She's standing in a grocery store check out lane, fit, slight of frame, with orange-red hair, obviously dyed. A short cut, just shy of spiky. No product in it today to hold the spikes, but it's early. A Sunday morning, quick trip to the grocery. The product will probably go in for the next trip out, after the coffee, I imagine .
She wears jeans with a darkish wash, slightly distressed. Tight. No winter wool coat, just a gray hoodie with a pattern. I can't see the logo, but it looks like it could be American Eagle. Ugg boots. Trendy glasses with wide stems. Mid to upper sixties is my guess. Although she could pass for a teen from the back. Or a distance.
She looks a little silly. A grown woman dressing down. A reversal of the little girl wobbling in her mom's high heels.
I think about her all the way home. Who's telling her that she looks better when dressed in the style of the memories of her younger years?
It seems prime for a blog post. A class of women dressing like their daughters. "Where have all the grandmothers gone?" I think. A perfect title.
I sit down at my computer. A framed picture of my grandson to my left. My reflection in the glass.
Slight of frame, fairly fit, with blonde highlights in my brown hair, obviously dyed. Longish hair, growing out, usually worn straight, parted in the middle a la Peggy Lipton. The gray streaks at the temples touched up regularly. The side swept bangs in need of a trim every few weeks.
Hair pulled back in a high pony tail today. Wearing low ride jeans with some planned fading in strategic spots. Tight. A long sleeve t-shirt from Gap. There is a hoodie on the back of my chair, probably Gap. A down parka hangs on the coat rack. Ugg boots in the closet. I take off my new glasses with the thin black frames that looked good in the picture of the model in Glamour magazine, but don't work so well for no line bifocals.
I find I have nothing to write.
I grab a cardigan. And think about baking cookies. But surf the web instead.


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Comments
Suzy--Blue hair and pink polyester. Now that's something to aspire to.
You know what, your grandson does not have a preconceived notion of what a granny looks like. YOU are his model.
Do you know that BBC show calle My Family? With Zoe Wanamaker? (with spiked hair) I like her line, " I want to be the groovy granny!"
Honey, you are.
Red hair is too much says moi, the Oracle of Granny Fashion.
Good work.
Have a beautiful new year.
Stathi--You're still young. Don't rush it. Enjoy every day.
Trilogy--Grandmas united!
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Margaret--I've never been able to figure out exactly what "product" is. Or what specific type of "product" might actually help me out. In that respect, I'm way back there playing catch up with the spiky haired lady.
Lea--Well, it's certainly allowed us to see what the kids are up to.
bluestocking--I think that might have been worth a picture.
J.P.--My dream is Peggy Lipton hair. Not exactly lofty, but....
lunchlady--We have come a long way. I'm just afraid our grandkids are going to surpass us on the technology stuff before they reach grade school.
Scanner--Go for it. Mine's pretty straggly. I bet yours is better.
Gerald--This from a man who's wearing a tux in his picture. You are not to be believed.
Christoper-Great example. It's both depressing and exhilarating when I look at pictures of my grandmothers and realize they were ten years younger than I am now.
Eva--Good attitude. I bet old age never catches up with you.