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FEBRUARY 18, 2012 7:52AM

Baptizing Dead Jews

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Warsaw Jewish Cemetary (begun in the early 1800s)

 

     Twelve years back, responding to concerns raised by the Jewish community, the Mormon Church promised to end its practice (as to Jews) of posthumous baptisms. It has breached its promise.

      I should say before I go further that I won't be offended should others want, when I'm gone, to attempt to re-make me into, through any kind of hocus-pocus, a Mormon, a Muslim, a Janist, a Hindu, a Presbyterian, or a Carmelite Nun (though I wouldn't pass the Carmelite Nun physical). Oh...wait...there'd be no physical....).

     A Carmelized Nun? Wait....nope...have to watch the sugar.

                          

     Turns out, though, that during a routine genealogical data-base check of the Mormon Church, information surfaced showing that the parents of the late Simon Wiesenthal have been swami'd into a pair of Latter-Day Saints.

      Yep, that Simon Wiesenthal's parents...the parents of the Nazi hunter Simon Wiesenthal, the man who found Adolph Eichmann in Argentina, the Adolph Eichmann who made the trains to the Camps run on time, the Adolph Eichmann tried and hanged at Jerusalem in 1961...the Simon Wiesenthal who found and rooted out so many more systematic killers of Jews-because-they-were-Jews.

                          

                          Simon Wiesenthal

     While the Mormon Church has, it says, disciplined those responsible --and I've no reason to disbelieve it-- I do wonder if this tasteless voodoo, has really ended or if it has ended only for well-known Jews. 

     Since the third century churches of nearly every stripe have, at one time or another, played fast and loose with Jews' sensibilities (and in tens of millions of cases, our lives). This isn't about my taking personal offense. It's about tastelessness.

     Is it really too much to ask that this shabby, threadbare behavior be seen for what it is, a crass and crude practice done in the name of "saving souls"?

      Is it too much to hope that we be left alone, at least once we're burned, gassed, shot, or more naturally returned to the dust?            

  

 

 from the Simon Wiesenthal Center, Los Angeles

  The Salt Lake Temple

 

 

 

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Odd way, this is, to up one's body-count.
An example of religion taking arrogance and self-righteousness to new heights. ~r
Joan Thanks. I don't like it when Rabbis do stuff that make me unproud, too, of course.
If you killed them, you hated them. So why bother saving their souls?
blu well the Mormons did not kill the Jews whom they "baptize" after they are dead. And no Jew has to be killed in order for Mormons to perform the ritual. They have done it to Jews who die from natural causes.
I totally agree with you. It is the height of tastelessness. Furthermore, I wonder if they know how tasteless it is, given the geographical isolation of Utah and the limited social contact it has with other regions and groups?

I mean, in NYC, if a Catholic Bishop does something tasteless regarding another religion, its very easy for Rabbis, Imams, Protestant ministers and the like to have a meeting with him. In Utah, its a different cup of tea.

The lack of diversity in parts of the West, in ways, can sometimes foster this sort of insensitivity, I think.
RW There is a very strong (and benign) Mormon community hre in Washington and the Mormon Temple that looms over the northwest part of the DC Beltway is a daily marker in every radio traffic report. I know many, many Mormon families and I never lived in Utah. It's the fastest growing worldwide religion, btw--more credit to their missionaries--and they have communities in regions other than the Western US.
Jon...this is truly a Saturday morning issue. If the soul is gone....does it make a difference? On the other hand Jews who died as Jews...because they were Jews, deserve at the very least to be honored as Jews. Have had a similar issue with cremation and Rabbis....(for another day).
I understand this all too well, not only as a former Mormon from my childhood, but as an adult of another faith who recently lost a (non-Mormon) husband. It became an issue in our own family. It isn't just deceased Jews who are being baptized, and it isn't just deceased Jews for whom it's being suggested they were somehow incomplete or without the sacraments, and when it happens to you, yes indeed, it's very personal, and it leaves the realm of the benign and well intentioned.
Yes, but Utah is where the decisions are made
Ande I look forward to reading abt that.
Kathy thank you so much for this. (Have missed you here, btw).
RW sure, yes. I was responding to the isolation issue--while the church home is certainly Salt Lake, it'd be an error, I think, to view Mormon leaders as in any manner cut off or insulated/isolated.
Why do the Mormons not mind their own business?

It is just too bad they do not have the key to paradise.


The dead know better,and they are having a party at the other side

of the veil.

Rated
Joan,exactly:That's what it is.
Heidi to be clear I certainly not promoting the idea that Jews have any exclusive claim on a benign afterlife, heaven, or whatever one might like to call it.

