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JANUARY 16, 2009 10:21AM

Dear President Obama, welcome to Canada

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Dear President Obama,

According to the buzz up here you're planning a trip to Canada soon after your inauguration. I'm sure by now you know that we have a prime minister not a president. You may or may not know, however, that he's kind of a jerk. But I'm sure you'll be able to figure that out on your own.

I just thought I'd run a couple people by you who I think you should also meet. First, I do hope you'll make some time for the Governor-General, the lovely woman pictured here. As you've probably been briefed by now, constitutionally, she is the Queen's representative in Canada. Essentially this means that she has the job of travelling around the country and the world listening to children's choirs, and taking flak for spending a lot of money on foreign relations parties. Though the Governor General does do her bit to support high culture with an important award for literature (referred to in Canada as the "GGs".)

Technically, however, she has the power to resolve a constitutional crisis, and appoint a new Prime Minister if the current one has lost all credibility. (This is why we have a formal ritual where the PM always asks for her "permission" to dissolve parliament and hold an election.)

In the history of Canada no GG has ever had to appoint a new PM. Last December, however, we came as close as we ever have to this happening. Our Prime Minister, Stephen Harper (the aforementioned "kind of a jerk"), decided that two weeks after an election would be a great time to pass a law withdrawing all public funding from political parties.Though he is currently the leader of a minority government (which means that the other parties can band together and force an election with what we call a "non-confidence" vote), he gambled that the three other parties would not be able to get their act together to boot him out.

He had good reason to think this (I said he was an a-hole, I mean kind of a jerk, but he's not stupid). One of the main opposition parties, The Bloc Quebecois, is dedicated to Quebec's separation from Canada, which makes it  difficult for the other parties to manouver, since every time they form an alliance Harper can accuse them of "banding with the separatists."

Miraculously, however, they did get their act together, at least enough to draft a serious plan asking, in the event of a non-confidence vote, that the GG allow them to govern for a year. Constitutionally she can do this, though it's never been done. Jean had to cut her trip to Paris short so as to come back and give Harper a two hour lecture, and do something else that had never been done before in Canada. She gave him permission to cancel the vote which would have brought down his government two weeks after an expensive election in the middle of global economic crisis. She gave him another chance to get his shit together. But who knows how well he'll use this opportunity.

I think you should meet with her, because right now we have no idea who's going to be in power one, three, six months from now. It is a true political mess up here and I think she would be a good person for you to get to know. Also, she's a fox (think Princess Di crossed with Eartha Kitt). And she has an inspirational story just like yours.

She moved here as a girl, a refugee from Haiti. In Quebec she built a career as a television journalist, and look at her today, technically Canada's head of state. Now I'm not expecting you to issue a correction of that favorite part of your stump speech. I know "my story could only happen in America, and arguably Canada" sounds a tad awkward. But I still think it would be great for your daughters, and other people's daughters to know about her.

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Now for the second person I think you should meet: me. I won't take up much of your time, really. Just an hour. I figure that's how much time it would take me to convince you that the single best financial stimulus package you could possibly consider would be high quality, affordable, publicly funded daycare available to all children, regardless of parents income, from 3 month old and up.

It might not even take me an hour because it's such a no-brainer. We've had that in Quebec since 1998, and look at the statistics. (I'm sure you can find someone to translate this article for you if you want to check my facts.) In the eleven years since Quebec has had universal daycare, the number of single mothers living below the poverty rate has been reduced by half. There has been a 30% increase in the number of women entering the work force. And Quebec's middle class is now one of the wealthiest in Canada. 40% of this program is now paid for by the taxes on the increase in women's salaries, and the numbers show all the signs of getting better.

Affordable, high quality day care has enabled women to enter the work force and has created jobs for women and men. Once the government commits to this , and once it becomes a career choice with benefits, job security and pay equity, men sign up. Does this influence gender modelling? You betcha. My son had two male day care providers and a male kindergarten teacher. He has Playstation2 with all the latest sports league games. He plays them all. And from time to time he also plays an online game he discovered, in which the challenge is to successfully manage your own daycare.

