Strictly Speaking, Edwin Newman was a Prince Among Men
Edwin Newman, a network news reporter whose wit and high professionalism made being a network news reporter seem a gallant, even alluring, calling, has died at the age of 91.
The New York Times obit describes him as being “genteely rumpled, genially grumpy,” a man of “constitutional waggishness.” He covered stories about cabbages and kings, and can lay claim to one of the greatest cabbage-level stories of all time. He’s the guy who, while moonlighting on an early cable TV program, broke the story of the South Seas island tribe that worshipped the boxing promoter Don King.
In addition to his career at NBC, Newman was also a defender of good English, a genial scourge of jargon, political blather and grammatical blunderings of all kinds.His first and best-knownbook on language -- which I still own -- was called "Strictly Speaking."
It was in his capacity as a grammarian that I met and shared a five-minute limo ride with Newman back in my scuffling days, in the spring of 1976. I was a cub reporter for The Niagara (Falls) Gazette. He was a one of the country’s best-known TV news reporters and he was on his way to talk about the glories of the English language to a convention of school bus drivers.
I have no recollection of how I wound up in the limo with him. But there we were, sitting across from each other, the cub and the lion. It was my first celebrity interview and I’d had all of 10 minutes to prepare for it, and I was utterly tongue-tied.
Seeing my discomfort, Newman took pity on me. We reversed roles. He asked me to tell him a little about myself.
I gave him a nervous, vanilla answer, until I mentioned my wife was pregnant with our second child. I found myself, to my surprise, telling him about my doubts about the pregnancy.
Newman tilted his head, cocked an ample eyebrow at me, smiled and asked “You’re not thinking of . . . doing anything about it, are you?”
By which I immediately understood him to mean, was I considering an abortion? I assured him I wasn’t.
He nodded and his smile deepened. I realized almost subliminally that he was simultaneously questioning my intentions and suggesting that, if those intentions included an abortion, then maybe I should give the question some thought.
Before either of us could take the interview any further, the limo had pulled curbside at the convention center. We scrambled out of the limo and shook hands. He was ushered backstage, I grabbed a seat in the peanut gallery, listened to his speech, took notes, walked back to the newsroom and wrote a story.
It was a clumsy eight-incher about how Edwin Newman, a nationally famous network news reporter, gave a speech to a convention hall full of school bus drivers about the importance of proper English.
But all the while I was writing the news story, the real story – the one about how a nationally known network news reporter had bothered to make a gentle but pointed query about whether a callow young stranger he’d just met was planning to make a disastrous mistake – that story couldn’t be told.
Until now.


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Honestly, I thought he was dead some time ago. There are so many who are more prominent and ever-present but deserve obscurity. He didn't but probably valued it.
rated.
Rob: I liked it too even before I met him, because you could very easily share his sense of fun about the language.
Geoff: Thanks.
Lea: And ain't it grand when it's your story, and you can tell it to people who appreciate it?
Ben: I think you're correct. Who's left?
Nerd: Nice to meet you. Well put: "There are so many who are more prominent and ever-present but deserve obscurity."
Scanner: He did indeed die a month ago. His family said they didn't publicize it because they wanted time to grieve privately. That seems to me to be a wonderful tribute by his family -- they wanted to keep him to themselves as long as they could.
Con: That episode reads like a hed for one of your posts, doesn't it?
BOKO: He was indeed a witty man; I remember he hosted an NBC special in the '70s about "Hype" -- which was only then emerging as a phenomenon. In it, he interviewed someone from KISS -- don't ask me which one. It was, to say the least, a study in stylistic contrast.
And his death wasn't reported for about a month, as noted above in my response to scanner.
Emma: I love telling them too. I think our lives are full of those moments but they're endangered by the mad rush of so-called life.
greenheron: I'm sure I wasn't the first or last to benefit from his insight and attention.
libertarius: If it's anything like Strictly Speaking, I'm sure it's cool.
Thanks, Nikki. I'm eager to comment on your latest post about commenting. I'll say no more until then.
Great memory piece about a guy who was undoubtedly solid, particularly when we learned that his family delayed the announcement of his death a month to allow an adequate mourning period within the family. If he'd been an asshole we'd've gotten the news much, much sooner.
Your experience reminds me of my interview with James Michener, a guy I didn't particularly like as a writer; but, as an interview subject, he was memorizing and kind beyond belief to a 21-year-old cubbie.
As far as the subject of your "real" interview goes, check out one of my older posts along those lines:
http://open.salon.com/blog/james_poyner/2009/02/22/of_karma_and_kids
Makes me wonder how many comments we all make that keep us alive + in another person + because we've hit a nerve (think neuron) in that person. Doubly interesting because this is true, both literally and figuratively.