Traditional Judaisn, in fact, holds, that a person of any faith may partake in the World to Come if the person has lived an ethical life.
I'm happy as I am... no need to be Baptized by anybody,thank you. I , as a Jew find it distasteful at best, condescending, and ignorant. My soul is my own, I don't need to be saved, either in this life or the world to come... Certainly not by any church... It is offensive to say the least... I love it when people have the "truth", the problem is, that it is not my "truth"
So long as Gawd doesn't care, eh?
Ray I also think that there are many in the Mormon church who'd be genuinely surprised to know that to us it seems condescending.
Matt thing is, even as a secular Jew, I get it that these kinds of behaviors demean Jews as a group and have consequences.
Of course,Jonathan,
I was imagining the Mormons walking around trying to save souls.They can easily be distinguished in their clean haircut and spotless suits.
What you have said,indicates once more how much tolerance there is in Judaism.
ugh...ok, that's just ridiculously disrespectful. I bet they make gay people they like straight after death, too. What a dubious honor.
Julie I have never heard of that one. :) :)
I live in Utah, don't hang around Mormons, and I don't know if this still takes place, but I've always thought it was extremely arrogant. r
I am the only person with my name that I know of in the world. Yup. One day while googling myself I ran across one of these pages that showed a dense list of people claimed by the Mormons. I was on it. When I asked an OS person who has a Mormon background they didn't have much to say about it and asked for the link. I could not find it again and had not written it down. It was one of those things that you go, oh, that is really strange, whats up with that and then nothing. I did not have the brains to figure it out or keep the link. I can describe the page as I recall it, but the thing is it struck me odd that it would even be on the internet. So I have no idea what I was really looking at.
Having lived in Utah for the past 20+ years, this debate has touched my life several times. My former sister-in-law, a devout Mormon, did the "temple work" for Princess Diana after her death, apparently. Temple work and baptism for the dead is a part of what Mormons must do to be considered good Mormons, but it should be noted that even by their own rules, if a soul on the other side refuses the rites, they are not "converted", so it's a non issue, really - at least on that side of the veil. Missionaries can have the celestial door slammed in their faces just as easily as the physical door here on Earth. That said, I find the practice of baptism for an entire group of people for the simple fact that they did not deny their god in order to save their own lives to be downright tacky and immoral. The LDS will still try to baptize members of their own family, and if they happen to be a Holocaust survivor there isn't much we can do... but, rest well knowing that ultimately it is up the one being baptized. As for me? I told my ex-sis-in-law that if she ever tried to do my "temple work" I would come back and haunt her. I could barely stand her brother on this planet, why in the name of all that is holy would I want to spend eternity with him. *shudder*
Christine ans yet, again, my bet is that many who perform these rituals don't get the arrogant part.
Sheila that's next-to-bizarre!
Tilly thanks. This is fascinating to me.
This is an interesting topic. You have scratched the surface of the LDS practice of baptism by proxy. Mormon temple workers act as stand ins for departed non-Mormons so that they can (if they choose) progress as Mormons and graduate to the higher levels of heaven only available to Mormons (Others need not apply). It is a fascinating topic that has been in the news off and on for many years.
r./
IslandTime Thanks, and needless to say, no dead person has a choice in this.
This one is just too weird for me to think about. How is it supposed to work. Do the deceased get a certified letter, telling them they are now Mormons? With all the problems in the world.......,
Scanner uhmhmm tho when a person deeply believes in a specific afterlife as a benefit, that person wants to shere the benefit. I agree w you, tho..I just also think I understand the motivation.
Okay, It is offensive but, like you said it takes more than the pronouncement of some water flingers to make a cake it really doesn't matter much in a spiritual way since to my understanding one must be willing to receive that particular sacrament. Why this is so important to them is beyond me. Why do something that seems engineered to make you look like a boob?
Bob clearly those who do this do not think it makes them appear foolish, as much as it may appear that way to others.
Sadly Jon, the fool is often the last to realize he/she is a fool.
I have already said this on another blog here on this subject but it's worth repeating. You have to look at their long term goals. In three hundred years, when the opposition to this practice has been forgotten, the records will show, and the Mormons keep the best records, how many innocent Mormons were killed in the Holocaust.

They are rewriting history right before our eyes. Think about that for a minute
DH I do not understand at all

a) why you think it'll be forgotten, particularly by Jews (we have long, long cultural memory) and
b) what you think the implications really are.
Doesn't a baptism require at least a token dunking? How in the world can any Christian based sect justify breaking their own dogma?

Maybe it's karma running over their dogma.

I would prefer to think of it as one MORE brick of hypocrisy in an already well built wall of same.

Oy vey and Jesus, Mary and Joseph I'm glad I don't adhere to any religion, praise be to Allah. It continues to be problematic even after you die.

--r--
Before we complain too much - would it mean we could have multiple wives? That may be a selling point to some, you know. But not me, of course (in case my wife is reading).

Then again, if all of the wives have to be Jewish also, perhaps we should keep on kvetching.
I just read this to Steve and we both agreed. Time to leave us alone and let us rest in peace.
HUGGGGGGGGG
Andy how 'bout you & I write The Book of Kvetch? :)
Owl they likely don't need the H20 for a spiritual baptism.
It is horrifying to think that there are people on this earth who are so convinced that they possess the one truth and follow the only path of righteousness that they cannot perceive the offensive insult in this assertion of superiority and privilege.

It matters not that I'm an atheist, that I don't believe in the soul, and that I consider this practice of Mormons to be a foolish totally ineffectual waste of time, no different than rattling bones or any other shamanistic voodoo witch-doctor ritual superstition.

It is the absolute enormity of this chutzpah, this damn unmitigated gall, that gives one the worry that, given the chance, Mormons would not see a problem with exercising totalitarian control over society. This involuntary modification of a person's metaphysical status rises to the level of tyrannical ruthless logic that disregards individual will entirely as subjugated to infallible ideological correctness. After all, it's for their own good, right? Just ask Pol Pot, Stalin, Hitler, and Mao. It's a frightening thought considering that one of them is running for President of the US.

Even though I'm sure I have no soul, and that once I die nothing further will affecte me in any way, I resent the very thought that these people would use my name to perpetuate their false and destructive delusions that weaken humanity's ability to address reality in a constructive and intelligent manner.
I recall learning about this intrusive, condescending practice in a documentary about Mormons on PBS awhile back. It made me wonder then about a professional friendship I had with a Mormon colleague ten years back. As academics, we had much in common and spoke often about those topics, but when he found out I was Ojibwe (as well as French and German), he took a more personal interest in me. There is a prophecy regarding Native Americans in Mormon mythology. Orson Scott Card’s (a Mormon) science fiction incorporates some of those beliefs in his book The Red Prophet. Maybe my old colleague (who is now a Deacon in his church) had other plans for me. Maybe he’d get extra points in heaven for capturing an Indian soul. I have donated my brain to Alzheimer’s research, and I have noted my willingness to provide viable organs on my driver’s license. I think I’ll add a disclaimer on that official document declaring my intended purposes for my soul.
In my own opinion religion itsef is bizarre, but baptizing not the mortal body, but the memory, of dead people carries bizarre to another plane. And, the act is arrogant and contemtuous of the belief of those involved (or uninvolved in this case). R
beauty :) add it as a soul-codicil
Rodney It has a sense of the bizarre, yes.
Rated; comments at FB.

This creeps me out. Glad I'm a heathen.
More confirmation of Orwell's vision of rewriting history. This is so strange. I had not heard of this until recently.
B. and great comments they are!
Dicky the Nobel Laureate Elie Weisel wrotr to Salt Lake asking for a formal apology and got one, tho I don't fully trust that the process will end.
The wide resources put into genealogies by the LDS will, as so many works do, have very unintended consequences. They encourage DNA tests, increase contact between diverse relatives and overall give a shove to a process which, inandofitself, mocks its source.

