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SEPTEMBER 13, 2010 11:55PM

OS COMMENTARY - Diversity & Perspective

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Today is the second anniversary of my first post here.  Please do not go read that, seriously!  Talk about newbie naivete!  

The truth of the matter is, I never would have known word one about OS if my illustrious sister, MTK, hadn't invited me in here to read and critique her first post.  Talk about being flattered!  I was happy to read anything she wrote and to my utter delight, had read one of her many amazing posts here over the past two years.

I took the bait.  I opened my first blog.  Blog and avatar were words new to my casual vocabulary.  I simmered awhile between reading Mary's first post and taking a giant leap and posting one during and about, the then presidential campaign.  What a wild ride.  Both the campaign and my cautious, sentimental post.  Yuck!  Can't stomach that post so much anymore, but will leave it up as a reminder of how hardened to politics I've become, since that first sheepish attempt at writing and being exposed here...out in the "open."

If anyone were to ask me what it is that keeps bringing me back, time and time again to this site, I'd have to say... the diversity and perspective of the many writers here and the wealth of information in their comments.  Yes, the comments.  

Not to say that I do not read and value all the writing and posts of the many here I have come to know and love, it is the comments that explode off the screen and onto the smile on my face.  It is so amazing, what people will say in their comments.  You can see their words vibrating right off the page, highlighted with emotion, conviction and wisdom.  

Simply said, I love the comments! I love them for their candid exposure of personality, life experience, opinions and startling feelings at various times on a wealth of subjects.  It is absolutely eye opening, illuminating and one wild ride from beginning to end.

I have read far more writers through their comments than through their actual postings.  Many here, I have observed, comment far more than they post.  There is no criticism here and it delights me to see the many readers who take the time to read and weigh in on a breadth of subjective offerings, far and wide and from folks across the globe.

Where else can you come to write, read, comment, experience immediate response to the things that interest us most and that energize us daily?

No, not the gym.  You can get down and sweaty right here.  If brains and hearts could sweat, we would need to pass the towels here.  There is more brain and heart here than any other forum, save a family reunion among scientists and therapists!   Jocks and poets, illustrators, artists and comedians.  Mothers, sons, spouses, doctors, sisters, politicians, lawyers, cartoonists, the unemployed, the over-scheduled, the teachers, the students, the astute and the observers of life...they are all here.

We are the Yellow Pages of diversity and perspective and you just don't get that at the coffee shop, the country club, the board room, the basement, the girly gatherings or the boys club.  Nowhere but here.

At the expense of sounding like a "brown noser," I must say that I am in hog heaven here, in a community where embracing differences and tolerance is the daily dose of the common bond and reckless sharings of multitudes, unafraid.  Fear cannot survive here.  One must be fearless and put it out there/here.  There is nothing to lose and gains on so many levels of our multi-level needs as writers and people willing to both hear and be heard.

Good, bad or indifferent, the comments are pathways to the special talents of so many who are contributing here.  Not just the comments to our own posts but also, the comments we read on the posts of others.  Such a wealth of willing listeners, critics, sympathizers and advisers, all for a simple click and an open mind.

There is so much substance here, despite the infrequent "dust-ups" (another term new to me since joining) and so much more.  Not to mention the term, "flounce."  Another new one and a word I don't plan to use ever again.  If one needs to move on, leave this site for any reason, it is their ultimate choice and there needs to be no explanation or excuse.  

We all came here for a variety of reasons: through introductions, the prodding of friends and colleagues, or god help us, through Facebook! 

Yet we all came, with varying degrees of commitment.  We were led here for a common purpose and a desire to grow and branch out through the art of words.  We display an on-going willingness to put ourselves out there/here and express our deepest convictions, fears, joys, knowledge and experiences so worth sharing to this community audience.

This is open and tempting. We are as vulnerable as we are appreciated. We must be willing to grow an extra layer of skin and write fearlessly about anything and everything.  There is something for everyone here.  Not too many forums you can say that about or enjoy as much.

I came to OS with an open mind, a little trepidation and a lot of hope and excitement about writing again.  A long time passion of mine, I was unraveling one post at a time, peeling off the layers of years of juicy tidbits of life stuff.  it was thereputic, refreshing, exhilarating and scary at times.  