But more than that. From my personal experience, my son, now 8, is still in regular contact with four friends he made when he was a toddler at our neighborhood daycare. All these kids have moved on to different schools, but I'm still friends with their parents, and we still plan weekend activities together for our kids. Those who see daycare as a symptom of social breakdown are just wrong. High quality government managed and subsidized daycare is a community builder.


I have much more to say on the subject, but I'm hoping we can talk about that in our hour together. Maybe Michaelle Jean can sit in. She has a lovely young daughter, who may very well have attended one of these daycares, as they are available to all Quebecers, regardless of income.


I very much look forward to your visit. And hope you have an awesome inauguration. You can have a very memorable visit to Canada too. It's just a matter of hanging out with the right people.

cheers,

Juliet Waters

 **update:  On Sunday, while visting slums in Port-Au-Prince, Haiti, Michaelle Jean was asked by French journalists her thoughts on Obama's inauguration.  She said:

"You can't help but recall that this country that will see an African-American enter the White House, whose citizens decided to send an African-American to the White House, was a country built from segregation....We realize the degree to which this is a major step - not just for the United States, not just for blacks throughout the world, but for all of humanity....We will all remember forever, I believe, where we were and what we were doing on that (election night of) Nov. 4, 2008."

 

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Juliet, I am really intrigued by your suggestion re: daycare. The cost of daycare is a heavy burden on families, especially if you have more than 1 child in daycare at a time.
I thought this post was an interesting look into Canada's political landscape...most of which I didn't know (sorry!).
Quebec daycare saved my life. For four years my son received excellent, professional care. Diapers, highly nutritious food, and outings were all paid for. It cost me $100 a month. Of course this was brought in by a relatively left wing government. But in Quebec we currently have a right of center provincial government and there is no talk of scaling this back. In fact during a recent election our current government promised to create more spaces.
Congrats, Juliet, for making sense of our mystical parilamentary system. Most Canadians don't understand what's going on (they don't read history, have never heard of the Byng-King Crisis, etc.) and even worse, I'm not sure, given the voting results in the last election, that most even care.

That said, I think the idea of universal daycare merits consideration -- and not just in the US: The ROC (Rest of Canada) should be looking at the Quebec model as well.
Thanks Boanergesi. I've found the last three years of Canadian incredibly frustrating. Back in 2006 there was a commitment to funding for daycare in the ROC, months away from being put into law. Then for reasons I've never understood, the NDP decided that the liberal government had to go right away. I suspect because their polls told them a January election would give them a few more seats (people like to dump their boyfriends and political parties in January).
Nice post, Juliet. And while you're at it, you could explain to President Obama what a blessing our universal health care is, and probably especially for single parents. Oh yeah, and how gay marriage hasn't noticeably harmed us. And, if I understand it right, how the Quebec marriage rules neatly avoid religious issues - everyone has to have a civil union, religious ceremonies for 'marriage' optional.
i think canada should invite vermont and washington to secede from the usa, and re-join the empah. just as an experiment. the rest can follow when they see how well it goes.

i espouse democracy, despise monarchy, but when people are too ignorant to manage their own affairs, they should be ruled by a fox from haiti. so much better than a nazi from texas.
Thanks Myriad. Yes, I have a post up my sleeve about a health crisis that would have destroyed my financial future if I'd been living in the U.S. And actually there was an American woman a few years back who sued the Quebec government for the right to legally drop her maiden name and take her husband's. Generally Quebeckers sidestep all of this by having the lowest marriage rate in the history of Western civilization.
Re lowest marriage rate - and to think that in my lifetime Quebec was a priest-ridden place where (thoroughly married) people had families of 16 kids... (Whether having the lowest marriage rate, a very low birth rate and a high proportion of weird cults is better is another question. [I vote yes!])
I gotta say, Al, I've never been a fan of monarchy. But when things get especially stupid, it is nice to know that there is somebody there who is in charge of maintaining some semblance of political decorum. And I would love it if Vermont and Washington joined us. I'd also like Oregon, Wisconsin and Maine up here too.
Myriad, actually there's been a baby boom in Quebec. Another side effect of daycare.
Incredible letter, Juliet, and oh so true. I too remember the backward Quebec of yesteryear -- my best friend in Montreal is the 13th of 15 children -- and this was not at all uncommon during the reign of the Catholic church over the province. Dealing with Quebecois bureaucracy is a whole other issue, although it may have improved some in the 20 years since I lived in Montreal.

