Canyon is best suited to hikers and is not for handicapped folks in wheelchairs.  There were trails down to the bottom

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and several places to park, get out, walk a short distance and look over into the canyon rim at all the erosion, but if a person is totally confined to a wheelchair, we suggest you find a different park. 

The cliffs are Georgia Red Clay and Georgia White Kaolin with extrusions poking way up from an eroded valley.

 

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We had a picnic under an old cedar tree and then left.

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We were close to Florence Marina State Park so we drove there. This place is much more handicap friendly.  The state park is situated on the northen end of a 45,000 acre lake created from the Chattahoochee River in 1967.

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Alabama is right across the waterway. We could paddle all the way to the Gulf from this place if we wanted. 

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The boats here are big water boats. The headwaters of the Chattahoochee River supply Atlanta with drinking water and has been subject of a bitter dispute about water rights between Georgia, Alabama and Florida for the last twenty years. The supreme court just ruled that Atlanta could not use the challanged drinking water because  it is in a federal reservoir.
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We drove around and accessed just how handicapped friendly the Florence Marine was. If you are in a wheel chair, you will find the accomdations you need here .

  4waybbqsign

We left there and headed up 27 to Lumpkin and at the 4 Corners BarBQ had a dynamite supper.
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Then we began the trip home. This is the part of the journey which tells me my life is not normal.  I live with a person whose whole nervous system is covered in shrapnel and  is a traveling war zone.

We were in Montezuma, Georgia at 8:30 at night and I am driving. It had just gotten dark. A full moon had risen and it was sweet Georgia countryside.  A pick up truck got behind me in town a short ways back while I tried to navigate on Hwy 49 and see which way the road went. He gave a couple of soft honks at me as I tried decide whether to turn down the railroad tracks or the road.

A mile down the road my phone rang and it was my 85 year old mother. I always answer when she calls. CC began yelling at me at the top of his lungs that the speed limit is 35.  I am going 30. I am riding down the road at a slow speed at night on Hwy 49 and he is convinced the people in pickup truck behind us could have a gun and might shoot at us because I am going five miles below the speed limit.  

Did you know that seventy five percent of the people traveling after dark have guns in their car?  I, myself, have not ever heard this statistic before.  I have to hang up with my mother because my husband is in a full blown PTSD attack in the middle of Montezuma, Georgia, Mennonite capital of the state.

Now, surely we deserve some compensation because CC is hardwired at this point in his life to think people are going to shoot at us.  I can't even take him out after dark anymore. 

  peacehat

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Great mission!Great pics! Great report! - Need better map shots so us yankees can navigate the real estate - and a team of fn lawyers to sue the crap out of any place that does not meet AWDA standard!
Snowden, thanks - the links in the post will take you to the websites for these parks. We traversed many a back road to get there. But we don't want to sue the over burdened park system. They are letting go the workers right and left because of budget cuts. There were handicapped bathrooms at the Canyon and parking, but it just isn't the kind of park that someone who is confined to a wheelchair will get much out of. The rim is still eroding making a concrete path a futile endeavor.
Sure enough! I followed the links - I was lost but now I am found!
I would sure like to look around out there. I have done the whole coast - hit most every beach, but hardly venture west. Thanks again!
Good stuff. Sorry about CC, tell him hello from a DAV. I want to visit all the presidential library's before I kick it, but I, like CC do not travel well. But I'll get there. Great Pics, great post!!
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Scanner, keep us posted on where you go and let us know if we ought to go too.
Whoa. 75%??? Jeez...
Good read. Thank you for posting.
yeah, 75% - who knows the accuracy of the number. Funny, several of the men I have told this story to don't think he was being paranoid at all - or maybe I should say this: his paranoia is justified.
Love your post, and love the pics!! To reinforce the paranoia, when we were driving back to Tampa, Fla after my grandmother's funeral, we blew a tire. My mom and her husband and my kids went to find a gas station up the road, leaving my brother and me on the highway with the car. A car pulled up behind us, and I was all innocent and "Oh nice!! Someone stopping to help!" My brother said "not necessarily" and waved them on, miming that we didn't need them. And later, at the tire place, while we were getting the tire replaced, the kids (8 and 12) wanted to wander around the parking lot. I said sure, since I would be watching, but my brother, again, said "no. Kids are not safe alone in this state." I guess I raised my family in a bubble!!