On Second Thought
MY RECENT POSTS
- Rabbits, Thrusters and Female
Empowerment
March 02, 2009 12:30AM - When Women Cry at Work
April 23, 2009 12:44AM - Easy Come, Easy Go But Please
Don't Do It Again
March 24, 2009 01:59AM - Sometimes I Wanna But Just
Can't
March 08, 2009 12:13AM - Like Gas and Matches
February 28, 2009 01:18AM
MY RECENT COMMENTS
- “Hi again, thanks for all
who read and
commented.
Les,
clearly you are smarter
than…”
August 20, 2009 01:03PM - “Hi all, thanks so much
for reading and
commenting.
vzn: I'm
just generally in
the…”
August 19, 2009 12:59PM - “Lucy, thanks for
reading!”
August 18, 2009 07:26PM - “He, he. I love the quote
from your grandfather.
Marriage
certainly isn't easy
and…”
July 20, 2009 04:49PM - “Gwendolyn: Thanks for
reading and commenting. Your
situation
seems like it
would…”
July 20, 2009 04:40PM
In the Closet's Links
I chose The Big Red Thruster. That was my first vibrator.
It was definitely red. It had considerable more girth than any
penis I'd had at the time. It was all veiny. It had a dial for
vibration speed control. And "thruster" was just fun to say.
I was about 17 when I… Read full post »
When Women Cry at Work
Today marks the first time I've made an employee cry. If it had been a guy employee it would have been cooler, but of course it wasn't.
Dudes don't cry at work. Women cry at work. It's lame and it's not OK.
If you’re sitting at your desk… Read full post »
Easy Come, Easy Go But Please Don't Do It Again
It's not often that the man and I get time "alone." I don't mean "alone, alone," I mean naked.
It's been a long time. Sometimes in marriage, it just happes that way. Sex becomes a secondary thought to making dinner, doing yard work, raising kids, grocery shopping, vacuuming, whatever. Life… Read full post »
Sometimes I Wanna But Just Can't
Tonight's the night. But I sat here FORever and just can't. I wanna write but it just won't come out. Sorry.
::sigh::
Like Gas and Matches
She'll never forget the last time, at Jim's farewell. The last time you comfortably snugged your hand down the back of her jeans while you called for a taxi. It had been more than three years and you'd never even kissed her. But it was easy, natural for you to touch… Read full post »
We Were Once in Love
It is clear to me now
That we were once in love
In some other place and time
Some other space where fate and circumstance were harmonious.
My heart aches to know that I'll not discover everything about you that moves me… Read full post »
The Test Said I Might Be an Alcoholic
I read once that if you feel the need to look up signs of whether or not you're an alcoholic, you just might be.
(Hold on while I open my beer.)
OK, now I'm ready. So, there's been a few times in the last six or seven years when I've wondered if… Read full post »
I'm Feelin' Sexy but Monogamy is Killin' It
For like 335 days a year, I love making love to my husband. My husband is good in bed, he knows what I like, I know what he likes, it's all fun and good. But sometimes a few days out of the year roll around when monogamy really sucks. I… Read full post »
She's My Best Friend, I Can't Tell Her Not to Marry Him
She didn't want to tell me over the phone, so she waited until she had to pick me up from the airport--almost a whole week after he proposed to her. When your best friend that you've known since you were born gets engaged and she doesn't want to tell you right… Read full post »
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