Janis Jaquith

Janis Jaquith
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Janis Jaquith's commentaries have been broadcast on the public-radio show "Marketplace" as well as NPR's "Day to Day." She has been a regular radio essayist for public-radio station WVTF in Roanoke, Virginia since 1997. She is a columnist for Charlottesville's newsweekly, "The Hook," and author of "Birdseed Cookies: A Fractured Memoir," a collection of her radio essays. Blogger Waldo Jaquith is her son.

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NOVEMBER 19, 2008 10:22PM

Thanksgiving in Paris (...there's no place like home...)

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It's Thanksgiving morning. A low, lumpy sky spits rain into my face as I run to catch the train to the suburbs.  I collapse into the seat, take a deep breath, close my eyes and try to conjure up the smells that will saturate my mother's house today: apples, cinnamon, and that thick, welcoming smell of turkey innards and onions simmering on the stove.

Ingredients in our annual American Communion.

The train arrives at my stop and as I walk out into the street, the smell of diesel fumes reminds me that I am in France, and there will be no turkey feast today.

In France it's just...Thursday.

I hurry to the theatre where I meet my fellow Junior-Year-Abroad American students. A director will lecture us about the play we saw here last weekend.

We gather in a meeting room right next to the auditorium, which is packed with noisy little kids. Luckily, when the door is closed, the hubbub disappears.

The director sweeps in. He's wearing a calf-length leather coat and it swings freely from his shoulders, like a cape. He is a walking parody of an eccentric French man of the theatre, expounding on the play while pacing and gesturing hugely, pausing only to suck on the short cigarette held between his thumb and forefinger.

Keeping a straight face is not easy, but we make the effort and try to pay attention. Someone is quietly passing around a big bag of M & M's. You can't get M & M's in France. They must be part of someone's care-package from home. I hope there are some left by the time it reaches me.

And then it begins.

The soundtrack to -- of all things -- The Wizard of Oz comes bursting through the wall. There is no way we can pay attention to the French director now. It's hopeless.

I recognize the instrumental version of Somewhere Over the Rainbow and look around to see that we are all flicking tiny, discreet glances at our fellow countrymen, enjoying the shared surprise and recognition.

We continue to feign interest in what the director is saying to us, but the music is very loud, and I long to be on the other side of that wall, watching as Dorothy Gale of Kansas once again finds her way home.

All eyes are on the director as he pauses to light another cigarette. On the soundtrack, baby chicks are peeping.

Judy Garland begins her sweet, sad crooning of Somewhere Over the Rainbow. Now, no one is looking at the director. We are not focusing on anything in that room as the soft shadow of homesickness settles on our faces.

Wordlessly, the bag is passed to me and I shake out a single M & M, a tan one, before I pass it along.

I pop it in my mouth and silently give thanks for this tiny feast.

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There is nothing like spending the holidays abroad to make you miss the American experience like nothing else. That's when "home" really matters, at least for me.
Maybe that's why we travel: it makes home so sweet.
What makes this so familiar for me is that I spent Thanksgiving in Paris back in the fall of 1986. I would scour every magazine or billboard for some kind of reminder of home and when I was waiting for my flight out of Orly my mind was filled with thoughts of cranberry sauce and those damn L.A. Rams. It was bliss.
Be right back--gotta go get some M&Ms! These Thanksgiving posts are hard to read when you're hungry!

This resonated with me because I spent Thanksgiving of my junior year abroad in Greece. I went to Crete for my break to sightsee (I was a Classics major and wanted to visit a lot of wonderful ancient sites like Knossos). I had a souvlaki from a street vendor for my Thanksgiving dinner. When I got back to Athens to the apartment where I lived, there was a letter from my mom. She is one of the world's sweetest, most considerate, and loving moms, but she had a lapse in this letter. In it, she itemized every dish she cooked and baked for the family get-together. I love souvlaki and a lot of other Greek food, but I was about ready to fall on my sword reading this letter!

I've written about hosting our Sunni Muslim neighbors for Thanksgiving last year. If you're interested, you can check it out on my blog.

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Paws up (rated).
I spent the summer of 1973 in Greece -- that's when they had a coup d'etat and went to war with Cyprus. I spent a couple of weeks longer in Crete than planned, thanks to the ferry boats being used to transport troops to Cyrprus. I'd love to go back. (Okay, not for Thanksgiving, but maybe in the summertime again.)