Cultivating Authenticity:

My Road to Contentment

Justin Johnson

Justin Johnson
Location
Kaneohe, Hawaii, USA
Birthday
January 22
Bio
I try to live my life day by day without losing sight of where I’ve been, where I’m going, and all the amazing things I’ve been lucky enough to have in my life. My personal motto is, “Seize every minute, look at it, and really see! Live it, and never give it back!”

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JANUARY 6, 2012 6:22PM

Hello 2012!

Happy New Year!

I hope everyone had an amazing New Years Eve! With a new year, comes new goals. Hopefully, like me, most of you are telling yourselves this will be the year that you actually complete each item, follow-through with each goal, or accomplish something you can look back on in…

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DECEMBER 23, 2011 4:19AM

Politics on Facebook

"I never considered a difference of opinion in politics, in religion, in philosophy, as cause for withdrawing from a friend." - Thomas Jefferson

Recently, I've heard from several people that I shouldn't post political articles on Facebook. This is my attempt at answering those people and anyone else w…

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DECEMBER 21, 2011 3:31PM

Hope

“We only become what we are by the radical and deep-seated refusal of that which others have made of us.†– Jean-Paul Sartre

Last week I had a great conversation with a dear friend and I thought I'd share it. The conversation was with a friend who has given up on life…

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DECEMBER 19, 2011 8:31PM

Mentally Blocked

Recently, I've been mentally blocked. I say this not as a complaint, but in hopes I'll get some much needed guidance.

When I first started writing my blog, it was more for personal therapy and a way to make my life as transparent as possible. Now, things may not be perfect, but…

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DECEMBER 5, 2011 8:06PM

Good Old Fashioned Fun

"Take time every day to do something silly." - Philips Walker

So, this weekend was a huge milestone for me. I actually went out to a few bars and clubs for a friends birthday. For most, that isn't something big or dramatic, but with my track record, it was a sort of… Read full post »
NOVEMBER 28, 2011 9:50PM

Adventures in Dating: Part 1

After much internal deliberation and the worst date I've ever been on, the jury is still out on online dating. I've met a few interesting people, a few not so interesting, and one that just scared me! But, with each date, I can't help but feel I'm shrinking the pool of…

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NOVEMBER 25, 2011 2:25PM

Thanksgiving

"In everyone's life, at some time, our inner fire goes out. It is then burst into flame by an encounter with another human being. We should all be thankful for those people who rekindle the inner spirit." Albert Schweitzer

First off, I woke up today and immediately started playing Christmas…

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NOVEMBER 18, 2011 1:29PM

My True Self

“It is the individual who knows how little they know about themselves who stands the most reasonable chance of finding out something about themselves before they die.†– S. I. Hayakawa

So, I’ve officially been back in Hawaii for 45 days! It’s been an interesting learning experience to say th…

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NOVEMBER 8, 2011 1:51PM

Stop & Smell the Roses

"Do you know what lies in the Holy Land? A new world. A man who, in France, had not a house, is, in the Holy Land, the master of a city. He who was the master of a city begs in the gutter. There, at the end of the world, you… Read full post »
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NOVEMBER 1, 2011 3:22PM

My Brilliant Third Career

“I went to the woods because I wished to live deliberately, to front only the essential facts of life, and see if I could not learn what it had to teach, and not, when I came to die, discover that I had not lived.” – Henry David Thoreau

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OCTOBER 31, 2011 11:26PM

New Day, New Dawn

"I love you when you bow in your mosque, kneel in your temple, or pray in your church. For you and I are sons of one religion, and it is the spirit." - Khalil Gibran

So, I had the worst and the best weekend since I've been here. I'll start… Read full post »
OCTOBER 31, 2011 10:40PM

New Day, New Dawn

"I love you when you bow in your mosque, kneel in your temple, or pray in your church. For you and I are sons of one religion, and it is the spirit." - Khalil Gibran

So, I had the worst and the best weekend since I've been here. I'll start with the…

