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NOVEMBER 23, 2011 7:08AM

Carolina Baptist Church Stands Up For Marriage Equality!

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Pullen Memorial Baptist       
    
     The full congregation of the Pullen Memorial Baptist Church in Raleigh, North Carolina, has voted unanimously to prohibit its pastor from legally marrying anyone until the state recognizes thoroughgoing marriage equality. The vote had the full support of its pastor. The 650-member church is a part of American Baptist Churches/USA, having been expelled from the National Baptist Convention nearly twenty years back for its decision at that time to bless gay marriages. In a statement, the congregation said that it cannot, in good conscience, deny to gay couples "the same rights and privileges enjoyed by heterosexual married couples." The statement went on to say that "as people of faith, affirming the Christian teaching that before God all people are equal, we will no longer participate in this discrimination." To be sure, Pullen Baptist will continue to perform marriage ceremonies but they will simply be "holy unions that reflect the spiritual nature of the solemn commitments between people in a loving relationship."   
     
     The catch:  the pastor will no longer sign the state certificates required to effect legal marriages. Heterosexual couples will have to see magistrates for that.

     This is particularly poignant in North Carolina, as voters there will decide a 2012 ballot question whether or not to enshrine in the state constitution heterosexual marriage as the only valid kind. This much must be said: putting to a vote the question whether or not minority adult citizens may enjoy the same fundamental rights as citizens in the majority is not democracy. At best it is a benighted, hare-brained exercise. Would anyone deny that voting on the fundamental rights of adult citizens would be a lunatic idea were the minority racial or religious and not sexual?

    The bottom line:  this church is standing up to discrimination. 

     In the words of one of Pullen Baptist's deacons:

               Current laws on same-sex marriage deny justice

                 to gay people and are rooted in the same

                     alleged biblical grounds as slavery.

    

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As I'll be off to Philadelphia for several days, I'll take this chance to wish you and your families a safe, delightful holiday despite the relatives.   

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America doesn't typically do "sea-change".
America moves progressively forward in small, happy increments, even tiny sparks of increments.
This is one.
Being as this is in-state, I'm going to let my rabbis know about this.
High time. Hope others have the wisdom and courage to follow suit.

Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours, Jon.
Very progressive - good for them. Hopefully they will stick to their convictions and not waver - such as when it becomes inconvenient for its members to travel somewhere else to have their marriage certificates signed.
Andy this congregation will not waver. :)
I've rode by that church, should have stopped I guess. North Carolina,.. who knew?
Scanner they seem like a remarkable bunch!
This church has a many decades long history of progressive stances on social issues. It was expelled by the Southern Baptist Convention in 1992 and Nancy Petty who is openly gay became co-pastor in 2002. Membership is almost 1,000 and it is a very popular church. Look for Binkley Baptist in Chapel Hill to follow suit as it too has a long history of progressive stances on social issues.
In the Tar Heel trivia department - Binkley is the home church of Dean Smith- the basketball legend. He has a very long history of actively supporting progressive social causes including desegregation and gay rights. Back in the 1960's he purposely broke the color barrier at various public places in Chapel Hill by joining local non-white citizens in various actions. You gotta love the guy - and I'm a Dook fan to boot. But I digress.

Our very right wingnut General Assembly is all about legislating their view of morality even though they got elected on an economic ("we'll reduce taxes and cut the budget") platform. We're trying to vote them out as quickly as we can but the odds are stacked against us in NC because of the sheer numbers of rural representatives who haven't seen anything good in the past 100 years except themselves. But, Obama carried NC last time and that was a stunner!
Grif thanks so very much for this background!
Kudos to churches and congregations who courageously stand with the gay community so they may obtain the same rights and privileges [equality] heteros have.
Yay! These small steps toward equality from surprising corners give me faith that change will come. A state senator from NC labeled Asheville a "cesspool of sin" because city employees get same-sex benefits.
It's astounding how often Christians for get "the Christian teaching that before God all people are equal." Perhaps they suppose that being nominal Christians is all that's required.
Jerry it's how I feel when my fellow Jews forget the Levitical injunctions to take care of the poor. These laws are not suggestions.
This is a very wonderful thing to see this morning. Also, have a wonderful thanksgiving celebration!
Sheila I was so pleased to leave for the holiday on an upbeat note. :) Excellent Thanksgiving to you and your family!
This is nothing but great..
HUGGGGGGGG
Linda sure is and as Grif reports (above) another may follow suit. :)
So glad to see this - Thanksabunch!
Bless their hearts!

Also good to hear form so many OSers in the vicinity.
Progressive thinking and acting is always welcome.
The main issue is to provide the same benefits to all.This is essential if one of a couple dies.It also applies to situations in an intensive ward.The regulations as we know them can be terribly cruel.
The congregation is showing a lot of civil courage,and this is what we need.I don't know what the legal situation is like in the states.Here you have be very close to the person in intensive care,legally,and I know a person who was not allowed to her Life long love,when the man died,and this caused tremendous pain.
Professor Hans Küng and the Catholic church!!!
Heidi I imagine it did cause unnecessary pain; yes. Thank you for sharing this.
Hey! I love my relatives! It's all relative!

The bottom line here does hit the nail square on the head of the issue!

Happy travels, Jon! Cheers!
Hans Küng (born March 19, 1928, in Sursee, Canton of Lucerne) is a Swiss Catholic priest, theologian, and prolific author. Since 1995 he has been President of ...
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hans_K%25C3%25BCng - Zwischengespeichert
WTG Pullen! This is good news indeed. As Abraham Lincoln said at Gettysburg "...that all men (women) are created equal". MLK, your dream of equality for all lives on!

R with thanks
Much needed true good news (I remember our church always calling the message "good news") and a wonderful Thanksgiving post. Love your work Jonathan.
Smokeysmom thanks and happy holiday season!
Wow! These Baptists act like Christians!
hohohohooooo!

These parishioners have BALLS. I feel like booking a flight for church this Sunday
Dianne I bet they'd be delighted!
Are you coming with me? Won't we make a "poster couple?"
Who'd a thunk some Baptists, from the South no less, would be Christians before the rest of the Protestants!!!!
Good for them. What would really help is if they call for a true theological debate. The side for gay marriage will not only win, but will expose the other side as hypocrites. R