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Cathy GF

Cathy GF
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December 29
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Writer by desire. Poet by nature.
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JULY 27, 2010 11:49PM

NO ESCAPE

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We see it all the time.

061124 Naughty cartoon of Adam & Eve 

The happily married couple, their struggles, their passion; their games.

It's in their eyes.

The fire, the fight, the relentless control.

Are they equally to blame?

They cannot deny it.

For it lives within their skin, their guts and even their hearts.

The back and forth, the to and fro, the timeless merry-go-round,

This much we know.

images  lover's quarrel 2 

You cannot hide behind words so strong.

Your sense of self is in jeopardy;

You dare not be wrong.

No one needs to be the opposer or the one who is hurt.

There is little need to be right just to

pound another's spirit deep within the dirt.

Bury what you will for another day.

It will still be there to conceive another fray.

It is in your very natures

To fight to the bitter end.

Yet when it is all over and done,

You are still each other's best friend.

Why is it that we struggle to be so right?

That we shed all sense of honor

To make way for a might that seems right?

images Lion's fighting 

There is no escape

For a bond that is real.

We will fight to the finish

For a love to congeal.

In life there will always be one thing for sure.

In matters of the heart

One must feel pain in order to endure.

Enduring all things,

The good and the bad included.

Make haste and take precious time.

Be sure you are secluded.

Secluded from the noise, the crowds, the work of being.

Give each other the desired attention

As if once blind,

Now, you are seeing.

For there is no escape from the feelings you share.

You can argue, feign disinterest, or try to hide.

But you cannot escape when two hearts collide.

images heart vortex 

And they lived happily ever after?

We'll see...

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This should be fun.
Oh, do I know this.
Cathy, so much was said here...and so much could be said (but I'll save that for my divorce post) ha! There is a lot of wisdom in these words and isn't this the eptiome of human nature. It's that love that keeps our hearts colliding (or not) Loved this.
I love that you have them seeing, it is all of our dream to be seen.
Delightful poem.
Suffice it to say, I'm feeling wicked tonight.
Well done, Cathy. This is powerful wisdom. R
Going 'round 'n 'round with your signifigant other may be part and parcel of the cosmic dance.
I'm sittin' this one out though.
(R)ated for a roaring good time.
Durn it, I want the banana!! What? :D Rated!
What I see here is an unending commitment, regardless of the noise of life, to make it work. Very nice. R-
"Give and take." Always a good place to start. And finish.
You get to the heart of things here, for sure. Love that cartoon, too.
Ah, tenacity and compromise. They seem to be the secrets in life as well as of marriage....great poem, Cathy....I like how you think! Rated!!
"But you cannot escape when two hearts collide." So true. Nice work.
Martial bliss isn't always bliss! Great Poem!
Nailed it sweetie. That's why after thirty years and gallons of theoretically spilled blood I still end up married.
Fine work, Cathy and oh, so true.

Can't live with 'em, can't bury 'em in the back yard.
There is no happily ever after - it's what we make it now. Some choose to work at it, some leave it for other adventures. I love your poem and the message it carries, but apologize if I sound cynical based on my own life experience. ~Rated.
Sounds like a lot of work, I'm just that lazy. ~r~
Fun stuff Cathy! I liked the pictures too. Love is unpredictable and sometimes you can actually live together.....R
Couples of all degrees and denominations: Top 'o' the mornin' to ya! Crazy dreams last night after punching out this little ditty. Ooo, weeee...baby!

Thanks all for stopping by to give this a glance.
So happy my sis is arriving today
I could do a little dance!

Have a great morning!
Hi Cathy..being 'right' is over rated. Each of us bares our own individual insecurities from past experiences, and we bring that to marriage, because it's our baggage. Being it is part of us, we want our mate to hear us, without having to shame us or embarres us in the process, does that make sense, or am I being a little too abstract? Being 'right', to me, seems like a control issue, which can leave a person feeling 'dismissed'. So we may fight to the end, but for what? Ego? one upmanship? More times than not, loving each other wins out..and you end up realizing how insignificant the fight was...On a different note Cathy, a manager, at one of my jobs,a few yrs back made the off-handed remark, in a conversation a bunch of us were having. He said, "Sex is over-rated." My answer to his statement, which got a chuckle was, " If you think sex is over-rated, you are definetely doing SOMETHING wrong."lol..(Never liked the self-absorbed, egotistic guy, anyway!) Marriage is hard work..together 40 yrs, married 35 yrs... the hard part was him dealing with me. :)
Sorry RATED..and really a lovely, realistic portrayal of marriage!
Bury what you will for another day. / It will still be there to conceive another fray.

Those lines struck me today, as I've read this for the third time . . . it's so true. Well, all of it is, but that sense that what we don't deal with today will become the seed for future battles . . . yeah.
Cindy - and yet, you're sooo right! Thanks for your little story. Fun read, your comment!

Owl - Thanks much for your re-read and thoughts.
"In matters of the heart One must feel pain in order to endure."

how true.
Disagreements will come and go, but when two hearts are one there are few contentious issues that can take precedence over love, or warrant the time spent arguing about them.
I think you hit the nail on the head with this one!
There are so many truths in this regarding the need to be right and the importance of pain. The end reminded me of a quote by Margaret Bonnano, "It's only possible to live happily ever after on a moment to moment basis."