Re marriage legislation: it's my understanding that Quebec, like Louisiana, retains remnants of Napoleonic law. Not sure how that affects marriage tho.
Thanks Emma. Ya. It's crazy. I went to midnight mass with my parents on Christmas and the church that had been full every Sunday of my childhood was half empty. On Christmas! It is a super secular society. Re marriage: it is my understanding from my lawyer friends that women here are still better protected legally in a marriage, than they are in a common law arrangement. Not sure why that is.
Hi, Juliet! Great post... I love how you simply explain our recent constitutional crisis. Only thing I might have added would be how the Finance Minister, in his budget, decided to go against the opinions and advice of economists around the world, and had a budget that had almost no spending, only cutting taxes. He only backtracked because of the Constitutional Crisis and the possibility of having the other parties form a Coalition Government instead.

Great info on daycare in Quebec! I wish that information would be made widespread throughout Canada. To have he number of single mothers living below the poverty rate has been reduced by half -- that's huge!!!

The other parties are more strongly behind the idea of improved daycare, NDP (New Democratic Party) and Green Party (maybe the BQ too, just not sure of their platform) are behind Universal Daycare. But Harper has tried to dismantle the infrastructure of national daycare programs, I think by cutting the funding of the national daycare advocacy group. Instead, he was giving some funding directly to families to spend as they wished. But once you dismantle the infrastructure, it is gone and much harder to revive.

Also like to say, during the debates, I thought the head of the Green Party, Elizabeth May, rocked!!! Not only is their party very pro-women and a lot of their party platform is very progressive on all sorts of women's issues, but I was very impressed to find out that she is a single mother who has successfully juggled a career and done lots of advocacy work. Gilles Duceppe, head of the BQ, also impressed me during the debates with his intelligence and understanding of the issues.

hey, I've written a post about Canadian winter in my fair city, you may want to check out! I'd love to find out who the other Canuck bloggers are.
You're right Cynarra, I should have put something in about Flaherty's bonehead budget. But Harper makes Canada look asinine enough. It was just too much shame for one letter. Yes, I'm so disappointed in the Liberal party's latest daycare platform. It won't get any better under Iggy, imperious secret conservative that I suspect he is. As I mentioned in a previous post, I hold the NDP responsible for scuttling a federal daycare program that was in place before they brought down the government. And I like the BQ policies, just wish that Duceppe weren't such a pill.
Much appreciated your post on super cold (I'm guessing) Winnipeg. Some very cute dogs in there.
Juliet, you're right on the money! It is Winnipeg. I was just being coy, to keep some guessing... and maybe look it up and discover it on their own.

And you're right, lots of people felt the NDP calling an election then was just to bring down the government and get a few extra seats, at the expense of daycare and some other good legislation.

What do you think of Elizabeth May, btw?
I was really impressed with May, and frankly a little disgusted (again) with Layton (and I say this as longtime NDP supporter) for trying to deny her a voice in the debates. I have a good book of hers called something like How To Save The World in Your Spare Time. A great book about lobbying.
Yeah, I'm with you on that. I, too, have been a long-time NDP supporter... but for the first time in my life, I voted for the Green Party, instead.
Boy she is a little Eartha Kittish, isn't she? That photo makes me smile because she seems like she's sauntering by them in this sleek, barely bemused way.

And what I wouldn't do for a little of your healthcare. I can't even tell you the evil I've encountered - and I do mean evil - dealing with my greedy insurance company this year, leaving me responsible for thousands of dollars.
Hey Beth. Thanks for stopping by. I'm a big fan. I submitted your Tom Cruise post to d.i.g.g. and it's accumulating more diggs everyday. It's a classic, so I'm sure it'll build the readership it deserves.
Yes, Jean's a babe. And actually a lot less monarch-y than I painted her. Today, as matter of fact, she's visiting slums in Haiti. If I could send you some health care I would. I cannot imagine living without it. Not that I use for myself that often, but I'm sure just knowing its there makes me healthier than I'd be otherwise.
I agree with Juliet on both counts:
1) We in Canada are very blessed with our comprehensive health care.