Chutzpah: the youngest of the major supposedly Christian religions attempting to lecture the oldest. Fascinating.
isn't this the faith of magic panties?
Oahu fascinating comment!
Monkey I'm not qualified to comment on that.
i wish i could say i'm surprised, but sadly...i'm not.

when my daughter was quite small, my extremely devout in-laws had her 'secretly' baptized against both my beliefs & wishes. i was outraged & they were smug & self-righteous, but they seemed to truly not understand why i cared.

sometimes i think religion is like cataracts... narrows the field of vision.
Jon, I wasn't aware of this practice and thanks for the informative post on this bizarro activity. In my case, I was baptized as an Episcopalian but just watch someone come along after I'm gone and "de-baptize me"--or something like that!
lorianne at times; yes, sadly.
My mother just told me about this. Too bizarre.
Fernsy feels that way to me, too.
What a contrast of the long stream of caramel, brown, rich and velvety, and immediately after the black and white portrait of Simon Weisenthal, his eyes direct, haunted and sorrowful. What horrors he has seen in this life. Why should he be baptized into some strange heaven envisioned by a religion that believes in magic underwear and disappearing golden tablets? I feel like Pink Floyd singing, "Hey, leave those kids alone." Haven't they suffered enough already?! Christ almighty!
Nothing surprises me at this point. I can stretch my arm out in front of me, finger pointing ahead, and turn to any direction and I will be pointing toward another absurd, arrogant religious inspired crude practice.
I'm fairly confident that after I die, I'll become a Mormon.
Lefty tell us all abt it ... after :)
Mormons have freaky, weird beliefs...they are like the Scientologists of their day. But, they tend to be nice folk in real life and they do what they do out of a sense of kindness (however misplaced).

In the end, the Jews are still Jews...the dead know only one thing - it is better to be alive.
Malcom no Jew would even bother w this stuf were it not for the history of others' using displays of demeaning Jews to harm live ones. This ritual reinforces the age-old nonsense that Jews are "incomplete" and "inauthentic". That's why it matters.
How strange...
This seems like any other sort of religious issue in a way, the sort where one type decides their way of seeing religion/faith is the only way, while any other type of devout faith is just wrong.
To such extremes??
Ai yi yi.
Sure...but it's LDS. Talk about incomplete - LDS! I think you give it more credibility by acknowledging it than ignoring it, but I'm not Jewish, so I'll shut the hell up now.
Malcom I take your point tho I've seen how such things work out in reality and it can get ugly. And trust me, if I wanted Jews only to respond, I'd not have posted this here. You're quite welcome to comment at my blog.
I am trying to build a wall around myself that is so thick that non of the voo doo can reach me when I die. I do not want to live on a planet run by a man with all the sister wives waiting in line to be serviced.
Thank you for writing about this process.
rated with love
it's all done in good fun, jon.idiots
showing how good they are
by trying to glom onto
truly great people.

twain said: book of mormon= chloroform.
James and the guy did, after all, write the most important novel in Amrican history.
Jonathan,I have read your comment about " Jews being incomplete and inauthentic" and believe me,now I have the creeps.Will it never end?
Beauty 1947 made a good point too about her Ojibwe heritage.
People are strange.Do we need another 1000 years before the human species recognizes the equality of men?
I have another thought:The practice of re-baptizing the dead is in my opinion a sacrilegious.
The Salt Lake Temple looks spooky to me.
Heidi of course, none of this spooks those who do this.
...and the Tombstones are very beautiful in design.
Sorry about the twisted sentence.
Thanks? I heard a short 'blip' on the radio.
I hadn't heard of this. 'Night' - The author:
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Of the 'Night' book . . .
Elie Wiesel . . .
He was critical of this.
`
Politicos 'ought' to:
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stomp out forest fires
smoke war-helmet-pot
flop on a mortician lap
and sit on staffs lap top
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I am here just here briefly
politicos 'ought' to go barf
Elie Wiesel is so wonderful
You can hear his inner grief
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Fake human - now vain beast
When they are judged post-
pre-Dead ... laying in a death-
bed . . .
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condemned man
requesting for last meal
Girl Scout cookies
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...and the comment of ccdarling brings up another problem when she asks :
"What horrors he has seen in this life. Why should he be baptized into some strange heaven envisioned by a religion..."
This practice of the Mormons is not only distasteful;
it's much worse,and like I said earlier,it's a sacrilege.
Well, they almost surely mean well, but, its a little weird even in Christian theology to do that as far as my understanding. Mormons are a curious bunch, but are so very often very nice, and great to live around in a very 1950s sort of way. Most Christians don't want to baptize people if they aren't asked, and the Mormons, they aren't really going to hurt anyone physically, if I can see that Jews might well find it annoying too. I think the Holocaust they maybe ought to think about as to it not being maybe a very good idea to have an outsider come in and be involved at that level, although, its the opposite of the Nazis in their own head as far as wanting to help,not hurt, if a not small number of Christians I think find it ... a little goofy. They don't mean it in a hatefull way, although it is a feature of Christianity that can offend people as to a belief that you have to believe in you know who, or H E double hockey sticks is on the table. Being aggressive about that some people think isn't such a great idea, since you offend people, sometimes a lot, when if you just lived your life a certain way, then that would be the best missionary work of all.
Heidi I am not qualified to say "sacrilege". I just know it's tasteless.
Don sure and I've made plain why it's worth raising here; the world just, no matter how well-intended, needs no further reasons to imagine Jews less than complete, alive or not.
Why does anyone care?

Seriously, why does anyone care?

No one is digging up bodies.

One of two things is true:
1. The Mormons are right about what happens in the afterlife, so they are doing the humane thing and saving souls.
2. The Mormons are wrong about what happens in the afterlife, so these baptisms that don't involve any physical remnants or consent of the deceased are essentially pretend and don't actually count.

What's way, way way unlikely (and I don't think any belief system out there postulates) is
3. that Mormon posthumous baptism either prevents a soul from getting into Heaven or actually results in one's being expelled from Heaven.

If we eliminate the third option, the Mormons are going to continue with this practice because they view it as their moral obligation to save souls and this is how they think it is done. If they're smart, they'll just stop talking about it because it's rude.

If I were to say: "I hereby convert your dead ancestors to worshippers in the Cult of the Tooth Fairy," would you say I was being offensive?