Not once have I been disappointed or discouraged to continue contributing here or to further my search for more and more incredible writers to read and digest with relish.  I found a grand buffet of endless choices here and a huge appetite for more and more.  I find at least one new writer every day I read and who's words I take into a treasure chest of unique perspective.

A little mushy gushy, I suppose, but that's what makes this place so much fun.  You are free to be whoever you are and express absolutely anything.  No disguises if you are truly "open" and no judgment of one's rawest feelings and beliefs.  A very open platform for whatever is on our minds, without scrutiny or interruption.  

We get to be us.  For this, I thank OS, especially the community of writers here, who have made it possible for me to experiment and exploit my very own thoughts and ramblings.  One day I get to be a poet, or a chef, a serious onlooker, a sex goddess (in my dreams) , a fiction writer, an exposer of raw feelings, a writer with no name.  I just get to write here.

And that ain't bad. 

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A second anniversary of many more to come. God help us all!
First! (I haven't written that in ages!). Congratulations on your two year anniversary and I agree, you learn way more about people in their comments than you often do through their blogs!
Saludos y Feliz Anivesario! This is an interesting place. To me, it is like a magazine, you pick the stories want to read. Also you can challenge yourself by reading stuff you normally wouldn't read. R
Happy anniversary, Cathy. I still consider myself a noob, but at the risk of sounding like Joe Walsh, I have a good time.
I don't know of anyone on OS who is nicer than you Cathy, you are inspiring with your kindness and unselfconscious affection. Congrats on making it to two years, may there be many more.
OS Member 4606.. 2 years! It's hard to believe, time does fly.
just glad you're here, Cathy
Your posts are always fun to read and I learn so much. How great to have been doing this wonderful writing for 2 years. I started last March and it has changed my life.
rated with love.
Congratulations Cathy! These will begin to roll faster and faster now.

I seem to remember an old post with a Braniff looking uniform. Time flies.
Your physical beauty is only exceeded by the inner beauty, intelligence, and kindness that imbues all you share with us here. Thank you for being a part of this thing called Open Salon, and I look forward to reading much more from your virtual pen!
And YOU ain't bad! It is always a pleasure to read you, my friend.

From one who is on the other side of the globe ... a very, VERY warm congratulations, Cathy, on your 2nd Anniversary!
A little teary-eyed, I must amble off to bed now. Can't thank you all enough for coming by to celebrate this 2 year marker here with you. I'd like to pick this up again tomorrow and thank you individually. Sweet dreams.
I love this Cathy! (so much more than your first post ;) (I kid.)

But yes, yes, yes to this: the diversity and perspective of the many writers here and the wealth of information in their comments

