A Hard Day's Blog
- January 01
- I've deleted most of my blogs, but will leave some "live" here (so I can link others to them) until I can find a new place for them. Thanks for the memories!
MY RECENT POSTS
- All Things Sirenita
July 27, 2013 11:51AM
- After Twenty-One Years...Still
March 13, 2013 07:48PM
- Memorial Day, Jaws and the
May 24, 2012 07:17AM
- Breastaurants, Hypocrisy and
May 01, 2012 10:18PM
- Birth Control's Greatest Hits
(Or, Should I Say, Misses?)
February 17, 2012 07:20PM
MY RECENT COMMENTS
- “My father-in-law was
given that send off in
February, and it
May 26, 2014 09:45AM
- “It's interesting that
the book does not contain the
about Quint being
May 05, 2014 02:39PM
- “I just got back from
Florida, where I was pretty
close to the
May 04, 2014 08:36PM
- “I bet his/her mama
didn't even know about that
April 05, 2014 09:50PM
- “This is quite
March 08, 2014 08:53PM
Jeanette DeMain's Links
This is a collection of links to blogs by and about Sirenita Lake. It is something I offer so that all of these can be located in one place. I don't know - maybe it will provide some comfort to family and friends. I just feel like I have to do something,… Read full post »
I wish I could take credit for discovering her, but that belongs to my sister, Karen. For Christmas in 1988, she asked me to buy her an album called Shadowland by someone named k.d. lang. (Small "k", small "d", small "l" - big, big, big voice.) I admit that I had a/… Read full post »
There's that scene in the movie Jaws, the one where Amity Island Police Chief Martin Brody, oceanographer Matt Hooper and Captain Sam Quint (played brilliantly by Robert Shaw) are all sitting around after dinner inside The Orca - the boat that ends up being too small -/… Read full post »
What do you think of when you hear the words "twin peaks"? Until recently, I would have thought first of David Lynch's deliciously bizarre television show that had us all asking who killed Laura Palmer over twenty years ago. But now, instead of fond memories of damn good coffee (and hot!)… Read full post »
It has become abundantly clear in the last few days how painfully out of touch certain older, white, and in some cases, celibate men are with middle American culture and the unwashed, fornicating masses. Out of touch with reality, actually.
But if they're looking for some clues about what's goi… Read full post »
In 1976, I was a painfully shy, clumsy, skinny, glasses-wearing high school freshman, occupying that no man's land between Tiger Beat and Seventeen, trying desperately to find some place, any place, to fit in. It was a time of satin bomber jackets, Love's Baby Soft, Bonne Bell Lip Smackers, feat… Read full post »
In a bold move, Microsoft today unveiled a font that will now be available on all of its new computers, as well as being made available free of charge for uploading to existing PCs.
A Microsoft spokesman explained that, "In an effort help our more conservative Windows users&n… Read full post »
The opening line of the novel The Go-Between is one with which many people are familiar.
The past is a foreign country. They do things differently there.
If you substitute the word "parenthood" for "the past", that describes very well how I looked at the world for many years, and I of… Read full post »
A couple of years before Robert Altman made his landmark film Nashville, which climaxed with the shooting of (mostly) fictional country music singer Barbara Jean in front of the Parthenon at Centennial Park, a chilling real-life murder took place in Music City, ending the lives of a beloved Gran… Read full post »
After thirteen long years of underground slumber, the Great Southern Brood has arisen, wreaking havoc in Tennessee and almost a dozen other southeastern states. The only sounds louder than their unearthly calls are the shrieks of their victims.
Sounds like a zombie invasion, right? Or may… Read full post »
Flooded Downtown Nashville
Jim's Flooded Studio
One year ago this weekend, it started raining in Nashville, and it didn't stop for two whole days. During that time, almost 14 inches of rain fell. The city's rivers, creeks and streams overflowed… Read full post »
This is a re-post of a blog I wrote in September 2009. I'm posting it again for National Infertility Awareness Week, April 24-30.
A long time ago in a galaxy far, far away, my husband and I spent several years navigating the rather surreal world of infertility. Tubes… Read full post »
I don't think you could have ordered a worse day for a rally. Here in Nashville on Saturday, March 5th, it was cold and the rains were torrential at times, and barely ever stopped altogether. It was the kind of day when you just wanted to stay at home curled up… Read full post »
Although the day came and went without a lot of hoopla, it was duly noted in our household on Saturday, January 22nd, that a fateful meeting had taken place on the date twenty-nine years earlier in Kent, Ohio, a meeting that eventually resulted in the long-runn… Read full post »
Not for a moment am I saying that I have had to endure anything close to the bigotry and discrimination directed at gay people, but as a non-believer living in the Bible Belt, I think I have developed a pretty good understanding of what it means to have to hide a part of my… Read full post »
In March of this year, my husband, Jim, traveled to Transnistria, a tiny and very poor country in eastern Europe, with Sweet Sleep, a non-profit organization that builds beds in orphanages. He used my blog to write about his trip and to post his photographs of some of the children her… Read full post »
I always knew it was a cliché, but I thought it was one that applied only to other people. The one about turning 50 and suddenly needing to relive the past? Well, shockingly, it has started happening to us.
(NOTE: I first published this blog a year ago. It didn't get a lot of views then, so I am reposting it today, with some minor updating, as I feel it's an important issue and I'd like it to get wider viewing - not for me, but for the people who are… Read full post »
You might surmise from the title that I am going to make a causal connection between "the environmentalists" and deepwater drilling. However, the purpose of this post is to illustrate, using actual facts instead of talking points, that such a connection is false. A fabricati… Read full post »
I am a creature of habit. Routine gives me comfort and security. When I have a sure thing to look forward to, I find it easier to get through weekly challenges and let minor irritations roll off my back.
For the past several years, my Friday night routine… Read full post »
I always told myself that I was most emphatically not a hippie.
When I went off to college in 1980, the candidacy and election of Ronald Reagan heralded the dawn of "Morning in America." For better or worse (mostly worse), MTV, cocaine, Iran Contra, and G… Read full post »
Next week, Jim and I will be celebrating our wedding anniversary. On April 29th, I'll be able to make the lame joke that, if my marriage was a person, it could legally buy a bottle of Veuve Clicquot to celebrate.
So why does it say "The Suicide Tourist" up there… Read full post »
I tend to use Amazon more as a resource about books than to actually purchase books. I can find publishing dates, latest editions, cover art, and synopses. I can also read several pages of a book I might be interested in ordering, and I like the age recommendations if I am… Read full post »
"When you lie down you will not be afraid; when you lie down your sleep will be sweet."