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Jon Henner

Jon Henner
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MARCH 12, 2009 2:56PM

Rachel's Choice

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Two weeks ago, the OS cover had a nice post on how to fully utilize the Twitter experience.  While Twitter does have its detractors, I naturally gravitate towards it because Hellspawn doesn't quite appreciate my continuous desire to share information, and copious reading really isn't my beloved Dishwasher's thing.

I try to avoid grabbing the microblogs of too many celebrity tweeters.  What's the value of social media if there's no social interaction going on?  Rachel Maddow and Wil Wheaton were too irresistible though.  Maddow is just so...SO, and Wil is just a geek, like me.

The other day, Maddow microblogged that she just wrapped up an interview with Meghan McCain.  The interview, apparently, is so interesting that it'll stretch over two segments.  While I usually Trust in Maddow, her latest choice for an interview subject perpelexes me.

Meghan McCain is known for two things: being a blogette, and being the daughter of John and Cindy McCain.  Millions are also the former, but none are the latter.  That latter distinguishes Meghan and is helping to propel her towards a career as a writer-cum-blogger. 

My struggles to find a foothold in this economy aren't secret.  Daily I wake up with some sort of black bile licking my brain.  Why can't you get a job?  Why won't you get a job?  Why are they getting jobs and not you?  Why are they successful and not you?

Many days happen when I feel that social media technologies like Facebook only serve as perpentual Christmas letters.  They're designed to make me feel that everyone's life is much better than mine.  Oh, he's working towards his doctorate?  I was too until I lost my job.  She has a cushy job in government?  Of course she does, her family works in government too.

And then there's Meghan McCain, two years younger than I, with only an undergraduate degree (I have a Masters, damn it) and already getting face time on Maddow.  I am repulsed, and jealous.  It's not that I want to be on Maddow, but I want the opportunities Meghan has. 

At some point in her life, Meghan may turn out to be like Caroline Kennedy, with a resume fitting the scion of a wealthy, well-conected family.  Admirers will point out that Meghan is accomplished.  Detractors will be tarred as jealous.  We are, we are, but at what point does accomplishment become a luxury of circumstance?  Do we laud people for the things they do without pointing out that they only did so because of wealth and connections?

I hate Maddow for adding more fuel to the "Potential" of Meghan McCain, but I can't fault her for doing it.  If not Maddow, then someone else.

A small part of me wants to believe that Rachel's Choice disgusted Maddow, but I don't know enough to say otherwise.  In the mean time, I have more resumes to send out.  Tally, ho.


 

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Jon,

Well put. I feel your pain.

You write, “…at what point does accomplishment become a luxury of circumstance? Do we laud people for the things they do without pointing out that they only did so because of wealth and connections?”

I think the above statement pretty nicely sums things up. I’m with you full force here.

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"Admirers will point out that Meghan is accomplished. . ." What has she actually done? She rode around on her dad's campaign bus and blogged about it. And then, since she happened to be born to a famous politician, she's still in the spotlight. OK, that's pretty cool. She has a bachelor's from Columbia. No small feat, but also by no means impossible, especially if one has wealthy parents who are invested in their daughter's education. She's obviously smart, but so are a lot of people.

Jon, don't give up, and don't waste your energy resenting the people whose accomplishments are the outcome of better luck than yours. It sucks, I know. My boyfriend is brilliant and has a law degree, but due to this shit economy and too many damn law graduates in Madison, he's three months shy of thirty and unemployed. We're all screwed right now, but someday, hopefully soon, this will all blow over and you'll have a job and maybe a PhD.

Stay strong, and good luck with the resumes. Rated for expressing perfectly my sentiments over the last few months.
Jessabelle: I used to drive up to Madison just to wander around State Street. Lovely city. Makes sense why the two of you haven't fled it in search of better pastures.

We are screwed, that's for sure. All of us with interrupted careers are going to find moving up in the world harder. How can we, when Entry Level barely pays the bills and the next level is filled with all the Boomers who lost their jobs?
This is a really well written post. BUT - maybe we can turn it around a bit, and think about how Rachel Maddow has achieved her success? She has lots of academic credentials, yet was working as a dj - right here where I live - doing her commentaries, And then, she got noticed, went to Air America and then got tapped for her show. Rachel maddow has no connections, and as an out lesbian she certainly wasn't grooming herself for acceptance.
Her success story is truly amazing.
People do succeed on the basis of merit, sometimes.
Yay Rachel! (We sort of miss her out here. I feel like I own her - she was mine, damn it! before you knew her name!)
Aim: I won't deny that you're right. Success stories do happen.

I just wish they'd happen more often.
If I had a dollar for every time a connected amateur got a gig I wanted, I could give up the writing biz anyway.

I don't even need Maddow. Lemme blog on the Daily Beast. The hardest part has been recognizing and owning up to the jealousy.

Thanks for this.
Re: aim, I'd like to add that Maddow is the perfect contrast for McCain and why this is frustrating to writers and other creatives. Maddow was a Rhodes scholar. McCain was just born to a wealthy political family and can string together sentences.

For those of us who have talent and experience, but aren't Rhodes scholars (and we can't all be,) it's extra frustrating to know the next best thing to being a leading mind of your generation is to be born rich and connected.
Daily I wake up with some sort of black bile licking my brain. Why can't you get a job? Why won't you get a job? Why are they getting jobs and not you? Why are they successful and not you?- more words on OS which could have come from my keyboard, but didn't.
true, right and so wrong. so hwat I guess, justice is the illusion education perpetuates.