Like you, I value the comments more than anything. They are what build relationships. It's that history of OSers, that trail of unstudied opinion, that makes us know them and trust them later when they post something of their own or comment on our posts. Really, whether real names are used or not, it's the long lasting investment in each other that amounts to something at the end of the day. Thanks for this. :)
Holy God, I just went back and read your sweet post and my nasty comment to it. What a bitch. How did you ever give me the time of day after that? I have absolutely no idea what I was smoking that night or why I was picking on some poor new OSer. I think that's what politics does to people. I think I was in tribalism mode for Obama. Thank you for sticking with me, my friend.
"We are the Yellow Pages of diversity and perspective and you just don't get that at the coffee shop, the country club, the board room, the basement, the girly gatherings or the boys club."
Well said. Congrats on your 2 yr. anniversary!
Congratulations! And I'm so glad you're still here on OS! You're right, it is "a grand buffet of endless choices." I try to limit my time here, but every time I check in I find another gift!
Good for hanging in and continuing to grow. You keep getting better and better. Nice words about this crazy artist colony that we roam around in daily.
And its been nice to have you here.
Happy Anniversary J.C. I love this place too! It's the only place that I know of that someone as strange as I know myself to be can feel perfectly normal (relatively speaking). I even like all of the people who disagree with me except for two certain internationally renowned trolls, and they live under distant bridges so WG'sAS?. I am just happy to be here!
(R)ated for sunshine, lollipops and rainbows!
I've only been on here a week and a half and I already feel the simmering of what you express with such a wide open spirit. Thank you :).
'Tis a fine, beautiful post. Congratulations on your two years. You have stood as a grand friend and I thank you for that hard work.
Rated.
Thanks for the encouragement! I haven't really written a true blog yet but I've got ideas swimming in my head. Thanks for sharing
yay! happy anniversary :D
Congrats! You are truly one of the best people on this crazy site, and I read everything you write, particularly your poetry. R-
Late but..Happy 2 Years ! You make my being here all that much better. Thank you!
MTK was also instrumental in getting me to write my first post! Heck, at first I was even afraid to leave comments, but Mary pulled me out of my shell and made me stand on my own two feet and I love that woman for it. Anthoos, Big Congrates on your OpenAnniversary! Many more will follow. Hugs!
The comments are the most telling writing on OS, I agree with you there. It's a fascinating and addictive place to be and I only wish I had more time to spend reading here. Congrats on two years. R
Amen! I couldn't agree more particularly about the comments. Kindness, but constructiveness permeates the comments and I can't wait to read them. Oh yes, the fear and trepidation before pushing that publish button still hits, but mostly it's exciting. Congratulations on your 2nd anniversary and thank you for so many refreshing and well written contributions to this wonderful place! God help & Bless us all as we forge ahead with our efforts to do what we truly love...communicate and grow. Kiss on your cheek ...Be well in this and all things!
Happy 2nd year! I always feel I can be especially candid in the comment section because my relatives don't read them.
How sweet - I'm here for the fights myself.

Zanelle - remember, tho, that the last half dozen or so of your comments are displayed on your blog and YOUR OPINIONS CAN BE TRACKED DOWN. (Or am I just displaying my own paranoia...and caution...)
Happy Blogiversary, dear Cathy! I agree about the comments...we have some amazing conversations around here...xox
I love the comments, too and your ability to tell why you do r.
Happy Anniversary Cathy!
You and your sister are two of my favorites.
I look forward to as many posts as you can write!
*clap clap* hear hear and all that...
Good writing is always fun to read and there's a lot of it around here. Half the fun is rooting around clicking on the favorites of favorites to find new writers with talent.
Happy Anniversary and a fun write, telling all the same feelings of many of us, thanks for doing that so well. Always enjoy you!
I came here after a friend nagged me every day to do so.
I have not looked back. Not only can I write what I please, but I have found a new family.
I am so glad you are one of my new sisters.
Rated with hugs
Can I tell you how fulfilling it was for me, the little sis, to actually lead my sister to something wonderful, creative and fun? You are a shining star on OS...I love how you have diversified yourself in so many areas. And I need to make one thing abundantly clear: You are a sex goddess and that is no fantasy! You are one kind gracious generous soul and I am so privileged to call you sister, friend and fellow writer. Congrats on your 2 years!!!!
Happy Anniversary! I am very delighted to be here too. Spam and all..... R
Congrats on two years, and yes, I totally understand what you mean by getting to experience many identities by writing about those areas each and every post.
So glad you're here, Cathy! Stay, stay, stay.
Happy Double Anniversary: that means you should get two cakes! (How can that be bad?) And amen to what you say: comments are fun and fascinating to read. And diversity is a signal feature of this place. Write (and read and comment) on!
just cathy,
you KNOW i am going to go see yr first post...
it is too much of a temptation to pass up...

