My mother is not dying. She is not on meth. Nor does she have Munchausen's Syndrome. And she still has her hair. Knowing this, please forgive my posting here.
What is Open Salon? I am still trying to figure it out. It seems to be a strange mix of The Huffington Post, Daily Kos, the Oprah Winfrey show, and womens' diaries.
Of course, given those ingredients, Open Salon is dominated by the liberal mindset.
Reading Open Salon is a strange experience. 99.99% of the members have the same opinion on everything. Strangely enough, one of those opinions is that diversity and multi-culturalism are really good things.
But what is most striking is the pervasive sense of lachrymosity. Are liberals depressed? Or do depressed liberals tend to write their thoughts on blogs?
Here are some of the headlines from Open Salon's home page:
"E.R. diaries: The Tragic Story of a Mom on Meth"
"My mother has Münchausen Syndrome and I'm sick of it"
There's been a slew of other such depressing stories lately too. Recently, one member wrote a post entitled, "Fox News is killing my dad". In this post, she revealed that her dad is dying from cancer but that Fox News is accelerating his demise by constantly telling him how bad things are. She later pulled the post after being confronted with a sad contradiction: if Fox News watchers are simpletons as she contends, then wouldn't that make her dad an idiot? Or, could it be that Fox News is reporting valuable information that no other news organization will report and that her dad is in fact a smart man. She held both positions.
Which leads me to another observation. Women are really bad, generally speaking, at rational discourse. They are great at telling you how they feel, which explains why Open Salon reads like an open diary.
Engage most any female on this site with an opposing viewpoint; fake it if you must. The women here seem to be offended at the very idea of being questioned. The response will most often be that you really should not be posting here and that you are most likely an [fill in pejorative here].
So, my initial impression of Open Salon is that it is a female-driven, Oprah-style, liberally dominated, cryfest with an identity crisis. It wants to be The Huffington Post. The problem is that there already is a Huffington Post.
What Open Salon should be is what liberals profess they want the world to be: open, diverse, and tolerant. We need more opposing viewpoints here and less woe-is-me stories.
My name is John Knight and my mother is not dying.


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You are an insensitive misogynist.
I am not a misogynist. I love women. I just don't like conversing with them ;)
Oh my God! I can't believe you just said that. Go away you women-hating troll.
I sincerely doubt whether most women enjoy conversing with you either :)
Glad you're here.
Nice work. Someone might even award you a tiara.
No, you're the douchebag, douchebag. Go find your fellow douchbags and hang with them. Leave the rest of us alone.
You know, from time to time we have thoughtfully worked out postings from intelligent conservatives on here, and they prompt some of the most interesting discussions. You're the antithesis of those people.
I just moved my writing. Because I could...not many things in life I can just walk away from. And, unfortunately, there's hateful people in other parts of my life too where I must stay. Maybe others are right, one hateful, judgmental, cruel person, shouldn't set the tone here and I shouldn’t leave. We'll see.
At least you wrote a blog at last...interesting it's just criticizing others...Someone might even listen to your point of view if you could say it without hate. Gosh, I even got a whole paragraph from you ripe with your typical bizarre logic and assumptions.
"There's been a slew of other such depressing stories lately too. Recently, one member wrote a post entitled, "Fox News is killing my dad". In this post, she revealed that her dad is dying from cancer but that Fox News is accelerating his demise by constantly telling him how bad things are. She later pulled the post after being confronted with a sad contradiction: if Fox News watchers are simpletons as she contends, then wouldn't that make her dad an idiot? Or, could it be that Fox News is reporting valuable information that no other news organization will report and that her dad is in fact a smart man. She held both positions."
This little blurb is what you are fussing about?
http://tigersonora.wordpress.com/2009/10/30/bad-news-is-killing-my-dad/
Keep blogging...it's great to have a diverse group of people. Just please try not to be so hateful, if you can...it's so uncreative, and isn't probably going to win you any supporters to your point of view. That is what you really want to convey isn't it??
I have no problem with differing opinions... What I have a problem with is sweeping generalizations. "Conservatives are...", "liberals are...", "democrats are...", "republicans are..." ... You get the point. how about instead of tarring one another with broad labels we try engaging in intelligent conversation...
AUWE
we do need more diversity here
This will gain me a great deal of attention in the short run, after which I will then denounce you as a pathetic loser who gets his kicks by annoying and upsetting people.
My rise to power after my brief fall will be fantastic. All thanks to you, my strange little friend.
I'm sometimes curious as to how you on the other side of the isle end up blogging here. That's not a subtle hint to get lost, just an honest question. You don't seem like the typical Salon reader. It's a bit like if I ended up blogging on the Weekly Standard or something. Which would probably be fun, come to think of it.
Nan blogged and made clear the distinction, calling the Palin/Limbaugh etc. movement the idiot bastard child of the old "real" conservatism, but you just kept repeating what you did on Stellaa's blog, not engaging with the actual subject at hand.
