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My son, Ben, and I are reading The Golden Compass.
In Phillip Pullman’s rich fantasy world every human being has a visible daemon, a spirit that takes an animal form, and serves as a lifetime companion. Daemons protect their humans, nudge them in the right direction, express dismay when humans enter dangerous territory, fight to the death if they have to, and die with their humans if it comes to that.
Last night we read the horrific scene where the heroine, Lyra, discovers a boy who has had his daemon severed from him by a gang of nefarious scientists.
Before this point Lyra’s already had some pretty disturbing experiences. She’s seen her father almost poisoned, her best friend kidnapped, found out that the leader of the kidnappers is in fact her own biological mother. Lyra’s talked a giant bear out of cracking a man's skull between his teeth. And right before she finds the daemon-less child she finds herself under a sky full of witches. But nothing seems to disturb her as deeply as the sight of this little “half-boy.”
“Her first impulse was to turn and run, or to be sick. A human being with no daemon was like someone without a face, or with their ribs laid open and their heart torn out: something unnatural and uncanny that belonged to the world of nightghasts, not the waking world of sense.”
In a recent study, child development researchers compared the language skills of five year olds who had imaginary friends with those who didn’t.
Not surprisingly, the kids with imaginary friends were significantly better storytellers. More surprising is that the kids who were better story tellers didn’t seem to have measurably better verbal, vocabulary or story comprehension skills than the kids with no imaginary friends.
Still, the researchers felt compelled to state that this in no way proved that having an imaginary friend improved story telling skills. Furthermore, they stressed, it was entirely possible that children with better verbal skills invent imaginary friends to give expression to these innate skills.
Possible, but unlikely. According to Nancy Andreasen, the former editor in chief of The American Journal of Psychiatry, and author of The Creative Brain: The Science of Genius, there is still no convincing study that has found a significant link between innate intelligence and creativity. With the materialist bent of contemporary cognitive science, however, it’s probably hard to get funding for a scientific study that attempts to prove that there may never be any quantifiable neuropsychological explanation for why some people are more imaginative than others. Ergo, the ritualistic genuflection of the aforementioned researchers.
But if we were allowed to play with a hypothesis, that there is no innate difference in language abilities between children who imagine beings into their lives and children who don’t, this would yield at least two interesting questions. First, what would then drive a kid to unconsciously invent an imaginary friend? Second, if we were to consciously set up the circumstances that would encourage the invention of imaginary friends, would this improve a child’s story telling and writing skills?
Long before the invention of writing, our world has had daemons, though most of us accept them as conceptual, not actual creatures. In Greek mythology Zeus transformed the inhabitants of the Golden Age into daemons and sent them into the world to protect and serve mortals. Socrates relied regularly on his daemon, a voice he said warned him about mistakes but never told him what to do.
According to the psychotherapist Thomas Moore, daemons were understood by the Greeks, who prized reason above all things, as those instructive irrational drives that served reason in ways we might not understand at first. Moore makes a compelling point about the differences between the classical Greek education, with its myths and archetypes, and the rigid, scientific practicality of our own.
“Today, we have surrendered to a view of the human being as a mechanical being ruled by a brain, and we see education as instilling skills and facts with the purpose of having a successful career and making as much money as possible. We ignore the education of the heart and the revelation of a deep power and direction within the person. As the Greeks understood, society fails in such a condition. Not only the individual, but the community, too, needs the force of the daimonic to deal with the challenges life continually presents.”
Pullman, a vocal and committed atheist, has an interesting take on how we might allow and cultivate all the best powers of the imagination, without sacrificing our scientific rigor. Near the end of The Golden Compass, Lyra reads the book of Genesis with her father.
“It en’t true, is it?” she asks. No, her father admits, not in the way we usualy understand truth. But he suggests she think of the story as “an imaginary number, like the square root of minus one.” Even if that truth isn’t a concrete entity, you can use it to calculate “all manner of things that couldn’t be imagined without it.”


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my guess is no...I think that these things either happen organically or they don't. or you could set up an atmosphere of acceptance either way, but my worry would be that if parents put one more expectation on their child (you will have an imaginary friend in order to become "more creative...") they could be setting themselves and their child up for disappointment...which wouldn't help creativity at all.
what is interesting to me is how kids have an innate sense of their own development and when encouraged to develop naturally and with less interference, most kids I know are abundantly creative and playful. I remember reading studies that say that kids who spend a lot of "structured time" as children tend to me more "successful" in life (as defined, I suppose, by high paying jobs etc.) than kids who spent less structured time.
However, the upside of kids having more unstructured time was...more creativity.
interesting article.
But I don't think creating an imaginary friend is all that different than making a painting, or using building blocks. For instance, Ben, who is 9, has never had a specific imaginary friend, although I do hear him having imaginary conversations. But after we started reading The Golden Compass we invented a daemon for him. He's sports obsessed, so now he goes to school with Baldwin the Eagle (who also happens to be the mascot for Boston College). He comes back from school every day with some little story about Baldwin. And I sense he's a lot more comfortable talking about Baldwin than actual people or events at school. So in that sense I do think that kids take cues as to whether or no disassociation is permissable or not.
And, yes, I totally agree that unstructured play time is key.
This is so true: With the materialist bent of contemporary cognitive science, however, it’s probably hard to get funding for a scientific study that attempts to prove that there may never be any quantifiable neuropsychological explanation for why some people are more imaginative than others.
And your final paragraph; priceless, absolutely priceless. Trust an atheist to hit the nail on the head.
I have imaginary friends even now. (or I pretend inanimate objects have personalities...) it's funny that as a four year old I had an imaginary friend named "dreansit." I don't know where I got the idea for "him" but there he was.
I also wonder sometimes if kids who grow up with more time outside develop more creative sides of themselves...that's where our most creative games were played. now "outside" seems more or less off limits in the same way to many children.
it's cool about you reading that book with your son and playing a game together like that. I don't have kids and I live in a different state than my nephew so I envy people who get to play kid games on a regular basis. maybe adults need to develop daemons too...
And Dolores, I absolutely think adults should have daemons and read Phillip Pullman. In this trilogy the adults have daemons too. It's just that their daemons solidify into one entity, as opposed to children's daemons, which shape shift until maturity. You might want to take a look at Thomas Moore's A Life at Work. He has whole chapter on cultivating the daemonic.
The problem researchers face when attempting to explain creativity or, in this case, imaginary friends, is exactly that: Impericism. The need to "prove" something, even when that something is unproveable.
I never had an imaginary friend, but I would think that kids who do are a bit whacked. Even as an introvert I didn't talk to people who weren't there. In fact I didnt even pray being agnostic for as long as I can remember, despite my Catholic upbringing. A child can be both creative and realistic.
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