incredible love letter to this unique place, os...
and you are absolutely right about
the comments being the very heart and soul of
this crazy wonderful place
Congratulations Cathy!!!! To the sweetest, fairest, most compassionate person...one who is beautiful in mind, spirit and vision.
Ain't bad at all. Congrats, Cathy, and happy blogiversary!
I like your line, "I have found a grand buffet here." What a great post, positive and encouraging. R
Congratualtions! I agree about finding diversity and perspective! R
This was really great to read. I would much rather read this than some of the more nasty things that I have seen...I'm not in denial of the truth...but this is the other side. There is a fantastic exchange of energy and ideas.
Amen! And so glad you're here, Cathy . . . you're one of the folks that make this place feel like home.
Happy anniversary, dear Cathy. You are one of the people who make OS what it is. Marty Kelly is your sister? I learn something every day. Rated with love.
I must comment here that your comments on comments is commendable! ;-)
I must comment here that your comments on comments is commendable! ;-)
Congrats and thanks for the upbeat post!
Oops! Your comments ARE commendable not IS. Blasphemy! Also happy happy happy second year here, sistah!
You are one of the ones I come looking for, Cathy (once we get back in school routine, I'll look more!) and the comments are some of the best fun, aren't they? Happy anniversary!
I can relate whole heartedly to your words....we all can....and that's what makes OS so special. Congratulations on your second anniversary! Many more to you!
the comments, the blogs, the avatars -- all of it, and all the other things about writing here on OS, being fearless and vulnerable and having fun -- this piece says all of it wonderfully and genuinely and with great good humor. which is so, i don't know, you. happy 2nd, cathy. i'm so glad you're here.
Happy anniversary! I agree about how the comments really make you feel great! And everyone is so supportive, which is refreshing. My only complaint is that I can't spend more time on OS because I have to limit myself to one day a week. I get too engrossed.
Wonderful to read this--and happy anniversary!
This is a beautiful tribute to OS, a place I love for all the same reasons. Lately I've been so tied down with parenting that all I've been able to do is sneak a quick read of a few posts and comment--I love that I can still feel connected even without writing a full post. Happy Anniversary!
Holy cow! Just drove back to the Bay from the mountains and opened this up to see so many familiar faces and some new ones! This is the best anniversary present ever! Your comments are the frosting on the cake, unless, of course, Freaky Troll were to surprise me with s double fudge dark chocolate cake, triple layer, oozing with melted dark chocolate. I feel an anniversary craving coming on!

So, gosh! Thanks all of you for your wonderful, supportive and loving comments and for the pure enjoyment it has been for me, getting to know all of you here. Now, if we could only figure out how to get us all together for one big old party to meet and greet each other, eyes meeting, hands shaking, hugs all around! Anyone know Oprah personally? It wouldn't even have to be Australia!

Lots of appreciation to you all and sending big love out to you each and every day we are lucky enough to call this place, our little home away from home. Or our home within our homes and surly the honored place it has within our hearts.

Thanks very much!
Happy anniversary Rated
Congratulations on your second anniversary. I've never given much thought to what the comments reveal. I'll have to pay more attention.
Cathy, Thanks for emphasizing the positive side of things.
I've seen your avatar and beautiful smiling face. It's so true what you say about knowing people through their comments. Now I know you are dear sister to Mary T.K. (I should have recognized the resemblance). I need to read both of you more. Congrats! -- on the second circle around the sun here.
nice to hear uniformly positive & enthusiatic comments about open salon. but something tells me you're just an upbeat person in general =)
happy anniversary! Keep writing, Cathy!
What, get us all together for a big party? Wouldn't that be wonderful!

And, why NOT Australia!!!!

Come on! Try to hitch a ride with Oprah and come on DOWN UNDER! I PROMISE you would have the best time EVER!
Little Kate - Oh yes, coming to Australia is on the top of my bucket list!!
Congrats Cathy :) You've given us two beautiful years of your thoughts, dreams, family, critters, love. What a blessing you always are. xoxo
Bon Blogaversaire Cathy! I think you nailed it... I spend most of my days researchin', postin' on an international news service... History, politics, justice, mostly news/facts, stories the big 6 corporations that own our media choose to ignore... Salon was on my watch list when OS was birthed, I enjoy the talents of many here, the humanity and compassion of more, if only those few afflicted, self absorbed souls found another rabbit hole, and there were more hours in a day... You certainly are a most pleasant read Cathy! Been readin' here a long time,seldom post, and you're golden on the insight gleaned from the comments...RRR
I'm late to the party but what the hell!! HAPPY 2ND YEAR AT OPEN!! WOOOO!! :D
Terrific! Let me know when you're on your way and I'll have a room ready and waiting! Lots to do and see ... beautiful beaches, rivers, rainforests, kangaroos, koalas, possums, warm and welcoming people and a whole lot more!
Congrats on a blogiversary for one of my flavor flavs!