Is the problem that the Mormons are saying that the rest of us are theologically wrong? Every religion thinks that about every other religion. (As Jews, we get called "arrogant" and sometimes "stiff-necked" for that; most other faiths get left alone though, I guess, in this case Mormons don't.)

Tempest in a teapot. Just make a fresh pot and be done with it. I'm up for, given the setting, Constant Comment, thanks.
Kosh, w respect, it's a tastelessness that goes beyond tacky bc it perpetuates the idea that Jews who are living are not wholly adequate.

Nothng that has the effector can have the effect to perpetuate myths abt the living should be ignored, imo.
I'm definitely against having other people's religion being pushed at me while I'm alive and able to indicate my lack of interest for myself. Why would I think idiots who knock on my front door are better care takers of my soul than I am? I believe freedom of religion includes freedom FROM religion. The premise of saving souls is arrogant as it's heart: "WE know best and the rest of you are pathetic and deluded."

Baptizing anyone after death when the "Saved" soul has no way to indicate their lackinterest or need of being saved of is incredibly high-handed. It's also remarkably POINTLESS. Even if I believed all the end of life theories about Heaven and Hell--which I'm not at all sure I do, wouldn't I have taken care of last minute business before shuffling off my mortal coil?

rated
if my practice was in Salt Lake, i'd be a billionaire.
I giggled at Dr. Ziggy Mutter-Job.
He reminds me a cartoonist Zippy.
Zippy the Pinhead was why I buy:
`
The Washington Post. - He was fired?
I no buy the newspaper after that deed.
I request Dr. Zippy Mutter-Job to recall?
You promised to remember USA in wills.
I'll accept a living-will of half-billion asap.
I have a craving for NYC's Cheesecake too.
Dr. in the house can say Grace after we eat.
I hope Dr. Zippy Mutter-job no mugs folks.
I came back to read . . . I forgot why I came.
Maybe I smelled cake with `FusanA's icing
Johnathan - just another bunch of asshats. Unbelievable arrogance.

Howabout digging up a Mormon or two and have a bris?

Maybe they would get the idea?

r
Jon, I forgot to mention that the LDS church may be the fastest growing because their total # includes all of those who have fallen away too. They never give up on anyone. Almost everyone I run into here used to be a Mormon, but they woke up.
Jonathan,
Mormons baptize the souls of all non-Christians they can find, including pre-Christians. This isn't aimed specifically at Jews. Though Jesus is venerated in Islam, I don't think Muslims are baptized per se so I would think they would also qualify for posthumous baptism.
Maybe I'm not making something clear. I can't stand evangelism but I get it, not in the sense of a quota but in the sense of saving someone from a terrible permanent fate in terms of one's own belief system. If I really, really believed that a lack of baptism would damn people for eternity regardless of their conduct in life I'd regard rescuing as many as possible as my moral obligation. This is not a belief that makes moral sense to me but I understand how the dominos fall.

Sometimes the fact that we don't belong to an evangelical tradition has consequences - if others hold beliefs that we find, uh, inconsistent, we don't have something better to offer them. A peculiar position, but there it is.
kosh I really do get all that. And I'm suggeting, still, that as long as Jews are among those they posthumously baptize, it is unhelpful given the way so many Christians see Jews as incomplete....but moreso, I think it's tacky.
Had to reply to Kosher,
The Mormons do not believe in "hell" or eternal damnation. They believe there are three levels in the afterlife. Almost all will be in the first level, the terrestial. You would have to be LDS to make it to the second level, the tellestial. You must be quite devout to make it to the third level, the Celestial Kingdom, where you will become a God or a Goddess. The act of a temple worker being baptised in the name of a nonmember is not to save the person from damnation - it is so that they can "progress" in the spirit world. I just had to clear that up. It's interesting....
I wonder if they've gotten around to making Jesus a Christian.
Jan through hocus-pocus all things are possible... ... ...
Concerning hocus-pocus, since all Christians and Jews accept the old testament and Eve, who was the ancestor of everyone, was undoubtedly Jewish, and the current Israeli doctrine declares that Jewishness is derived from matrilineal descent, doesn't that make everyone Jewish?
Jan who told you all Jews accept those premises?
I see. So it's a matter of deciding which Jews to believe.
Jan I make no brief here, nor have I made one anywhere, as to Jewish religious/spiritual claims, for or against.
You know that I'm not suggesting anything here re: that.
You also know what I have suggested here, if you've read; I've made the point.
Please be assured I am not holding you responsible for anything. I am merely attempting to clear up the logic of the matter.
R.
I also did a post on this topic- a couple of days earlier ...
As a Jew, my soul is bound to G-d. Post death baptism can't possibly be valid. Less valid even, than forced conversions by the Inquisition. Love us or hate us, we are what we are. Look to your own soul, leave mine alone. R
Like scanner, I was curious about the mechanics of the baptism. Does some Mormon in authority just declare "I deem thee baptized"? If there were a god, do they think that's what He wants? Or maybe they're putting one over on Him?
Abra they apparently believe it is transforming.
My general point is that all religions, from the most ancient down to the most recent peculiarities of Scientology are chock full of inconsistencies, obvious nonsense, fascinating and obsolete moralities, and other oddities. To pick out one to ridicule while making the assumption that all others are totally acceptable is a common and dangerous action full of cultural incitements and gains very little for social decency.
I said nothing here, Jan, to suggest that the other religions are without inconsistency.
Jon, I'm a Minister of Erotica. Can I baptize you?

hahahahah
RW I'll have to consult Lady G.
I am actually sorry to say that this is the first time I hear of such a...what do call that? This is so embarrassing. R
It makes me sick. This is breaking the rules of God. Even God gives us freedom of choice.
I would like to think eventually we could all respect each other. I do think there is a point to this. What I get out of it is that Jews to this day are still not respected. I think all of us who have any Jewish lineage have had run-ins with antisemites. Jesus was a Jew. His teachings were of love and respect. I wonder what he would think about this? All in all, I think this should still be wrote on when it happens. You know the disrespect of the Jews. Does it happen to many other people? It seems so? But the question in my mind is what is next always? Perhaps my relatives scared me too much with stories of the Holocaust but then again perhaps they did it just right, I want to know when it is time to worry. So I guess I have to say thanks to every single person who reports all actions against the Jews, no matter where they are and what is happening, I just want to know. So thank-you Jonathan.
This is an example of such insane arrogance, there's really nothing one can say beyond that.
koshersalaami makes a strong argument that nobody should care about this.

