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NOVEMBER 23, 2010 7:15AM

In Treatment recap, Sunil and Frances week 5

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Tonight there are no glimpses into Paul's life. I’m not sure why this is. Maybe so that we can start the Adele session on the same sexually charged note it ended last week? Or maybe because Paul’s problems will seem pretty inconsequential next to Sunil who is going increasingly mad with grief.

Sunil is in the waiting room fiddling with a radio, trying to get BBC International for news about a monsoon that has been raging for days in the village his parents were raised in. He complains to Paul about the impossibility of getting news in basketball-obsessed New York.  It amazes me that a fiftyish math professor from Calcutta would not know about this thing called the internet, but the show seems set on creating this very ambiguous, anachronistic character with vaguely rural roots who is obviously deeply depressed, suffering from culture shock, and genuine despair over a terrible disaster that may be killing aunts, uncles and cousins—but may also be plotting, by implication,  some kind of honor killing.

It’s a disturbing episode on many levels. Arun has left for several days on a medical conference and Julia has let it be known that she doesn’t want to be alone with Sunil. Paranoid about Julia and the pale fox, Ethan Barr, Sunil believes he hears them laughing about him on their way out to another evening event  (do New York agents really spend this much face time with their clients? Or are Sunil’s suspicions somewhat justified?) He talks about wanting to “smother” her laughter, and Paul grows alarmed.  Later Julia strokes Barr’s face when saying goodbye, and Sunil thinks he hears her locking her bedroom door. Sunil is incensed on Arun’s behalf.  Julia is “humiliating” his family. He has a nightmare about protecting them from some dark haired woman. When he wakes up, he goes to check on his grandchildren and then out of curiosity checks to see if Julia’s bedroom is indeed locked. It is. Paul confronts him on what he would have “done” if the door hadn’t been locked.  Sunil doesn’t say.  My money would be on the probability that he was going to look at her again, like he did last week when he watched her and Arun sleeping.  Or maybe even not open the door.  I don’t think he would have killed her.

I’m basing this on some informal research, since I don’t like assuming someone is capable of murder just because of my spotty North American knowledge of his culture.  From what I read last week, honor killings in contemporary Bengali culture are rare to non-existent. According to Human Rights Watch, it’s a serious problem in the north of the country, not the south, where Sunil comes from.  The region does, however, lead India in suicides. Even if it didn’t, in four sessions Sunil has mentioned two, the man who strangled himself with the feces smeared sari of his aunt, and Melini killing herself, Virginia Woolf style, with Sunil’s coat.

Interwoven with all his menacing, but possibly figurative language, are all the classic signs of someone who is a high suicide risk, in particular Sunil’s deep feelings of helplessness and his stubborn tunnel vision. Paul obviously senses this since he has told Sunil to call him anytime of the night and urged him to come more often. But the really classic pre-suicide sign, as we learned with Alex two seasons ago, is a sudden suspicious sense of renewed optimism and drive.

Next week is the penultimate episode.  My guess is that we will learn what Sunil means when he says, “you have no idea what my life has been like.” This hints at some deeply shaming secret he been carrying around. But if Sunil walks in and out of that office looking like he suddenly has a new lease on life that’s when I’m really going to start panicking.

I wish I could care this much about Frances. As her episode opens, she is finding it difficult to tolerate a few moments of silence with Paul.  Perhaps this reminds her of the emptiness inside her, the place where people normally keep their souls.

Are the TV gods punishing me for last weeks request for more In Treatment sex talk?  Do I really want to hear about how Frances finally got laid?  This, right after her daughter texted her that she should go see her dying sister, Patricia, who “looks like a skeleton.”  Yes, sadly I do because it’s hard to ignore the magical way Gabriel Byrne pronounces the word “breasts.”  There are many reasons to repeat this word.  Frances takes delight in the fact that the twenty-five year old cast member she followed home still likes them. There are tests results that Frances hasn’t had the courage to read yet, but she insists no matter what they are, she’s not having that double mastectomy, even if it leaves her daughter motherless.   Paul reads the results, which are negative. They rejoice.

And then we find out that avoiding discussion of the test  has all been another excuse to avoid seeing her dying sister.  Because, of course, now that she’s going to live, she can’t possibly visit her because that would be like rubbing it in her face. 

“You’re very angry with your sister” Paul observes.  Frances counters, nastily, with what she thinks is a huge dramatic revelation. Her sister was in love with Paul!  Yes, like every female patient he’s ever had, even without a reason for Paul to keep saying breasts.  Paul tells her she needs to see Patricia before it's too late.  Frances runs out.  Where?  Who cares if it’s not to her sister’s bedside?  

Please TV gods, if you’re listening. You can take the sex talk back  in exchange for one week without Frances and a double session with Sunil.  To show my good faith, I’ll  sacrifice Sarah Palin’s "Alaska" for the rest of my life, and not watch the Ponderosa bonus online scenes from "Survivor: Nicaragua."

Although just to be clear, this covenant would obviously only take effect next week, after tonight's session with Adele. And, yes, I know he's not real, but please keep an eye on Sunil, and watch out for his fictional monsoon stricken family. 

 

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I can't believe I'm getting invested in these people having never seen an episode this season - a testament to your incredible skill at this. Is it strange that I kind of want Sunil to strangle that woman? She sounds awful - or is he the awful one? I can't figure it out.

