I can't believe I didn't blog at all from Denver, except I did, on that other blog -- and in War Room, and I think I wrote a story, too. I can't remember, it's all a blur, but a great blur. You read about the Salon party thanks to marytkelly and my old friend Dave Cullen. They both wrote about the best part of the convention for me: Having my daughter Nora with me, on the eve of her going off to college.
I can get jaded about my awesome job and events like the Democratic convention (my fourth) can seem like work to me; having her with me made me remember how lucky I am. Everything was exciting to her -- especially getting several Salon photo credits for covering the police arresting a young anarchist, and a PUMA demonstration behind Hardball on Monday. Of course, this convention was particularly great -- it started out feeling so fractured, and then day by day, the party came together. I was thrilled with both Clinton speeches -- I seem to be in a minority, but I didn't expect anything different, they're skilled politicians and ardent Democrats -- and Obama's "surprise" appearance at the Pepsi Center was the highlight for me.
At least partly because Nora and I jumped in the car afterwards, and I drove her to the airport, to catch a redeye to New York by herself to start school. She applied to be part of a community service immersion program a few days before the rest of the freshman arrived, and she was accepted, so it meant she had to travel by herself, and miss Obama's speech. I felt terrible, but she was fine with it; she's been on her own in New York for the last three days, and I'm joining her today, for the official Move-in Day, even though she already moved herself in.
It seems strangely symbolic, and perfect, to me: She's already moved in, moved on, we just need a day to mark the passage. She's always been amazingly resilient and self-sufficient. I get way more praise than I deserve for raising her and doing this job at the same time -- she made it easy for me. We never had that period of mother-daughter fighting that's supposed to be nature's way of helping us separate, so this is hard for me. But having her on her own in New York for the weekend, texting me about the Obama speech, keeping me up on all of her adventures, has made it easier. Nora will be fine, and so will I. I'm hoping she'll post all her convention photos on Open, but she's got a lot to do.

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It definitely sounds like you and Nora will both be fine. I know you will miss her--I miss Sam more than I can express--but your relationship with her will not diminish, even though your lives are now separating to some degree. I find that my relationship with Sam is different, certainly, but our closeness has not diminished one whit.
Congratulations. Her temperament no doubt made it easier to raise a wonderful child, but as a friend once told me, parents can screw up wonderful kids, but you didn't ;)
Mazel Tov!
I have forgiven her for the "Vicky" comment, especially after being forced to look at pictures side to side and I have to admit, she had a point!
I know you will have an amazing time in New York with her. Nothing can break that bond. It is the most precious of times...the in between times when our children travel from dependence to independence.
My oldest son just dropped in after driving 2 days from Palo Alto. His girlfriend is going to London for a master's program and he was driving with her so she could spend time with her folks before she goes.
I got 2 hours with him...2 full hours before he blurred awa to the now famous Invesco field to watch a college football game. It was a tease to see him for those 2 hours. I'm in a total funk. All four of my children live out of state. They live in great places to visit, but at some point, I hope they realize "there's no place like home".
Best to Nora and to you...
P.S. I never experienced the fighting with my daughters either. I believe it does not have to be inevitable.
Then one of my other daughter came to visit for a week. One of my sons came to visit during the same week.
My empty nest syndrome lasted 5 days.
This piece moved me. Good luck to mother and daughter!
Here is a poem that I wrote about my daughter, that I think that you might appreciate.
Best,
Mikel
To Show Me The Stars
There is nothing to calm
the fear of the day
full of creditors
who cant be satisfied,
dunning letters that
cant be replied to
Except for...
A walk in the dark
to the store for ice cream
with a dog happy to see me,
and a daughter
who brings a flashlight
to show me the stars.
--Mikel K
I hope she's doing great in NYC. Tell her I'm jealous. Hopefully I'll be there soon.
What an exciting city.
It's hard for me REALLY to put myself in your shoes, parting like that, finally, but I keep trying and it feels sad, but electrifying, too.
My nephew graduated college in May and just moved to Manhattan for his first job, and his mom, my sister, has been a wreck. I can understand why she is, but it's easier for me to relate to him. He is deliriously excited to be there.
Having met Nora very briefly, I think it's a safe bet she is too.
Tell her to check in here sometime. Although as a college freshman, adding distractions is probably the LAST thing to do. But I want her to anyway. hehehe.
She spent the weekend with me in NY with my sister and best friend, for my birthday; we had the greatest time. I'm extraordinarily lucky.