2) Michaelle Jean, Canada's Governor-General, is indeed lovely, very good-looking woman and not stuffy. She was actually born In Haiti and spent her early years there. Came from poverty, so more empathy of what is like.
A great post Juliet...a true glimpse of life in Canada. Thank you.
Great post! Someone please forward this to Mr. Obama.
Thanks Mary and Moana. I'll definitely let everyone know if I hear back from him.
I love her suit!

Juliet, I loved your post. Agree 100%.
Thanks Holly. She also has a really fab casual suit she wears with hiking boots when she's visiting the armed forces and first nations reserves. Check it out: www.army.forces.gc.ca/3crpg/images/pics/GovernorGeneralJean-full.jpg
Truly an idea whose time has come. When the "unfreedoms" related to poverty are removed, people develop themselves quite well. These obstacles to success built into the system must be removed.
I missed this the first go round. Did you post this is Obama's Briefing Book? Closed now, but may reopen so you can still get your idea on his desk!
Thanks Stephanie. I only found out about the book last night, and from what I read it seemed to be a forum for U.S. citizens. But I'll go check it out to see if it's getting international postings.
nicely posted, though in your haste not to have to explain the King-Byng Affair, you gave poor Arthur Meighan a miss.

Not having had you experience with Quebec day care (Ontario's is a mess), I'd think 'universal health care' like another commenter. Obama would have the unique opportunity to adopt and adapt the best from Canada and the various European models, thus re inventing the state of the art, and really balancing the health care playing field. Rumour is GM would be profitable if it didn't have those health benefit costs.
Thank you for reminding our neighbours to the south that there are others ways of getting things done. And they really aren't that scary or that costly (certainly not when compared to the costs of running a war or maintaining the Rich-get-richer economy that has driven a large part of the populace into some very uncomfortable circumstances).
As concerns marriage vs. common-law, I would like to tweak your comment just a little. You indicate in one of your comments that "it is my understanding ...that women here are still better protected legally in a marriage". The assumption here is that the woman is the lesser breadwinner, owner of property, and the such. In fact, the advantages/protections accorded through marriage benefit the party in the weaker financial position, and although that may often be women, it is not always so.
We need to stop framing this as a gender issue and consider it more of an economic and social issue. It does some of us a great disservice when women's rights advocates go around trying to impose the "benefits" of marriage on those of us who deliberately chose a common-law relationship in part to protect the assets we brought into the relationship in the first place.
Sorry, that was a little off-topic rant, but it sure did feel good.
I now return you to your regularly scheduled on-topic comments.
Hi Brian thanks for commenting. There's debate in Canada over the parallels between this and the King-Byng crisis. Being as brief as I can. P.M. Mackenzie-King, knowing that he was about to lose a vote in parliament asked the then GG, Lord Byng for permission to hold an election. Byng refused, arguing that this would set a precedent that would violate freedom of expression (in that Canadians voices are represented by the MPs they elect.) King lost the vote and resigned. At which point Byng appointed Arthur Meighen, the opposition leader. But Meighen lost the next confidence vote, forcing a federal election, which King ended up winning.
I'm not alone in arguing that this is a somewhat different situation than one we recently had, where the GG was being asked to appoint the opposition leader P.M over the objections of the sitting Prime Minister, which amounts to kicking the current prime minister out.
Anyways, I totally agree that daycare and healthcare are and should be part of the same package. So much is accomplished by catching things early in kids, and when you have an experienced day care educator who you're consulting with regularly, problems just get caught that much earlier.
Excellent post. It is easy to tell families to send Mom back to work, but when the daycare wants to be paid up front, they may not have the money to do it. This was a huge obstacle to a friend of mine who did eventually scrape together enough to get her son into a decent situation. That second income is lifting her family out of poverty.
Wordsmith. You are totally right. I'm ashamed of that slip. There are many women in Quebec choosing common law because it protects the assets they brought into the marriage. In fact I think the low marriage rate in Quebec speaks volumes about the relatively higher status of women here. I think the best way to protect women financially is to offer them financial and educational opportunities, not encourage marriage as a political solution to poverty.
As a mom looking at the exorbitant costs of daycare right now- I can wholeheartedly concur with you. In fact, I've done the math and it doesn't make sense for me to go to work full-time because I'd essentially just be paying for daycare. I hope something is done- although there is so much on his list- I'm not holding my breath. (sigh) I think you Canadians have a great racket goin' up there. :-) Great post.
Thanks Julie. I should probably take this opportunity to point out that your discouraging daycare paradox is pretty much the same for families in the rest of Canada. Unfortunately it's only Quebec that has this.
Hey Juliet, thanks for representing us so well. You did a great job simplifying our recent political situation down to something quite digestible. Quebec adds so much to our country in so many ways. Never leave us!!!! We will be so much less without Quebec.