Frances sounds endlessly wounded. I guess the mental health profession wouldn't exist without the perpetually wounded, but STILL. Is she going to get any better do you think?
Thanks for the kind comments. It's funny but I'm having an ongoing discussion with a writer friend of mine over who writers would sympathize with, the displaced outsider or the literary agent. I think a poll would overwhelmingly side with the displaced outsider.
Do you think that there is any possibility that Sunil will kill Julia...I was getting those vibes last night.
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Steve, I know that's the vibe the writers are trying to send out, but I would be really disappointed. I find it distasteful to turn educated cosmopolitan immigrants into homicidal threats just for the sake of a little cheap drama. I agree with Arun. I think Julia's being neurotic. And Paul too. But I do think that Sunil is a risk to himself right now.
For me, Sunil's personal melodrama focuses on a broader issue: how deeply fractured one can become when we try to straddle too much information, too much culture, too many "others", too much... life. There is so much conflict, so much turmoil built into the world that it is understandable how some people find sanity via the closing of the lens of perception, via dumbing down, via going "smaller", via taking care of oneself and letting go of the desire to control the rest. As a person stuck between two cultures, two marriages, two homes and two belief systems, we see the toll of "too much" on a single individual. It is crazy-making.

I found last night's episode about Frances to be the most dramatically satisfying: how profoundly she is wrestling with the fear of disease and with the threatening potential of losing a significant part of her body: her breasts. I held my breath when Paul opened her test results, which came as a deep relief to this viewer! I suspect it may be a while before Frances is able to digest the information and restructure her attitude toward herself, let alone her sister, daughter and mother. All that being said, I find the Frances episodes poorly written, and Deborah Winger's acting sub-par, or simply unsuitable to this kind of character.
So glad to discover your blog. Sunil is the only "patient" I care about this year. Not sure why, but I find him fascinating.
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I am playing around with the idea that each character reflects an aspect of Paul's personality. Sunil, like Paul, feels trapped and helpless and possibly tormented by inappropriate sexual desire. Francis, like Paul, wants to be taken care of and experiences her apartment (life) as empty. What is the equivalent of Frances's refusal to see or feel for her sister? As for Sunil, I doubt he'll kill Julia, and is much more likely to follow his true love in death. And Paul?
And I forgot Paul's nursing the fear/hope that he has Parkinson's as Frances does with the breast cancer gene. If it were Paul getting the results, he wouldn't believe them, go for a second opinion.
And I forgot Paul's nursing the fear/hope that he has Parkinson's as Frances does with the breast cancer gene. If it were Paul getting the results, he wouldn't believe them, go for a second opinion.
"It amazes me that a fiftyish math professor from Calcutta would not know about this thing called the internet, but the show seems set on creating this very ambiguous"

Just to clarify. India is a land of extreme contrasts. On the one hand you have the ISRO, Bhabha Atomic Research Center, The IT sector, the 8% growth in economy and then you also have the Bullock cart and the waterless villages and Polio. Thus you might see on a PBS show; an 80 year old village woman opening up a computer and repairing it or hundreds of girls sitting at computers writing computer language or the million IT shops opened up in Kolkata which are competing with the sweet shops. You may hear them describe IIT which is the premier engineering college supplying engineers all over the world. I am over 50 and when I go back to Kolkata I meet several of my friends who are now University Professors and Heads of Departments who are still wary of computers. There are others who will run rings around it and will show anyone a trick or two and more. Just being a Math Professor from Kolkata does not necessarily mean Sunil is comfortable with computers and the internet.
The other thing is I am not sure of is whether he WAS a University Professor. I got the impression he taught Math at school. There is a HUGE difference. However I can understand Sunil using the term Professor loosely because of the immense respect ALL teachers get back home at any level. But again, I have several school teacher friends in Kol who can rings around any IT person here and then others who simply dont even care.

Truly speaking with all my love for the internet I would still much rather get my news from BBC or PBS . Its the way we were brought up. We did not have television till we were around 18. Computers came much much later. The immediacy of the radio was the charm and its remained a treasured love.
@ M. I agree, there are so MANY issues here that it's very difficult for Paul to sort out exactly what's happening in five sessions. But I do think that Sunil losing it, and Paul needs to make a really difficult judgment call about which is more important, their therapeutic bond, or Sunil's safety. I'm very curious which one he's going to make.

@Lois. Thanks for showing up! I care about Jesse too. I thought this week was very moving. And I care about Paul. But, yeah, the Frances episodes have not touched me. But maybe then I'll be extra surprised when they do.

@Art. Always enjoy your presence here.

@ Jason. I think you're absolutely right there's a lot of crazy mirroring going on. And I'm glad that you agree with me that Julia is not in danger. Hope we're right.

@Traveller. Thanks so much for the input. Of course you're right, I realize there would probably be a lot of people in India who would prefer traditional media. I know I still get mine from CBC radio. At the same time, I wonder if Sunil's real concern was India, whether he wouldn't find the best way to keep track instead of complaining about all the trivial American news (that he is clearly following.) He's a funny character that way, as contemptous of his new culture as he is fascinated by it.

What a wonderfully complex character he is. I really hope he's okay.
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