From my vantage point:

Recently I began to understand why many people feel shocked and offended by something as wonderful as human sexuality when manifested irreverently. I have often heard: "She loves to show her gorgeous body and has nothing to be ashamed of. She is an adult and knows what she is doing. Men should control themselves and act responsibly."

The ideas I am presenting here are intended to stimulate an intellectual exchange with those who are open minded on the subject. I have no ax to grind or intention to disturb anyone ... but disturb I will invariably. For those who feel offended or threatened by my views I ask you indulgence and willingness to be patient and forgiving. Here goes.

Since the beginning of recorded history men have often acted irresponsibly and shown an inability to control themselves when in the presence of seductive females. This has been the topic of many books, movies, and songs. We find it amusing when the cunning spy is captivated by the temptress, or when we hear how the noted politician is caught cheating on his wife. The natural urge to possess, copulate and/or control someone is a powerful drive for males and females alike. But, when this lower irrational drive goes out of balance with the higher rational facultiesof the intellect and will, when males act unwisely and lose or forfeit control there are sometimes lethal consequences. I am talking about something as common as a bar room brawl to the rather intense politics surrounding the Caesar/Cleopatra relationship.

Given that most females I have know have stated that it is easy to manipulate most males during times of irrational sexually driven behavior I wish to illuminate my thoughts here for the benefit of stimulating further discussion and exchange on the subject.

Consider this common scenario. A highly educated, well paid executive chatting with a gorgeous assistant sitting calmly at the local happy hour says to himself, "Good prospect." The wheels start turning, the wife and kids are spending a month down South with grannie, and pop is out on the prowl. I believe that the lust state in a male is more grave than most people today are aware of, or willing to admit. The reason for this is that we have become conditioned by media to accept such transactions as popular intelligence and sometimes even necessary. Males endorse role models like Michael Douglas who in a flash drops his drawers in front of the entire world and bangs his sexual sub whom he later murders. You wanna try that? American presidents are just as vulnerable as the rest of us secret service or no. Acting upon such impulses is common, and in many situations, blatantly weak, out of character, on the sneak, self served, lethal bareback, left marks, got your money, got your house, lost your kids, cut your hair, divided your kingdom, drank poison and forced to leave town. Okay, Pedro, I'm raving again. The list goes on of the troubles and woes manipulated males may suffer. Manipulated females is a really sore topic for let's save for another day. What initially appeared to be the freedom to experience a brief stretch (or expanse) of pleasure has the potential to result in long term bondage, oppression, and obsessive feelings. Idiots think they can do anything indescrimanently to anyone so long as "consenting adult" is proclaimed ... kinna like "tag! you're it!" This game of folly wreck lives, leaves emotional scars which are often repressed and denied. Next time around you find yourself a little more deceptive and closed and less honest and open especially when your blurt out, "Hey babe, I'll be up front ... just want two week's worth of sex." The public is enthralled and applauds this crime just as the Romans once did the butcherings in the arena, when instead we should run out of the theater throwing up all the way to the exit. Sheer folly. Madness. You'll get your sex, Pedro, but there is no love there. And, love is what you say you want.

Wise males pick their role models wisely and stop letting media castrate their precious talents and abilities. Sparticus was a much better choice in the Douglas vein. He was wonderfully sexual and massively gallent, but he represented something much much higher as a role model for the viril male. Jean Simmons was no wimp either but she never manipulated Sparticus to win his affection or care, she gave him her heart openly and faithfully because she found herself securely entwined in the depth of his soul. If one is discerning, Hollywood can be a tremendous educator. In folly or blindly following the herd, it will lead to a person's destruction.

Taken to an extreme where many impulses gang up on young males especially, like proving virility and prowess through aggressive competitive drives males may push past weak authority, dishonor their parent's advice and become intoxicated by governmental authority. They are easily militarized for the purpose of acting out more violent tostesterone fueled emotions. In this state males may commit adultery and fornicate with justifiable ease, and sometimes even force females sexually – man of fortune stuff. I experienced some of these emotions as did many others in Vietnam. Manipulated males driven by lust might eye other people's goods, wives and careers as some sort of prize with a "best man win" attitude taking on a scorched earth campaign. They may lie and steal as a viable means for success bearing false witness against the competition for supremacy. Males take on unnatural behaviors when they lose control of themselves and often after being manipulated on core levels of personality and emotions. I am no psychologist, but does it take one to judge what conditions appear to bring unsavory behaviors out of the male? For these reasons, I think that intentions to manipulate the mind, body or soul of the male by any person, institution or media, for any purpose is offensive and should be addressed, and corrected. The Ancient Greek civic minded writers never conceived of such in theater utilizing the media of their day strictly for the purpose of building fine well grounded and wholely integrated citizens.

Male nature, instincts and biology are wonderful aspects of our gender and quite beneficial. They represent a capacity for caring, nurturing and survival that coupled with that of their female counterparts provides support for family, household and structures for sustainability. The male must never be irreverently handled or abused for selfish motives. Females demand to be understood for their rights as human beings. I believe the same respect should also be given to male's needs as well. I see quiet a bit of reverse discrimination these days.

Women wear long berkas in the Middle East because men exhibit uncontrollable lust, jealousy, violence, anger and rage toward other men and women when tostesterone levels increase. Any well trained psychologist will verify this. For this reason many courts have traditionally honored crimes of passion and will exhonerate males who act viciously while under the toxic influence of their own lust if that state in them was a result of a temptress. No one is saying that this is right or correct. I believe that males can and must control their minds and hearts. Thousands of years of tradition says something. But, American culture has little sense of this unless you're an immigrant. What do I really know?