But I think there is more to it, regardless of whether or not you believe there are actual metaphysical consequences of this practice.

To the believer, as it has been mentioned, this is offensive sacrilege. And it can have more effect on the living than the dead simply due to reenforcing negative stereotypes or offensive fallacies.

To the unbeliever, this is phony fraudulent self-aggrandizing. It's like not caring about Bernie Madoff by dismissing his victims as deserving fools. This practice is a part of the repertoire used by the Mormon church to exercise power over people and to manipulate them into parting with real money in the form of tithing.

The practice is offensive any way you look at it, and not as harmless as it might appear at first glance.
When I first heard of the practice of baptising the dead, I was sure the person telling me made it up. I laughed so hard. And then to find out it was true made me speechless.
It is pretty silly. One would have to imagine that these people really believe baptism has, like, you know, and actual effect as opposed to being simply a symbolic act for the benefit of the witnesses. LOL.
Two replies to Jan Sand:

1. No, I don't think they'd get around to converting Jesus though Jesus was of course never a Christian because the creation of Christianity was necessitated by Jews not accepting the resurrection. At the time of Jesus' death, Christianity didn't exist, nor did Jesus act as though he had anything in mind other than reforming Judaism, certainly not creating a new religion.

Of course, the logical extension of a posthumous conversion of Jesus to Christianity would be the conversion of God to Christianity. The endpoint of that chain would be worth a novel, potentially an interesting one.

2. No, Eve was not Jewish. Eve was pre-Jewish. As was Noah. Judaism doesn't enter the picture until Abraham. So, that particular logical inconsistency is nonexistent.
@koshersalaami

I appreciate your consideration of my observations and I am curious as to how Judaism originates with Abraham in contrast with the actual rather intimate contacts between the Jewish god Jehovah and his created Adam and Eve. This is a genuine question and not an attempt at argument. I simply do not know. As an atheist, the whole thing, to me, is a matter of mythology but nevertheless demands some sort of logic.
Jan

For what it's worth:

The Rabbis hold that the Hebrew Clans do begin/Judaism itself does begin w Abraham's sense of 1 God.

Genesis, prior to the Abrahamic family stories, is not, the Rabbis teach, a history of Hebrew Clans or of Judaism's origins, but of human origins. Adam ('earth", in Hebrew language), and Chava (Eve), are an attempt at a human origin tale and a prior story to the story of a Jewish people.

Nevertheless, the "characters" spoken of in Genesis are "people" to whom the Rabbinical commentaries judge by more or less the same ethical standards as they judge the Abrahamic clan, with some notable exceptions.

One exception is that when Kayin murders his brother, Hevel (Cain/Abel), the perp is banished and not killed by God (on the idea that he could not have known what the result of his temper/anger/brute strength would be--death of his brother).

If I can be of more help, I'll be happy to try.
Of course, Muslims think Noah, Adam, Eve, Jesus, Moses and Abraham were all Islamic.
RW well they can think Bart Simpson is, too, for all I care.
I appreciate the discussion and still am curious as to what the signal event might have been wherein the first Jew might have declared his (or her) finality in being Jewish. If Adam and Eve were not Jewish, what were they? Certainly not atheist.
Jan The Rabbis hold that Adam and Eve were simply the first people (and some, even Orth Ravs hold they are symbolic figures only) and were w.o a set of beliefs, w.o religion, per se. Abraham and then his clan, are the first. The Ravs are content w A/E as a hman-origin explanation. I, personally, do not know any Rabbi who posits the pair as fully people as much as 'hstorical explanation'...tho you and I would say, ahistorical.
Read this in the news too. Seriously... people are already dead. If they didnt want to be a Mormon when alive, they wouldn't have been a Mormon ever.
I forget whether my comments are welcome here or not, Jonathan, ( I've lost track of the places I've been asked not to comment ) but this struck me :

The Rabbis hold that the Hebrew Clans do begin/Judaism itself does begin w Abraham's sense of 1 God.

Did God exist prior to Abraham ?
Was it the same God, just waiting until the right lineage formed, or was there another God before ?

Seriously. Smite me with logic. I'm not ( for a change ) being awful ( deliberately ) ~ just like Jan, with half the intellect, curious. My partner is Jewish, & she was no help either. She offered to put it to her Rabbi, but they're a bit 'estranged,' so we let it slide.
Since those Biblical tales inhabit the very murky times where myth and history mingle in ways not easily determinable I suppose reality which, even today, is a very indiscernible quality given the neurological limits of human perception must remain rather amorphous. Nevertheless, if Jewishness is tribal, then secular Jews with no religious beliefs can be comfortable in their social location. On that basis, I suppose, there might be some genetic basis for the designation although there have been conversions to the faith post tribally.
Jan I'd agree.
I think even the Rabbis acknowledge that the origin stories are murky as to their historicity.
Kim you're welcome here, of course.

God is eternal, backwards and forwards, according to traditional Judaism, so there is no reason to posit A&E believing anything in particular. That Adam is pictured as having actual conversations w God ("What Have You Done?"/"She Made Me Do It"---eat the apple--) does assume a God's existence even if the pair aren't Jews per se.
Jonathan, thank you.
The example you put ( giving rise to, 'What would you have done ? ) is a good one, & maybe the very beginning of Philosophy ) but I'm still unclear about the identity of God before Abraham.
I suppose what I'm trying to ask, in my convoluted way, is : Did Abraham somehow package or institutionalise, or in fact lay claim to ownership of God, in the modern trademark sense, or did God exist for everyone, even Australian Aboriginals, at the time ?
I trust you know where I'm going with this, & forgive you if you think it's way off topic ~ just Anna's rabbi would be useless, I know.
ps. Loved the post.
Kim

Traditional Judaism holds that

a) God pre-existed the creation and is not a part of it. This is a rejection, in effect, of Naturalism.

b) While God existed before and after the creation of humans, and while all sorts of gods existed as objects of worship by humans prior to Abraham, Abraham's special insight, it is said, is that there is and always was and will always be 1 non-material, impossible-to-objectify (or even name) God.

