Julie Tarp

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Born and bred in Texas. I'm a Screenwriter with a script currently in Development in La-La Land. Met and fell in love with my husband who is an actual cowboy. We have a 140 head cow/calf operation. He does the hard work, I just write about it.

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MARCH 10, 2010 9:56AM

The Lost Boy: Corey Haim Dies at 38

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Corey Haim, teenage heartthrob of the 80’s, died early this morning in his mother’s apartment.  TMZ is reporting that he woke around 1:00 AM and collapsed in front of his mother.  Emergency personnel found him alive but very weak.  He was rushed to the hospital and pronounced dead at 3:30 AM from what preliminary reports are calling an "accidental overdose".  His mother says he had been sick with flu-like symptoms for a few days.  Officials are now reporting that at least four prescription bottles were found nearby, none "related to the illness", but found no illegal drugs.

Haim had his share of struggles with drugs and was in and out of rehab 15 times.  However, having been sober on and off since 2004, those close to him thought he was back on the right track.  In fact, just three weeks ago, he seemed to be doing well.

As a child of the 80’s, Haim was just as much a part of my life as any of the teen mega-stars are of today.  Growing up in Toronto, he started acting at the age of 15 with the films Dream a Little Dream, Lucas and License to Drive to follow.  His best friend on film and in real life, Corey Feldman, were both break out stars in The Lost Boys – a movie that is just as good today as it was in 1987. 

In recent years, he was seen in A&E's "The Two Coreys" with his childhood friend.  At times it was difficult to watch someone I once salivated over struggle to keep it together.  Jealousy seemed to rear its ugly head with Haim, knowing that Feldman had followed a different path.  He was motivated to return to show business and was set on a remake of The Lost Boys.  His total devastation to learn that there was already one in the works and that he would not be a part of it, was heart wrenching.  A&E cancelled the show after two seasons.  Haim wanted so badly to get back into the acting that he loved that in 2008, he took out a full page ad in Variety letting Hollywood know that he was back and ready to make amends.

haim variety ad

Unfortunately for Haim, he didn't receive the chance for a comeback the way Drew Barrymore or Mickey Rourke and countless others did.  Instead, he leaves with the tragic irony of the title of his legacy and the way he left this world being one and the same.

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Er, I hit submit a little early, there. Sad. He's definitely part of my 80s memories, though I guess this isn't as big a surprise as one would hope.
I agree, Saturn. It's not a surprise at all, but you always hope that when they say they are turning their life around they are.
I feel sorry to hear this news. Thank you for posting it._r
I agree with Saturn. I had caught a few episodes of "The Two Coreys" and thought more than once that Haim would eventually have more serious problems. I have to feel sorry for Corey Feldman today, though.
it was only a matter of time...xxa
Very sad, but bound to happen. I have to wonder if any of these recent suicides knew each other.
Joan - Yeah, sad indeed.

Jodi - I immediately thought of Feldman.

Akopsa - Tragically, yes.

Kathy - I think we need to be careful about calling this a suicide. All we know know is that is may have been and "accidental overdose".
Sad, indeed. And yes, there does seem to be some ambiguity regarding the circumstances of his death.
You're absolutely right, Julie, although given Feldman's history it would be a reasonable assumption. My understanding is that he had been suffering from flu-like symptoms recently, so whether the death was accidental or he contributed to it in any way might be muddy.
Drug addiction is slow suicide. Regardless of whether his last shot was an accidental overdose, it's safe to say that Corey killed himself a long time ago, but that it took a long time for the bullet to hit its target.
My bad, typed too fast. I meant Haim.
Sage - I certainly would agree with that. It's just a tragic end to a struggling soul.
Aw, what a bummer. I loved him back in the day, he had such a cute lopsided smile. :(
I just wrote about this too. So sad.
Sad, but not a surprise. I wish police would stop referring to legal and illegal drugs. I think kids grow up with this idea that a prescription drug is somehow safer or more acceptable to abuse.

It makes no difference to your body if you die from synthetic heroin (oxycodone) made by a fortune 500 pharmaceutical company or produced by an Afghan drug lord. Drug abuse is drug abuse.