Subconscious and involuntary motor response mechanisms are easily manipulated when they step into the sexual arena? Who says no? When males continually lose control of their clear thinking, and their mentality becomes affected by sexual impulses decision from a higher rational order becomes mitigated. The lower mentality of irrational conditioned responses like those of pets, produce an inhuman and perverse state in males. Females are all over this and dress for it. They play with our emotions, as it were, like some wind up toy. Those who have cultivated deeper levels of abuse enjoy seeing males on leashes licking the feet of females. Such elite circles of sadists feel that revolving in the dark chasms of Dante's Inferno indicates and evolved and conscious state of being. Imagine!

The Hebrews in biblical times found these attitudes and behaviors among the Egyptians, Philistine and Canaanite people thirty five hundred years ago. Their sadistic practices surpass ours in sophistication having developed unmitigated for centuries. The history of the arena proves that. Moses was the first person to publish on the subject of "humanity", and articulate the irrationality of perverse local conditions. He established a fundamentally correct civil code that remains effective to this very day. Its architects laid the foundations Western Civilization. If obeyed it effectively prevents males from losing control of themselves and preying upon and destroying the lives of others and becoming stable productive human beings.

A wise male maintains control over his own life at all times especially his own sexual energy. He is knowledgeable, wise and self aware and will avoid being manipulated sexually by external media, or females in seductive costumes. He will dwell in the stature of a long term monogamous relationship with a partner in order to nurture a uniquely gracious intimacy which derives from inner health, freedom and beauty. He knows that such a relationship exhibits a profound and majestic elegance of a loving unity to his community. This gives honor and glory to the Supreme Being, mankind, and it expands peace and order throughout the land. Losing control of oneself sexually results in chaos and destruction.

It is necessary and important therefore that men who control themselves continually provide sound leadership and stewardship over the material world and natural resources so that the highest and most productive form of government may responsibly manage the natural realm of mankind.

Those males who lose control and refuse to acknowledge and receive correction concerning their compromised state of being typically refuse to assume responsibility for their own behavior while fostering the same in other weaker beings claiming themselves to have evolved to some higher consciousness by virtue of their folly itself. But this is nothing new. Fellini's Satyricon unearthed some pretty kinky table manners for a first century appetite. Out of control and out of balance weak manipulated males like a stealth virus will establish their same perverse mental condition in others in subcultures they label "alternative" instead of "degenerative" and labor to establish legal rights to continue unchallenged while avoiding discrimination. Whipping the naked flesh off of the bones of any person or animal is offensive, criminal, and reprobate behavior and is restrained by the wise and prudent non consenting adults. The concentration camps in Auschwitz will attest to how low such unrestrained societies has descended in recent history while dealing alternatively with the Jewish Question and by dominating the  guardians of the Mosaic Code. For this reason rational and balanced men who exhibit morality and a proper control over their own lives will address those males who have lost control and bring them under supervision virtually conquering them as if they represented a violent enemy at their door. Dr. Leonard  Horowitz  Harvard research analyst in his book, "Emerging Viruses" substantiates the the development of the AIDS virus as variation of biological research governed by the Department of Defense supposedly to keep up with the Russians. I find it interesting that the first tests of the vaccines coming from the same labs at Fort Dietrich Maryland during that period were administered to thousands of practicing gay males in three major cities. They are all dead today. We laugh at Ahmadinijad when he says, "We have no such people in Iran." I think that the disappearance of a significant sector of the gay population from American was by design rather than by an accident of nature as many would have us believe, and if you have the stomach Horowitz will provide adequate evidence.

The wide scale sexual perverseness of weak males earmarks the decline and demise of civilization and, I believe it is a serious issue which has been soberly addressed and corrected in the classified,  protected and secret world of the Washington Underground.  Males who find themselves in an alternative state have something to think about. (Agents and operatives in the United States submit weekly reports. They have been quietly attending alternative clubs for years.  They are highly political, extremely bright, non drug users, they drink moderately, they are disinclined to participate in the heavy stuff... they love to "watch"and watch they do for years ... everybody loves and respects them.  (Okay I got off track a little).

Gay males, for instance, have learned to seriously sanitize themselves from unchecked sexual practices.  Long term monogamous relationships have become more evident. Take note and consider with patience and tranquility those who speak or write on such issues being careful to refrain from labeling those who speak of the love of Christ, or refer to Scripture as  "fundamentalist". Love the sinner, hate the sin is the rule of sane decent people. But consider those who lack reason and act in the indignity of their shameful bigotries as a greater evil than the sexually manipulated male. Those controlling males who justify themselves via their religion are the most destructive of all and often the most sexually perverse. 

As a final note on power in numbers and democracy. I refuse to accept that San Francisco is a safe haven for the unnatural and perverse any more than I would agree that prisons are. In Folsom, where multitudes of social misfits abide, stealing, molestation, and disfigurement of the body is a crime and whenever these acts are revealed they are swiftly brought to correction. That such communities are filled with like minded persons gives no weight to changing any time tested principles of morality in my view. But, this too is changing, and woe to any state that permits the unrighteous to rule the just, it is the advent of darkness, barbarism and hatred and an extinguishing of the fruits of creative and liberating love in the best sense of the word according to my perspective.

Pleasure is love, life and truth. Pain is hatred, death and deception. These distinctions are fundamental. The times we live in, like a troubled sea, are mixed up and confused. It will take powerful men and women of high integrity, magnanimous character and courage to chart the right course and steer the vessel to the common good.