c) When Moses asks God, What shall I tell Pharoah your name is (the subtext being...'so that Pharaoh doesn't think me utterly nuts when I denand in God's name that he manumit his slaves) Exodus has God replying that his name is something akin to I AM THAT I AM...in other words, that being who needs no pre-existing event or being prior to me, AND meaning: I Am Sufficient (now, for your needs as slaves...and always).
Thank you.
I'm dim, I admit, in this area.
(now, for your needs as slaves...and always). ~ that's cryptic. I wasn't sure if you were talking about Pharaoh or God.
But thank you ~ :-)
Kin you're welcome Rabbis say that God is saying, through his vague name, I AM THAT I AM, (I'm Sufficient for Your Needs) is what God is telling Moses.
What is fascinating to me in this conversation is the implied concept that eternal existence has a personality. Current explorations of the universe and its origination do include that this particular one is merely an insignificant local phenomena, sort of one bubble in an infinite bottle of champagne with all sorts of bubble varieties, many if not the majority ofwhich are so alien in composition as to be totally incapable of supporting even the most elemental energy-matter interactions which sustain us and the amusing idea that one might have a conversation with whatever totality lays behind this everything is quite Aliceinwonderlandish. But as a totally temporary insignificant phenomenon in all this I cannot rule it out as impossible. Merely curious and curiouser.
Jan,
Perhaps, but your question was not a metaphysical question so much as a doctrine question. So, to answer it in a bit more detail:

Adam and Eve knew only God because they had insufficient knowledge to theorize about anyone else and not enough curiosity to speculate. That was where the fruit of the Tree of Knowledge came in. After that, people (eventually, in theory, grouping into peoples) came up with their own creation myths and deities. Abraham's distinction was to conclude that the polytheists and idolaters were wrong. I guess it might be fair to say that he was the first (which might not be historically true) to actually choose monotheism.

Judaism really has two identifying moments, now that I think about it. Abraham is the origin of the choice of a relationship with God and also of our tribal identity. It is his descendants who ended up in Egypt, became more numerous there, and eventually migrated back to the land he ended up in on his journey from Ur in Babylonia. Moses is the vehicle for the introduction of the laws and parameters which define religious Judaism per se.

(This next answer is to a comment that may not have been yours.) As to Islam claiming Abrahamic descent, Jewish lore provides for that through Ishmael. However, keep in mind that Judaism's existence dates back in some form to Abraham with a narrative that's unbroken since then. Islam wasn't introduced for another two and a half millenia. There are detailed records of Judaism that predate the foundation of Islam by half a millenium (particularly including the Qumran Scrolls) and other evidence that predates the foundation of Islam by well over a millenium. In the seventies, an archeological site was found near Jerusalem that dated from the late First Temple period, about 600 BCE. A child on the dig broke through what was thought to be a stone floor and turned out to be a stone ceiling which fooled not only the archeologists but over twenty centuries' worth of looters, so the contents were undisturbed (and far older than what else was on the site). Found there were some rolled up pieces of silver about the size of cigarette butts that were engraved with an early version of Hebrew writing, the earliest found up to that date. It took many years of painstaking work to unroll the strips of silver. What they contained was something called the Priestly Blessing ("May the Lord bless you and keep you.."). I still say that over my kids - excuse me, kid - every Friday night. That is not mythical continuity, it's documentable continuity. Back to Abraham, no, but way closer.

The story of Abraham is where the Torah starts to get very specific. The migration path is pretty detailed and I don't think there was a good political reason to fabricate it in this way. Our people had to come from somewhere and there's nothing about the outline of this story that isn't credible (aside obviously from the interactions with God).

There is a theological point that predates Abraham: the criteria for entrance to Heaven (which we don't emphasize in the first place). They come from the Noah narrative and are called the Noahide Laws. Basically, they say you have to be good to other people and not be a pagan (probably because pagan religious law wasn't humane enough to be acceptable). What that adds up to now (but possibly not then, though there may have been other examples of monotheism in the area) is that you don't have to be Jewish to get into Heaven.

I hope I've helped answer your concerns.
I am really stoked that k-salaam is on OS:

"the creation of Christianity was necessitated by Jews not accepting the resurrection."

Truth Told. An unavoidable, if inconvenient for some, cold hard fact. Once this is the starting point, and what sane inquiry could being elsewhere?, a conversation actually worth the time can begin.
@koshersalaami

I appreciate your genuine consideration. I am, of course, pretty much totally naive in many of the basics of Judaism and have spent the best part of my life puzzling over the general unbelievability of much of the fundamental concepts which are accepted by the faithful of almost all religions. I do not doubt the sincerity of many of the believers but since the alternatives presented by total rationality as to the existence of all life and its development out of basic matter and the rather obvious observed destination of each individual back to elemental components after death is chillingly grim I can comprehend the rejection of reality in preference to a sugar coated fairy tale although this is a bit too much for me.
Like all persecuted minorities the solidarity of their strength is derived a great deal from that very persecution and there is no doubt that Jewish traditions of learning and respect for human values and intelligence has done well for their survival and successes. But, as with all religions, there is a rather large set of rote ceremonies and rigid beliefs intractable to rationality and since the rather long Jewish history has many doubts out of perhaps delightful but fanciful tales within its traditions which seem to me to be oddly contradictory at times (again, as with most other religions) I must retain a rather suspicious and critical attitude about the whole business.
I doubt that politics is a dominant factor in fabrications. There are other, even merely literary, elements that are probably involved moving into fables promoting accepted moralities. The actual existence of even major Jewish Biblical figures has been called into doubt and I see no reason to withhold my uneasiness in this area.
I'm a bit uneasy like Jan, Myself.
I have no wish to upturn the applecart but wonder this : What might be the difference between Moses & Joseph Smith, since they both had 'visions' and heard 'voices' on the mountain ?