You didn't talk about what Real Conservatism is and, when invited to write up your views on your own blog, you come up with the above - nothing about conservatism, but deliberately insulting the women here and, since the great majority of the men here are not misogynist, you didn't score any points with them either.
Only with Kyle, who didn't even bristle at your remark to her about "conservative chicks" .
Now, coming on insulting people - what do you hope to gain from that? That's another troll characteristic - irritate people, infuriate them if possible, even if it makes most people despise you. Then complain that they're not nice to you. Trumpet your superiority. That's so troll.
And men here, including you, write just as emotionally as the women. Your whole dance in this blog entry is spewing your feelings even if you never mention mothers...oh wait a minute... The whole dialogue thing you did in your comments was coy. The whole display was very Mean Girl High School - not somehow *masculine* and non-emotional and logical because you're a man...
I don't suppose you see what I'm saying, nor want to - BUT, on the off-chance you actually want some advice, I'd advise you to start all over again. Re-register under another name and avatar, and then read for a while - not the political pieces. And then start commenting and blogging - not political stuff. If you really do want to post about your conservative views on this forum, which you realize is largely liberal, then I suggest you do it in a calm way, setting out your views and reasons for holding them (just saying I'm A Conservative does not fill the bill). You could check out Mishama, a self-described social conservative. His opinions are not of the majority here, but he states them clearly and politely and engages in discussion of them (and talks about other matters and posts pictures, etc).
And keep before you this mantra: If I insult people, I will get insulted. If I'm pleasant and interesting, people will respond positively.
-Dennis Knight.
My rational mind tells me you will never be welcome to comment on my blog - ever. I am always open to conservative viewpoint. I am not open to baiting, sexist, misogynists who are here to provoke not provide honest dialogue. That this is your only post, which does nothing but insult others and shows no bit on where you stand politically, show what a coward you really are. Troll. Troll. Troll.
Yes, you nailed it -- great job!!
The next logical step in your report is that you have deduced that this is not the place for you to waste any more of your time looking for a reasonable place to hang out or garner support your views. There are many places to blog where you will be welcomed and made to feel Right at home, however.
We wish you a safe and happy journey out of the land of liberals into a more seasoned, reasoned place to play.
BTW, the free photo-editting software, Picasa, found on Google.com can help you get rid of that pesky "red eye" condition that makes your avatar look a tad frightening...hope that wasn't too girly of me to bring to your attention?
I came to OS certainly not for news shyte, I can get that any and everywhere. I came for the slice of life from various writers here, men and women. It's a community, really, not a vicious news blog of relative strangers who tell one another off and are not held accountable for their words. There are some mob situations here also but what kind/type of relationship doesn't have arguments from time to time? None that I can think of.
Btw, PM (private messaging) is supposed to be private, hence the name. You have posted the private messages you received from other bloggers into your comments with names attached. This makes it very unlikely that anyone will message you answering the question you seem to be asking.
First, I said "generally speaking". Are you saying that nothing can be said about anything in general terms?
Second, I have no idea what you are talking about regarding posting PM messages. Where have I done that?
did os make your penis fall off?
But meta posts are easy. Let's see an example of something else, please.
"What Open Salon should be is what liberals profess they want the world to be: open, diverse, and tolerant. We need more opposing viewpoints here and less woe-is-me stories."
where are those posts? do you have any, or is that chick work?
Generally speaking - meaning in general, meaning overall, meaning, mostly, meaning pretty much, and the word that naturally follows pretty much is usually "always" or "never" depending on the context. Words have depth and to think the depth of your words here cannot be discerned by reading is absurd. In other words your words "generally speaking ....etc," can easily be defined by the reader, understood and your position rather clear albeit sadly a pathetic fifties mentality that women should be seen and not heard.
Looking at your first comment, I thought this was a PM from JK that you then copied and posted into your comments section. It seemed logical because your post seems to be putting women down and JK is a woman, plus there was no prior comment from JK for me or any other reader to figure out where that comment originated from but clearly you were the poster of it as your avatar and name are directly beneath it. If I have made a wrong assumption I do apologize. But hopefully you can see how the error was made in that it seems to have dropped out of the sky and landed as your first comment.
Are you sure you aren't my husband in disguise? Sounds like something he would say when he was trying to get me going.
Words have meaning. Generally speaking means speaking generally - not specifically. If someone interprets that to mean "always" or "everyone", that is their problem, not mine.
I never said women should be seen and not heard. I can appreciate the sentiment ;) But I never said it.
http://open.salon.com/blog/cassandra_woolf/2009/11/11/a_comic_duel--male_and_female_chauvinist_pigs
Surely you want to debate a woman with balls, not
Engage most any female on this site with an opposing viewpoint; fake it if you must. The women here seem to be offended at the very idea of being questioned. The response will most often be that you really should not be posting here and that you are most likely an [fill in pejorative here].
I hope I did not damage you when I slapped your face with my glove.