Kathy Riordan

Kathy Riordan
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April 27
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DECEMBER 27, 2010 8:10AM

Filling in the Holiday Blanks, and a Personal Note of Thanks

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There have been far too many people who've been exceptionally kind to me here during my husband's recent hospitalization and death, many who've reached out to me with kind words, offered phone numbers, big shoulders, support and comfort.  Many of you also sent flowers.

I am really deeply touched.

And overwhelmed.

Right now, it's still too hard for me to write.  I hope you will understand.

My sincere thanks to all of you.  And best wishes in the holidays and upcoming New Year.

 

larrykathy1stchristmas

 

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My first Christmas memory is: waking up at my grandparents' motel to a silver tree with a colored light wheel.

I think Santa Claus should: go on the inspirational speaking circuit.

If I could play with one toy from my childhood it would be: I would say my Chatty Cathy doll, but seriously it actually scared me a little.  The most beautiful doll I ever received I never played with, but put away.

When I sat on Santa's lap I was really thinking: you look suspiciously like my grandfather.

I am (naughty or nice or both or whatever you like): Is that a question? 

If I could have on experience for the holidays versus getting a gift it would be: having my husband back.  Which is a gift.

What confuses me about the holidays is: how they come earlier every year and leave sooner.

Spending time with relatives is: alternately comforting and challenging, and sometimes melancholy, baby.

The best present I got for Christmas is: generosity of spirit.

If I could add one idea to the folklore of Christmas it would be: ice fairies.

My favorite part of the Christmas meal is: the main course, whether it's lamb, ham or salmon.

The "Peace on Earth" part of Christmas is: a no brainer.

I am reading Till I End My Song: A Gathering of Last Poems (compiled by Harold Bloom)  this holiday season.

My wish for everyone this Christmas is: a once in a lifetime love.

 I will always still play Santa Claus at my house.  And everywhere else I can.

If I could see one movie this Christmas Day it would be True Grit.  But I didn't.  Still haven't.  But will.

If I won the Mega Millions today, I would: breathe a lot easier in the New Year.  So would a lot of other people.

This year, Christmas is: a time of great sadness amid the magic, joy and celebration.  I am bereft.

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Merry Christmas to All, and to all a life filled with promise, hope, magic and wonder. 

 

christmasmorningwisconsin 

 

I've written a number of Christmas posts in the past, for those who are interested:
 

Christmas

Silver

Signs and Wonders, and a Christmas Miracle

The Christmas Baby

The Ecumenical, Geographical, All-Inclusive Christmas Feast

Making a List, Checking it Twice

Santa Dog

The Dreaded Holiday Letter

When Santa Was My Grandpa

A Naked Christmas

E-Readers and iPhones and Coffee, Oh My! Holiday 2009 Guide

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Happy New Year...I Hope for you and Health as well.
I hope you know how treasured you are here. xo
Sending you loving thoughts that angels will help you carry your sense of loss and transform it into memories of love and joy.
Sending wishes for comfort and peace, and also "a life filled with promise, hope, magic, and wonder" to you, Kathy.
I was so happy to see your little face in my feed this morning. Maybe you can't have him back in the literal sense, but I'm kind of hoping that as you feel able, you'll bring him back to us in more posts about Larry, his history and his life. That keeps him among us.
It is so good to hear from you again. Time is the only answer. OS is here for you. R
Kathy, great to see you here. I wish you all the best and a wonderful New Year.
Kathy, it's so good to see your words here again. Wishing comfort for you in 2011.
All peace and grace and love to you Kathy...now and always. with love,
It is good to see your kind voice again. I hope the holiday season will help to sooth your spirits. oxox
Best wishes for the new year.
Best wishes to you, Kathy. May your way be made gentle and sweet this coming year.
Thanks, Kathy. This will be a better year. Happy New Year and thanks again for sharing your memories.
Best wishes to you Kathy and here's hoping that 2011 treats you well.
You are proof of life, Donna. The spirit of continuity, and I like you, too.
Welcome back, Kathy. Hope you find warmth and comfort in Florida.
Happy to see you here today. Best thoughts to you for peace in the New Year.
I'll pray for you. That's all I can do.
I hope this new year is comforting for you.
Peace to you in the New Year, Kathy.
Happy New Year, Kathy. It does my heart good to read your words again in here.
Glad to see you're OK but we miss you. Great answers.
nothing but hugs and love to you.
Nice to hear from you Kathy. I love that photo of the two of you.
All the best to you Kathy.

I loved this one: I am (naughty or nice or both or whatever you like): Is that a question?
Ice fairies.....oh yes : )
Can they crystallize tears, turning them into snowflakes? Tears for a true love become silver and gold....
Nice to see your face again-- may comfort find you each day.
Sending you much love and a year of tenderness. -R-
My sympathies on your loss.
May the New Year bring you peace and comfort.
R
So good to see you again Kathy. When life takes back something you thought was yours to keep, it often leaves something else by the door. Maybe just a poem, or a dvd of True Grit. It can be all about relishing the minutiae.
Good to see you back here, Kathy. The Christmas season must be so bittersweet for you this year; I hope your memories of Larry and the years you shared help buoy your spirits.
O tidings of comfort and joy, comfort and joy....
So say the lyrics to the holiday song. I send them both your way.
When you are ready you can rest assured we will be here waiting, to offer love, support and in time laughs.
Peace, love, and a year of healing to you Kathy. It's so good to have you back.
Happy New Year to you as well!! ~hug~
True Grit is a great film. Go See It!

And Happy Holidays to you!
2011 will be better. different, to be sure, and sad in a lot of ways, but better than watching someone you love suffer. keep expecting happier times, kathy.
Happy New Year, 2011 is the Open Window [when one door closes.]
Did finally get to True Grit. Two thumbs up. . .way up.
Kathy, so nice to see your familiar face there again. I wish you a new year filled with peace, and the comfort of knowing how many people truly care about you. RRRR
Glad to hear your "current" voice, even briefly, Kathy. We'll be here when you're ready to write and tell us more, if you do want that.
I'm just glad to see your name in the feed. Take care of yourself. Much love.
A big New Year's hug to you, Kathy.