Is there something written or demonstrated that one is right & the other wrong, or are they much the same, or what do we suppose ?
Perhaps this is worth considering.

http://nowscape.com/mormon/moses-news.htm
Historically, I always understood the first monotheists to be Zoroastrians in Persia and the cult Pharaoh Akhenaten in Egypt.
Jan Kim RW Kosh

First, I want to say that I appreciate that all of this has been said w mutual respect.
Second, I wholly agree w Jan's point abt how utterly "local" Judaism and other religions here appear to be.
Third, and just as a point of information: traditional Judaism holds that, unlike Jos. Smith's experience, while Moses is said, (in the Hebrew) to be the only human ever to see God "panim il panim", or "face-to-face", the tradition also says that once Moses came doen Mount Horev with The Law, the entire group of escapees from Egypt, some 600,000 (they say) saw what in Hebrew is called "Shechina", or the spirit of God (a poor translation by me, here), along with enormous sky-based phenomena emanating from the mountain. So trad. Judaism claims that multitudes say the delivery, at least, of The Law. The tablets, of course, had the Ten, the Ten ruled that serve as categories for the complete 613 'mizvot", or Musts/Commands.
In any case, while I have no problem relegating all this to myth, I also appreciate the Jewish texts as wisdom texts and as a key to understanding the ancient Hebrew Mind.
I would not have known had I not read it here. Thanks so much!
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The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints sponsor several on line resources that encourage people to look into their family history, in a fun and “oh my gosh isn’t that interesting” sort of way, and people flock to these sites.

But how much of the information can you rely on given that the purpose of the Church’s mission regarding genealogy is to verify a man’s right to the priesthood?

When we look back on history, over very long periods of time, we rarely have access to the stories, opinion, and personal tragedies of the ones who lost. It is said, and not without relevance, that the winners write the history.

Who is most likely to “win” in this matter? The Mormons, who make genealogy “fun” and teach everyone how they can find out they were related to Egyptian priests, and Indian princesses? Or the Jewish people, who do not, publically, encourage the openness and value of genealogy records? Yes, they cry foul when things are done that are wrong, but if the practice is not STOPPED, permanently, and emphatically. Then all of their protests will fall on deaf ears, and be forgotten.

In three hundred years, I predict, not only will there be official records showing that millions of “Mormons” were killed in the Holocaust, but it is conceivable that the history of the Mormon movement itself will become blurred, after all the records will show all of these “Mormons” (you know looking at the genealogical records) who lived hundreds of years before Joseph Smith ever lived, and who will question the authenticity of those records? It says it right in the six lines of information in the data base that Wolfgang Shultz, who lived in 1677, was baptized as a Mormon (speaking hypothetically of course).

And why?

Because what the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day saints needs more than anything is validation. The Mormon movement has been under fire from its beginnings to erase the circumstances of its origin. The history of the Mormon movement is controversial, at best. It has been challenged, and called a cult, and rallies against these accusations under a banner of conviction and faith, but it is not nearly as strong, say, as the Catholic “Law of Contradiction”, but it wants, no, needs to be that strong, and there is no better way to establish authority and validity, than to have mountains of evidence that faith in the Mormon doctrine goes back hundreds, if not thousands of years, and mountains of evidence that that faith was persecuted.

Today there are a number of people who challenge the truths of the Holocaust. In three hundred years, without sufficient diligence and determination, that challenge will grow, and the work of the Mormons, today, undermines the defense of the truth, and only adds strength to the challenge.

It must not only be stopped, but all LDS records must be made public, and scrubbed of every entry of a person being baptized into that organization without their knowledge and consent, and believe me it is far greater than just the Jewish victims of the Holocaust who have been included in their rolls.
But Jonathan, it's good to be Mormon! As much as I value the genealogical research the Mormons do, I get a bit nauseated at the reason they do it. Not only do they baptize dead Jews, they baptize dead Baptists, Catholics, Pagans, Hindus, Muslims ad nauseam! I guess they are sort of obsessed with making the entire world Mormon. That should be a good enough reason not to vote for one!
Oahusurfer,
Thank you. There's a task I'm committed to completing before I post again, which kept me from posting from early December to early January, at which point an event occurred which will be the subject of my next post. At that point, the cause for my subsequent absence will be obvious. I'm not fully active yet but I have commented on some friends' blogs lately.

Jan,
My answer to you will be a rather messy one because your comments about religion in general fit Judaism to a slightly more limited extent than it might look at first glance. I'll elaborate:

No one is asking you to believe the Bible per se from a Jewish standpoint. To expect you to have faith would be ridiculous. I understand your tendency to evangelize for atheism (a deliberately flippant way of putting it but there's more than a kernel of truth here) because, as far as you're concerned, you're evangelizing for rationality. No problem. However, understand that any evangelism here is strictly a one-way street - I have no desire or inclination to recruit you.

Your biggest objection to Judaism, and to religion in general, seems to be about the irrationality of faith. The trouble is that faith is not at the center of Judaism - conduct is. Faith is at the center of Christianity and Islam but not Judaism so I will object to our being painted with the same brush. The most faith-based of us, the Chasidim, have a saying: It is better to be a good person and an atheist than a bad person and a Jew. An analogous statement would be impossible in most if not all of Christianity.

The real point behind Judaism, and many Jews might disagree with me on this but it's true anyway, isn't even the Torah; it's the rabbinic lens through which Torah is analyzed and viewed. Not that I think it's always been 100% successful, particularly by modern standards, but there has been thousands of years of effort to interpret Torah as humanely and justly as possible. As I've pointed out elsewhere: a scriptural prohibition of Sabbath violation to the point where it's a capital offense becomes an obligation to violate the Sabbath in order to save a life. A commandment to fast during Yom Kippur is interpreted as off-limits if you're sick. A list of capital crimes weren't treated as capital crimes even in late Biblical times because execution was reserved for really extreme, airtight cases that came along perhaps once in half a century. Then there's the phenomenon of Midrash: the making up of theoretical scenarios in order to figure out how a particular law could be interpreted as just because a lack of justice couldn't be left on the table, even in Torah, the assumption being that if we found something unjust, we were missing something.

There are really two important factors here: 1. a strong emphasis on serious, honest, qualified analysis and in educating a population to be capable of such analysis, and 2. putting that which is just and humane before everything else.

Yes, there are some people who would really worry about a question such as "Was Eve Jewish?" but most of us wouldn't and, if we did, it would be as part of the process we go through to sharpen our skills, not because we think that this particular question qualifies as particularly important. Was Eve real? A lot of Orthodox might say "sure" but only to answer the question; a lot of the rest of us would either say "no" or, to be more honest about it, "that's not a critical question." What's important to us, particularly that far back, is not what happened but what moral lessons we can derive from studying it. That is, ultimately, also true of the Orthodox.