merci et bon nuit
Nicely done, Juliet. I'm glad to see a Canadian point of view of Obama's inauguration from Canada (I'm Canadian, but living in the US, so....)

I audibly snickered, pretty loudly, at this line of yours, about Steven Harper - "You may or may not know, however, that he's kind of a jerk. But I'm sure you'll be able to figure that out on your own." You couldn't be more right.

I think the thing that tells me what I want to know about how Obama is going to take Canada seriously is that he is actually making his first official state visit to Canada. That's the tradition for all US presidents, one that outgoing Bush chose to ignore. It was something that always kind of stuck in my head as ignorant, but whatever. Only a few hours left....

I love Michaelle. She's got all the class that Harper doesn't.

I do have high hopes for Obama and relations between Canada and the US. It's always seemed to me that Canada just hasn't been taken seriously the past eight years.

Rated.
JKB. Thanks, I'm going to have to take all these pro-Quebec comments I've received for Canadian OSers and put them up at my local laundromat or something. You have no idea how many times I've heard people there bitterly complain about how the rest of Canada doesn't want us.
And Wskrz. I love your name, and thank you for reminding me about the Bush snub. What a dick that guy was. Isn't it nice to say was.
Juliet,
I can't believe that Quebecers would grumble about Canadians not wanting them when they are the ones who've been trying to leave us for 40 or so years. Your comment just makes me shake my head and chuckle. I guess there is still more work to do.

As to wskrz' and your discussion re snubs, I think the greatest snub we got from GWB, and the one that still really irks me, came immediately after 9/11. GWB thanked almost every country on earth (he listed them one by one for God's sake) except Canada, and all the while, Canadians from coast to coast were welcoming Americans into their homes while they waited for the airspace to be reopened and standing with the American's in unity and sorrow. That one still stings.
JKB: Re: Can/P.Q. relations: Oh I know. It's like being in the middle of a big dysfunctional family.
Re: Can/U.S. relations: My favourite snub came from Condi Rice, when in one of her first official speeches she referred to"our biggest trading partner," Mexico. Uh...Mexico...I'm afraid not. Yeah. That's the kind of knowledge you want to have in a Secretary of State.
Oh, I totally forgot about the trading partner snub. Maybe we should have tried throwing a shoe at him. He still wouldn't have known what are "beef" was, but we would have felt a whole heck of alot better. ;) Hopefully Hillary will do better than Condi.

I guess after today, we'll have to look to our own band of idiots for political humour, but Harper and his Stepford family are just too scary to be funny.

dysfunctional family - oh yeah - see you in therapy. :)
oh yeah...and do your remember how he tried to cover up the snub, with that crap about, oh we don't have to thank Canadians, because they're like our brothers?....Your brother? Maybe if there was some long lost smart, clued in Bush brother....So glad this is all in the past.
LOL, yeah, long lost brother who can string together an intelligent sentence.

Good riddance on the bush era. Hopefully this is the end of the Bush dynasty.