JANUARY 22, 2011 11:50AM

The Split Personality of Silence

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The power of silence. The dual personality of silence. 

Sometimes silence is so welcome. So necessary. The silence of a quiet house at night, when the kids and pets are finally asleep. No more ringing of the phone, no more jabbering from the television.

The silence that falls when the last party goer leaves. The sigh of relief. 

 The silence of a feeding baby after waking in the middle of the night, hungry as a wolf. 

The silence on top of the hill after the long climb. 

 

But then, there's the silence that is not so welcome. 

The silence in the empty house after the children leave for their father's house. 

The silence after the argument. 

The silence when that phone call, or text message, or email is not returned.

The silence on a Saturday morning alone, when no one wonders about you.

 

 

~Saying nothing...sometimes says the most...~ Emily Dickinson

 

 

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There are people who care about you. :(

And yes, there's definitely a split personality to silence. Sometimes I'll be like "Geez I wish people would leave me alone" and then a month later I'm saying "Why doesn't anyone call or come by?"
No one cares about you? YOu must be having a lip quivering morning, you poor thing! I woke up today planning to visit you and bring you some of my scrumptious homemade chocolate cake and the recipe so you can make it for your boys. Will that help?
Being an sociable hermit, you have described the the dualism that is me.
The picture is the saddest one I think I have ever seen. I know that sadness, that silence, but it will be okay, the kids come home, the message is returned and then we in turn wish for silence again. A never ending circle.
Slum on over! That's an open invitation and goes (I thought) without saying. Heck, you've never visited my 'new' ghetto rental. It's sweet I tell you!
A fat pyrex of decadent Lasagna is in the oven by the way. Here in total silence myself. Eli took MY truck with MY newly full gas tank, to pick up his Mom and go to her Mom's for a haircut and visit. I TRIED to tune in KCUR 89.3 on the PC to catch a superb Cypress Avenue... Delaney and Bonnie with Eric Clapton on tour in 1969 England. Sigh.. not working :(
Silence is good. Lack of communication is devastating. Therein lies the distinction.
Silence is certainly not golden. The silent treatment with others is cruel bullshit. I grew up with that crap. Yes, silence is indeed speech.
i like silent movies in surround sound.
so true, the things you say about silence. can be a welcome display of love and diversion -- or a brick wall of anger and sadness.
Maybe there are others who cared about you and think about you often. Too often. Miss you terribly. But alas, are waiting for you to call them...
A devastating picture.
Silence is powerful. No doubt about it. Touching post.. glad to see you again.
Oh. This post is older I followed D here ... hope things are better and you come back soon.