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OCTOBER 28, 2011 7:33PM

The Peaceful Warrior

“Time has been transformed, and we have changed; it has advanced and set us in motion; it has unveiled its face, inspiring us with bewilderment and exhilaration.†- Khalil Gibran

Some of my friends know, but many people don’t. I grew up as a Jehovah’s Witness. I’m sure the wheels are already…

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OCTOBER 27, 2011 3:49PM

You've Got Mail (Mood: Sassy)

“One of the strengths of Internet dating is that it's anonymously impersonal, which helps take the sting out of rejection. If you're interested in someone who notices your profile or you're intrigued by a computer-generated match, let the e-mail begin. If you're not interested, delete the e-mail wi… Read full post »
OCTOBER 27, 2011 2:37PM

It's a Wonderful Life

"A friend is one to whom one may pour out all the contents of one's heart, chaff and grain together, knowing that the gentlest of hands will take and sift it, keep what is worth keeping and with a breath of kindness blow the rest away." - Arabian Proverb

I know two…

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OCTOBER 25, 2011 2:59PM

Emotional Intelligence

“You will recognize your own path when you come upon it, because you will suddenly have all the energy and imagination you will ever need.†– Jerry Gillies

So, this was one of those mornings when you wake up from a horrible dream, and just don't feel like getting out of bed.…

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OCTOBER 24, 2011 3:00PM

The Hand Raiser

I just took a personality test on a dating site and my results show I have the personality below.

The Hand-Raiser

You are 86% Rational, 71% Extroverted, 29% Brutal, and 29% Arrogant.

You are the Hand-Raiser, that annoying kid in class who always had an answer for everything. No doubt, as a child you…

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OCTOBER 22, 2011 12:25AM

Paranormal Activity 3 (Spoiler Alert!)

So, I went with some friends last night to see the midnight showing of Paranormal Activity 3. The movie was, to put it mildly, horrible! I haven't seen a movie that bad since "Gigli." I wasn't too thrilled about it in the first place. I saw the first two and wasn't…

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OCTOBER 20, 2011 7:50PM

Into the Wild

"The sea's only gifts are harsh blows, and occasionally the chance to feel strong. Now I don't know much about the sea, but I do know that that's the way it is here. And I also know how important it is in life not necessarily to be strong but to feel… Read full post »
OCTOBER 18, 2011 6:36PM

Dreamscape

"I believe in everything until it's disproved. So I believe in fairies, the myths, and dragons. It all exists, even if it's in your mind. Who's to say that dreams and nightmares aren't as real as the here and now?" - John Lennon

So, after yesterday's news, I thought I lighten today's…

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OCTOBER 17, 2011 3:52PM

Requiem for a Dream

“It's difficult admitting you're wrong. Even more difficult admitting it when you have scoffed and otherwise ridiculed the truth with blind, unremitting determination, so blithely confident in your own infallibility. But then one day -- or one night -- the truth is put into your hands, and you real… Read full post »
OCTOBER 14, 2011 8:06PM

Pay It Forward

"I can't claim to understand the measure of life, but I can tell you this: I can only hope that when I die, it'll be with my eyes closed, my heart open, and a life full of happiness!" - The Bucket List

Last night I found an old CD that I used…

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OCTOBER 13, 2011 8:04PM

It Gets Better

To all the people out there, young, old, gay, or straight struggling with their own path to self-discovery, I want you to know, it does get better. I am living proof that you can find yourself, be true to who you are, and fill your life with passionate joy and acceptance…

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OCTOBER 13, 2011 4:38PM

Defying Gravity

"Pretending to be someone you're not, is a waste of the person you are." - Kurt Cobain

October is LGBT history month. More specifically, October 11 is National Coming Out Day. Which I missed by 2 days. However, it is in observance of these that I'm going to share my coming out…

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OCTOBER 12, 2011 4:02PM

Child's Play

“This is my invariable advice to people: Learn how to cook- try new recipes, learn from your mistakes, be fearless, and above all have fun!†- Julia Child, My Life in France

So, yesterday I had a moment of clarity that led me back to the kitchen, and a long lost passion…

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