That lens has rational value. Practicing its use has led to what I think is the oldest and most successful producer of committed humanists the world has ever seen. The production of committed humanists is a rational goal, even to an atheist, and adhering to a method that has extremely long-term success is an extremely rational act.

Preserving such a method is also a rational act. And that's where we get into the muddiness that is Zionism. (Man, I know this is a Comment, but wouldn't it make a great post? That's how a lot of them start.) We tried to preserve it for two thousand years without a homeland but that preservation was constantly a moving target. Now we have a homeland and it's STILL a moving target! Who knew? A third of us get killed for reasons that were fabricated, we finish founding a state in the aftermath, another population tries to get rid of the state only to conclude (mostly) that the state would be acceptable if it returned to boundaries we used to have before that same population raised hostilities to the point where war broke out, and now we're dealing with a country whose leaders talk about ridding the world of us and denies the Holocaust (contrary to ridiculously extensive Nazi records, some of which were just released) while developing nukes. A lot of which results in the election of leadership which is far more concerned with preserving the Method than in maintaining its moral integrity.

Preserving the Method remains a rational act. Argue against religion all you want but no more straw dogs.
All the holy water in the world will not be enough to alter the state of my soul AFTER it has left my carcass. It takes some kind of heavy-duty, fuel-injected über faith to believe splashing water postmortum will either save or doom anybody.

Lezlie
Powerful. So glad you are calling them on this crazy practice. I remember several years back when a Baptist church in Colorado Springs rounded up non-Baptist children in school buses under the guise of taking them to a summer camp of some sort and baptizing them while their parents were at work.
@koshersalaami

Your interest in and thoughts about my objections are a compliment to me but I find them a bit out of synch with my experience. I remember many years ago when I lived on 18th street near McDonald avenue in Brooklyn and I was approached by a teenaged girl on the street with an envelope on the Jewish Sabbath. She asked me to open the envelope so she could read the letter. I asked her why she couldn't open it herself and she reacted angrily as if I was mocking her. Apparently reading the letter, requesting someone else to open it, even walking down the street were not forbidden. I opened the letter for her but could not but mentally conclude that religion had driven her insane. Insanity such as this pervades all religions and people are wasting badly needed time and money and energy and are plagued by unnecessary fears and unjustified expectations by this total nonsense. I have read statements by orthodox rabbis in Israel declaring all non-Jews fit only to serve as menials and perhaps slaves to Jews who were given the world and perhaps the universe on a silver platter as the will of their particular almighty. I cannot accept this as being anything but extreme megalomania and a frightful danger to the entire world considering Israel's atomic arsenal. As decent as some of the basic strictures of many religions might be the accompanying irrationalities involving grotesque ceremonies of little if any basic value and the accompanying demands of exclusivity that demeans anybody not of their particular faith horrifies me at a time when the entire planet is in great danger of transforming its ecology to one inimical to life as we know it. If there were a real ethical base to all religions this frightful danger should leave religious leaders howling in demands to set the world back on a sensible path but they remain almost totally silent and fiercely object only when their idiotic dogmas are challenged. The Jewish religion is no exception.
Jan I can't know what makes you think I'm here to justify nutty (or worse) beliefs or practices, from traditional Judaism or from any other religion.

My comments in the latter part of this thread have been by way of explanation and not of justification.

I have no interest in what anyone else thinks abt Judaism except when those thoughts might tend toward my or my family's harm.

That there are lidicrous claims/practices in every religion I thought was a proposition on whuch we'd, most of us, long ago agreed.
@Jonathan Wolfman

There was nothing personal in my comment, merely an observation that Judaism was not an exception.
Jan,
Judaism as a whole may not be an exception but Reform Judaism is, and that's the biggest American branch.

Orthodoxy is variable. It has gotten somewhat crazier in the last couple of decades. Also, the dynamic in Israel is very different from the way it is in the US because, in Israel, there is a dichotomy between Orthodox Judaism and secular Judaism with very little in between. There is a small and growing Reform movement there but it is as yet pretty insignificant. In the US, on the other hand, the Reform and Conservative movements are major, and there is also something called Modern Orthodox, which entails literal obedience without letting tradition stand in for law.

Fundamentalism is dangerous anywhere. Where I find the distinction is actually easy to define: When the balance between the twin religious priorities of vigilance and compassion tilts toward vigilance, expect trouble, regardless of the religious setting. In that sense I would say that my problem with the ultra-Orthodox in Judaism is not that they are too Jewish but that they are not Jewish enough - as far as I can see, they got so obsessed with the details that they got the basic balance wrong.

From personal experience I can also tell you that certain rituals, like mourning rituals for example, help psychologically with the process.
I can only express my personal take on the varieties of intensity and conformity in all religions and even on the negations of religions. These break down into the individuals who grasp aspects of the beliefs that they hold and there is no doubt a tremendous amount of cherry picking in the personal process responding to individual personalities. All religions carry a variety of freight, wondrous tales of creation and communions with the absolute, strictures of behavior both sensible, decent and grotesque and cruel with justifications derived from unthoughtful traditions and from the necessary interactions of a dynamic social context, and each has individual rote performances demanded of adherents on a daily or annual basis to establish conformity on a subconscious level that is almost narcotic in its effects. Each religion maintains huge majorities who participate unthinkingly in these demands and who negotiate through this psychological furniture in a way that deprivation of these regularities would leave much of their lives with something vital missing even though that empty space might profitably be filled with more useful concepts and dynamics. And there are exceptional individuals with intelligence and compassion who wisely perceive the bits of useful wisdom in each of the various religions to which they choose to adhere and from this admirable choice construct a useful piece of viable psychological machinery that makes their version of their religion defensible. These individuals could, no doubt, live together in a sensible world whatever their theological peculiarities. But these people are the exception, not the rule.

I have chosen to assemble my own set of viable, compassionate, and hopefully, workable attitudes to deal with my problems. I have rejected the bulk of meaningless traditions and amusing imaginative myths from my reality and have tried to face the implacable cruelties and unexpected random destructiveness normal to all passages through merely being alive and try to treat all creatures, human and otherwise as equals in this strange struggle. I have lived a pretty long life and misery and death is no stranger although I have had exceptional luck in the matter considering what I have seen in other venues. You either learn to accept it and continue or succumb. There is no other choice. There is much delight in merely having the experience.