The overwhelming cases of drug abuse are from prescription drugs, yet the failed war on drugs continues to focus primarily on marijuana enforcement which while can be abused does not have the death toll of more dangerous drugs including abused prescription drugs.
A very sad story.
Get's you to wonder what kind of supervision he had as a child....
Anyway, a very unncessary and tragic loss.
I watched the Two Coreys as I would a train wreck. Fascinating and sad. And Feldmans' wife just up and left him recently so now he's got this too. What is it with "flu symptoms" and drug overdoses? The enablers around them can't see the drug taking so insist their loved one had the flu?! [ie. Brittney Murphey]? Tragic. Poor guy. Plus remember in the Two Coreys they both talked about being molested by men in their early teenage years, having nobody really looking out for them?
I don't know why this one struck me as so sad, so much sadder than Micheal Jackson.
I really never knew anything about either Corey until I caught an episode of "The Two Corey's". So, from my perspective, doing that show made this guy a laughingstock and this result is very tragic. Because the producers who made money on that show never showed me anyone but a desperate buffoon. He was obviously much more than that. I feel so sorry for his friends and family.
Tre - While the name of the apartment complex is correct, all the reports that I have read say it belongs to his mother. It states in the post that he collapsed in front of her. In fact, she says it was in her bedroom. There's so much info out there, it's tough to know what the correct answer is. But, as I have done all morning, I'll try to keep updating when concrete info arises. I have changed the title from the initial post since at the time that was all that was known.
"As a child of the 80’s, Haim was just as much a part of my life as any of the teen mega-stars are of today."

No. He was not apart of your life. He was a waiter serving up shitty entertainment in our McDonald's of a culture.

"I'll try to keep updating when concrete info arises"

Really? Are you serious? What ever fucking for?
Jon, well done, good job elevating the tone of this post and thread. Persuasive use of assholery.
Well, gee, Jon, thanks for letting me know about my life and what I thought as a seventh grader. Really, it's appreciated. I had no idea how wrong I was until a perfect stranger set me straight.

Someone died, that's fucking why.
Jon,

I am genuinely sad for you. A person is dead and you are so...which is it, help me here...insecure about yourself and must take the opportunity to turn the focus onto you...OR...you are so afraid of your own mortality and have not accepted the fact that one day you will die, so you mock this person and his death.

Unfortunately Jon, you will die. We will all die. Being deliberately hurtful and rude will not change this fact and serves no purpose other than making you look like the insecure ass you are.

Good luck with that.

Julie, nice post. I enjoy reading what you write.

Stephanie
For some reason this child of the sixties became hooked on The Two Coreys while it ran on A&E. I could see Haim's early death coming as he unraveled in front of our eyes. Tortured souls like his scream for relief, and unfortunately, it is too often death.
@ Jon; just so you know: McDonald's doesn't have waiters. Your metaphors are thus about as trenchant as your humanity is absolute.

Fail.


Julie: keep on keeping on, lovely girl.
Stephanie - I did not mean to switch the conversation to "me"...but I can see why you would think that. Really, I wanted it to be about the absurdity (and I do not exempt myself) of our overwhelming fascination with "celebrities." Yeah...I'm gonna die.

Havlin - You're right, McDonald's does not have waiters. I realized once I posted that my analogy was flawed. Good catch.

Julie - Sorry to presume your level of closeness to Corey Haim. Sorry if you are sad. I still do not give a fuck about the details of his death...whether it occured in his mother's arms or whatever. BFD.
Simply heartbreaking. "at least four prescription bottles were found nearby"? When will there be a central registry for prescriptions? I just don't understand. I don't get it. Period.
This is several kinds of sad.
Thanks Julie - nice post and nice remembrance of a rather sad life.


@Jon - Dude, is it really necessary to be such a fucktard?
I still do not give a fuck about the details of his death...whether it occured in his mother's arms or whatever. BFD.

Yes, I feel the same way. That's why I'm clicking in to a post titled "The Lost Boy: Corey Haim Dies at 38." I have Involuntary Open Salon Post Clickitis. IOSPC effects thousands of Open Salon members every day. To donate to IOSPC, please contact me on how you can send in your cake donation. With your help, we can find a cure. Thank you. And I will be clicking through on this post repeatedly, even though I don't care a fig about either Corey. Repeatedly, yes, I'll be clicking.... ::sob::
nailed it Freaky...imagine, to be scolded by a troll with fantastic hair and a cake fetish...
corey was outside of my growing up timezone, so I know nothing about him, but I know a bit about being a human, and what it means to be empathic. regardless of the circumstances, no life should end as such...and certainly it doesn't make any other tragedy less so.

finding balance is good too, for all concerned.
Too many. Too young.
OhhHhhhh, you won The Bachelor!
This sucks on every level.
This is going to be morbid, but it deserves to be said.

Writers rush to be the first post on hot topics. We want to be on the front page.

We are willing to break from our writing morals to do so.

Re-typing history is easy (since no one is looking).

I do not want to be a paparazzi.

Writing gud is not so easy.

Compassion is even harder.

Write with compassion. Write with passion.
Yet another victim of IOSPC. [cue "In The Arms of An Angel"] Every bit helps, donate today, a cake, a cupcake, even a Twinkie. With your help we can cure this disease within our life times. Please help me stop IOSPC from making innocent bloggers click on posts that don't interest them. Please help me stop IOSPC from making innocent bloggers make jack assy comments. It's not their fault. We can all be part of the solution.
This is so sad. Lost Boys and Lucas were two of my favorites. It's just crazy how many of these young actors die so young--just tragic.